Barbados Prostitution Reform?
I was in Barbados recently and read a commentary in The Barbados Advocate from 11/23/08. It suggests that there is some push on the relatively new government to legalize prostitution. The article, however, says that prostitution itself is legal. "What is unlawful are the industry of prostitution-brothel keeping, living on the earnings of prostitution-and its public manifestations-soliciting, importuning in a public place. " Should be interesting to see how this plays out.
Thanks to dvldogg87 for his fine report. Based on this article, and his reported activities, one might conclude that all of it is perfectly legal. If the girls you meet at the clubs are not employed by the club, and you negotiate in private with the girl, and rent a room from the establishment, it seems to be within bounds.
Unfortunately, I was not able to monger on this last visit due to traveling companions. But I will be back to check things out next time, and I now have less anxiety thinking about it.
McBride's Report (Non-pro hunting)
Recently spent 2 nights in Barbados. I went there interested in the non-pro/semi-pro action, so can't report on the pro action. My pursuits, while not "successful", were educational and enjoyable, so here's the promised report.
My style got a bit cramped as I ran into an old colleague who wanted to hang out and was a bit akward to dump. Did manage to get out on my last night. Following the leading of others here (dvldogg87 & infinit), I headed to the Gap and found myself in McBride's after walking along the strip. On the way, I passed a few very attractive women dressed for action. They were hanging out a few doors down from McBride's (going east on the strip). I'd give them 6-8 on looks. From their look and dress, and the attention they gave as I passed and said HI, my guess is they were pros, but I did not stop to get the details.
On to McBride's. The place was packed on this Friday night. There was a DJ, and a live band that played a few sets. The drinks were affordable and the atmosphere very comfortable. I grabbed a drink and took a quick survey walk through the rooms and outdoor patios. Lots of locals, mostly quite good looking, and seemingly quite friendly. Lots of mixed groups of tourists as well, although not into peak season. Quickly, I realized my challenges: 1) too loud for the kind of conversation it would take to get very friendly, and 2) no wingman. It's hard to be subtle when trolling alone.
So, I reported to the dance floor (it's hard to keep me off the dance floor anyway), found a group of women hanging out and dancing, and settled in near to them to groove to the live band. Sure enough, by the 4th song, one of the girls moves over in front of me and starts to "wine" on me, rubbing here sexy behind on me to the beat of the music. One might think "Target Acquired..", but if you know Caribbean women this very common behavior when soca is playing. So, I reached around, rested my hand on the front of her hip (playing with the strap of her thong panties - to no objection), and we had a good wine. We joked around a bit, but the music was too loud to go far. And it was clear that she and her friends were just out to dance and have a good time, so I did not press the action.
Similar dealing with a few other ladies, but I ended up leaving (2:30 AM already?!?!) to check out a few other spots before heading back to the hotel. Jumbies was hopping as well, with a similar crowd, but at that hour I decided to call it a night as I had an early flight.
So, overall, McBride's was a fun atmosphere with great music - however a bit loud for the intense interpersonal negotiation needed for non-pro hunting. In retrospect, with a wingman or two, we might have engaged some of these groups of ladies with more even numbers, with serious potential for progress.
Well, while ultimately not successful, I hope this is useful to anyone up for the challenge of the non-pro hunt in the gap.
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Barbados: not a good mongering destination
I just got back from a week in Barbados, where I went feeling a need to unwind. It wasn't primarily a mongering trip, but I always look for opportunities to monger when I can. The consensus of previous posters on this thread seems to be that Barbados is not a good mongering spot. Well, they were right.
I decided to use Routard's excellent posts from May 2008 as a guide. Thank you, Routard. Since I was staying in Dover Beach, I decided to start with the Caramel Club, since it was only a few miles down the main road from where I was staying, and also because it appeared to have the best potential. Unfortunately, it has changed a lot--for the worse--since Routard posted. Before I went, I looked up their display ad in the Yellow Pages. They advertise "Brazilian, Colombian, Russian, and Caribbean" girls. Well, bullshit. There were three--three!--black Caribbean girls and four customers. Two of the three girls were 4s or 5s at the most. The third girl, if you look at her from the shouders up, would have rated a 9 or 10 in that she had a beautiful face. She also was on the plump side and had a huge ass, not in the positive sense, and was very tall, I would say over 6 feet. Overall, taking both face and body into consideration, I would rate her between 6 and 7.
