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[QUOTE=BananaBoi;1733769]I do apologize for the questions.[/QUOTE]No need to apologize. Asking questions is fine, provided at some time you put the answers to good use.

[QUOTE=BananaBoi;1733769]I'm not sure I hobby the same as most guys. Where I hobby I can hit 30-40 oilies / soapies or 10 strip clubs in one night. In Germany, I can hit up to 6 FKK's in a day when most guys go to only 1.
[/QUOTE]To each his own style, but you are coming to Thailand. This is not the place to rush from one establishment to another. For starters, it is far too hot and humid to rush and an Energizer-bunny attitude sits badly with most Thai. You will benefit much more of your trip if you take things easy and slowly.

Yeah, that's right, but not by a sexy Thai damsel but by spider? Well, I think it was a spider I did not see what bit me on the waistline at the time I remember looking down and seeing a small welt, the immediate thought came to mind that a spider was the culprit. Three months of me being parked on the sofa and bed ensued with a gaping hole in my gut which could not be stitched as the doctors told me the infection would return. I once got gonorrhea, that did my head in at the time but on reflection that was a cake walk compared to this experience. Talk on the forum is always centered on sexual diseases, as far as I'm concerned something far worse befell me.

So there you go gentlemen, I shall always check my bedding before climbing in with honey as you never know what else lies between the sheets. It just goes to show there are so many ways one can come to misfortune asides from the much mentioned sexual diseases. Take care out there.

Just a general question about mongering, specific to Thailand, that I'd like to ask as I am quite new to this (been there once but kind of just jumped into it, but planning to go back). I've seen a few posts mentioning "interview questions" that you ask a bar girl or FL before deciding to pick her. Could some of the senior members please elaborate and maybe share some of these questions that they use to discern whether or not they want to pick a certain girl, and perhaps any other things they talk about before choosing a girl.

Thanks!

[QUOTE=Rqnxx;1743914]Just a general question about mongering, specific to Thailand, that I'd like to ask as I am quite new to this (been there once but kind of just jumped into it, but planning to go back). I've seen a few posts mentioning "interview questions" that you ask a bar girl or FL before deciding to pick her. Could some of the senior members please elaborate and maybe share some of these questions that they use to discern whether or not they want to pick a certain girl, and perhaps any other things they talk about before choosing a girl.

Thanks![/QUOTE]OK, here goes. After whatever amount of introduction, mild joking and fun stuff that fits the situation (go-go girl vs Free Lancer vs massage shop girl outside her shop, for instance. BTW, I rarely go into a happy ending massage shop to do the deed anymore. I pay the bar fine for a girl I meet outside or just inside the place and take her to my room), I will smile broadly and go into something like the brief exchange below. I should mention that I am only interested in three major sexual activities with the girls; eating her pussy, boom booming her, and getting a blowjob with a cum in mouth finish. I am not into anal sex or any other ass play, cumming on faces, cumming on boobs, cumming out an open window or paying for a handjob. So I don't screen for those activities. Also, I live in Bangkok, very close to both Nana Entertainment Plaza and Soi Cowboy, so I will almost always bring the girl back to my apartment instead of taking her to a nearby short time hotel. In my approach methods, that kind of matters.

1. You like me to pay bar for you?

- Yes, of course! Why not?

2. (a bit jokingly) But what we do in the room?

- haha. Anything you want. Up to you.

3. Up to me? That sounds great. I love "up to me" haha. You do good sa-moke?

- What?

Blowjob. You do good blowjob, finish good, cum in mouth everything, no condom?

- uh. Yeah, I can do for you.

4. Bonus question for some girls I have not seen naked on a go-go bar stage: You shave down there?

- Yes. I like that way.

For the most part, that is it. No more interview questions. Naturally, this also assumes I have been smitten by her to begin with. But I now know whether I want to take her or not. I don't ask any more questions about sex nor do I offer more information about what I want unless she brings up questions of her own regarding boom boom or other concerns. If her responses are notably less positive than the examples I gave above, I will probably just move on to another girl.

