Thai Women - Opinions & Advice

[QUOTE=Daddy07] I can hardly wait to hear her story.[/QUOTE]All Thais have that terminal "homesick" genetic code hardwired.

I hope the guy didn't take her to his pea soup green stucco walk up apartment in Long Beach, that would make anybody puke and haul ass immediately. At least she lasted a little while, so maybe his pad wasn't really the problem. Heh.

Consider all the bullshit: Passport, USA marriage visa (OMG! ), airfare, wedding crapola, on and on. Not to mention tons of money for her parents and all the hoopla of "Going the America. " Big excitement turns to major depression. Then, whoa, hold the phone, she's gone. This is absolutely 100% Thai behavior. SOP. (Standard Operating Procedure)

He shoulda just taken the 'go go' STimer to the "Top Massage" on Sunset Blvd. In Hollywood, dropped her off at the front door, and told her "now get back to fuckin work ho, and don't call me till you got muh money. "

Thai P4P chicks. Good for lots of things, taking them home is not one of them.

Remember the song "She's a Beauty" by Fee Waybill (The Tubes) Daddy07? Every farang should have the words stamped on his forehead. "Don't fall in Love". This should be the anthem for any farang guy on his way to Thailand.

Oh, for anybody that was either too stoned or just plain forgot:
(It's OK, you can all sing along, no matter where you are. Ready?)

[url]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CACcy9j2zN8[/url]

"She's a Beauty" [i]The Tubes[/i]

[i]Step right up and don't be shy,
because you will not believe your eyes.
She's right here behind the glass
and you're gonna like her,
'cause she's got class.
You can look inside another world.
You get to talk to a pretty girl.
She's everything you dream about...
but don't fall in love...

She's a beauty ---
one in a million girls,
she's a beauty.
Why would I lie?
Why would I lie?

You can say anything you like,
but you can't touch the merchandise.
She'll give you every penny's worth,
but it will cost you a dollar first.
You can step outside your little world.
You can talk to a pretty girl.
She's everything you dream about...
but don't fall in love...

She's a beauty ---
one in a million girls,
she's a beauty.
Why would I lie?
Why would I lie?[/i]

Yeah, I thought you'd like that.

[b]Fucking California boy too dammit, he shoulda known better![/b]

(Admin: Song lyrics & link = public domain and ontopic = applicable, OK?)

Hello, I'd like to share my (ongoing) experience with a thai girl.

About May 2008 I made a profile on a free online asian dating site, just for fun before my trip to BKK on August 2008.

I really wasn't looking for a girlfriend nor a normal date (I had not many days available and also not much free time), so I just

Decided to send a message to some cute girls asking just for a 1 night meeting promising vaguely/jockingly I'd be generous.

Of the 20 or so girls I contacted, just one replied me, asking how much I'd pay her The following days we chatted a lot on messanger and only after some time we moved back talking about the "money". After some negotiation we settled for 10k bath for a night at my hotel (I know that's a lot, but she was cute and I was having really fun

Chatting with her often, alsno naughty stuff she promised she would do: P. So I was thinking "if I get bored in the next months

Before my trip I'll just dump her, while if I keep having fun I'll go for it)

So, the time of my trip come and our chatting was still a lot of fun so I decided to keep going to the end.

I met her at my hotel, she was really cute and wearing a nice dress and up to my room we went directly (she actually planned to have dinner with me somewhere at first, but I decided to cancel it couse I wasn't so sure of the whole thing and spending even more money: P)

Without going into details, I can say I had the best sex of my life, in both P4P and non P4P. One of the best blowjob (deep troath too) I ever had (at least on par with the superstars at Tulip or Eden), lots of really girlfriendly DFK and really partecipative sex. When she left the next day after lunch (she paid it with some of the 10k I gave herXD) I really felt I had set a new standard! And was already thinking about meeting her at least once more during my stay even if the price was too high for me.

Anyway, the next day I was at MBK checking my mailbox and I found a mail from her saying she had really a good time with me and would like to meet me again (for free this timeXD).

