Here is my logic for using Seeking. I must be crazy.
[QUOTE=Sangnyc21;2496526]You're looking for long term relationships on seeking which is a site for sugar daddies?
And you don't pay nothing but expenses?? You don't think they're in it for the long run for strictly financial purposes??
I can relate to what you're saying and while your chances are better in Bogot of finding this. It's still rare.
ALL girls are on seeking for financial purposes. Whether it be a hooker or wanting to date a rich guy it's all about the $$. To think otherwise is extremely naive.[/QUOTE]This does not mean I won't also hang out in clubs, go to Santa Fe, Clock Tower, El Centro, strip clubs or look at the escort sites, FB. NADA! Women are a horrible addiction. Got to love them. It's not for everyone.
You will find it difficult to meet the type of girls who you can find on SA. Anywhere. A few are there for "mutual benefits" "no strings attached" and can be tempted for $100. Most want more (more than $$ a good time etc.) and it doesn't mean they feel they are "entitled" it means if YOU want to find one that you can only have sex with. You are wasting their time. (Yours also).
A Foreign Affair has organized tours, SOCIALS they say "With only 10 to 15 men on average, you will have more than a 7:1 ratio, and that is just the first night. Many of our clients will date two or three women a day and some will even date five a day. " It costs around $2,500 USD + .not including memberships and doesn't guarantee any phone numbers. Some of the women are models, a lot are real. Most are too old for me. The business model is for guys to find a wife. It works but it's expensive and very time consuming. It can also backfire. You might get laid (testing the merchandise). If there was a guarantee in life, LOL I would still be married to my model / x wife.
Another option for meeting beautiful young girls is going to the nightclubs and "gaming" them. The girls I would like are going to be surrounded by guys and difficult to talk to. (noise, friends, etc.) but it is possible, I have friends that travel the world teaching guys how to pick up these girls. They charge thousands. Also you will know nothing about the person till you "open" a conversation. It's mostly about getting laid often. The gaming world works but there are so many guys doing it, IMHO it will get old and backfire, making it more difficult.
SA in other countries is a lot different than Colombia, especially Bogota. Everywhere else it seems it's more about sugar daddy relationships, guys always paying (way too much) for limited relationships, "allowances" (stupid) & possibly sex. In Bogota (for example) , and other cities in Colombia girls are using SA for a lot more than just a SD. There are plenty of gold diggers but the ratio is still WAY in our favor. I have met professional ballet dancers, actresses, IG models, MILF's, students and lots of "normal" girls. There's a high percentage of girls you can learn about, meet and enjoy whatever relationship is mutual on there. Kind of a mix of a dating site and P4 P deal. Their's a high percentage of 8-10's who are real people and extremely difficult to meet elsewhere. For a high end GFE date or weekend getaway it's perfect. I'm still friends with the girls I met a year ago.
Actually I've found too many girls so it now becomes the challenge for me. Do I want more than sex? Do I want to start dating a 10 by asking her to fuck? Probably would backfire, maybe not. LOL Decisions that most guys will never face. What to do in Colombia? Do I have 5 / 10 rotating girlfriends / sex partners? Visit Colombia often? Sounds good but these girls are much smarter than the P4 P / street girls. Not easy getting them to be OK with that. So I'm grateful to be able to anonymously post here. I am grateful for the 10's I met on seeking during my last trip to Bogota. It's a lot of work, pipelining and maintaining conversations with some of the most beautiful women on the planet. But try doing that anywhere else. Who knows Elvis may have the best advice. Words of Love. "Take her somewhere she's never been before" and enjoy the FUCK out of it. LOL.
I have 2 weeks planed in Bogota, 1 in Medellin and probably will go to Barranquilla. Maybe a second trip soon. I'll probably date, fuck or reject 50+ 8's, 9's and 10's. Not counting any freelancers. Prepaid's, strippers etc. Nowhere else on the planet (well at this cost) is that possible. I must be crazy.
Going to Santa fe this week
I'm heading for the first time to santa fe this week as well. I have experiences mongering in south america but not in Bogota so this will be fun. Will do a write up of my experiences when I get back. For now I can say I will try and stay close to santa fe with the motels around. I took note of some of the ones mentioned here but do you guys recommend other cheap motels that one can stay nearby (I'm just mostly looking for a motel to crash because ill mostly be outside) . I'm from another city in south america so I think I can blend in pretty well. If anyone here is there for first time and doesn't speak spanish maybe we can meet up somewhere and help each other out, I can speak spanish naturally and don't mind helping others out in this place as well as have some company for when heading out at night.
For the person asking if ok to be out at night, I would say be careful and stay near lit / crowded areas and if you can go with someone. Or at least know where you're headed to because it tends to get sketchy at night at a neighborhood like this. I say that because I've been to other south american cities similar to this and there's always a few a**holes around looking for their next target but just try and blend in as much as possible and only carry enough cash to hold you down those few hours at night. I feel safe but that's because I look like I can be from there and if someone talks to me I can pass off as a local. Ill be getting there on Thursday and thanks for all the info you guys post on here it helps to know when navigating and blending in these places as much as possible.
