General Reports

[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k0nCdOoJ5LM[/URL]

This is a muddled look at the women both working in the sex industry and those trying to meet Western men without going on the game. Newbies may find it informative and interesting.

[QUOTE=Intransit;2103448][URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k0nCdOoJ5LM[/URL]

This is a muddled look at the women both working in the sex industry and those trying to meet Western men without going on the game. Newbies may find it informative and interesting.[/QUOTE]Yes definitely for newbies. The perspectives of foreign journalists are full of assumptions that may not be applicable in all cases. I did not watch the whole thing not finding it so interesting for a long timer.

The first big assumption that it is prestigious for a village girl to get a Farang BF or husband is rubbish, I think! More like a source of great embarassment. A village girl certainly does not want the gossip from having a temporary Farang boyfriend that makes it obvious she is a hooker.

Bargirls looking for a husband? Maybe 25 years ago. Today it is mostly simply economic. Just find ways of parting foreign guys from their money.

[QUOTE=HorseTrader;2102749]I took a taxi with a fixed 1400 baht rate, including tolls. Taxi was clean and nice and the driver was safe and personable. I added tip of 300 baht. I'm often accused of over tipping in Thailand.[/QUOTE]LOL can't imagine why! 300 baht is more than generous. How much you paying the girls?

This is my experience and others will certainly differ, so take it for whatever it's worth. I have been here in thailand for 3 months. Twice I have had women I met in bars seem to fall in love with me. I know it sounds silly or fake, but they will want to come over on their day off free. They will stay overnight and up til work time the next day. I say I am watching my budget and they have said I can just pay barfine and they come for free. That all might sound nice, but I am a nice guy and don't want to take advantage of anyone or hurt someone's feelings. I am honest for the most part, I tell them I am leaving in a month for somewhere else or whatever the case may be. I have told one I loved her after she told me she loved me.

Some of the problems from this situation is that it is hard to see others if you are worried about one. And it is hard not to worry about the one if you think she truly has feelings and emotions involved. The girl friend experience is great. I am an old guy and these women are mid 30's. I think kind of new to the bar scene. They say they are. I could be being scammed, but I don't know how, because it is them giving their time not me giving extra money.

I think new comers to here should be aware that the women here can be very loving and girl friendly and if you don't want to hurt them you might have a problem if you let things proceed unknowingly.

I am curious what others will say to this as I don't quite know what to think and imagine I am misunderstanding some things.

[QUOTE=Horatio;2103531]... The girl friend experience is great. I am an old guy and these women are mid 30's....[/QUOTE]Mid 30 is when a woman is about to hit the wall, especially in Thailand where girls do not age particularly well. My hunch is that such a woman is thinking of settling down.

Speaking for myself any woman who insisted on not getting paid or who started giving me much of her free time would make me feel uneasy. I haven't had any such woman in Thailand yet. When the deed was done, the girls I've picked up behaved as though the fire alarm had sounded.

You are lucky to find such girls.

I believe we need more explanation for this type of scenario from other senior members.

XXL has written what he feels.

But we need more discussion on this topic from seniors.

[QUOTE=Horatio;2103531]This is my experience and others will certainly differ, so take it for whatever it's worth. I have been here in thailand for 3 months. Twice I have had women I met in bars seem to fall in love with me. I know it sounds silly or fake, but they will want to come over on their day off free. They will stay overnight and up til work time the next day. I say I am watching my budget and they have said I can just pay barfine and they come for free. That all might sound nice, but I am a nice guy and don't want to take advantage of anyone or hurt someone's feelings. I am honest for the most part, I tell them I am leaving in a month for somewhere else or whatever the case may be. I have told one I loved her after she told me she loved me.

Some of the problems from this situation is that it is hard to see others if you are worried about one. And it is hard not to worry about the one if you think she truly has feelings and emotions involved. The girl friend experience is great. I am an old guy and these women are mid 30's. I think kind of new to the bar scene. They say they are. I could be being scammed, but I don't know how, because it is them giving their time not me giving extra money.

I think new comers to here should be aware that the women here can be very loving and girl friendly and if you don't want to hurt them you might have a problem if you let things proceed unknowingly.

I am curious what others will say to this as I don't quite know what to think and imagine I am misunderstanding some things.[/QUOTE]

Horatio, a (legit) massage girl in Pattaya once told me that once a girl in Thailand turns 30 yrs old their job prospects diminish considerably. So, they may like you, but the economic reality of their situation is probably a factor at play here too.

[QUOTE=Horatio;2103531]I am curious what others will say to this as I don't quite know what to think and imagine I am misunderstanding some things.[/QUOTE]I'm from Vegas if you put a Thai Girl vs a Vegas stripper in professing love it'd be a great fight but in the end it's going to be like the MayWeather vs Mcgregor fight. The Thai girl will win hands down. They have a way of being sweet and charming that we don't understand or it takes awhile to pick up on. That said I've seen girls in there 30's and 40's who probably are ready and willing to settle down with someone who can take care of them. Plus they don't need much usually. As they say follow the money, including buying houses etc. And to them even eating out and shelter helps a lot. So be careful to vet them well and find a friend who can do a reality check for you.

