Young Guys vs Old Guys, the Value of Charm, and What Was Missed
There have been many posts of late where we guys are debating our perceptions and stating them as fact. I guess that makes sense to a large extent, because a man's perception is his truth. This is a subjective realm. But in the end, one man's perception of the truth does not invalidate another man's perception of his truth, unless the perception is so absurd as to make it worthy of immediate dismissal. But even the definition of 'absurd' is subjective. And so what I will do is state some of my observations on the topics recently debated here.
I am no longer a young buck, but try to stay in shape and look as young as I can. Last week I was having a coffee at Greenbelt during a first meeting of a board member here who proved to be a super guy. The flow of our conversation was occasionally interrupted when we spotted a beautiful Filipina walking by. And there were more than a few. One of the most gorgeous Filipinas that I spotted seemed to be from the upper echelons of society as judging from her dress and mannerisms. She was in her mid-20's, and the Caucasian guy with her was within her age group and evidently handsome. Perhaps similar examples exist with such a lady and a much older gent, and in that case I imagine that it would not hurt to be wealthy. Same goes for the young handsome guy that I saw with this Super-babe. I imagine that her interest may not hold for very long if his bank account cannot sustain her interest. But it could still be good while it lasted.
Looking at the demographics of Filipinas, it is safe to say that most of them do not have the privilege of coming from the upper-middle class, as those are few and far between. These are often the girls that have been manipulated, dumped, or often knocked up and then dumped by Filipino guys with a nice smile and no worries or commitments. It is easily conceivable that these girls equate this irresponsibility with immaturity, and thus they then turn around and seek an older and more responsible man. I fall into this category, except that my longer term girlfreinds have not yet had kids.
Now to the topic of our charm and respect, and the role that these qualities play in the enhancement of our experiences with Filipinas. I have learned that it is of first and foremost importance to treat the girls with respect, as we would do in our home countries if we wanted to get lucky. If we are talking about a bargirl encounter, then the discussion may include questions about her sexual likes and dislikes and whether or not she has her period. But this can be done with respect. But the number one rule for me is to be able to make her laugh, make her smile, and make her interested in me as a guy that she would want to spend time with. This approach worked well with 'freebies' that I met in China, Hong Kong, and the Philippines. There is no question in my mind that if a girl is allured by your charm and sense of humor, then she will be more GFE later on in bed. Not necessarily more kinky or PSE, but more GFE for sure.
Aw hell, over and out;
Raz
