Bangkok Massage Parlors - Except TULIP and ANNIES!

[QUOTE=Syzygies; 1469070]This is where I don't quite agree.

I am moving more and more towards getting new girls, but I don't see any reason to blow them off, if they are still brilliant. The top 5 to 10% are worth hanging on to. What makes a new girl better? The continual urge to find a better girl will start being unsuccessful more often than not.

I know there is male instinct to impregnate everything that moves but I think I got past that somewhat.[/QUOTE]In what way are we in disagreement? In my previous post I wrote: [I]"For sex partners I like variety. A few f*cks with one girl and I'm ready to move on to then next. If she was very good, after a break it's nice to hook up again, but after awhile I tend to get bored with the same girl."[/I]

You like to find new girls. I like variety. I think we are saying the same thing. You like to hang on to the best ones. After a break, I like to return to the very good ones. Sounds about the same to me.

I think you do make two very good points I did not touch on in my post. The first is the frustration that follows continually trying to find a better girl. That is a dangerous trap to fall into. I'm no longer trying to find a better girl. A few years after my divorce I learned that as I moved from my ex to the first girl friend, to the second girlfriend, etc. I was just trading one set of good and bad qualities for a different set of good and bad qualities, and I was never satisfied, Then I had an epiphany. I realized the problem was me. I simply was not happy in a long term relationship. Next I discovered I really enjoyed my own company: the freedom to do more or less as I pleased, not feeling burdened by the demands of a relationship. This freedom did mean I had to continually look for women to temporarily satisfy my sexual needs, but I discovered this was easier (and cheaper) as an unencumbered single man.

As I age I am starting to notice a change in me. Now that I'm in my 60's sex is like a long drink of cool, crisp water when I'm thirsty rather than a desperate gasp for air when I'm out of breath, which is the second point I really liked in your post. As we grow older and our testosterone levels diminish and we are less driven by our biological imperative to procreate.

Syzygies, as always, I enjoy your posts.

[QUOTE=Syzygies;1469070]This is where I don't quite agree. I must be a weird one. I still enjoy fucking a Soapy girl I first did maybe 8 to 10 years ago. There is one girl in home country I still do occasionally after maybe 20 years. I am moving more and more towards getting new girls, but I don't see any reason to blow them off, if they are still brilliant. The top 5 to 10% are worth hanging on to. What makes a new girl better? The continual urge to find a better girl will start being unsuccessful more often than not. I know there is male instinct to impregnate everything that moves but I think I got past that somewhat.[/QUOTE]Syzygies, I guess the continuous urge is to find a "different" girl rather than a "better" girl. I cannot say if this applies to the male as a species. I only know what drives my urge and since it matches so closely with Paul's, I guess this is what drives his as well. I have often found myself wondering why, after thoroughly enjoying a session with a bargirl or a massage girl, and rating her as one among my finest experiences, I don't feel the urge to return to her too many times. Maybe some would view this as typical of a conquistador, but I would explain it as typical of an explorer rather. Having tasted an exciting little food you move on in search of more variety. As Paul put it, I might come back for another lick or munch, then another, but not too many times. For me it would be foolish to let one exciting sexual session descend into the monotony of routine. Hell, we already have our marriages to achieve that same result!

Any one could advice me a heavy squirting girl in a massage shop? I would love to discover this pleasure.

Thanks for help.

The expected payment levels for services is really:

500 baht for a HJ.

1000 baht for a BJ.

1500 baht for Full Service.

If you go to Snow White / Tulip / Cherry the 1500b level is expected, and most punters just go for that. As you are going to the room tell the girl you want a "special massage" so she knows you are not some lost newbie, and take it from there.

SunLover

[QUOTE=Paul Kausch; 1469023]Thanks.

My take is that society messes with our biological imperative. Our life's mission is to impregnate as many women as possible. Or at least go through the motions. I few f*cks should be sufficient to accomplish that; if not, she's not fertile so it doesn't matter. Regardless it's time to move on, find another f*ck and get her pregnant. In contrast, the woman wants to ensure she and her child's survival so she tries to keep us around for food and protection. Society advances; children need a father and role model; families are formed; fidelity is a virtue; sex, love and responsibilities get all mixed up; life gets complicated.

