Bangkok Reports

[QUOTE=LittleBigMan]Csun123,

Hell you want to end up like Michael Jackson? Can't sleep! Have a glass of red wine and a cold tablet! You want to get a blood clot on your leg from sleeping the whole trip while in a Airplane.

A top London teaching hospital (I can hear people saying "That's an oxymoron!") that has done DVT research for the WHO, have come up with a formulation by a cardiovascular surgeon of pycnogenol, extracted from pine bark, and ginger root which has shown in clinical trials to promote circulation to the extremities (not an alternative for vit V & C !) and reduce travel sickness.

The product is called Zinopin, and is available from high- street pharmacies (Boots, Lloyds etc)

[QUOTE=Amjeck]Drop her like a bad habit and move on. There's far better fish in the sea![/QUOTE]

I'm sorry but, I could not have said it better!

don't walk away..... RUN

(Well, that's unless you want to take care of a baby that's not yours...)

Let me tell you what the next steps are:

You will have sex with her before you leave for Farangland, you will stay in touch with her via email... (don't give your phone#, and create a special email address for girls... ), after a few weeks of "I miss you so much..", her family will put pressure on her:

- Brother wants a new motorcycle... ask the farang
- Daddy wants a new TV... ask the farang
- Mummy needs a new liver... ask the farang
- Daughter needs money for school... ask the farang

But you can't blame them... in asia, the person who has money is supposed to support the Family, you are a white boy= you are rich.

Long Story short: Drop her.

Kid... I'm still not sold if you are a troll or not :D :D as you have hit all the negatives or worse case scenerios in one trip. We gotta meet in PI shortly that is for damn sure. I can really see you as some senior poster here who is having a shit load of fun with us for some reason.

[QUOTE=NicFrenchy] Brother wants a new motorcycle... ask the farang
- Daddy wants a new TV... ask the farang
- Mummy needs a new liver... ask the farang
- Daughter needs money for school... ask the farang
[/QUOTE]

But this one is different... she is not like the rest of the girls :D

This morning I woke up to...

"Brother in accident, both legs broken and one arm broken, in ICU room was hoping to go visit him but had motor bike accident myself today and hurt knee. Will go to temple then home to go home. Oh I only have XXXX baht in the bank. Still love you and miss you"

"Sister is take computer and go home now can not chat you tee rak. Hope I can get computer some day so can chat to you as I miss you mak mak"

"Darling, miss you so much but home here have no money, hard to pay for internet time when daughter need school and momma and papa work so hard. wait you come back and take care me na"

That is just a few of them... But these girls love me long time and only me :)

Frenchy... why only one email account? Have multiple ones as if you are with a girl and she wants you to open it up then you can open up one or so...

[QUOTE=Kid Icarus]Any thoughts? Just bring em to me.[/QUOTE]

Thai ladies (and Filipina's) can cry on demand. It is most likely this is a game that is played as described by Nic. If you are in a relationship with a thai girl you marry the family not just the girl. And if you are a farang and you are "date" her then you are dating the entire family also and expected to support them.

So... Run or Play the game, get sex out of her, enjoy her, if she asks for things just say NO. You started the game off wrong by offering to buy her items at Siam. Of course she said NO, she is "good thai girl" but wait, give it some time, not today but if you continue with her expect the figures and requests to go up up up up...

Any lady that works or lives in BKK (and especially the girls that work in Pattaya) know if they are scene with a farang it is assumed by many others that they are short time girls or were short time girls. Regular thai girls did NOT hold my hand on our first meeting and we surely never DFK. I have kind of found that many thai girls who never went with farang do not know how to DFK or such. So her to hold your hand and DFK leads me to believe she has some history.

As someone posted most of my first encounters with real thai non p4p ladies they had a friend or family with them. And we sure as heck did not go to a bar with night life. Just my POV... go in with your eyes open, you are gonna support the entire family and that means neighbors and cousins... And if this is the case and you got that kind of money then adopt me.

Go look at Living in Thai thread what OAH who has been around a long arse time... he just had the classic scenerio done and I've had it done to me a few times. But it's just so damn much fun and what is a few baht.... It's when it gets to the motorbike, home, and other issues that you get really screwed.

And don't be like others and father a damn child while you are there or you can be completely screwed. You walking around with a damn boner cuz you held her hand had me laughing my arse off... Thank you mate.

Kid,

I know it is temping! you want it bad? You said bring it on! and the negative is coming and you still want it bad? Everything Amjeck, NicFrenchy and Tansak KTV said is hard, but you still want it bad!