[QUOTE=XXL;2103535]Thailand where girls do not age particularly well.[/QUOTE]Maybe the bar girls don't but the first Thai girl I met in Vegas was 55 years old weighted 110 and was 5'3" ate 2 salads a day and maybe a $10 meal out if she could get me too take her which was easy LOL. She didn't drink party do drugs sex (bummer) but she could clean and cook. Oh and gambled like crazy when should get the money 3 days straight at times. She'd stay with you if she liked you and you'd take care of her, don't think it'd be cheap though.

[QUOTE=Lefeu;2103080]Only if you are married to her, otherwise there is no logic to it. Plenty of younger pussies in the US for hire, and they tend to be the best.[/QUOTE]It is not really about age at all, it is about skills and passion, and level of deterioration in the face and body. Some girls are already badly deteriorated at age 20. My GF is still having a great body and pussy at 39. She started out a bit too skinny so body is virtually perfect weight now. Her face had to go downhill a little, but she started out excessively pretty, so now is still way better than average. Only a low percentage of 20 YOs am I going to rate as prettier and with hotter body.

So I am in complete disagreement. I like experienced pussy, not fresh young hopeless girls who don't know how to do anything. Still want a good body and pretty face though. Ok You mentioned the US. Not sure why. Perhaps the rate of girl deterioration is much higher there. Plenty of fatties.

I have 2 regular bargirls both aged 20 but both with years of experience, one skinny white skin, the other tan more voluptuous with big tits (so variety), both tallish. They both clearly first started in P4P when below the required age. They have the stamina to go well beyond how long my GF lasts. They both would not be suitable as a GF, very clearly. These two girl were not selected because they were 20. Just was coincidence. I have other regulars over 30.

[QUOTE=Franga;2103553]Horatio, a (legit) massage girl in Pattaya once told me that once a girl in Thailand turns 30 yrs old their job prospects diminish considerably. So, they may like you, but the economic reality of their situation is probably a factor at play here too.[/QUOTE]Its easy to solve in P4P. They say they are 25 when they are actually 35.

However sure the 50 YO girl struggles to get a job in the Hotel or supermarket or whatever. Its a very discriminatory society.

[QUOTE=Syzygies;2103583]Its easy to solve in P4P. They say they are 25 when they are actually 35.

However sure the 50 YO girl struggles to get a job in the Hotel or supermarket or whatever. Its a very discriminatory society.[/QUOTE]In P4P a 35 year old tells you she is 25? No doubt that happens. However, I think that's all women in every country whether it's P4P or not. I know when I meet girls on Tinder in the USA, most times they are older than they said they were.

Then again, if a girl in Thailand tells you she's 18, she's most likely not 18 yet. So sometimes they do tell you they are older than they are. Check those ID's!

I was learning new Thai words. Strangely I did not know how to say "unhook". So got the new Thai word "Bplot khor"
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Put "unhook" into Google Translate. That was fine.
Changed it to read "I unhooked her bra".
The Thai came out meaning "I unhooked from the underclothes". Giving the impression that I had been hooked on. LOL
Changed it to read "I unhooked her brassiere".
It now read in Thai what, translated back to English is "I turned on her headphones" WTF?
Reverse translate shows "I turned on her headphones"
I can't imagine that is a euphemism for unhooking a bra.
I think Google Translate has serious bugs.
It understands Brassiere giving correct translate "yok song" if typed in alone.
But why does it change Thai to "huu fang" ("headphones") in a sentence? Very puzzling.

Syzy, just a suggestion but some may appreciate if you start a Learning Thai thread in the User Blog forum.

[QUOTE=Syzygies;2103823]I was learning new Thai words. Strangely I did not know how to say "unhook". So got the new Thai word "Bplot khor"
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Put "unhook" into Google Translate. That was fine.
Changed it to read "I unhooked her bra".
The Thai came out meaning "I unhooked from the underclothes". Giving the impression that I had been hooked on. LOL
Changed it to read "I unhooked her brassiere".
It now read in Thai what, translated back to English is "I turned on her headphones" WTF?
Reverse translate shows "I turned on her headphones"
I can't imagine that is a euphemism for unhooking a bra.
I think Google Translate has serious bugs.
It understands Brassiere giving correct translate "yok song" if typed in alone.
But why does it change Thai to "huu fang" ("headphones") in a sentence? Very puzzling.[/QUOTE]Maybe that is Google Translate's snarky way of suggesting Thai girls' boobs are usually kind of small. You know, pretty much outright saying a pair of headphones is probably all she needs. LOL.