Thai Women - Opinions & Advice

Meet a girl at a MP who said she wanted to be the only one.

Went with her 6 days in 2 weeks. Paid her less than usual for a MP girl at Samui (their barfine is 1200 Baths), but still the same amount I would pay to any girl working at a Bargirl.

Just one night she went with me for a little barfine (but I had to wait up to midnight to pick her), and one day she made me a free HJ (something I tried to avoid but he was always inviting me. No Thai massage, oil massage.)

She got desperately in love with me, we had a discussion and she thought I was not going to see her anymore a got very depressed.

I went to see her two times just to to speak with her and make her feel better, and both times paid a massage just to do this. Also, agreed to verything we discussed about (I know I have a weak heart.)

She said she didn't want to work outside of the MP anymore, and she had now a "lady friend" with whom she spent her free time. And that she like to be with her friends at the MP than with a man.

I told her I like her, that it had been very nice to be with her and if she changed her mind he could tell me anytime. (I pass in front of the MP almost everyday.)

From that point I understood the history was over, and started going with other girls, etc. She saw me one time.

Now all her friends at the MP look at me with despise, and I don't know what she thinks, I think she hates me too.

I wonder why I paid for? These girls are crazy. They give you the same problems as any other woman.

Now I met this very charming 18 years old girl. Same history? I already sent her 2 SMS.

[QUOTE=Dardo]From that point I understood the history was over, and started going with other girls, etc. She saw me one time.

Now all her friends at the MP look at me with despise, and I don't know what she thinks, I think she hates me too.

I wonder why I paid for? These girls are crazy. They give you the same problems as any other woman.

Now I met this very charming 18 years old girl. Same history? I already sent her 2 SMS.[/QUOTE]

Look, you can give these girls your dick and money, but not your heart. I also discuss life situations with MP or Bargirls but I NEVER give them any hint that I am available for romance.
I tell them I have giks and that I am happy with them, I do not need any more.
She is no more than a service provider, a very special one, but a service provider nonetheless.

Most girls like it because it guarantees them a steady income (repeat business) and no bullshit in between. They also tell me about Farangs that want to marry them after the first hand-job.

[QUOTE=NicFrenchy]They also tell me about Farangs that want to marry them after the first hand-job.[/QUOTE]

The Thai-Chinese I had dinner with on my last visit told me about some Dr. from England that wanted to marry her. She was 22 he had to be pushing 50.
This gal was not hooking though to the best of my knowledge.

There are a lot of lonely guys out there. What I don’t understand is why the try to appease that loneliness with an uneducated third world hooker. :confused:

[QUOTE=Dardo]Meet a girl at a MP who said she wanted to be the only one.
Went with her 6 days in 2 weeks. She got desperately in love with me
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Yes, desperately in love with you after being with you for 6 days, either you've got it or she played you.
[QUOTE=Dardo]
Now all her friends at the MP look at me with despise, and I don't know what she thinks, I think she hates me too.[/QUOTE]

They are playing the "guilt" card on you.

[QUOTE=Dardo]
I wonder why I paid for? These girls are crazy. [/QUOTE]
They are not crazy, they are brilliant, many of these women are major manipulators and can detect their preys from miles away.

[quote=nicfrenchy]hi guys,

as i was talking with a bargirl last night (whose english was surprisingly good), we shared experiences and she told me all the things the "ladies of the night" do not like about us farangs:

2. breath
she said that farangs have very bad breath because they smoke and drink and never brush their teeth. she told me a story where a farang had a stinking breath and tried to french kiss her. she went to puke after that.
i told her that thai girls aren't better, because they eat very garlicky and spicy and never brush or have mints to hide it. i also told her my [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord900][CodeWord900][/url] story where the girl blew me after eating somtam and my dick burned for hours. it made her [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] her pants.
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i had to laugh at ths one.....while i feel sorry that she has to kiss the bad breath monsters that come to the bars.......i have never smelled such bad breath girls until i came to thailand. there is a breath situation here that cannot be duplicated. i actually vomitted in my mouth once (i don't drink!) after a girl put a lip lock on me. since that night i have become risk averse to thai breath.....the tongue dance is only done under certain circumstances now......circumstances where the girls breath does not smell like death!!

it is funny some of the observations that these girls make......i have smelled and seen things in thailand (and asia in general) which can make a healthy man quite sick.

