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[QUOTE=Deadpool92;2627858]Hey everyone,
I came across this forum today and I'm not a regular monger or anything. I wanted some of your thoughts on a recent experience I had.
[/QUOTE]As they say, crying baby gets the milk. If you want extras, ask them. I recall at least 10-15 instances where I was told it was not there. There is no harm in asking. As long as the spa has a male to female therapist, chances are it is available. If the answer is NO, just let it go.
Frankly, every time we go to a new spa it is like a first time only since you don't know much about it. In summary, these are what you should be ready for.
1. Go to the receptionist, tell her you are looking for a massage. Give some story of driving too long or something bothering your back, etc. English work fine in most places.
2. Pick Swedish massage from the menu. My default choice since it is lighter than deeo tissue massage.
3. Pay for it.
4. Usually you do not get to see the therapists. Tell the receptionist you want someone young. Older ones tend to give a hard massage, or some story like that. Or if you are picking someone based on reviews / FR here, ask for that therapist. You can also call them and book in advance for that therapist if she is a popular one and not available on walkins. Given your insecurities, it might be better to do the booking on phone and just show up and pay there. Less talk.
5. She will lead you to the room, ask to change to dispo and wait.
6. The therapist will come, start with back / legs massage.
7. Make small talk with her, praise her massage skills, soft hands, looks, etc. Ask about her. Where she is from, how long in the city / that spa.
8. If it is one of the spas mentioned here in forum that you know has extras, that question is usually popped when you turn around. Ask her what other services are available.
9. negotiate the prices, pay her (usually they ask for money first). If doing FS, make sure you are carrying a couple of condms.
10. Have fun.
Obviously it is easier to get info about spas and therapists with subscription here. When you can DM others. See post #50563 in Mumbai forum for detailed steps on how to get subscription.
To start with you can go to one of the spas you can decode from the FRs and be assured of a smoother experience.
[QUOTE=HisleRim1;2627713]I'm an absolute noob at this. I'm a 23 year old baby-faced virgin who looks 17 and have blew every chance I got with a girl due to my stupid insecurities regarding sex. I have therefore decided to bring an end to this and decided to meet a WG to find out what the big deal is. After researching deep into this field and surveying this forum it seems that everyone's advice for a beginner is to not meet a WG and instead go to a spa. Now being an extremely introverted, shy, scrawny young man, I am not at all comfortable going to a spa and meeting a girl. I have never been to a spa before in my life and I literally don't know what I would do. I'm not a native and the only language I know is English. What should I say at the counter? Do all the therapists line up in front of you and you get to chose who you want? What exactly should I tell the therapist in order for a FS? Do I literally ask the girl if she provides "extras" ? And I have tons more of questions LOL. I'm sorry if this is not the right place to ask but I would be eternally grateful if any seniors here could help guide this poor soul into the wonderful world of mongering.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Deadpool92;2627858]Hey everyone,
I came across this forum today and I'm not a regular monger or anything. I wanted some of your thoughts on a recent experience I had.
I've been put up in a hotel for few days in the outer ring road and there happens to be a spa in it which has great ambience and very well maintained but for some reason its always empty without customers.
So, yesterday after my gym workout I went to explore this spa and was greeted by a great looking North east lady who looked professional and also spoke a very good English. She quickly ran me through the menu and I decided to have my first ever Massage and paid 1.2 k at the counter.
To my surprise, This receptionist was also my masseuse and she led me to a big room with a massage table in it and told me to change to a disposable undies. While she went out to get the oil and other things I quickly changed and slept on the table with my face down. After a while she came in and started with the massage and Oh boy! This lady has a magical hands. This is probably the best thing I've ever spent money on. Although this is my first ever massage, I could tell she was really good at it. Her hands combined with the warm oil and the ambience was so relaxing..[/QUOTE]After that buck naked butt massage, there's a high change that she provides extras.
Even if she doesn't, she'll politely decline without embarrassing you. Therapists in all spas are used to being asked for extras during the session.
Stay safe and don't overpay!
Hello,
Newbie here and needed guidance. I can't find reviews on Spa's, Therapists in Sadash areas. Please seniors and already visited persons- advise on this.
Interested in basic HJ and B2B. Seeing from the previous posts, Thai Therapists give the best B2B, so looking for Thai's.
Thanks.
[QUOTE=MickeyDuck1208;2628122]Frankly, every time we go to a new spa it is like a first time only since you don't know much about it. In summary, these are what you should be ready for.
1. Go to the receptionist, tell her you are looking for a massage. Give some story of driving too long or something bothering your back, etc. English work fine in most places.
