Thai Women - Opinions & Advice

[QUOTE=Daddy07]It is quite safe to say, however, that she has met a lot of farang fools. :D[/QUOTE]

Well there are enough of us to go around that I wouldn't be surprised if she meet her fair share of ISG members ;)

[QUOTE=Opebo]But if someone is giving her 2,000, or 3,000, or even 4,000 for a short time in Pattaya it is because he is a fool, not because she commanded it.

Another way to put it is that a prostitute lucks out when she meets a fool - she doesn't make fools out of normal men upon command.[/QUOTE]"Commands" simply means to get some amount fairly easily. There is not just one meaning in the Dic.

They may be fools if they can't afford it, but really aren't we all fools to pay for sex when we could just wank.

Personally I would be quite happy to wank rather than take a very ordinary girl. I would be happy to pay 2000 for something out of this world (but perhaps she isn't).

Chateau Petrus wine goes for extrodinary sums too. Is everyone that buys it a "fool"? Either foolish or have plenty of money to waste. Its only you rationalising what you can afford.

[QUOTE=Barney Rubber]Though I might not have as much experience as many here, I agree with OTH that Middle Class Girls may be the best place to find a Thai GF. I have spent summers here and developed some short term relationships with BG and middle class girls I met on TLL. The BG's have always needed more money for family, sick buffalos and numerous other things. They are also quite jealous in my experience if they see that wallet maybe going to another woman.

Some middle class girl relationships went sour, with s few GREAT girls, because I could not stay. The longest I had was 2 summers with 1 girl. But the girl I met last year, from Chiang Mai, was wonderful. College graduate, pretty, a car and house and a teenage son. She drove me all over Northern Thailand and introduced me to all of her friends and people at the Temple AND church as one of her relatives converted to Christianity. She did everything for me but wipe my butt. I met her family. Very nice. They had jobs and houses. When I got home, I received a post card from her every day for about 2 months. She sent small gifts and emailed every day.

Then about 2 months ago (I just found out) she had money problems where she was going to lose her house. She never asked me for money. NEVER! I was joking over a chat session that I knew she had another BF. I told her. You better tell me. Suddenly she said. OK. I WILL CONFES TO YOU BECAUSE I LOVE YOU! She told me about her house situation and said she was assisted financially by a old man. 75. Who was has cancer. Basically she became his nurse and he helped her financially. This is not a bar girl but she confessed she slept nude with him and washed him and cleaned him. She sent a picture of him and he was quite old and frail looking. Maybe he screwed her. Maybe he didn't. I don't know what to beleive.

She knows I am moving there this summer permanently. She has begged me for her forgivesmess. Says she wants to be with me. She is no longer helping him (according to her). She says she would do anythong for me. Including letting me have a BG for a night if I think she cheated me (which she still insists she did not).

This was a great girl. Who I could have even married. But sadly I think I may have to take a pass on her. I don't know what to believe but probably better for me to believe the worst.

So who are the best girls for GF's. I still think Middle Class but you still have to be a little lucky![/QUOTE]Now she says she'll do anything to keep me. She knows I'll be there in less than 2 months and now I think she sees me as the atm machine so many of us talk about.

My dilemma is do I take the high road. Just leave her. The low road. She says she'll do a 3-some with me because I argued she was with another. I have the same right to pay-back. Or do I seek something in between.

We talked about the 3-some and she has already asked will I pick a pretty woman. She wants to go out of town because she worries about being seen in her town.

Over-all I am a fairly moral person. I think. Hahaha. But I have never been in this position. At this point this woman will do anythng I ask of her. So what do I ask? She also said she would do an orgy with me. But honestly. I have never done this. A 3some. Yes. A couple of times. But not an orgy.

What to do? Any advice?

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Command is the exact word I would use! She isn't no fool, she has learn that there are enough fools as you guys refer too that would pay her asking amount to keep her afloat. So, there seem to be more fools out there that is paying her asking amount. All she has to do is throw out the amount a simple thing for her. If the fool doesn't want to pay it No harm! no difference if we quoted her 500 ST, if she doesn't take it and you're no fool no harm done to you and your pocket book. Just you're ego is bruised and that you are not as handsome as some of the other girls been telling you!

Now when it comes to Command, Daddy07, is in command since he still getting his for only 500 baht. Get down PimpDaddy07!

[QUOTE=LittleBigMan]Command is the exact word I would use! She isn't no fool, she has learn that there are enough fools as you guys refer too that would pay her asking amount...[/QUOTE]
Actually, she tells me that she doesn't ask for an amount at all, because she's still a bit shy, but she often receives 2000, sometimes 3000, and once even 4000 baht from a "jai dee" man. So, yes, she can "command" good money without even asking.