To make it short, she spent the night with me almost everyday I had left in BKK without asking for any money; the sex was still the best and I found out she also enjoyed anal to my delight (so far I had anal sex just with few girls at Eden and Tulip who, even if very into it, are anyway too much used to backdoor activity honestly)

Now a little more info about her: she is 29 y. O. , has a master degree in economic and started working recently for a big company (I've been to her office to pick her up after work many times); judging from her apartment and lifestyle I'd say she is middle class with not so much money at the moment (a question for you guys. What's the salary of a marketing graduated girl who just started working at a big company? I know it may vary a lot, but just a general idea would be fine! I never managed to ask her)

If you wonder about me. I am 30 y. 0. Myself, don't have much money to spend and not particularly good looking or fit (well, not bad looking either)

Anyway to continue the story, my trip come to an end and I spent 6 months home before having the chance to go to BKK again on January 2009. During this time, we continued to chat a lot on messanger, almost every weekend.

And on my trip on January I had a really good time again (this time she directly checked in along with my at the hotel and we were togheter everyday after her work), again no money involved or requested at all other than the obvious me paying for dinners.

Now I'm planning to visit her again on May.

Well, I posted this here couse it started like a normal P4P adventure but it went on a different route. Any comments on this aspect?

Sorry for my bad english, but I live in a country where english is tought in schools by professional idiots (italy)

I don't expect much disagreement on the following comment {not mine}.

[quote]A huge percentage of American and western women are selfish, flighty, insecure, needy and psychotic, and quite capable of concealing those traits during the dating phase

White 'career' American chicks are the bottom of the barrel marriage-wise.

Foreign women from South America, Eastern Europe, and Asia are at the top. Only guys who travel (in other words, guys who are successful and ambitious enough to travel a lot) find these. But they never, ever go back.

Foreign-born women living in the US are the next best. They get married early...they are highly sought-after by American guys for their wifely skills (hell, any women who has ANY ability to be a wife is better than your average American chick, who knows NOTHING about being a wife)

Bottom of the barrel---white American chicks. Yecch.

Here's a story: I knew a guy who was Hungarian (parents emigrated) who tried for 15 years to find a half-decent women to marry. He's a doctor, by the way. Finally after 8 psycho-weirdo US chicks, he went back to the 'old country' to find a wife. The people there were lining the women up for him to meet...he's a rich American guy...they are considered the best husbands in the world.

He found this lovely wife. She is a total gem, and he's happy as hell. 2 kids. Happily ever after.

I will go one step further and differentiate between Western women vs. non-Western women. This is not just an American phenomenon, most women in Western countries have that cold, bitchy, superficial, stuck up attitude. A lot of Western women hold themselves as the pure center of the relationship. If the men don't fit a rigid and unrealistic criteria or she doesn't feel the man can take care of her enough (even if she has a higher paying job) then she will drop him like a hot potato, regardless of his character or commitment to the relationship.

Popular Myth: Western men looking for foreign wives are only seeking subservient slaves.

Truth: Most Western men today are evolved and modern and truly believe in the 50/50 system. Most Western men are dismayed by the lack of sincerity of Western women. I can do my own laundry and cooking thank you!

Yes, Latin American and Eastern European women do make better mates because both come from more conservative and family oriented cultures where relationships and commitment are actually revered.[/quote]

[QUOTE=Nvslim]You guys are cold... On some occasions trying to get my nut, I get abrasions such as Nic had, which are both painful and uncomfortable.

So have a little pity for the poor guy as he ages none to gracefully.

Slim[/QUOTE]

Nvslim, I have a hard time finishing as well, it's not easy to blow a load 10 to 12 times a day (I pity the girl that survives long time with me), but poor Nic nails 14-20 times a week, lives in monger paradise, has gik's out his ass, is a young baby cub compared to most of us and should be shooting 20 times a day.

He does everything he should be doing to maintain his firm abilities but it was hilarious seeing him sweating it out over lunch before his MP session to make sure his plumbing still worked. He had a huge psychological block and seeing his smile that his plumbing still worked after his MP session was hilarious.

