Just returned from BBs (BAD BOYS - Black Beards)
Met Ponderosa and Mr. Sonny Hotelman.
Had daytime sex with 3 girls there, can't recall their names. Very ordinary sex, the girls were a little on the chubby side.
Noted that the girls look best in their evening wear, and the best lookers arrive about 6 pm. Of course I had already busted my nut before then!
Nothing else to report.
Same old girls, most are african dark skinned. I like light skinned Spanish blood.
Not sure if I will return again, got bored fast this time.
BB time was not so bad, I just am looking for a new adventure somewhere else next.
[QUOTE=Yanqui69]Normally the selection is definitely smaller during the day in the middle of the week. Less business, so fewer girls.
I would have had Charo or her assistant make a few phone calls.
On the other hand, according to his PMs, Ponderosa had a great time.
Yanqui69[/QUOTE]Actually Ponderosa screwed a nicely dressed, well mannered little girl Wednesday evening I had my eye on at the same time, I had Charo look her up Thursday, but she was not home, so I came up empty handed. (Ponderosa must have sent her running to the VD clinic the next day - LOL) That guy Ponderosa likes to buy the girls dinner, romance them, then he takes the girls to his room and BOOM BOOMs the poor girls.
I hear he has 2 grown daughters that he would not let a guy like us get close to them! Isn't that a double standard? LOL!
I bought some cialis from Dave at the front desk, but it did not seem to work very well. I took half a pill, maybe that was my problem.
The girl I did Wednesday was more mercenary than I like, less cooperative in bed. Some girls like to tell you the position they want, if I am paying the money I figure its up to me to direct the play, not them. They are the actress in my play. Alot of Dominican girls are bossy in the bedroom as well as outside of the bedroom. Not so fun.
Nonetheless BB is a great institution and I recommend it much higher for anyone travelling to the DR as opposed to pulling a girl from a casa. The girls are "more under control" at BB.
Thanks for the help, but more needed!
I think I'm starting to get a pretty good idea of what my plan of attack will be. However, I still have a few more questions. Any help someone provides me will be greatly appreciated.
Has anyone been to La Diosa Spa?
What is the scene like at La Barrica and La Canita?
Lastly, will I be able to purchase a room from Field of Dreams at the last minute?
Confessions of a Spoon Fed Monger
I am having trouble writing this report. This trip was special to me. As I have refined how I approach the chicas, the level of service has improved consistently. I now have several “girlfriends” at Blackbeards and I like that. It is getting harder for me to talk about my girlfriends in a post. Don’t get me wrong, I know I am doing P4P, but on each trip my experiences and level of service gets better and better. I enjoy walking into BB’s and having different girls come up and call me by name and give me a big hug.
Let me give you a little background. I lost my wife of almost 27 years to cancer a little over three years ago. I am 51 and have no desire to remarry and work through all the little crap that couples work through as they grow together. I also have no want to shack up with someone my age right now. I truly miss the female touch though. I don’t know, call it my second childhood, but these chicas make me feel young, and I am astonished I can keep up with them in bed, albeit with “medical” assistance (read- cialis/viagra). I am ever grateful we live in times such as these.
First off, the reason for the caption of this post. Fantasy once posted in response to Blackbeards that it is for “spoon fed mongers”, nothing more and nothing less. I took mild offense at that post, but He Is Right! I am a spoon fed monger. This trip I originally wanted to go to BB’s Sun to Wens and then Sosua Wens through Friday to see what all the fuss is about. Once I got to BB’s, I changed my mind and I am quite happy about that. It is not that I did not check out the Sosua scene, I did, but it did not appeal to me. I like the controlled atmosphere at BB’s. Girls sitting around waiting for you to “ask them out” works for me. No pressure of negotiating. Sitting at the bar or around a table talking freely with like minded mongers is great. The jacuzzi, the laid back atmosphere and being spoon fed. Maybe there is less selection, but I am willing to accept some trade offs here.