I had already paid BBD20 (US$10) at the door for an entrance fee, so I decided to make the most of it, since I didn't feel like driving into Bridgetown at 11:00 PM and getting lost. I approached the girl and sat down and talked to her. Her name was Shelley, says she is 28 and from Jamaica. Not much of a personality nor much of a conversationalist. We discussed price and services. She would not agree to BBBJ, but agreed to DFK, DATY, CBJ, and CFS. She asked for BBD300 (US$150); I got her to come down to BBD200 (US$100), of which BBD50 (US$25) was for the room. I had to pay for the room before we went upstairs. We walked up a steep spiral staircase to get to the room, which was spartan and had a fan, no AC. The bed was two single beds shoved together to form a king size bed. She asked for the money upfront, saying it was house policy. It is my policy never to pay upfront when I take a girl home, but this was a brothel, so I felt I had no choice. I had already paid for the room, and there were two burly bouncers downstairs. She said we would have 40 minutes.
Suffice it to say that the service was lackluster and lackadaisical. She reneged on her promise of DFK, which pissed me off, but did allow titsucking, fingerfucking, and DATY. She gave a CBJ, not even trying to hide her boredom, and then when she thought I was hard enough, straddled me in CG. Even then I had to do all the work--which I don't really mind--since she just remained immobile while I pumped upward into her. By this time I just wanted to get it over with, so I thrust until I came. I did give her a little hell about reneging on her promise to DFK, not that it did any good, but it felt good to ventilate. After this experience, I decided not to do any more mongering in Barbados, figuring it would just be more of the same, and decided to devote the rest of the week just to enjoying the sun and the food and exploring the island.
I have come to the conclusion that I am going to swear off black Caribbean service providers, at least in English-speaking countries, because my experiences have been mostly negative. Let me be very clear about what I am talking about, so that I won't overgeneralize: black, English-speaking Caribbean girls, in my experience, make lousy sex providers. I have with been with four of them now, in four different Caribbean countries: Belize, Guyana, Bahamas, and Barbados. In Belize the experience was okay, but still mediocre. In the other three countries it was awful, and the problem was always the same: a lack of enthusiasm, a sense being projected that the girl is totally bored and eager to get this over with as soon as possible, while of course getting paid as much as she can get. What a contrast with Latin girls, who are nearly always enthusiastic and perform skilfully and with gusto. I would be curious to know if this is true of black girls in the French- and Dutch-speaking Caribbean countries, or is it just in the English-speaking countries. I guess I'll just have to visit those countries and find out. Meanwhile, my advice to my fellow mongers is, if you come to Barbados, bring your wife or girlfriend.
Lorenzo
I may be biased, but I totally dissagree
Hey,
I know the feeling and I understand Barbados is not like other Countries where the girls just jump out at ya
And you fending off as you pass thought he airport, but with the Barbados mongering scene. You have to search for the best spots
And sometimes if you make the right phone call. The spots come to you.
There are alot of 50$ street quickie girls but those would be much of the same as you have seen.
But let me tell you you got to go to Tripple X the club ont eh spring garden highway has had its ups and downs but the quality of girls is great I am talking black girls no white or south americans. Check it out that seemst o be the only swing place wiht fresh and will girls.
On the other scene for more private works, there is a little group called isalndgirls. Sometimes they don't answwer the phone and sometimes they don't have the girls you want (they provide mostly thick girls) but trust me, experinces with them ahve been woth the initial hassle, that is if you like the GFE, and talk about the enthusiasm.
But the true nature of the place is hooking up with a regular girl in a bar or on the beach or at a club
They all have a price, and the experince oft time is quite satisfying
Any way contact me si you wnat a hook up next time you in town
Terry
[QUOTE=Lorenzo]I just got back from a week in Barbados, where I went feeling a need to unwind. It wasn't primarily a mongering trip, but I always look for opportunities to monger when I can. The consensus of previous posters on this thread seems to be that Barbados is not a good mongering spot. Well, they were right.