Here is why I ask those questions before making a decision. And it isn't because I want blowjobs so much. Of course, I love getting blow jobs. But the fact is I am quite partial to boom booming these girls and my boom boom-to-blowjob ratio is a nice 65%-to-35%, give or take 5% either way, that I am quite happy with, despite the fact that I do not ask any questions about doing boom boom during the interview unless she asks me about it directly. All I want to know at this early stage is what my ultimate bottom line, fall-back position is going to be with this girl if the boom boom conditions in the room do not pan out as I want and need them to pan out. Hence, the near exclusive focus on her willingness to deliver a real blowjob to a real blowjob finish.

I have found that to ask more specific questions about boom boom conditions and requirements in the bar in a first time encounter can be very misleading and unproductive. However, once we are in the room, once she has walked with me, gotten to know and love me, been charmed by my winning ways (hahaha), seen my living environment (modest, but always neat and clean for the ladies), seen me naked, now knows that I am neither filthy dirty, covered in open, oozing sores, nor big as a tall beer can in the willy department, her attitude about what she will or won't do with me will be quite different than anything she might blurt out during an initial meeting and interview in the bar. True, that could also apply to the blowjob question. But I like the idea that she knows she gave me a positive response to that option and does not feel pressured to do anything with regard to boom boom that we did not already discuss in the bar. In fact, we didn't discuss much about it at all in the bar. Any decision she makes on that count in the room will be because she chooses to do it far more than because she has somehow been forced to do it. Much better all around, IMO.

And, for my part, there are a multitude of reasons I might no longer be all that into boom booming her anyway after all the clothes are off, her private parts in all their outer and inner glory are known, unnoticed scars and bizarre piercings come into clearer view, her attitude and cooperation in the proceedings materializes, my interest either increases or wanes, etc. , etc. , etc.

So that is why, in the interview process, I generally only ask about her willingness to give a BBBJ with a CIM finish. I do it in order to establish an absolute minimum level of service I can expect IF the boom boom conditions I want and need are not agreeable to both of us. No big deal if they are not, because I happen to love BBBJ CIM! As it is, I still get plenty of great boom booms my way in the room using this approach. As I said, it is at a ratio of about 65% boom booms to 35% BBBJ CIM. I'm happy with it that way.

[QUOTE=Crocodilexp;1730481]I'm not in a position to do a survey on how common it is, but I have a close friend who had this happen to him. Non-drinker, speaks some Thai, expat of few years, in other words, unlikely victim. I know the story as I lent him a bit of cash until he could get his cards sorted (she took away both cash and cards, but fortunately left his passport). This was a pick-up from Khao San Road, not the usual haunts. It's foolish to assume a drugging can't happen to you.[/QUOTE]Quite some years ago I was in a cafe there (now gone, called Prakorbs) and found myself quietly observing a scenario on one of the other tables. It was a very 'fresh' looking newbie who had been 'adopted' by three Thais. After years of travel and encountering all sorts of scams such as the friendly local duo befriending' young single male tourists to lure them into basement clubs in Taksim, to the honey pot Fillipino flattery scams trying to lure similar onto off shore gambling scams in which your spectacular loss was 'arranged', in Hong Kong, something just was not right with this picture on the other table on Kao San Rd. Call it a sixth sense that develops over time, along with hearing the sort of things they were saying to him. My solution was ultimately to hand him a discrete note on the way out, for him to consider a few things, and that if I'd got it wring then I apologise. To this day I don't know transpired afterwards, and if I completely misread things then the worst it did was to introduce a few awkward moments on the table. At the time I was willing for that to happen, rather than a scenario where thus very young newbie some up on day two of his big trip with nothing left but his underwear.

[QUOTE=Rqnxx;1743914]Just a general question about mongering, specific to Thailand, that I'd like to ask as I am quite new to this (been there once but kind of just jumped into it, but planning to go back). I've seen a few posts mentioning "interview questions" that you ask a bar girl or FL before deciding to pick her. Could some of the senior members please elaborate and maybe share some of these questions that they use to discern whether or not they want to pick a certain girl, and perhaps any other things they talk about before choosing a girl.

Thanks![/QUOTE]Brother EihTooms alredy gave you his take on this subject. Very enligthening, I must say.

The whole idea of the "interview" is - IMHO - to establish that the time you both spend together will not entirely be wasted.

The funny thing is that my questions are entirely different than those of Brother EihTooms.