Believe me, the place ain’t perfect. No hot water (none at all) one day. Hot water, when it is there, is really a cut above luke warm at best. I travel a lot and this place is closer to the “Red Roof Inn” than the “Marriott”. Prices are higher than Sosua, not by much, but enough. Music til midnight from the bar that I can hear in my room while I may be trying to have an early night. Only two towels for me and my chica and I’ll take 3 or more showers a day in this heat. A shower head for a fountain nozzle as you enter the joint. This place may not be in the middle of nowhere, but nowhere is just around the corner from Costambar. The “Big” city is Puerto Plata. Want me to go on???? I am not shilling for this place. Part of me loves it because it IS tacky.
I went to Sosua with a newbie punter from the UK one day and walked all over. Nice beach, lots of restaurants, hotels and discos, a little “touristy”, but I found that somewhat appealing. Maybe some day I may get sick of “Stalag Costambar” because it can get a little suffocating there at times, and set up shop in Sosua. Perhaps that is why I get wheels when I am at BB’s, to get “out of Dodge” every once and awhile and eat somewhere else, do something different and have some breathing room with my “girlfriends”.
I want to thank you guys on the board for all your insights. I usually walk around all day in shorts, and I do put on fresh ones in the evening, but I took the advice to look like “boyfriend” material if you want a “girlfriend” response. What the heck, I tried it and it worked. Valentines day I had a lovely young lady who treated me like a king. All I did was spruce up a bit, put on some Dockers, a nice casual shirt and didn’t wear my customary Ohio State U cap to protect my folically challenged forehead. That and a couple of other “tricks” like making sure I shower when I get back to my room (so they know I smell nice and I am clean), and gently ask the chica if she would like to join me (most have, but I don’t push the subject as I want them to feel like I respect them). Even if the girls don’t shower with me, all showered at least after me (now I know they are clean and smell nice). TLN I took all to dinner, and breakfast if warranted. We went for walks, sat by the pool with a drink and talked. We threw stones into the water at the beach. I flattered them on things that were TRUE about them. If they were beautiful, I told them. If they had a nice smile, I let them know that too. When they acted like a lady, I pointed that out to them. I am not saying others need to do this, but it works for me and my personality. I still set my boundaries and let the girls know I am in charge, so all treated me with respect.
I learned a little more Spanish this time around. My first trip about six months ago I had a vocabulary of 5 words and maybe 3 phrase. The second trip I brushed up on my old high school Spanish to maybe 40 words and 10 phrases. This time I bought some Spanish language CD’s and know about 200 words and 30 phrases. I did not know if it would all come together for me, but it did. The words were like Tyco building blocks, and although I know I sounded like “Borat” to these girls, we could communicate. I also asked each chica to teach me Spanish and I would help them with their English. It became a fun game and it was amazing as when your thought gets across to them after really trying to use those little building blocks, we would almost celebrate. The feelings of your idea hit home harder with them like this. A connection was made and it showed up in the bedroom and other places. The girls would pick lint off my pants, brush back my wind blown hair, and be protective of me when we went somewhere. This was good stuff for me.
I also loved the “I am not a puta” game each girl played. It fits into my fantasy. I would openly talk to these girls about how they wish they didn’t have to do this, but do it out of necessity. We had some real heartfelt discussions. And even if half of it was BS, who cares, it was a “date” and again, my fantasy.
In the bedroom I got consistent GFE. I also found that in the morning I would often have even better sex than the night before, and the night before was usually great. We didn’t just have sex for the most part. Many times we made love. WOW! We would cuddle afterwards (something I love) and caress each other. Maybe a massage. This may not be your thing, but it resonates with me. To my way of thinking, this is why Laso did not enjoy it here. The chicas play a different game here than other places I have visited and it is a game I enjoy playing.
I know I got more to say, but this is not the kind of post most look forward too. I like the “who did you bang” and “how many times”, “who gives great head” and “who takes it up the ass” posts as much as the next guy. This trip was special to me and I didn’t have it in me to post one of those. Flame me if you want. That is OK.
Over and out.
Ponderosa