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I have been around a while now but this phrase take care of me still escapes me. Last month I met a girl in a massage parlor. She was finishing her massage when I was starting mine. She does hair. We have been talking everyday. Last night she asked me if I would take care of her but she did not explain what that means. (see attached convo). I did not figure it was about money because she added, "I am not a bar girl. ".
Years ago I was seeing a chick in Bangkok and she would always say I never take care of her but she also would never explain what that meant.
Is there anybody here who can explain to me what "take care of me" means when a Thai woman says it?
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;1840888]I have been around a while now but this phrase take care of me still escapes me. Last month I met a girl in a massage parlor. She was finishing her massage when I was starting mine. She does hair. We have been talking everyday. Last night she asked me if I would take care of her but she did not explain what that means. (see attached convo). I did not figure it was about money because she added, "I am not a bar girl. ".
Years ago I was seeing a chick in Bangkok and she would always say I never take care of her but she also would never explain what that meant.
Is there anybody here who can explain to me what "take care of me" means when a Thai woman says it?[/QUOTE]Seeing this is in English and Thai girls don't speak good English, it is a problem. I wonder if Google translate spat that out. So I wonder what Thai phrase was used to translate to "take care of me". I have never seen this phrase from a hooker or my Thai GFs.
Shy Thai girls do love to speak indirectly using Euphemisms rather than to say to come and fuck me. To be honest, I don't know what she means. Whether it is look after her sexually or help her out with the rent that is due, or both. Could mean to become her boyfriend / sponsor on an ongoing basis at worst case.
I guess you just have to show up, start some kissing, and say to her you don't really understand what she meant in the message. If she just wants sex you may be very relieved. Chances of that? Maybe less than 30%. She probably is looking for commitment even if no money initially. It's so easy to pick up a Thai GF accidentally.
What percentage of modern girls are just looking for a fuck without romance as well? I don't know. I am too old.
Bargirls, Massage girls, Girlfriends, wives, they are all very much the same. Eat money. My GF costs me a lot of money because she has no job. For a long time her efforts were needed to look after her sick father. Even if she had a low paid job, would still use plenty of money. Having a GF is not value for money on a per fuck basis, I have found.
Another girl, I would really have liked to be my wife or GF, would have been even more expensive to "take care of". Her monthly expenditure was very high, originally supported by P4P and now supported by some very rich guy.
Don't get too far into something too quickly, unless its just a pussy.
I know when Chinese civies girls in the clubs say "I need you to take care of me." they mean they need you to fuck the shit out of them every night, make sure of their physical safety, security and getting money from you without losing face. Most Chinese civies in ShenZhen clubs are too proud to ever ask for money from sex partners, but most guys know they are expected to give the girl the going rate of 1,000 RMB in the morning after breakfast.
With Thai girls, when they ask if you will take care of them even though they are not bar girls, they mean they don't want to lose face and will not outright ask for money in exchange for sex like bar girls, but still expect you to take care of their money needs at the same level or even higher. It's just a hint for money with face saving. They are hoping that you will play the generous guy and pay them much higher than the cheap hos.
Try to give her 1,000 baht for taxi in the morning and wait to see what she would do next!
Pussies are never free!
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;1840888]I have been around a while now but this phrase take care of me still escapes me. Last month I met a girl in a massage parlor. She was finishing her massage when I was starting mine. She does hair. We have been talking everyday. Last night she asked me if I would take care of her but she did not explain what that means. (see attached convo). I did not figure it was about money because she added, "I am not a bar girl. ".
Years ago I was seeing a chick in Bangkok and she would always say I never take care of her but she also would never explain what that meant.
Is there anybody here who can explain to me what "take care of me" means when a Thai woman says it?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Syzygies;1840892]It's so easy to pick up a Thai GF accidentally.[/QUOTE]You are fucking telling me. The one I have now was by accident. Luckily when I met her and she first came over unannounced I nipped that shit in the bud. When I got here the other day she was home in Buriram because her job is closed for a month for renovation plus het mom has been in the hospital. I could not have been happier. Mom is doing better and can eat now so what does she do yesterday? Come right back to Pattaya. Dammit.
Last night the security guy was asking me where is your girlfriend because they always talk. I said man I don't have a girlfriend. The girl that is in my bed now said when she got here last night the security guy asked if she was here to see me. Well of the few foreigners in my building I am the only one who does not live with a chick. The Thai guys who live here are mooching off their girls and the rest of the chicks who live here are toms, most living with their girls. So that pretty much narrows it down.
She will be over soon because I have to go renew my license and the registration for my bike and she wants to go with me. I got to kick this chick out before she gets here. My girlfriend is great; it is just that I am not the settling down type.
Are you fucking serious. I get the girl up and out of here and she leaves her damn telephone. Luckily I was on hair cleanup detail and saw it on the nightstand. Now to take the battery out of this damn thing. You gotta be shittin me.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;1840888]Is there anybody here who can explain to me what "take care of me" means when a Thai woman says it?[/QUOTE]When spoken by a Thai woman, "you can take care of me" almost certainly does not mean the guy should take care of her sexually. It is a soft / polite indication she expects material / financial assistance in some form, at some point.
