Cheap, unthinking and selfish. Or maybe not
[QUOTE=GentleBright;1577385]It's terribly stupid to pay 120 dollar. You are doing bad business for other. EVERY girl in SR will go for 30 dollar ST. LT 40 dollar and EVERY girl will be VERY happy. And SR is still expensive for Cambodia. Please don't go back there unless you learn to handle the business and stop ruining it for other.[/QUOTE]I'm not sure what to think about your comment. We all like a good deal. No doubt about that. But by paying the minimum for sex and protesting when someone pays well, what are you actually saying. Are you saying that these poor girls who lower themselves to being with (often) fat disgusting old western men (not me! Do not deserve to get good money? Especially in Asia where a lot of the local males are totally disrespectful to females and have terrible hygiene and do not clean themselves after doing what we politely call No. 2's. Yes, I pay more than necessary sometimes, but I also paid $130+ for the meal. IS she worth less than a meal? How degrading can you be? I think sometimes we forget about the girls and I know I have been guilty of what is really a disgusting attitude towards these girls. I would prefer to give this girl a bit too much and make her life a bit happier. I would prefer that she did not have to work again for a few days or maybe weeks.
I remember what it felt like to get some extra cash when I was poor. It made me happy. I liked that feeling and I love giving it to others. This is not all about us. Think about the girls. They give us a lot and make us happy. Sure, if they cheat you on time or if they do a bad job, keep the payments as low as possible. But if they are warm and lovely and make you smile and feel good then treat them like a princess and do what you can for them.
And please don't tell me where I can and can't go. I am flying back there soon and will hopefully find the same girl or someone better. I'll be tough in the massage shops where the girls are ruthless and generous with anyone who makes me feel special.
1 man. 1 day. 1 girl can change the market place?
[QUOTE=KWKids;1577915]What are you thinking Sidtip?? I am going to Cambodia for 6 weeks on 6/21. I work for a school in Canada and have the summer off. I plan to be in in Siem Reap for a few days during my trip. I understand your liberal empathy toward the Khmer girls, however do you know / or realize what men like you are causing to the rest of us? You are raising prices and taking girls off the market, plain and simple! By jacking up prices and paying stupid amounts of $ you are creating an inflated base and expectation of the girls. Do you know that most people in Cambodia survive on $1 a day? You stated that you hoped that a girl might not work for a few days because you payed her 4 times the going rate. That screws all the other guys including me of a possible good provider on that day.
I have questions? Do you go to a clothing store and see a pair of pants for $20 and then go to the cashier and say I think these pants are worth $60 therefore I will pay $60.00 ?Do you go to a fast food Rest. And order a $5. 00 lunch and after eating the lunch bring the cashier $10.00 stating that the meal was really so good? This is business. Everything in this world has a price. Keep this in mind! If you want to spread the wealth invite us (middle-class) guys to hunt together, Thanks.[/QUOTE]I have heard this so many times that one monger can change the market place. I guess you are not an economics teacher! The man took one girl out and treated her to a date. And it was worth it to him. None of our business!
In order to change the market place mongers or working girls would have to form a union! I doubt this would ever happen.
Cheap Charlies will always be a dollar short
[QUOTE=GentleBright;1577385]It's terribly stupid to pay 120 dollar. You are doing bad business for other. EVERY girl in SR will go for 30 dollar ST. LT 40 dollar and EVERY girl will be VERY happy. And SR is still expensive for Cambodia. Please don't go back there unless you learn to handle the business and stop ruining it for other.[/QUOTE]It seems CC thru out the ages are always a dollar short and always blaming it on the "overpayer".
Now a gossip hotline can change the market!
[QUOTE=KWKids;1577950]I do not attempt to know how much time you have spent in Ccambodia. However from my knowledge the girls do have a so-called oninion, They talk! If one idiot tourist pays too much they all know! Do you overpay for everything, clothes, food, etc,. I have a sister for you![/QUOTE]Yes, I am sure after they did their union "talk" the price of poon went right up! You sir can form your own union and not buy, there by forcing the price to drop!
You might have to bring more money
[QUOTE=KWKids;1577952]I will be in PP on 6/20, and going to Siem Riemp 5-7 days later.[/QUOTE]Remember the $120 man ruin the market and the girls are talking.
I pay $5 for a pair of $20 pants in Cambodia
[QUOTE=KWKids;1577950]I do not attempt to know how much time you have spent in Ccambodia. However from my knowledge the girls do have a so-called oninion, They talk! If one idiot tourist pays too much they all know! Do you overpay for everything, clothes, food, etc,. I have a sister for you![/QUOTE]I pay $5 for it in Cambodia. Doesn't matter if I can cheap charlie it to $4. 05. About your sister. Please post a picture and price.
I care more about her than you
[QUOTE=KWKids;1577915]What are you thinking Sidtip?? I am going to Cambodia for 6 weeks on 6/21. I work for a school in Canada and have the summer off. I plan to be in in Siem Reap for a few days during my trip. I understand your liberal empathy toward the Khmer girls, however do you know / or realize what men like you are causing to the rest of us? You are raising prices and taking girls off the market, plain and simple! By jacking up prices and paying stupid amounts of $ you are creating an inflated base and expectation of the girls. Do you know that most people in Cambodia survive on $1 a day? You stated that you hoped that a girl might not work for a few days because you payed her 4 times the going rate. That screws all the other guys including me of a possible good provider on that day.
I have questions? Do you go to a clothing store and see a pair of pants for $20 and then go to the cashier and say I think these pants are worth $60 therefore I will pay $60.00 ?Do you go to a fast food Rest. And order a $5. 00 lunch and after eating the lunch bring the cashier $10.00 stating that the meal was really so good? This is business. Everything in this world has a price. Keep this in mind! If you want to spread the wealth invite us (middle-class) guys to hunt together, Thanks.[/QUOTE]To be honest I care more about the feelings of this girl than I care about your cheap little willy. She is selling her body. Imagine having to sleep with a fat wrinkly old granny. If the going price was $30 a session maybe you would do it if it was the only way you could feed your kid or support your mum, but imagine if one of your customers gave you twice the price and you could buy your mum or kid or whatever a treat. I would rather make this girl happy than think about the cheap dude who might come and offer the girl the lowest price he can to satisfy his cheap urges.
And if we get to the economics of it all. The good looking girls will get the big tips. The ugly ones won't. This means the ugly ones will all still be cheap and you will always be able to afford them.
And in answer to you question, if a waitress makes me happy I will tip her.
I booked my return flight and will be back in August so get there quickly before I cause the prices to increase again.