[QUOTE=Dardo]Meet a girl at a MP who said she wanted to be the only one.

Went with her 6 days in 2 weeks. Paid her less than usual for a MP girl at Samui (their barfine is 1200 Baths), but still the same amount I would pay to any girl working at a Bargirl.

Just one night she went with me for a little barfine (but I had to wait up to midnight to pick her), and one day she made me a free HJ (something I tried to avoid but he was always inviting me. No Thai massage, oil massage.)

She got desperately in love with me, we had a discussion and she thought I was not going to see her anymore a got very depressed.

I went to see her two times just to to speak with her and make her feel better, and both times paid a massage just to do this. Also, agreed to verything we discussed about (I know I have a weak heart.)

She said she didn't want to work outside of the MP anymore, and she had now a "lady friend" with whom she spent her free time. And that she like to be with her friends at the MP than with a man.

I told her I like her, that it had been very nice to be with her and if she changed her mind he could tell me anytime. (I pass in front of the MP almost everyday.)

From that point I understood the history was over, and started going with other girls, etc. She saw me one time.

Now all her friends at the MP look at me with despise, and I don't know what she thinks, I think she hates me too.

I wonder why I paid for? These girls are crazy. They give you the same problems as any other woman.

Now I met this very charming 18 years old girl. Same history? I already sent her 2 SMS.[/QUOTE]


This sounds like a case of "true Love" to me. I think you should quit your job, give away everything you own, move to Thailand, get a job teaching English, adopt her family, buy a bunch of land in your new love's name and live happily ever after.

[QUOTE=NicFrenchy]Look, you can give these girls your dick and money, but not your heart. I also discuss life situations with MP or Bargirls but I NEVER give them any hint that I am available for romance.[/QUOTE]I still want to leave that door open, but don't know for how long. Although my idea of romance is just another degree of friendship.

[QUOTE]She is no more than a service provider, a very special one, but a service provider nonetheless.[/QUOTE]Yep, that's the point and it's something I'm going to keep very strictly from now on, as long as I give them money.

[QUOTE]Most girls like it because it guarantees them a steady income (repeat business) and no bullshit in between.[/QUOTE]Sure. :) Good business practice, that's all.

[QUOTE=Retired Army]This sounds like a case of "true Love" to me. I think you should quit your job, give away everything you own, move to Thailand, get a job teaching English, adopt her family, buy a bunch of land in your new love's name and live happily ever after.[/QUOTE]Luckily I kept the "distance" all the way through this. Enjoying the good time and the great attention she was giving me, but keeping quiet emotionally.

Maybe that's way the hate me so much.

[QUOTE=Retired Army]This sounds like a case of "true Love" to me. I think you should quit your job, give away everything you own, move to Thailand, get a job teaching English, adopt her family, buy a bunch of land in your new love's name and live happily ever after.[/QUOTE]Amen!

[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]The Thai-Chinese I had dinner with on my last visit told me about some Dr. from England that wanted to marry her. She was 22 he had to be pushing 50.
This gal was not hooking though to the best of my knowledge.

There are a lot of lonely guys out there. What I don’t understand is why the try to appease that loneliness with an uneducated third world hooker. :confused:[/QUOTE]

Come on DW, you spetd all that time in the Philippines. You must have seen this a hundred times. Part of it is the willing suspension of disbelief on the part of us old guys. We can actually convince ourselves that young women find us appealing. Part of it is the sex that goes along with our self delusion, and part of it is the "knight in shining armor" syndrome associated with "rescuing" a lovely woman from a life of poverty and ill repute. Add to this the fact that many of the women--in the PI and Thailand--are wonderful con artists and actresses and the predisposition of the punters who really want to believe this crap, and voila, a perfect recipe for long-term disaster.

GE

[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]Dude I don’t like stereotyping but if you got a western wife stick with her. As long as she is not fat and bitchy. I jumped over to Asia thinking the grass was greener it is not. A lot of the women are just less intelligent. When you go after the educated independent variety in Asia they are no different than their western sisters. Japan, Korea, Thailand, Uzbekistan, Dubai, and Philippine experience talking.

Yeah sure sex is widely available but it’s from women who in all aspects are children in grown women bodies. Wake up mayne before you divorce the wife and sale the house.

