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I am a little different. I like to ask the awkward questions and get them to come clean. When they see that I can care less about an answer that may be less than desirable to some other guys, then they can be relaxed and realize they do not have to hide anything from me.
[QUOTE=Syzygies;2036161]Most of bargirl standard questions are not actually flattery. If she asks where you come from 2 or 3 times, you know she is not even listening to the answer. Just pretending to make conversation. I never hear "you handsome man" shit in the modern day except from perhaps old mamasans. Also hardly ever hear a girl say she particularly likes guys from my Country, not even in Thai language. It is not a subject that would occur to her if she was trying to think of some flattery. Just maybe there are a few girls that have had good experiences with guys from my country. If I ask a bargirl I have known a long time, which nationalities she likes, I actually expect an honest answer, in a fair proportion of cases. If I just met her, I would not be asking. Girls get used to the idea that I am a guy who doesn't need flattery. They are willing to fuck me and have fun with me. That is all that matters. If a girl started sucking up to me, I would soon tell her to stop that rubbish.
I think my key point is, if you think the girl will need to make up a bullshit answer to a question, then the question should not be asked. You make small talk, where you think the girl will probably give an honest answer in a large percentage of cases, otherwise it's pointless, unless you already know the answer and want to test her honestly, like do you have silicones?, when she obviously has them, or does she have a nose job.[/QUOTE]As I recall, the subject of which country's customers / men a bargirl prefers comes up rather naturally when she asks, "Where you from?", you say "California, USA" and her reaction is suddenly very positive like she loves guys from California, USA or whatever. LOL. Then the mostly jokey small talk can easily move into something like, "Oh? You like customers from USA?" and then some other girl sitting there pipes in with another country she likes the men from and on it goes. It isn't as though asking which country's customers / men a bargirl likes the most is high or even normal on my list of interview questions. LOL.
I would think the line of questioning that virtually begs a bargirl to bullshit you is when the topic moves into things like, "Do you ever get ripped off by customers?" or "What kind of behavior in a customer really annoys you?" Imo, this would likely invite tall tales filled with self-serving, even Face-saving nonsense designed to encourage any customer willing to listen to give her more money while being a good boy and not asking her to do very much to earn it.
[QUOTE=EihTooms;2036338]As I recall, the subject of which country's customers / men a bargirl prefers comes up rather naturally when she asks, "Where you from?", you say "California, USA" and her reaction is suddenly very positive like she loves guys from California, USA or whatever.LOL.[/QUOTE]The matter of the fact is that a good 50% doesn't have a clue where California is.
[QUOTE=BionicMan;2036388]The matter of the fact is that a good 50% doesn't have a clue where California is.[/QUOTE]Reminds me of a legit foot massage I was getting in Bangkok. The lady asked me where I was from:
"New York". [I]No recognition[/I].
"America". [I]No recognition[/I].
"USA". [I]No recognition[/I].
I pointed to the USA on the map on the wall next to me. [I]No recognition[/I].
She was wearing a Mickey Mouse t-shirt, so I said:
"You wear a Mickey Mouse t-shirt. Mickey Mouse from the USA ". [I]Shoulder shrug[/I].
SL.
Just curious if anyone else noticed that you cannot access Bangkok's Backpage escort section or any section for that matter. All links from a quick Google search go straight to the US version of the main page where you select the state you are interested in. I am currently in the states so maybe it is accessible in Thailand. Maybe not. The last time I could access was maybe 2 days ago. Not a deal-breaker but just curious what happened and where these ads will migrate to besides CL.
They do understand Disneyland but it would be one of the Disneyland's in Asia, not USA.
[QUOTE=BionicMan;2036388]The matter of the fact is that a good 50% doesn't have a clue where California is.[/QUOTE]Actually, that is why I say it that way. LOL. Just to see where they think California, USA is. Of course, I wouldn't have had a clue where Roi-Et was before I went there for a festival a month or two ago. And now that I have been there, I can easily forget about it.
[QUOTE=Sunlover2;2036425]Reminds me of a legit foot massage I was getting in Bangkok. The lady asked me where I was from:
"New York". [I]No recognition[/I].
"America". [I]No recognition[/I].
"USA". [I]No recognition[/I].
I pointed to the USA on the map on the wall next to me. [I]No recognition[/I].
She was wearing a Mickey Mouse t-shirt, so I said:
"You wear a Mickey Mouse t-shirt. Mickey Mouse from the USA ". [I]Shoulder shrug[/I].
SL.[/QUOTE]Mickey Mouse who?
[QUOTE=GreatScott;2036431]Just curious if anyone else noticed that you cannot access Bangkok's Backpage escort section or any section for that matter. All links from a quick Google search go straight to the US version of the main page where you select the state you are interested in. I am currently in the states so maybe it is accessible in Thailand. Maybe not. The last time I could access was maybe 2 days ago. Not a deal-breaker but just curious what happened and where these ads will migrate to besides CL.[/QUOTE]I can confirm that.
Same applies to singapore and hongkong backpages and probably others.
I tested it by using VPN servers located in the US and in other less restrictive countries.
No problem if the server is located in Canada or Europe.
[QUOTE=Sunlover2;2036425]. The lady asked me where I was from:
"New York". [I]No recognition[/I].
"America". [I]No recognition[/I].
"USA". [I]No recognition[/I].SL.[/QUOTE]Yes, but for how many farang is everything north of Bangkok not named Chang Mai known only as 'Isaan'.
[QUOTE=Sunlover2;2036425]Reminds me of a legit foot massage I was getting in Bangkok. The lady asked me where I was from:
"New York". [I]No recognition[/I].
"America". [I]No recognition[/I].
"USA". [I]No recognition[/I].
I pointed to the USA on the map on the wall next to me. [I]No recognition[/I].
She was wearing a Mickey Mouse t-shirt, so I said:
"You wear a Mickey Mouse t-shirt. Mickey Mouse from the USA ". [I]Shoulder shrug[/I].
SL.[/QUOTE]Quite shocking when people do not know that USA is the center of the world! I am from US was quite shocked traveling to Europe over 30 years on my first international trip and to learn that they did not know that the world revolved around USA. I was even more shocked to learn that it did not.
[QUOTE=Dg8787;2036707]Quite shocking when people do not know that USA is the center of the world! I am from US was quite shocked traveling to Europe over 30 years on my first international trip and to learn that they did not know that the world revolved around USA. I was even more shocked to learn that it did not.[/QUOTE]I was even more shocked when in 1973, in USA a kid asked whether we had TV in Europe.
[QUOTE=Dg8787;2036707]Quite shocking when people do not know that USA is the center of the world! I am from US was quite shocked traveling to Europe over 30 years on my first international trip and to learn that they did not know that the world revolved around USA. I was even more shocked to learn that it did not.[/QUOTE]I think you missed the point. More of an observation on the education system, and general lack of awareness of the world outside of the country.
SL.
He was being sarcastic.
[QUOTE=Sunlover2;2036766]I think you missed the point. More of an observation on the education system, and general lack of awareness of the world outside of the country.
SL.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Sunlover2;2036766]I think you missed the point. More of an observation on the education system, and general lack of awareness of the world outside of the country.
SL.[/QUOTE]I agree total lack of awareness outside of one's country. Most Americans can not find Peking, China on the map. Or even Formosa?