To start with I must tell you that (1) I almost exclusively pick my girls from agogo clubs where the girls dance totally naked; such as in Suzie Wong; and (2) I have no special sexual wishes: covered boom-boom is a must of course but is never an issue and for the BJ department, I don't care whether it is bare or covered.

This both means that I rarely if ever get surprised when her clothes come off as I have already seen her in the buff and I never had a girl to live up to my minimal sexual requirements. No questions need to be asked to establish this.

So my interview is more to gauge her attitude: is she bubbly, speaks some decent English, does she like to cuddle, hug and kiss? I always go for LT, so the GFE aspect is important to me.

Therefore I do not have a fixed set of questions, it is more the whole "vibe" of the interview which decides it for me.

Perhaps the only really *pointed* question I ask is whether she likes her pussy licked? I'm a great fan of oral sex (both giving and taking). If she answers "yes" I probably have a winner on my hands. If she is doubtful, I'll tell her I will convince her of how good it is. If she is reluctant or makes a funny face, I'll probably think it over again and may look out for someone else.

[QUOTE=Wolvenvacht;1744422]Brother EihTooms alredy gave you his take on this subject. Very enligthening, I must say.

The whole idea of the "interview" is - IMHO - to establish that the time you both spend together will not entirely be wasted.

The funny thing is that my questions are entirely different than those of Brother EihTooms.

To start with I must tell you that (1) I almost exclusively pick my girls from agogo clubs where the girls dance totally naked; such as in Suzie Wong; and (2) I have no special sexual wishes: covered boom-boom is a must of course but is never an issue and for the BJ department, I don't care whether it is bare or covered.

This both means that I rarely if ever get surprised when her clothes come off as I have already seen her in the buff and I never had a girl to live up to my minimal sexual requirements. No questions need to be asked to establish this.

So my interview is more to gauge her attitude: is she bubbly, speaks some decent English, does she like to cuddle, hug and kiss? I always go for LT, so the GFE aspect is important to me.

Therefore I do not have a fixed set of questions, it is more the whole "vibe" of the interview which decides it for me.

Perhaps the only really *pointed* question I ask is whether she likes her pussy licked? I'm a great fan of oral sex (both giving and taking). If she answers "yes" I probably have a winner on my hands. If she is doubtful, I'll tell her I will convince her of how good it is. If she is reluctant or makes a funny face, I'll probably think it over again and may look out for someone else.[/QUOTE]Wolvenvacht,

I envy your ability to roll with ether a covered or uncovered BJ (I guess I am mostly thinking of BJ to Completion / BBBJ CIM). Truly. That would certainly increase my potential experiences, to include the girls who say in the bar that they only do covered BJs. But I just can't feel enough pleasure with a covered BJ, can only remember finishing with a covered BJ one time many years ago when I was in my early 20's. And even then I vowed not to endure it again. LOL.

I am totally with you on the "vibe" part. But I don't know of any interview questions that are helpful in that regard. Do you have some to suggest? For me, that part of it just sort of happens in the jokey, fun stage, before an interview question is even asked. Or it doesn't. And these days I don't scratch them off the list if they don't impress me that way immediately. Now I don't put too much stock in how they might come across right off the bat vs how they'll be once that bedroom door closes. I have been surprised both ways so often I no longer screen on that basis before deciding to pay a barfine. In fact, I will often see a major personality change, both good and bad, immediately after the barfine has been paid or the instant we walk out of the bar and onto the Soi.

Also, as you see in my post, like you, I am a big fan of DATY. I used to ask the question you ask and think your follow up comments to the lady are great! But the reason I stopped routinely asking that question is because there are so many girls who have apparently had horrible experiences with slobbering, drooling messes from guys in that regard, and many of them tensed up by my asking about it on the fear that such is my style as well. In some cases, I could even sense a change of heart on their part about going with me at all because of it. There must be some horrible slobbering, drooling DATY fiends out there! LOL. However, the slobbering, drooling mess is not my style. Of course a first time girl has no way of knowing that. Naturally, I will make the moves in that direction when we are alone. And, as you probably have experienced as well, it is the extremely rare lady who does not enjoy a good pussy eating by a man who really enjoys and likes to savor every second of it right to the shattering finish. Again and again and again.

That's when it is often more their idea than mine to covert the agreed upon Short Time into a Long Time. And the "I'll come to you again on my day off, you no pay barfine or Lady Drink, OK?" offer, right? 555.

