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I eat well, exercise, sleep well but somehow could not perform.
Last night I had one ex over at my place (long story) and we ended up in bed :D (as I was expecting) however, I could not perform more than 1 shot :(
She was clearly disappointed adn kept asking me why I could not root her 3 times like before. Tried again this morning and same same, could not get 100%. I fucked her, but I felt my dick wasn't 100% :(
I wonder what the fuck is happening to me...
[QUOTE=NicFrenchy]I eat well, exercise, sleep well but somehow could not perform.
I wonder what the fuck is happening to me...[/QUOTE]
Nick, sorry to say, but your getting older, it sucks and not in a good way but its true, sorry to hear it mate, but it will happend or has already happend to all of us.... :(
Wizard
[QUOTE=NicFrenchy]I eat well, exercise, sleep well but somehow could not perform.
Last night I had one ex over at my place (long story) and we ended up in bed :D (as I was expecting) however, I could not perform more than 1 shot :(
She was clearly disappointed adn kept asking me why I could not root her 3 times like before. Tried again this morning and same same, could not get 100%. I fucked her, but I felt my dick wasn't 100% :(
I wonder what the fuck is happening to me...[/QUOTE]
We can talk at lunch, we left LL at 1 pm and we just finished our 5th, being long each time. She knows my reputation, and she has a reputation as being a performer, so we are trying to see who stops first. Of course she's 16 years younger then I but am doing my best.
Going in for my sixth... Hope to make it to lunch in one piece... Sure do need food to replenish the stocks... Glad to hear your buying today :)
[QUOTE=Tansak KTV] Glad to hear your buying today :)[/QUOTE]
Buying what? stocks?
[QUOTE=Daddy07]I thought you said the moron was a great lawyer? [/QUOTE]"Jack" is not a moron, hardly, and far from it. He is a UCLA guy that found that America had become not only a limited resource, but a total handicap for where he wanted to be in life ten years. (International law in the USA is a mess, you end up browsing paralegal compiled microfiche & Internet files, and in the stacks, all day, day in and day out. Then suddenly you find yourself stuck in a fucked up job making scale with no subscriptions and no attributable billing hours when you are 50 yrs old. International law in Asia IS HAPPENING! And Jack is on it.)
My point, of course, in iterating this (too complex for some I suppose) map to you, is that even the most intelligent and world savvy guys can, and will, get fleeced here. Guess you missed that part.
Guys fall in love, it happens thousands of times a minute every day. And, yo, it's hard to just fall OUT of love. You hurt, desperately try to mitigate it, and try to keep it going. Even if you know that there are going to be massively untested emotional ups and downs.
Jack isn't a hanger on just bullshitting his way through some pittance of an inheritance, a bar owner waiting to go out of business, or some other weak ass crap you see here so often. He has a real career here. He had no choice but to pay for everything right away simply to get all of the problems fixed asap, and move on. Lawsuits may come later. This IS the way of life here. If you don't know how that works in Thailand, you don't live here.
Also, may I safely assume that if you do live here, you don't live in the real nitty gritty BKK version of Thailand Daddy07? Otherwise you would know far better than to say something like that. It's tough to have any kind of a long term relationship here in Thailand.
Point: You have to be not only sharp, smart and cunning, but also need to keep a separated ruthlessness with whom you choose for a long term partner here in Thailand. Morons notwithstanding.
[QUOTE=NicFrenchy]I wonder what the fuck is happening to me.[/QUOTE]Probably just fucking disinterest. Too much cool shit going on in your life these days?
If you are really worried Nic, go get checked for stage one (previously called adult onset) type 2 diabetes. Hundreds of millions of guys live with it for all their later-adult lives and never know it, then face problem after problem and never doing anything about it. That's the thing they are looking at FIRST these days when somebody complains of sexual health problems. It's pandemic, one out of three of us farangs get it, so you do the math. It can be easily checked, regulated, then repaired with diet modification and possibly some light daily meds. Lots of times all you have to do is cut back on the beers, lose a little weight, and get more rest. (Beers, fatty meats, white rice, and not getting enough sleep. Sound familiar? TIT)
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[QUOTE=NicFrenchy]Buying what? stocks?[/QUOTE]
Bastard, I felt bad for you since you can't perform I took pity on you and picked up the check. Any man who can not perform in bed deserves to have me buy them a last meal. Hope to hell your massage works today or they will for sure think you are not a real man.