I decided to use Routard's excellent posts from May 2008 as a guide. Thank you, Routard. Since I was staying in Dover Beach, I decided to start with the Caramel Club, since it was only a few miles down the main road from where I was staying, and also because it appeared to have the best potential. Unfortunately, it has changed a lot--for the worse--since Routard posted. Before I went, I looked up their display ad in the Yellow Pages. They advertise "Brazilian, Colombian, Russian, and Caribbean" girls. Well, bullshit. There were three--three!--black Caribbean girls and four customers. Two of the three girls were 4s or 5s at the most. The third girl, if you look at her from the shouders up, would have rated a 9 or 10 in that she had a beautiful face. She also was on the plump side and had a huge ass, not in the positive sense, and was very tall, I would say over 6 feet. Overall, taking both face and body into consideration, I would rate her between 6 and 7.
I had already paid BBD20 (US$10) at the door for an entrance fee, so I decided to make the most of it, since I didn't feel like driving into Bridgetown at 11:00 PM and getting lost. I approached the girl and sat down and talked to her. Her name was Shelley, says she is 28 and from Jamaica. Not much of a personality nor much of a conversationalist. We discussed price and services. She would not agree to BBBJ, but agreed to DFK, DATY, CBJ, and CFS. She asked for BBD300 (US$150); I got her to come down to BBD200 (US$100), of which BBD50 (US$25) was for the room. I had to pay for the room before we went upstairs. We walked up a steep spiral staircase to get to the room, which was spartan and had a fan, no AC. The bed was two single beds shoved together to form a king size bed. She asked for the money upfront, saying it was house policy. It is my policy never to pay upfront when I take a girl home, but this was a brothel, so I felt I had no choice. I had already paid for the room, and there were two burly bouncers downstairs. She said we would have 40 minutes.
Suffice it to say that the service was lackluster and lackadaisical. She reneged on her promise of DFK, which pissed me off, but did allow titsucking, fingerfucking, and DATY. She gave a CBJ, not even trying to hide her boredom, and then when she thought I was hard enough, straddled me in CG. Even then I had to do all the work--which I don't really mind--since she just remained immobile while I pumped upward into her. By this time I just wanted to get it over with, so I thrust until I came. I did give her a little hell about reneging on her promise to DFK, not that it did any good, but it felt good to ventilate. After this experience, I decided not to do any more mongering in Barbados, figuring it would just be more of the same, and decided to devote the rest of the week just to enjoying the sun and the food and exploring the island.
I have come to the conclusion that I am going to swear off black Caribbean service providers, at least in English-speaking countries, because my experiences have been mostly negative. Let me be very clear about what I am talking about, so that I won't overgeneralize: black, English-speaking Caribbean girls, in my experience, make lousy sex providers. I have with been with four of them now, in four different Caribbean countries: Belize, Guyana, Bahamas, and Barbados. In Belize the experience was okay, but still mediocre. In the other three countries it was awful, and the problem was always the same: a lack of enthusiasm, a sense being projected that the girl is totally bored and eager to get this over with as soon as possible, while of course getting paid as much as she can get. What a contrast with Latin girls, who are nearly always enthusiastic and perform skilfully and with gusto. I would be curious to know if this is true of black girls in the French- and Dutch-speaking Caribbean countries, or is it just in the English-speaking countries. I guess I'll just have to visit those countries and find out. Meanwhile, my advice to my fellow mongers is, if you come to Barbados, bring your wife or girlfriend.
Lorenzo[/QUOTE]
Anything going on in Barbados???
Nothing posted in a long while. Heading there soon. Any updates, good or bad, would be appreciated.
things are kinda slow in the scene
Glad to see this post area is active again.
Well things are kinda slow in the scene.
But tasty treats is ok as was said and Rolexx on the spring garden hway is pretty lively but you may want to leave with the girls from there as facilities there are not the best. Caramel on the south coast is picking up but mostly locals. If you want a more private one on one encounter then IslandGirls is your safest bet, ask for the "big man", if he can't provide what you want he is a good guy to point you in a good direction, they only provide local talent, but ususally a satisfying encounter think its islandGirls.info, if you want white or european then charlie Spice is who you should call google him or try sexsells site or something close to that. Better if you google them all.
The clubs the taxi guys know so you won't ahve a worry to find them.
If you are hear long enough looks like 2nd street holetown is opening up to the mongering scene and seems to be fairly safe.
Hope you find good stuff.