So hit that pussy before you leave ( of course with a condom ) and follow the Dreams advice, the more negative it gets the more you want to find out for yourself! Otherwise how are you going to learn and go from a Kid to a Man, you can't expect Tansak to teach you everything! You might not ever get to PHI!


LBM

Jackson - can you start a "I have fallen for a Thai girl - what's the signs/what should I do" thread.

We can then keep all this nonsense off of "Bangkok Reports" which is supposed to be about mongering in Bangkok.

This is not the "problems" page of a newspaper, so a dedicated thread for discussion of "Tourist falls for Thai girl" rubbish would be a very good move.

Can anyone name a few oily massage places with room with attached showers / baths?

Don't care too much for places with showers/baths down the hall.

Thanks

Thanks for all feedback! Without this board I probebly would have a wife now. And a child. What an Asian trip that would be huh? I mean, you old ones that been trough all this before must be the right ones to listen to so I play the game, with eyes open. But I cant just drop her and run for my life. She's to hot (imo) for that! In her garage/apartment were they lived a foto of a wedding on an young farang and an young thailady was up on the wall. It was her sister. So, Im not even the first farang in the family..

As KTV wrote about kissing on first date I feel the same. I mean, im not Brad Pit! Hold hand and kiss first date and kiss with opend eyes? (the fact is I asked her (heh) and she sad she wanted to look at me..)

She did not want me to go back to the bars (soi 8) after I left her at home because ther were to many ladies that wanted me she sad. Well, thats true!! But she looked at them and thought they were sexy (no go go bar just a bar on soi 8). I asked, you like girls too? and she just smiled, but then sad: I like men.

So, sober and with my head clear and without boner I think I were in love yeasterday. Today, I maybe should look for some flights insteed. So once again, thaks everyone for all the feedback. I read all twice. Its so damn hard to see the truth when you are blinded by the beauty.

But, with her looks she could easy work as a BG and get the 6000 bath she gets from her work in one month just in 2-3 days. So, I hold my door open just for that she work hard in the restaurant and not in a bar. And she like books, we went in to a bookstore in Siam for a look. I say thats a good sign. Let us see what happends..

One more thing, the movie we saw yeasterday (she picked it) were called: "The Ugly Truth"....

Kid,

If you play your cards right you can also be worship instead of a picture of the King or Budda! After the wedding and the pictures make sure you put them in the Photo section since most of us won't be able to go up to Isaan to attend. Maybe a Reception at L.L. for us Farangs!


Enjoy and take it slow.... LBM

[QUOTE=Kid Icarus]Let us see what happens..[/QUOTE]KI, it looks like you're having an interesting trip.

Just remember that it's all a bit of fun from this end of the laptop, but from her perspective it might be a bit more important. Whatever you do, please remember to treat her respectfully (and I'm sure you will). It's very easy to make mistakes and upset people (and I've certainly done it), but just remember the principles of karma: the belief that what goes around comes around. As you sow, so shall ye reap. What you do to others, you are really doing to yourself, etc etc. remember that and you'll do fine!

[QUOTE=LittleBigMan]Kid,

If you play your cards right you can also be worship instead of a picture of the King or Budda! After the wedding and the pictures make sure you put them in the Photo section since most of us won't be able to go up to Isaan to attend. Maybe a Reception at L.L. for us Farangs!


Enjoy and take it slow.... LBM[/QUOTE]

Thanks, I will remember that! But she's not from Isaan, she's from Rayong, SE from Pattaya (edit: like no one would not know were it is? haha). Is it possible for you to visit us on the wedding?

"Enjoy and take it slow...."
Yeah, maybe its going to fast. She has already taken a picature on me with her cellphone to show her mom :O

[QUOTE=Mouse1]Whatever you do, please remember to treat her respectfully (and I'm sure you will). It's very easy to make mistakes and upset people (and I've certainly done it)[/QUOTE]

Yep, I will. But all I can think of (now) is that I want to have her naked in my arms. In if she do that because she thinks something big will happend like wedding or I dont know, then, Im on the thin line huh.

I must read more in the "Living in thailand forum" and update me a little more.

Take care all, and thanks for the support. I thought I was well preperd when I come here but boy I was misstaken..

Cheers :)

[QUOTE=Kid Icarus]But she's not from Isaan, she's from Rayong, SE from Pattaya. [/QUOTE]

Oh then that makes all the difference in the world .... For sure give her the codes to all your Credit Cards and bank accounts.