Guess I've learned to enjoy thinking and behaving like a primitive, uncivilized man. Ha ha![/QUOTE]That's why chimps have such big balls, need lots of sperm to impregnate all those red assed females.

Slim

[QUOTE=Paul Kausch;1467744]How true. In the long run hookers are cheaper f*cks, but only a fool expects to find love with a hooker. It may happen. You may win the lottery. More likely you'll get struck by lightening. Love is so illusive. If you are lucky enough to find it and keep it, it is priceless.[/QUOTE]Love is so hard to find because it's not some object lying around somewhere on the street. Love is good feelings within a relationship, and a relationship is something you build, create, and maintain rather than find.

Expecting to find love is like expecting to find shelter somewhere in the jungle. Sure, you might find something that's better than nothing. But it can never be as good as something you deliberately build, create, and maintain.

Some recent studies have found that both men and women get a surge of the Oxytocin hormone and Dopamine in their body during sex and physical affection. Which affect people's brains and makes them bond emotionally with each other. But orgasm brings down the levels of these neurochemicals and stops their effects.

Which means that having lengthy massage sessions and sex that doesn't lead to orgasm for a long time is liable to make you fall in love with the lady and her with you. Orgasm brings down these neurochemicals and stops the bonding process. But if the lady rejuvinates you with her mouth and hands and gets you to ride her for your second orgasm, then this causes another surge of the neurochemicals and the bonding process restarts.

Basically, prolonged sex and affection that doesn't lead to loss of sexual desire is what leads to emotional bonding, also known as love. But to make this love mutual and not just one-sided, you need to please the lady as much as she pleases you. Because her surge of neurochemicals and the bonding they cause also depends on her getting prolonged physical affection and sex from you. If the sex is one-sided, and she is doing most of the pleasing, without getting much pleasure herself, then this bonding is liable to be one-sided, with only you developing feelings for her but not the other way around.

I think it's possible for a guy to go after a massage lady he really likes and keep massaging her pussy and body without bringing her to orgasm too much for a long time every time. And if he does this regularly, more or less every day, then she is bound to develop some feelings for him and be willing to go with him for a permanent relationship, if that's what he wants. Of course, to maintain her feelings for him, he would need to keep giving her those lengthy pussy and body massage sessions every night, when she goes to bed with him. The trick is to delay the lady's orgasm, while keeping it very pleasant for her, because this is what leads to the prolonged surge of the bonding hormones in her body and keeps up her feelings for you.

[QUOTE=Paul Kausch; 1469084]You like to find new girls. I like variety. I think we are saying the same thing. You like to hang on to the best ones. After a break, I like to return to the very good ones. Sounds about the same to me.[/QUOTE]Well I am not feeling the need for a break in a real hurry. Yes some variety, but am keen to see the very most exiting ones again as soon as possible. If your break merely means alternating between best girls, then okay

[QUOTE=Syzygies;1469316]Well I am not feeling the need for a break in a real hurry. Yes some variety, but am keen to see the very most exiting ones again as soon as possible. If your break merely means alternating between best girls, then okay[/QUOTE]Yeah, that's basically what I meant. On a mongering trip I might try to hook up with a favorite or two from the last time I passed through; I might see a couple of new ladies a couple of times each; and I might see a couple of ladies who I am not motivated to have repeat engagements. For me the perfect mix is a few favorites whom I see regularly and a few new ladies. Over time I may lose contact with a regular and one of the new acquaintance may become a regular. I think this is pretty typical for many of us. I do get bored having sex with only one woman month after month; and I've grown into like my freedom so much that I'm lousy in a long term relationship.

[QUOTE=Paul Kausch;1469339]Yeah, that's basically what I meant. On a mongering trip I might try to hook up with a favorite or two from the last time I passed through; I might see a couple of new ladies a couple of times each; and I might see a couple of ladies who I am not motivated to have repeat engagements. For me the perfect mix is a few favorites whom I see regularly and a few new ladies. Over time I may lose contact with a regular and one of the new acquaintance may become a regular. I think this is pretty typical for many of us. I do get bored having sex with only one woman month after month; and I've grown into like my freedom so much that I'm lousy in a long term relationship.[/QUOTE]Of Bangkok, and Thailand in general for the visitor is the opportunity for a change. Unless I mis-read punters on here most have a punting life back home with their ownlocals (I certainly have the sort of description given above wrt to Thailand).