[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]
Bastard, I felt bad for you since you can't perform I took pity on you and picked up the check. Any man who can not perform in bed deserves to have me buy them a last meal. Hope to hell your massage works today or they will for sure think you are not a real man.
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You guys are cold. Losing the ability to perform is a tragedy and no laughing matter. In 1998, my pelvis was crushed in a military vehicle accident. I healed pretty well but the physical trauma left me with ED. The doctors gave me Viagra and Levitra which help with the erection problems about 80% of the time but I still have a lot of trouble ejaculating. Wife gets exhausted before I get my nut but she enjoys the extended workouts and regularly has multiple orgasms. On some occasions trying to get my nut, I get abrasions such as Nic had, which are both painful and uncomfortable.
So have a little pity for the poor guy as he ages none to gracefully.
Slim
[QUOTE=Barko]"Jack" is not a moron, …
…My point, of course, in iterating this (too complex for some I suppose) map to you, is that even the most intelligent and world savvy guys can, and will, get fleeced here. Guess you missed that part.
Guys fall in love, it happens thousands of times a minute every day. And, yo, it's hard to just fall OUT of love. You hurt, desperately try to mitigate it, and try to keep it going. Even if you know that there are going to be massively untested emotional ups and downs…
…He had no choice but to pay for everything right away simply to get all of the problems fixed asap, and move on. Lawsuits may come later. This IS the way of life here. If you don't know how that works in Thailand, you don't live here.
Also, may I safely assume that if you do live here, you don't live in the real nitty gritty BKK version of Thailand Daddy07? Otherwise you would know far better than to say something like that. It's tough to have any kind of a long term relationship here in Thailand.
Point: You have to be not only sharp, smart and cunning, but also need to keep a separated ruthlessness with whom you choose for a long term partner here in Thailand. Morons notwithstanding.[/QUOTE]
No, your point was not too complex for me, I didn’t miss it, and I certainly don’t need a map to navigate it. I’ve been a trial lawyer in the USA for the past 38 years; retired now but I still have my license. And, yes, I do live in Thailand now.
Look, I think I was being generous to your friend, Jack in describing the poor sap as a moron. We can all be stupid morons from time to time, and having been married and divorced more than once, I’m certainly no exception. At the very least, he must have a serious case of low self esteem if he allows him self to be treated like a punching bag by the system and person he “loves.”
Sure, guys fall in love, and take lots of shit from women, but once they find out that she just doesn’t love him back, most guys will suffer the emotional crisis for awhile and then move on while holding on to the shattered pieces of their dignity. Jack didn’t do that. That’s not normal. She must have loathed and despised him to do what she did.
You say he had no choice but to pay in order to get the problems fixed. I disagree. No matter how barbaric the Thai legal system may be, still, the “problems” were not his doing, but rested squarely upon the other criminal participants. From what you told us, Jack had already proved his case, and BTW, it wasn’t even his case to prove, quite the contrary, IMO. As you said, he had reported the theft of his property well before the accident, and the police were looking for the car. The miscreants were all rounded up at the police station and the cops got the full story. Jack was one of the victims – not the perpetrator. But if the barbaric Thai system “IS the way of life here,” like you say, then what the fuck is he doing practicing law here in the first place?
I think he paid up for no other reason than to try to win back the affections of his lady -- the one who dumped him like a sack of garbage in a land fill.
Finally, to answer your last “Point,” I can only say that if one has to be “sharp, smart, cunning,… and ruthless with whom you choose for a long term partner here in Thailand … Morons notwithstanding,” then a long term relationship is simply not worth it. I don't buy it, but surely if that were the case, only a moron would attempt it.