Wolvenvacht and EihTooms, great stuff and thank you for taking the time to reply. Definitely helps me out and gives me a better idea of the kind of stuff to ask about before deciding on a girl.

[QUOTE=EihTooms;1744462]
I am totally with you on the "vibe" part. But I don't know of any interview questions that are helpful in that regard. Do you have some to suggest? For me, that part of it just sort of happens in the jokey, fun stage, before an interview question is even asked.[/QUOTE]I don't have any specific questions and indeed getting a "feel" of how she rolls, happens during the whole of the talk with her. Once I feel she is OK, I may ask her a few more pointed questions, but by that stage my mind is already almost made up. So indeed, it is not a matter of specific questions, but rather a "gut feeling" and my feeling has rarely if ever done me wrong. Maybe I'm just a lucky guy, or I'm blessed or have good karma, but the dreaded starfish or even worse "upsell" girl seem to have missed me. The only upsells I've had were conversions from ST into LT, and those I don't mind!

[QUOTE=EihTooms;1744462]Also, as you see in my post, like you, I am a big fan of DATY. I used to ask the question you ask and think your follow up comments to the lady are great! But the reason I stopped routinely asking that question is because there are so many girls who have apparently had horrible experiences with slobbering, drooling messes from guys in that regard, and many of them tensed up by my asking about it on the fear that such is my style as well.[/QUOTE]Oh yes, I'm a big DATY fan. Of course, you have to ask the question in quite a subtle way. Many Thai girls, even those on The Game are sexually far less adventurous than one generally assumes. In their mind, bringing your head (the most important part of your body) close to their pussy, somehow doesn't really chime with their ingrained ideas of what is "proper".

Hey fellas,

First off, I appreciate all the info that is shared on this forum. It's great. I've booked a vacation for the last 3 weeks in December of this year to Thailand, flying out of BKK to end my trip a few days after the new year. I've RTFF in the Bangkok, Phuket and Koh Samui threads all the posts dating back a year but I have the following questions:

1) Since it is high season, would it be advised that I book my hotel lodging in advance? I don't want 5 star but don't want to stay in a hostel. I've read that hotels are pretty easy to get and you can usually get a place same day, but since its high season what are the chances I'll be shut out?

2) Most of the reports I've read I assume (correct me if I'm wrong) are from Caucasian mongers. I'm an american born Chinese but I can speak and understand Thai enough to get around. When I go into the high tourist monger areas will I stand out or be ignored? I only ask because I was in Shanghai not too long ago at Manhattan and Judy's bar (pickup bars) and most of the ladies were Vietnamese and most of the mongers were white. I was passed up by many of the girls and many of them didn't even make eye contact with me because I was Asian. I asked one of the ladies that I did pick up and she told me what I had suspected, that since I was Asian she didn't think I was a monger at that bar.

3) I'm probably going to spend a week each in Bangkok, Pattaya and Phuket and if any members want to meet up that would be great. I plan on trying many non-mongering activities and sometimes some company for those are fun such as diving and so forth.

4) How busy is high season and do the rates for girls go up? Even for the freelancers, gogos and massage girls?

Thanks in advance and I look forward to reporting my experience.

Moss.

Stay safe.

[QUOTE=Moss734;1745979]Hey fellas,

First off, I appreciate all the info that is shared on this forum. It's great. I've booked a vacation for the last 3 weeks in December of this year to Thailand, flying out of BKK to end my trip a few days after the new year. I've RTFF in the Bangkok, Phuket and Koh Samui threads all the posts dating back a year but I have the following questions:

1) Since it is high season, would it be advised that I book my hotel lodging in advance? I don't want 5 star but don't want to stay in a hostel. I've read that hotels are pretty easy to get and you can usually get a place same day, but since its high season what are the chances I'll be shut out?

2) Most of the reports I've read I assume (correct me if I'm wrong) are from Caucasian mongers. I'm an american born Chinese but I can speak and understand Thai enough to get around. When I go into the high tourist monger areas will I stand out or be ignored? I only ask because I was in Shanghai not too long ago at Manhattan and Judy's bar (pickup bars) and most of the ladies were Vietnamese and most of the mongers were white. I was passed up by many of the girls and many of them didn't even make eye contact with me because I was Asian. I asked one of the ladies that I did pick up and she told me what I had suspected, that since I was Asian she didn't think I was a monger at that bar.