The fun of Bangkok and elsewhere is MPS where there is no wsws during a massage. FS is pretty well guaranteed in most MPs (and also in my favourite hairdressers off Skvt). Sex at Gullivers, the Beer Garden is a dead cert unlike my local pub and bar (and most nightclubs).

Thus I use the opportunity in Bangkok for change, for raunchy sex equally with slow GFE sex an, in a month I get a lot of variety. And bluntly, the next year I start over again.

[QUOTE=Scorchin; 1469343]Of Bangkok, and Thailand in general for the visitor is the opportunity for a change. Unless I mis-read punters on here most have a punting life back home with their ownlocals (I certainly have the sort of description given above wrt to Thailand).[/QUOTE]Not all. I have given up sex in my home country except for occasional with one girl when her BF is away. The value for money is too poor for hookers. Fortunately I am not there for long. Many of us have our main woman in Thailand and therefore playup time is limited.

Sent you Pm. Did you get it.

[QUOTE=Scorchin; 1469343]. FS is pretty well guaranteed in most MPs (and also in my favourite [red][b]hairdressers off Skvt[/b][/red]). Sex at Gullivers, the Beer Garden is a dead cert unlike my local pub and bar (and most nightclubs).[/QUOTE]Interesting discussion!

After missing my yearly mongering trip to SEA this year, I can't wait to go again in January.

I am a great fan of Tulip, Mango and Snow White and will add Cherry to that list.

Also I like to trawl semi-legit MPs for prospects, which, although low yield, has turned up some rare gems.

Also, and that is the immediate reason for this post, I want to try some barber shops.

The only one I know, where FS is available from some of the ladies, is Friends Massage & Barber on Suk Soi 19, but there must be others.

Can you guys please share some barber shops where FS is available, be it on the "special" menu?

Thanks.

DS

Last 2 weeks roundup.

2 more new girls after Jenny. One named Game and the other's name I forgot. Game has a good set of tits, for tit lovers. The other girl tall and slim, not my type but I guess a lot of people dig for it.

Snowwhite 2 girls both did fantastic, Benz and Janny. Benz is quite a looker and what a dedicated service provider, due to her edging, I did 3 times in 1. 5 hours which has been sort of a record for me. Janny not a looker, but oozes sex and very playful.

Hi,

Just wondering with your knowledge if you know of any sauna clubs in BKK and if so, do thay do the FS etc?

Best Regards,

BigCharles22

[QUOTE=AssLover945; 1470986]Last 2 weeks roundup.

2 more new girls after Jenny. One named Game and the other's name I forgot. Game has a good set of tits, for tit lovers. The other girl tall and slim, not my type but I guess a lot of people dig for it.

Snowwhite 2 girls both did fantastic, Benz and Janny. Benz is quite a looker and what a dedicated service provider, due to her edging, I did 3 times in 1. 5 hours which has been sort of a record for me. Janny not a looker, but oozes sex and very playful.[/QUOTE]

Hi AssLover945,

Please advise the address for this Jenny if you would be kind enough to share the details as I will be in BKK early next month.

Regards,

Bigcharles22

[QUOTE=AssLover945; 1456092]After work was just loitering around in Suk area, when my foot became loose and headed into soi 24/1, passed by the shops with girls frantically calling in for business. Since I was not horny and I didn't find any of them convincing enough (or rathjer my little one didn't.) , until I reached the end of the soi, and where I was about to exit when the owner of cherry massage near the end of the soi, spotted me and asked me to join for a mug of beer right at the door where she was having her somtam dinner, having seen me come in many times, we have become acquaintances. As I sat down for beer with her and 2 other girls, apple and SU, We absolutely did not discuss sex, but being right in the honey pot, I could not escape notice Apple's popping boobs which were inviting and she was naughty naughty to start caressing my little one right there under the table. Su too was looking ravishing and was giving me the eye.

Not before long a guy came and all 3 ladies went inside, he seems to have chosen Apple and the other 2 girls continued their dinner. After 2 cans of chilled Chang, the owner asked if I wanted to see the new girls, and even before my nodding yes, she shouted out calling someone, while they were coming out, I told her I was tired out and wanted to rest and go back, to which she assured me that there was no pressure to take any girl, she just wanted to show me her new girls...[/QUOTE]