Do not take pity on this poor bastard, laugh your ass off at him :)

[QUOTE=Daddy07]Sure enough, last night the friend told me that my girl is at home back in Thailand, the short marriage apparently didn’t work out, and she’ll be coming back to work in the bar soon.[/QUOTE] Yep. I'm starting to see this is the habitual happening here.

The girl I was meeting has a new boyfriend. Third in 6 months (counting me), let's see how long it lasts. She was great to have fun & sex, but had a very difficult personality after that.

[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]...Do not take pity on this poor bastard, laugh your ass off at him :)[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I laughed until my face turned green (with envy) :D

[QUOTE=Francesco24]Hello, I'd like to share my (ongoing) experience with a thai girl.

About May 2008 I made a profile on a free online asian dating site, just for fun before my trip to BKK on August 2008. Decided to send a message to some cute girls asking just for a 1 night meeting promising vaguely/jockingly I'd be generous. Of the 20 or so girls I contacted, just one replied me, asking how much I'd pay her [/QUOTE]

Just curious as to which free online Asian dating site allows you to send free messages to 20 girls. To send and receive messages on many of these sites either you or the girl has to be a paying or premium (not standard) member. Unless all the girls you contacted were premium members.

[QUOTE=PinkPearl]I don't expect much disagreement on the following comment {not mine}.[/QUOTE]
[i]Foreign-born women living in the US are the next best. They get married early...they are highly sought-after by American guys for their wifely skills (hell, any women who has ANY ability to be a wife is better than your average American chick, who knows NOTHING about being a wife)

Bottom of the barrel---white American chicks. Yecch.

Truth: Most Western men today are evolved and modern and truly believe in the 50/50 system. Most Western men are dismayed by the lack of sincerity of Western women. I can do my own laundry and cooking thank you![/i]
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Yes, as anecdotal case study goes, this is pretty accurate.

[QUOTE=Macheath]...a hotshot lawyer doing driving a five year old Camry... too stodgy for the girl, so not worthy of her respect.[/QUOTE]

Ok sport. I can't afford a car of any sort, but I still purchase short times without getting enmired in con games. For what its worth. (But I suppose poverty is the best defense, eh?)

[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]should be shooting 20 times a day. [/quote]

Sadly, this never happened to me :(
Even when I was jacking off like crazy as a kid

[quote]He does everything he should be doing to maintain his firm abilities but it was hilarious seeing him sweating it out over lunch before his MP session to make sure his plumbing still worked.[/quote]

Yep, The chili peppers really helped me out with my 3 shot session @ dream Massage. The girl was cute and did not complain.
(she earned a very nice tip)

[quote]Do not take pity on this poor bastard, laugh your ass off at him :)[/QUOTE]

:( hey, at least I'm not gay

[QUOTE=Old Thai Hand]There are tattoos and then there are tattoos.

I wasn't talking about the type of popular tattoos that one would get possibly as a result of imbibing too much alcohol: i.e. those ridiculous Celtic wingie things that a lot of BGs get above their butts, or hearts, butterflies, names of BFs or any other stupid flight of fancy.

Buddhist tattoos, on the other hand are a very serious matter and the interest in them across the whole population has been on the rise, again for some time and directly connects to more interest in Thai traditions as a result of historical dramas such as Suryothai, Khun Pan and Naresuan. They are one result of increased nationalism and overall uncertainty about the state of things.[/QUOTE]I was seeing a Thai woman quite regularly in Melbourne until about 2 years ago - worked in a fairly seedy Asian place but about a head taller than the rest and much classier. She had quite dark skin and what appeared to be a dull reddish tattoo on her back, central just beneath the shoulder blades, maybe about the size of a cigarette pack or a bit bigger. Appeared to be a Thai temple design but very faded. Actually I don't think I noticed it the first few times I was with her, and later when outside she always had the area covered. Reading this brought the memory back so was wondering whether the faded effect was intended or whether maybe she had had a removal procedure. Anyway the effect was to my mind very appealing, and I'm no fan of tattoos - maybe this blending into the skin can only work with darker colouring.