3) I'm probably going to spend a week each in Bangkok, Pattaya and Phuket and if any members want to meet up that would be great. I plan on trying many non-mongering activities and sometimes some company for those are fun such as diving and so forth.

4) How busy is high season and do the rates for girls go up? Even for the freelancers, gogos and massage girls?

Thanks in advance and I look forward to reporting my experience.

Moss.

Stay safe.[/QUOTE]1. Yes book in advance. You can always look for another one and book it before you check out of the one you are in.

2. You will be fine. Just look at these girls with that gleam in your eyes.

3. Post it on Travel Announcements Only thread

4. Read the threads.

[QUOTE=Moss734;1745979] I'm an american born Chinese but I can speak and understand Thai enough to get around. When I go into the high tourist monger areas will I stand out or be ignored? I only ask because I was in Shanghai not too long ago at Manhattan and Judy's bar (pickup bars) and most of the ladies were Vietnamese and most of the mongers were white. I was passed up by many of the girls and many of them didn't even make eye contact with me because I was Asian. I asked one of the ladies that I did pick up and she told me what I had suspected, that since I was Asian she didn't think I was a monger at that bar.[/QUOTE]If you can speak Thai you have a huge advantage over mongers who do not. I am trying to learn Thai only for this reason.

[QUOTE=Moss734;1745979] I'm an american born Chinese but I can speak and understand Thai enough to get around.
[/QUOTE]First, most of the working girls will think you're japanese and try to charge more, LOL. Seriously speaking, LOS is chock of Asian mongers including yours truly. The fact you are semi-fluent in Thai will work in your favor. You'll have a blast, just RTFF and do some prep work.

The Thailand threads are chock full of info. There are a few guys who write exceptionally informative and entertaining field reports; you'll know who they are if you do your homework.

And become a paid subscriber, then you'll have access to PM function and can ask the experts specific questions off-line.

Hi all,

First off I want to thank everyone for their posts that I have helped me in my trips. I don't post a lot here but have in the past, and while I haven't posted my report, it's mainly cause time passed to the extent that I wasn't sure if it would be helpful or up to date. But, that said, for those going to Eastern Europe, a few words of advice. If you haven't found what you're looking for, you're not looking hard enough. Keep your wits about you and you'll be safe and just be smart enough to avoid trouble. Lastly, when it comes to Eastern Europe, you're most likely getting a better deal than you can in the states, and if you aren't, you're thinking with the wrong head.

Now on to my question.

I've read the Thailand threads and have done a search but my specific questions don't seem to be answered. So here goes. I'm a scuba diver and a fan of the laid back, easy going attitude where things shouldn't have to be rushed in hour increments. I much prefer the LT rendezvous. Where in Thailand can one spend some time by the shore and scuba dive while enjoying some fun time in the evening or off days? I've checked out the kao tai thread and it wasn't very helpful in satisfying my curiosity on the evening end. Please keep in mind that I'm targeting good diving, not just some dunk in the water to say I did it.

I've heard that Thailand is the sort of place where one can find a partner to hangout and spend the day / evening or evening / day with for a relatively inexpensive sum? Is this true and is it possible to find in the beach areas?

Lastly, when doing these excursions (remember, I'm interested in beach / scuba diving / fun times) is an air bnb accommodation better or should one just pick a resort and either hope guests are allowed or sneak one in with a tip to the security guard?

Thank for all the help.

[QUOTE=ReggieBush;1747545]Hi all,
*snip* Where in Thailand can one spend some time by the shore and scuba dive while enjoying some fun time in the evening or off days? I've checked out the kao tai thread and it wasn't very helpful in satisfying my curiosity on the evening end. Please keep in mind that I'm targeting good diving, not just some dunk in the water to say I did it. *snip*Thank for all the help.[/QUOTE]Hi Reggie. If you are truly targeting good diving, you need to use Thai live-aboards, and that experience precludes nightlife at Phuket or wherever. I have a serious amount of diving history in a lot of different oceans, and I won't do the day trips in Thailand anymore. (Well, unless I'm really in need of a dive.) You can have one or the other, not both. TTG.