Before someone open up with the flame thrower this is my opinion from my observations. [/QUOTE]OK Daddy Warbucks. I am reading and understanding.

[QUOTE=Mick Licker]Many marriages have been destroyed, once the happy couple went to Thailand.

My marraige survived the trip to Thaland, but was destined to fail 4 years later anyway. I started to learn Thai language not long after that. LOL[/QUOTE]After 4 trips to Thailand I feel the same way.

[QUOTE=Daddy07]No, of course you are not insane. Just a little gob smacked maybe.

My advice: Think hard before jumping from the frying pan into the fire. [/QUOTE]I think I get your point Daddy07

[QUOTE=Giotto]Dextro Sol,

Don't!

Giotto[/QUOTE]OK Giotto, I'm listening.

[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]It's fine to holiday there if your marriage can survive this (most would not probably), but running away and leaving a note is crazy.

We all talk to Thai Girls and they all want us to return quick quick, love only us, and wait for each of us and only us. They are saying this to 10 different guys at the same time.

Sometimes I wish I never got sent to BKK for work in the first place because now I look forward to returning too much. Take a deep breath and relax. It's not real. [/QUOTE]OK. I have read the same things before.

[QUOTE=Giotto]NicFrenchy,

You are a real Bastard! Nothing else to do than mixing up the minds of innocent Thailand tourists?

BTW: Most likely the "brother" will drink Mekong. And he really needs a motorbike!

Giotto[/QUOTE]LOL

[QUOTE=Lover Boy #2]Don't do this. Your heart and head will ache. Your life will be ruined. Don't do this please! [/QUOTE]I think you are right.

[QUOTE=Fon Tok]I received this SMS yesterday from my gik at the airport (BKK Swampy) as I was boarding the plane to return home for a cold holiday.

I LOVE YOU. PLEASE TAKE CARE YOUR SELF I AM CAERING FOR U. MISS U JUST ALWAYS KNOW U R SPECIAL TO ME. KISS KISS. N.

This is from a woman who does not speak English. Do you think the mobile companies sell these messages similar to the way they sell ring tones?

Oh yeah. Dextro Sol, you are insane! [/QUOTE]OK. At least I was right about me being insane.

[QUOTE=Retired Army]You are absolutely FVCKING insane! Think of the consequences before taking your dick out of your pants.

Your first mistake was bringing your wife to Thailand in the first place. Never, ever bring a Western woman to Thailand because your life will never be the same afterwards. [/QUOTE]I not only think it was stupid to bring my western wife to Thailand. It was stupid to go there for me too. I guess I have cought yellow fever. Is it curable?

[QUOTE=GoodEnough]Come on DW, you spetd all that time in the Philippines. You must have seen this a hundred times. Part of it is the willing suspension of disbelief on the part of us old guys....a perfect recipe for long-term disaster. GE[/QUOTE]Or, short term fun...

[QUOTE=Dextro Sol]I not only think it was stupid to bring my western wife to Thailand. It was stupid to go there for me too. I guess I have cought yellow fever. Is it curable?[/QUOTE]

It was not stupid of you to come to Thailand or bring your wife. I was married when I first came and I brought my ex on my first visit (reason to see a dentist). My ex-wife was unsupportive, chubby, selfish and bitchy.

It was easy for Thailand and the rest of SE Asia to pull me away but if I had a western woman who was non above, independent and intelligent I probably wouldn’t live where I live. That being said discovering P4P has been a gift and curse.

The gift... if your monger long enough you will never be infatuated with another woman to consider marriage again.

The curse.... after my years of mongering it’s hard for me to look at a woman for being anything more than a mouth pussy and ass :(

Yes there is a cure for Jasmine fever. Go to all the SE Asian hotspots whenever you can get away from the wife fuck your brains out. Use protection (Durex Extra Sensitive) and go home. That is the cure.

Don’t know how old you are but you don’t want to be depending on some Thai bar girl to take care of you later in life.

[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]...The curse after my years of mongering it’s hard to look at a woman for being anything more than a mouth pussy and ass :([/QUOTE]

No, no, no ... that's a blessing!

We must all appreciate it while we can. :D

[QUOTE=Dextro Sol]


I not only think it was stupid to bring my western wife to Thailand. It was stupid to go there for me too. I guess I have cought yellow fever. Is it curable?[/QUOTE]


Unfortunately, it's fatal.