[QUOTE=Kid Icarus]Yep, I will. But all I can think of (now) is that I want to have her naked in my arms. [/QUOTE]

Wait a moment... you didn't have sex yet with her and you are this infatuated? You are funny mate. For some reason I keep picturing girls eating you alive like in the that movie Little Shop of Horrors where the plant was eating people... :D

[QUOTE=Kid Icarus]I thought I was well preperd when I come here but boy I was misstaken.. [/QUOTE]

None of us are ever really prepared that is why we keep going back for more punishment, I mean enjoyment :D

But I gotta tell you if you are like this now the ladies when you land Clark are gonna eat you alive. You think Thai girls run scams if you aren't married by the time you leave BKK you will be by the time you leave PI and you will be completely confused as to where to go next and who to go back to visit and who to talk to.....

Welcome to SEA...... Sounds like it is time you throw down residency as you seem hooked. I still say you are a Senior member who is trolling :D :D

[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]
Wait a moment... you didn't have sex yet with her and you are this infatuated? You are funny mate.[/QUOTE]
I know.. but when I was walking in the Siam buildning with a boner and holding her hand, I was sold.

[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]But I gotta tell you if you are like this now the ladies when you land Clark are gonna eat you alive.[/QUOTE]
Thats why I have to meet you up and hold you in the hand..

[QUOTE=Kid Icarus]...
Without this board I probebly would have a wife now. And a child.
...
[/QUOTE]Icarus,

You can't be serious ... after just a day or so.

[URL]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Icarus[/URL]

[b]Icarus[/b] (Greek: Ἴκαρος, Latin: Íkaros, Etruscan: Vicare) is a character in Greek mythology. He is the son of Daedalus and is commonly known for his attempt to escape Crete by flight, [b][i]which ended in a fall to his death.[/b][/i]

I am sure you remember that saga - Icarus, getting too close to the sun ... btw., what are you trying to escape from at the moment? Something you left at home?

In regards of Thailands "fauna" you are a highly endangered species. "Tigers" love to hunt down your kinds and eat them for breakfast - naahh, more have them as a "in-between" snack.

Get our of here before it is too late.


Giotto

[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]
Wait a moment... you didn't have sex yet with her and you are this infatuated? You are funny mate.
:D[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Kid Icarus]I know.. but when I was walking in the Siam buildning with a boner and holding her hand, I was sold.
[/QUOTE]

Actually it is precisely the situation where sex doesn't happen quickly that infatuates most guys. I don't know if it is that the 'respectful' kind of guy who is willing to wait for sex is just more prone to infatuation, or that guys just want something more when it is harder to get, but that's how it is. The main reason girls don't put out on the first date is they think guys will think less of them.

Anyway I've never felt this way - I like girls that give it up easily.

Which reminds me, I was just watching Thai porn in a short-time hotel with a girl last night, and I noticed the theme was invariably that the girl was an 'innocent' virginal type and the guy was seducing her, persuading her against her tendency to have sex. This is a common fantasy, especially in Asia. Needless to say it is very much NOT my style and I found it wholly unarousing. Happily the girl I was with was the naughty kind.

[QUOTE=Giotto]Icarus,

You can't be serious ... after just a day or so.

[URL]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Icarus[/URL]

[b]Icarus[/b] (Greek: Ἴκαρος, Latin: Íkaros, Etruscan: Vicare) is a character in Greek mythology. He is the son of Daedalus and is commonly known for his attempt to escape Crete by flight, [b][i]which ended in a fall to his death.[/b][/i]

I am sure you remember that saga - Icarus, getting too close to the sun ... btw., what are you trying to escape from at the moment? Something you left at home?

In regards of Thailands "fauna" you are a highly endangered species. "Tigers" love to hunt down your kinds and eat them for breakfast - naahh, more have them as a "in-between" snack.

Get our of here before it is too late.


Giotto[/QUOTE]
Oh, come on you guys, give the Kid a break. His first date with the girl was yesterday. So he got a boner holding hands. Who of us hasn’t, at least in our youth, gotten a boner holding hands? I did. Hell, even now the most experienced monger’s can get boners at the mere sight of a pretty girl.

He’s not in love. He’s in lust. Being in lust is a hell of a lot of fun. This is his first trip to the LOS. Thailand (Pattaya in particular) is the greatest place on earth for lust.

Therefore, IMHO, he should fuck the snot out of every girl who will let him, and let the Devil take the hindmost. :D