2. Pick Swedish massage from the menu. My default choice since it is lighter than deeo tissue massage.
3. Pay for it.
4. Usually you do not get to see the therapists. Tell the receptionist you want someone young. Older ones tend to give a hard massage, or some story like that. Or if you are picking someone based on reviews / FR here, ask for that therapist. You can also call them and book in advance for that therapist if she is a popular one and not available on walkins. Given your insecurities, it might be better to do the booking on phone and just show up and pay there. Less talk..[/QUOTE]Thank you MickeyDuck for taking out the time to explain it so nicely. I will gather all the courage I can and go for it. I hope to post an FR very soon. Cheers!
Seniors are pro in this field to advise since experience and money only matters here.
90% of mongers here faced same scenario when they enders this secret life. So don't think too much just start the process slowly and definitely lots of hit and miss. Just feel relaxed and don't show up you are new to spa then most spa girls take advantage. Especially current scene of spa very pathetic and very few good FRs on ground.
Most of the therapist won't do extra when you visit first time. Or just they give HJ. If you feel good just repeat the therapist and you can expect some action.
Therapist also humans and have emotions so treat them as good then you get what you expect. If they arrogant just leave the place calm. Just think you lost some money that day.
Read the FRs and visit the when you newbie. Don't fall the prey for malicious ads. No spa will advertise with showing hinky Pinky women's photo. If it is that is absolutely scam. Don't ever try that.
Do the transaction in cash. Don't give phone number. Don't give personal information. Don't use true name. Don't reveal social accounts.
Always keep helmet for your brother. LOL.
Way back 2014 15 multiple visits to spa no hit because shy to ask. LOL. One fine day just gathered courage just causal talk with a Thai ended up meeting outside. Since that spa not have extra option. Still that blossom spa in raja ji. After that countless encounter met pro, arrogant, story tellers, honey traps. Skimmers.
So always bit see a review before enter a spa. It can save your hard earned money.
Finally keep your horse in your control. Otherwise he make uncountable damage especially when you new to mongering.
Relax.
[QUOTE=HisleRim1;2627713]I'm an absolute noob at this. I'm a 23 year old baby-faced virgin who looks 17 and have blew every chance I got with a girl due to my stupid insecurities regarding sex. I have therefore decided to bring an end to this and decided to meet a WG to find out what the big deal is. After researching deep into this field and surveying this forum it seems that everyone's advice for a beginner is to not meet a WG and instead go to a spa. Now being an extremely introverted, shy, scrawny young man, I am not at all comfortable going to a spa and meeting a girl. I have never been to a spa before in my life and I literally don't know what I would do. I'm not a native and the only language I know is English. What should I say at the counter? Do all the therapists line up in front of you and you get to chose who you want? What exactly should I tell the therapist in order for a FS? Do I literally ask the girl if she provides "extras" ? And I have tons more of questions LOL. I'm sorry if this is not the right place to ask but I would be eternally grateful if any seniors here could help guide this poor soul into the wonderful world of mongering.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=HisleRim1;2627713]I'm an absolute noob at this. I'm a 23 year old baby-faced virgin who looks 17 and have blew every chance I got with a girl due to my stupid insecurities regarding sex. I have therefore decided to bring an end to this and decided to meet a WG to find out what the big deal is. After researching deep into this field and surveying this forum it seems that everyone's advice for a beginner is to not meet a WG and instead go to a spa. Now being an extremely introverted, shy, scrawny young man, I am not at all comfortable going to a spa and meeting a girl. I have never been to a spa before in my life and I literally don't know what I would do. I'm not a native and the only language I know is English. What should I say at the counter? Do all the therapists line up in front of you and you get to chose who you want? What exactly should I tell the therapist in order for a FS? Do I literally ask the girl if she provides "extras" ? And I have tons more of questions LOL. I'm sorry if this is not the right place to ask but I would be eternally grateful if any seniors here could help guide this poor soul into the wonderful world of mongering.[/QUOTE]Dude start with the massage parlour, then upgrade to massage republic.
[QUOTE=MyPrivateLife;2627921]Hi bro,
Would like to know first hand review of Ayesha from Cali spa and extras she charge, is she clean for FS and cooperative and how about figure and assets.[/QUOTE]Do they still ask for ID for the home service?
Are the NE girls from Ejipurra gone? Came to Bangalore after a long time, all NE contacts that I had have disappeared. Does anyone have their new numbers or are they gone for good?
[QUOTE=Deadpool92;2627858]Hey everyone,
I came across this forum today and I'm not a regular monger or anything. I wanted some of your thoughts on a recent experience I had.
I've been put up in a hotel for few days in the outer ring road and there happens to be a spa in it which has great ambience and very well maintained but for some reason its always empty without customers.
So, yesterday after my gym workout I went to explore this spa and was greeted by a great looking North east lady who looked professional and also spoke a very good English. She quickly ran me through the menu and I decided to have my first ever Massage and paid 1.2 k at the counter.