[QUOTE=Daddy07]only a moron would attempt it.[/QUOTE]Oh, I thought it was funny.
Jack, today, is in Shanghai on a consulting 'fam' (familiarity) tour himself, probably making enough this weekend to pay for all of the damages (except to his heart anyway.) And most likely getting in a lot of fine porcelain skinned, pink lipped, red-rope action going on up there tonight as well, young buck bastard.
Sometimes it's just easier here in Thailand to throw the stupid cash at the thing and walk (if you can afford it, Jack can.)
To that end, it really IS a funny story. Thailand typical, yes it is. Stupid Thai bullshit, of course! A moron he isn't.
I was going to say a buncha shit about myself here, doesn't count, so fuck it.
Also, I seriously recommend that you don't get into a car accident with a Thai while driving your Fortuner here in Thailand Daddy07. Your fault or not, guess who gets to go to jail, you or the Thai? After that, you simply MUST tell me more about Thai jurisprudence, but I think we can safely assume that you won't be calling a farang attorney to help you, will you? Of course not.
[QUOTE=Barko]It can be easily checked, regulated, then repaired with diet modification and possibly some light daily meds. Lots of times all you have to do is cut back on the beers, lose a little weight, and get more rest. (Beers, fatty meats, white rice, and not getting enough sleep. Sound familiar? TIT)
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Well, I exercise Daily, I am pretty fit, eat healthy, no alcohol and no trouble sleeping.
I guess you might be right on one thing: maybe disinterest :(
[QUOTE=Opebo]This is the root of the problem - there is something wrong with the guy. As with all guys in these situations. One can hardly blame the Thai party in the situation for taking advantage of the fact that Western men are, mostly, doormats.[/QUOTE]Must agree - and the girl's given him a valuable experience to learn from if only he wasn't too blind to recognise it. Incidentally - what's a hotshot lawyer doing driving a five year old Camry! - could most generously be described as a family saloon, and surely a middle age option. Maybe Jack, like his car, was just too stodgy for the girl, so not worthy of her respect. Toyota sponsor the Camry Crows in Adelaide - also a stodgy disrespected football club - they sport horizontal licorice allsorts stripes which make them all look fat.
About a month ago, I learned from her close friend that a very lovely 24 year old Thai go-go girl, who used to be one of my regulars, found an American farang, flew to California with him, and got married there.
At first I felt happy for her because I knew that was exactly what she was looking for, but on second thought, I also knew her quite well, and guessed that I would be seeing her again sooner or later. I had told her more than once that she wouldn’t like the US, as she is a poor Isaan girl through and through who would feel like a fish out of water outside the LOS.
Sure enough, last night the friend told me that my girl is at home back in Thailand, the short marriage apparently didn’t work out, and she’ll be coming back to work in the bar soon.
I can hardly wait to hear her story.
[QUOTE=Daddy07]
I can hardly wait to hear her story.[/QUOTE]
And neither can we, Daddy07, I am sure it will be interesting.
[QUOTE=NicFrenchy]I eat well, exercise, sleep well but somehow could not perform.
Last night I had one ex over at my place (long story) and we ended up in bed :D (as I was expecting) however, I could not perform more than 1 shot :(
She was clearly disappointed adn kept asking me why I could not root her 3 times like before. Tried again this morning and same same, could not get 100%. I fucked her, but I felt my dick wasn't 100% :(
I wonder what the fuck is happening to me...[/QUOTE]But for the ex not you. If you can't get it up for her it's her fault not yours. You should restore her status to ex with the undeniable truth that she doesn't do it for you any more.
Of course it could simply be an overuse injury, for which the usual treatment is to rest the muscle. Very bad idea to consult the doctor on this one. At the very least you run the risk of psychological injury.
Q. Why do so many men try to resuscitate a dead relationship. Some even get married twice to the same woman. Pitiful saps.