Friends Don't Let Friends Monger
[QUOTE=Sperto;1193671]You were pissed, brought a Balcony-girl back home (probably without enough screening), didn't hide the key to the door, fell asleep and got robbed. The girl took her chance and got lucky. Hopefully you have learnt a lesson.[/QUOTE]Drunk! One of the best defenses against being robbed is not the type of lock you have on your luggage or having a safe in your room and using it. It's not getting drunk around strangers, be that people on the street or a tute in your room, even if you think you know her. Get drunk and wake up and find your cash and valuables gone, and then you're really going to know her and what she's all about. And at your expense.
There Goes The Neighborhood
Recently when I called to reserve a room at one of my favorite Love motels they informed me that they were now a HOTEL. They said my favorite suite was still available but the price had increased. Looks like this is becoming a trend.
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Just a story, a musing if you will
cartman's favourite line for when dealing with a gdp is question: "how do you know a gdp is lying" answer: "her lips are moving". ie just can't believe anything they say.
background:
i like to give most girls the benefit of the doubt. i like to have mini relationships with them, in that they can come over a couple of days a week, maybe get the odd perfume as a gift, taken out to nice restaurants etc but no cash. i am picky with the girls i like to have these mini relationships with. they generally must be new to the industry so they are not too hard core and generally be doing something with their lives. students that work at prives with no kids are the best for this. preferably that don't live at home. i really screen the hell out of them because i really don't want hassles where i live. i have actually have never had anything stolen from me in 8 years of visiting / living in brazil. so i guess screening is the best prevention.
the story:
4 months ago i saw a relatively new girl at a well known prive often mentioned here. i saw her a few times at the prive, then she invited herself over to my place a couple of times but i just wasn't in to it. she still would call me up from time to time and tell me how much she was into me (see first sentence above) and very occasionally we would see each other. i was seeing some other girl from another prive, so didn't want to juggle too much. any guy that can juggle more than 2 girls at the same time i tip my hat off to you, i find it way too time consuming and stressful. so anyway, the girl i was seeing finally realised that she was in a dead end relationship with me and bailed. didn't bother me because it was getting really hard to fake that i was still into her. so i go and see this chic at the prive, haven't seen her for about 6 weeks. she was a 7 1/2 i guess, but in the last 6 weeks has learned how to really groom herself and has started to go to the gym and has firmed / bulked up. short of the story she is now a strong 8 1/2! really stunning now. my interest level goes up significantly. she tells me how much she is still into me and we set a date during the week. she comes over, everything is cool etc, no cash passes hands.
now at this prive i know most of the girls stories, most have boyfriends, the boyfriends don't know that they work there. they love to gossip and inadvertantly tell me each others secrets. if their boyfriends find out they tell their boyfriends they will quit, although they may quit for a week or 2, they usually return. they tend to learn to lie to survive. so through the grape vine i find out the girl that has just come over has a new boyfriend of about 6 weeks. this i find amusing because she has been calling me at least once a week to chat and make plans to hook up, always telling me of course how much she is in to me. so i think she is not so much into him. i think i can become number 1 and he will settle into the number 2 role. the number 2 role sucks btw! they cancel on you all the time, you only get to see them for quickies every now and again, while number 1 gets the 2 or 3 night sleep overs per week, first scheduling etc.
so we make plans again to see each other around lunch time at my place. i know she is in the area around this time but she doesn't come over until about 6pm. i get to thinking there is a reason for this and i gently tell her that i know she has a new boyfriend and just gently prod out what the situation is. she swears to me that she had a boyfriend, but they broke up 2 weeks ago and that she doesn't like him anymore and in fact he is causing some issues for her. in short she says she wants to be with me etc. being a the overly analytical person that i am, i go over all the facts in my head and there are a couple of issues that don't add up. i don't say anything. i believe in the "give them enough rope" and they will hang themselves theory. usually ex boyfriends in brazil linger. for a long time. the girls never completely let go until they have another better prospect well hooked up.
so we make plans to hook up again on the weekend, these plans don't work out, she gives some bullshit excuse. i gently do some digging, some more analytical work and come to the conclusion that there is a 90% chance she is still with the ex / current boyfriend. this concerns me in that it looks like i am being put into the number 2 role and boyfriend is number 1. as i said above, number 2 sux!
when we finally hook up i basically say, look i have been around the block a few times, i know you still are seeing your boyfriend and that's cool. just don't lie to me, i m happy just seeing you occasionally and see what works out with your boyfriend but just don't lie to me. i tell her how i know she is still with him, it is very very hard to deny proof like this, but she sticks to her lies (i have 100% proof she is still seeing him but guard this at this time). at this point i have basically decided she is not trustworthy enough to come over anymore so i just play it cool, shoot my load in her mouth and make my way home. she sends me a text msg saying how concerned she is that i think that she is lying and that really she is telling the truth. i just couldn't take it anymore, i send her the last little bit of proof i had been guarding via text. it was the knock out blow. 100% proof she had been caught in her lie. no reply to the text, nothing and this was 3 days ago. i won't send her another message but am thinking will get something from her in a week or so, will be interesting to see what she says."to be continued"
And with a nice additional benefit
[QUOTE=Sperto; 1193853]I don't like money belts etc. I use a small simple leather pouch with a zip. Big enough for money, condoms and a small pen (for taking phone numbers). I attach a small string to the pouch and tie it to my underwear and put in down in my underwear. Nobody can see I'm wearing it. I never had any problems at all, not even in the carnivals in Salvador. As it's tied to my underwear it's very hard to loose it.
When I need to use the pouch I don't have to stick my hand down in the underwear, I just grab the string and pull it up.
P. S It works with underwear like briefs and not with loose boxer-shorts.[/QUOTE]The additional benefit is that this pouch can really make you look "hung". I like it!