To my surprise, This receptionist was also my masseuse and she led me to a big room with a massage table in it and told me to change to a disposable undies. While she went out to get the oil and other things I quickly changed and slept on the table with my face down. After a while she came in and started with the massage and Oh boy! This lady has a magical hands. This is probably the best thing I've ever spent money on. Although this is my first ever massage, I could tell she was really good at it. Her hands combined with the warm oil and the ambience was so relaxing.
Everything was going smooth and I was enjoying the massage having a good conversation with her until she asked me if she can pull down my undies a little bit to which I said okay and she pulled it down all the was to my thighs leaving my Butt completely exposed. This left me a little embarrassed since it had been a while since I had shaved my butt hair. And she started massaging my butt crack all the way to my balls. I was in kind of a shock for a while, since this is my first massage I din know if it was normal or if she is invading too much? Anyways I just kept quite and let her do what she wanted to do. She then massaged there for like 5 minutes and it felt good anyways.
After the back massage she told me to turn around and Holy shit! This was even more embarrassing since I had a huge boner by then. Any ways after a brief 20 = 30 minutes of front massage she said the massage was done and gave me slippers to go shower and made water for me. In the end before leaving I tried to tip her to which she totally denied.
I'm really confused by this. That butt massage, was that normal or was that a hint? If not, why didn't she accept tips? Was she waiting for me to ask her for extras?
I have another session with her tomorrow. So what do you guys think? Should I ask for extras? There is still this part of me which says she's a professional masseuse and I don't want to be rude to her by asking for extras. Any thoughts or suggestions will be highly appreciated. Is there a way you guys hint for extras?
Thanks.[/QUOTE]My suggestion is that you ask her to repeat the bum massage and also tell her that it feels very good. She may herself volunteer more. If she doesn't, you can always ask her upfront. In case she says no, don't push too hard.
Do share your experience and details about the place / therapist as well.
[QUOTE=RastorToto1;2628176]Are the NE girls from Ejipurra gone? Came to Bangalore after a long time, all NE contacts that I had have disappeared. Does anyone have their new numbers or are they gone for good?[/QUOTE]They are still there, but those dens are very unsafe due to various reasons. Better to stay away.
Which spa is this?
[QUOTE=Deadpool92;2627858]Hey everyone,
I came across this forum today and I'm not a regular monger or anything. I wanted some of your thoughts on a recent experience I had.
I've been put up in a hotel for few days in the outer ring road and there happens to be a spa in it which has great ambience and very well maintained but for some reason its always empty without customers.
So, yesterday after my gym workout I went to explore this spa and was greeted by a great looking North east lady who looked professional and also spoke a very good English. She quickly ran me through the menu and I decided to have my first ever Massage and paid 1.2 k at the counter.
To my surprise, This receptionist was also my masseuse and she led me to a big room with a massage table in it and told me to change to a disposable undies. While she went out to get the oil and other things I quickly changed and slept on the table with my face down. After a while she came in and started with the massage and Oh boy! This lady has a magical hands. This is probably the best thing I've ever spent money on. Although this is my first ever massage, I could tell she was really good at it. Her hands combined with the warm oil and the ambience was so relaxing..[/QUOTE]
Hey, how much should pay / negotiate with Afros from MR.
Start at 2 K per shot. I think they might not agree below 3 K from what I have seen.
[QUOTE=NaveenNexon;2628230]Hey, how much should pay / negotiate with Afros from MR.[/QUOTE]
Was running errands near "the one that rises from the ashes" mall & saw spa just across from road. Had no time to partake but Johnny still likes to go quench curiosity. It's on 2nd floor of a commercial bldg. Good ambience as I entered. Very average looking but highly enthusiastic receptionist greeted me. "Sir great day for massage". She openly brought up happy ending & B2B I guess my eyes reveal the mongered in me LOL. Quoted 5 K for B2B, happy ending. 3 K for happy ending. I was a bit taken aback by how forward she was with this all info with a smile. Short, darkish complexion & smallish boobs receptionist. I asked which girls were avail. She said NI & SI. I said I wanted the NI but want to see her first (which I knew wouldn't work, but I tried my luck). Didn't have time to massage anyway and wanted to see how desperate the spa lady would get. I balked at the rates and started walking away. She said if I didn't like the girl (Prayer in Hindi) she would switch in 10 min. I stuck my ground on seeing before committing. As I left she came down to 2.5 k HE. Weird that counter includes extras. Walked out. Hope this helps anyone trying to price things out in spa scene.
P.S.: I think 1.5 K counter + 1 K tip is kinda standard for HJ. But this area near the mall seemed pricey.
Enjoy fingering & mongering.