This woman also used to go back to Thailand every few months - according to her to spend time in the temple and talk to her priest etc, have no idea whether or not this is true. Also used to go to Wimbledon and US open every year and talked about wanting to go to French open but had some hassles with French immigration. She used to travel business class and with more luggage than anyone I've seen - also had more shoes than anyone I've known. Had a lot going on in her head, which may or may not be the exception that proves the rule that Thai women have nothing happening up there.

early last year, i met a cute 18 year old girl on thai love links. she has the slim body of a teenager, silky smooth pale white skin, small perky breasts, and a perfectly shaped baby ass. our first meeting evolved naturally into sex (of a sort). she had just started work at an oil massage shop in central pattaya, and giving hand jobs is part of her service. (sorry, no bbbj’s or fs) i like her sweet, bubbly personality; fortunately, she likes me too; and she absolutely loves my dog, so she’s become a regular.

every now and then when she needs some extra money, she calls me; i invite her over to my condo, where she gives me a good 1 hour oil or lotion massage with an extra good hj happy ending, all for just 500 baht. i like hj’s from time to time, and hers are special – a wonderful satisfying slow technique with lots of attention to the nuts. she always strips completely naked to let me kiss, fondle, and caress her lovely young body during the entire massage, while i relax and watch her in the mirror as she works. she’s always laughing and giggling while telling me about her young girl life experiences.

in this way, i’ve observed her bloom ever so slowly from a shy, insecure teenager, who couldn’t find a boyfriend because she thought she wasn’t pretty and men didn’t like her, into a savvy, hardened, 19 year old professional prostitute. she quit the massage shop several months ago, when she discovered (largely on my advice), that she could make far more money as a freelancer, picking and choosing men at the late night disco’s on walking street, going with them to their hotel rooms, and fucking for cash. she’s met several “boyfriends” in this fashion, and has entertained numerous proposals of marriage. and, of course, much to our mutual amusement, she tells me everything!

now, she can command 2000, 3000, and sometimes even 4000 baht for her short time encounters. luckily, she still provides her services to me for 500 baht. but, unfortunately, along with her newfound prosperity has come the inevitable unreliability. yesterday, after a long hiatus, she called me wanting to come over, so we made a date for 9pm. she didn’t show up and wouldn’t answer her phone, so a better opportunity must have materialized. that’s ok with me. i’m sure to get the complete story next time. my consolation prize was a quick trip to [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord901][CodeWord901][/url]’s to empty the bag.

i love thai girls – for short time only!

[QUOTE=Daddy07]She’s met several “boyfriends” in this fashion, and has entertained numerous proposals of marriage.[/QUOTE]Great story. Obviously love is really a crazy thing. Thought it was more difficult more these girls to get a sponsor, but it seems the demand is quite good.

[QUOTE=Daddy07]Now, she can command 2000, 3000, and sometimes even 4000 baht for her short time encounters.[/QUOTE]

I don't think 'command' is quite the right word for it. The fair price is of course 500 baht for a short time, or perhaps, if she really is absolutely top-drawer, and thus fits a certain market, and is lucky, and it isn't too low in low season, maybe 1,000. But if someone is giving her 2,000, or 3,000, or even 4,000 for a short time in Pattaya it is because he is a fool, not because she commanded it.

Another way to put it is that a prostitute lucks out when she meets a fool - she doesn't make fools out of normal men upon command.

[QUOTE=Opebo]I don't think 'command' is quite the right word for it. The fair price is of course 500 baht for a short time, or perhaps, if she really is absolutely top-drawer, and thus fits a certain market, and is lucky, and it isn't too low in low season, maybe 1,000. But if someone is giving her 2,000, or 3,000, or even 4,000 for a short time in Pattaya it is because he is a fool, not because she commanded it.

Another way to put it is that a prostitute lucks out when she meets a fool - she doesn't make fools out of normal men upon command.[/QUOTE]
I agree with you, Opebo. Perhaps 'command' was a poor choice of words.

It is quite safe to say, however, that she has met a lot of farang fools. :D