If she says "I take care of you", however, may well mean that she'll address your sexual needs. No, Thailand is not an big on gender equality.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;1840900]
Are you fucking serious. I get the girl up and out of here and she leaves her damn telephone. Luckily I was on hair cleanup detail and saw it on the nightstand. Now to take the battery out of this damn thing. You gotta be shittin me.[/QUOTE]If you have a serious GF, you cannot fuck anyone else where you live. The evidence will be found sooner or later. I use Hotels, mostly the ST variety, or on premises at MPs.
Even the GF doesn't find evidence, someone else will blab and tell her you have been fucking around. It's better if your apartment complex believes you are not playing the field.
I recommend that you do not monger right in front of GF's face. My GF for sure knows I play up, and seems acceptable to her, if not too obvious, and not too serious. I do not keep condoms in the house any more. Too risky. Means I have to buy condoms and lube almost every time I monger. A nuisance, but safer than having condoms and lube found in my jeans pocket.
Even returning from an MP, there is a risk GF will smell unusual soap on you, or find you to be rather too clean. Some girls are like detectives. My current GF is not the detective type. A previous one was. Obviously various Apps on my phone have to be protected by a pattern to unlock.
Years ago, when first met the GF, someone reported to her seeing me with another girl around Nana area. Possibly her brother? Was true as well. She was very upset at the time, but later got over it. I could only explain that I was not fully committed to her at the time. Amazingly bad luck, but I risk these things very regularly. Try not to be seen to much in public with hookers, but have been seen just outside the Asoke Place ST hotel with a girl by local Sports Pub staff, so nothing is totally safe. My GF won't be going to the Sports Pub fortunately.
Interesting analysis by Crodilexp. He may have it sussed out.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;1840888]I have been around a while now but this phrase take care of me still escapes me. Last month I met a girl in a massage parlor. She was finishing her massage when I was starting mine. She does hair. We have been talking everyday. Last night she asked me if I would take care of her but she did not explain what that means. (see attached convo). I did not figure it was about money because she added, "I am not a bar girl. ".
Years ago I was seeing a chick in Bangkok and she would always say I never take care of her but she also would never explain what that meant.
Is there anybody here who can explain to me what "take care of me" means when a Thai woman says it?[/QUOTE]As Mr. Croc said, when a Thai lady (BG or non-BG) uses the euphemism "take care" (meaning the man will take care of her) it always means financially, often long-term. In specific contexts it can mean assist, supervise, etc. , as in "when we go to Hua Hin, my daughter can take care of Mom. ".
When she uses "take care" as in I take care of you, it's always sexual, unless the context is obviously otherwise, as in "You're sick, I will take care of you. " I note that I've only heard BGs use this. My non-BG GF has never used that euphemism toward me regarding sex. When sick, yes.
Case in point, years ago I called a Pattaya fave from my hotel. No answer. She called back a bit later. "Hi, what were you doing?" "I take care falang. " And once, in a Loy Kroh bar the hostess admitted to being 17. I quickly lost interest, she got a bit irked and said "17 old enough to take care!
Okay. I finally broke down and asked my girlfriend (that I have never given 1 baht to in the 8 months that I have known her and who is a cashier in a Walking Street gogo bar) what does it mean when a Thai woman tells a man to take care of her. She had no idea what it meant. After 5 minutes of back and forth I suggested she call a friend to ask.
She put me on with the friend and in summary the friend said that it means the same things that it means when a western woman talks about a man being there for her. (I first heard this phrase with my girlfriend my first year at the university and had no earthly idea what it meant then either.) It seemed to pretty much be an emotional thing. In the 2 minutes that I let her ramble on before I gave the phone back to my girlfriend she said absolutely nothing about money, gifts, or other material things.
Now to go to the Philippines thread and ask. When I picked up a chick at the disco in Angeles last month her friend said, "Take care of my friend okay?" I undoubtedly took that to mean give her money seeing that I was in a hooker pick-up spot. But maybe I was wrong!
Does anyone know of a German-Style PartyTreff or orgy style sex club in BKK or Thailand? I am sure some of you have traveled through Frankfurt and experienced the FKK or Partytreff. I am hoping to find something close to that in Thailand or nearby countries. If anybody has information please share.
Thanks,
MHF
[QUOTE=Syzygies;1840892]Having a GF is not value for money on a per fuck basis, I have found.[/QUOTE]I have found this to be true the very hard way. So if someone is contemplating more than just pussy fun, you should read and re-read that often because it is the truth.
No matter how expensive a P4 P girl is, she is cheaper than the same girl as a GF, of even a bit lower beauty GF.
Not only do they take the money, they also take your time (which is worth more than money) and get your emotions messed up sometimes which also makes you less productive (less money!) than you could be.
Some P4 P girls give better GFE than real girlfriends (especially after the "honeymoon" period ends), and you can change to a new one any time with no drama.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;1841030]Okay. I finally broke down and asked my girlfriend (that I have never given 1 baht to in the 8 months that I have known her and who is a cashier in a Walking Street gogo bar) what does it mean when a Thai woman tells a man to take care of her. She had no idea what it meant. After 5 minutes of back and forth I suggested she call a friend to ask.
She put me on with the friend and in summary the friend said that it means the same things that it means when a western woman talks about a man being there for her. (I first heard this phrase with my girlfriend my first year at the university and had no earthly idea what it meant then either.) It seemed to pretty much be an emotional thing. In the 2 minutes that I let her ramble on before I gave the phone back to my girlfriend she said absolutely nothing about money, gifts, or other material things[/QUOTE]You have received the female perspective. Where she is thinking of a committment, not just a one off thing. She doesn't want to admit that could mean money. However the girl in question is not rich. Sooner or later she will need your financial support on some way as well. All Thai girls do. Its then just a question of degree.
Only the guys here are admitting indirectly it means.
Money. If you meet a girl well paid that costs you less than P4 P, you are doing quite well.
Anyway at least it seems to be well agreed that she does not mean come over and fuck her brains out. Does not mean that sex is not possible. However cross that bridge when the time comes.
I had an ex GF who was a chef. She did not earn that much so I took all the bills and rent etc. I could have lived far cheaper alone and the relationship was not a sexual success. Was more like living with a very close sister. Definitely cost me significant money. She is still like a sister to this day although has become harder to put up with for great amounts of time. She relies on me for help still, not financial but using my time. She has a lot of money now as not have to spend that much in the years she lived with me. No bad habits. LOL except for nagging of course and wanting to tell me a lot of repetitious boring shit about her problems. I have to be there for her even if not physically in the same country. LOL I have to look after her somewhat. She will call me any time she has a problem.
[QUOTE=MrHappyFeet;1841098]Does anyone know of a German-Style PartyTreff or orgy style sex club in BKK or Thailand? I am sure some of you have traveled through Frankfurt and experienced the FKK or Partytreff. I am hoping to find something close to that in Thailand or nearby countries. If anybody has information please share.
Thanks,
MHF[/QUOTE]If by "German-Style PartyTreff or orgy style sex club" you mean a club that charges you a fixed amount and then you can have sex with as many of the ladies present as you want (or rather can), sometimes even "in the open" with many participants at the same time, then I think you are looking in the wrong country.
Contrary to what many think, Thai are quite conservative in sexual matters. "Orgies" are not something that fits well with the average Thai.
I remember a story of some European swinger couples who organised on a semi-regular basis swinger-parties in Bangkok (or was it Pattaya? After a few parties the Police raided their place and send them all back home to Europe. It wasn't entirely clear on what basis such parties are forbidden as there was no prostitution involved. Probably something as vague of "open debauchery" or "public nuisance", although the parties happened in their apartment.
[QUOTE=Sympalogy;1841105]I have found this to be true the very hard way. [/QUOTE]As did I. WTF was I thinking!
[QUOTE=MrHappyFeet;1841098]Does anyone know of a German-Style PartyTreff or orgy style sex club in BKK or Thailand? I am sure some of you have traveled through Frankfurt and experienced the FKK or Partytreff. I am hoping to find something close to that in Thailand or nearby countries. If anybody has information please share.
Thanks,
MHF[/QUOTE]Your request is a bit too solution oriented. You should try to specify what things would be exciting and we could comment on how something like that could be arranged.
I have taken as many as 3 girls at a time to my hotel room, and we had a mini orgy. I did not need any other guys but you could have a buddy or two join in if desired. Anything is possible for a price, if the girls understand what they are agreeing to and the price. I recommend selecting girls quite used to performing sex with other persons present. Otherwise girls can be too shy. I used to use girls who do lesbian show at Suzi Wong, and my "orgies" were satisfactory for me. admiral premier was my favourite hotel where they did not blink when took 3 girls to my room, however I was a regular customer at the time. Could have a shortage of towels, so call to reception to ask for additional towels.
Getting this as cheap as Party Treff is quite doubtful, however 3 girls for 2 hours would not break the bank. 6000 Baht could well be possible, given that girls are sharing the work load. If extra guys, the price might go up. 2 hours or all night will be the best deals from a value for money basis.
As for FKK similarity, there are bars where many of the girls are dancing completely nude on a raised stage with good lighting, so you can see their bodies fully and clearly. Some of the girls wander around the bar completely nude. I like this. It's the nearest thing to FKK, perhaps better, as can have girls sit with you for a period to check out the chemistry, merely buying them a drink or two, till you are sure you want to fuck them. It is going to cost you 100 Euros to take a girl away for short time sex, including drinks and barfine, however you can get more than an hour with them, perhaps two hours sometimes. There is no guarantee about the girl's service. She might not know how to do a good BJ. It's a roll of the dice.
Crazy House has best looking girls for me, where Suzi Wong girls on average perform better and are less dick scared (many are young mothers). I had very few really crap girls at Suzi Wong. At CH, it was more like 50/50 so I tend to repeat good girls a lot, to improve my success rate.