I'm sure she would be content normally with 1000 baht, and that's probably what she usually gets for short time, but there are plenty of guys (fools) who give her a lot more. Some of them fall in love with her, and some of those fools ask for her hand in marriage. I have to tell her to turn off her phone when she's with me because of all the "boyfriends" calling her at all hours.

I probably still get mine for 500 baht because she likes to play with my dog for awhile, and she knows she won't get more out of Daddy for a HJ no matter how good it is. The girl is just a lot of fun to be with.

A girl I know once told me how one of her girlfriends (working in Nana) went on a two week holiday in Phuket, barfine was paid for the two weeks and her girlfriend was getting 4,000 a day. I have had girls ask me to take them on a holiday but never considered ever doing it.

Daddy07,
She could never charged you more since you're pimp Daddy07, how could she charge the man that broke her in?

Like I said you're the man in command!

Barney Rubber,

Here is my take after reading your story! Run for the fucking hills and don't look back!

In theory I think OTH, opinions and generalization about middle class women are on the mark! but when it comes to your middle class women you think you have or had your story sounds like so many others farangs that got ripped off by a bargirl.

First, from your story it seem you came in the picture right in the middle of her life as she seem middle class. I got a lady right down the street from me that sounds like the same lady. She has a house everything as you listed and is taking care of this old sick farang. She has been with this guy for years everything she has he purchased for her and her family prior to that she was working in a bar when they first met. She gets a basic income each month for taking care of him now that he is real sick she starting to get worried if he passes since they aren't married and although she owns the house and car she thinking without income how is she going to pay all the expenses.

Now you come along gives her a time of her life with your big stick since the old sick guy can't relieve her tension like you can. I say look in the mirror and you will see the old guy replacement. As for the offer that you can have another women! if you take her up on that when you retired and come to Thailand make sure you get a box of earplugs! you want to see what OTH, is talking about a Thai women going crazy just take her up on her offer!



Since we are on the subject of fools.... don't be one and get the hell out of dodge that's the best advice LBM could give you!

[QUOTE=LittleBigMan]As for the offer that you can have another women! if you take her up on that I hope when you move to Thailand make sure you get a box of earplugs! you want to see what OTH, is talking about a Thai women going crazy just take her up on her offer![/QUOTE]

I had a lady offer me a threesome and orgies and such to keep me in her life. We did, many times ;) .

Now she is not in my life at all.

If she's not being paid to do it, or if she is not Bi, Curious, or adventurous... then it won't fix a damn thing only makes the relationship worse. Atleast in my situations.

I gotta agree with LBM to run... however I'm a bastard, I'd take another dip in the pool atleast before running or try the threesome or orgy then take off for the hills.

[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]... however I'm a bastard, I'd take another dip in the pool at least before running or try the threesome or orgy then take off for the hills.[/QUOTE]
Brother Rabbit, you make us all proud. How many of us were thinking the exact same thing.
Go in for one last stab, msake it a raunchy 3sum, then kiss her goodbye

[QUOTE=Bob Down]A girl I know once told me how one of her girlfriends (working in Nana) went on a two week holiday in Phuket, barfine was paid for the two weeks and her girlfriend was getting 4,000 a day. I have had girls ask me to take them on a holiday but never considered ever doing it.[/QUOTE]
Taking girls on a holiday is O.K. and can work out cheaper than going to bars, but ...
1. 2 weeks is too long. Start with 3 or 4 days max.
2. You need a super sexed girl who is going to not leave you still feeling horny.
3. Watch out or you will wind up with a girlfriend quick and lively.
4. Not to be considered unless have known the girl for a bit and have spent reasonable hours together.

Tansak KTV.

I think if one be offered a orgy, threesome with maybe her good looking friends I say go for it if you can get away with it no strings attached. But in Barney Rubber case as he described to us I don't think it would be wise whatsoever. Although your thoughs of getting it on one last time before he takes a hike is a excellent idea I suggest B.Rubber get on it and make her do things she never done before. Maybe promise all she ask and in return ask her to give up her butt hole in return. But make sure you use a rubber, it is your last name! Most women in that position usually promise you everything and tell you do it without a condom and next thing you know! shotgun!

Enjoy yourselves guys and stay safe! LBM

[QUOTE=Barney Rubber]What to do? Any advice?[/QUOTE]You know exactly what it is too, so:

Run. Run as fast as you can.

You think you might be in love? Love is just a nasty brine of electrically charged dopamine jamming itself into wide open, pretty faced, blind confusion receptors. And this thing sounds like it is going to turn into a confusion junky's nightmare fast. It is standard operating procedure (SOP) here in Thailand, the chicks know it, and they know all too well how to use it.

Also, for crap's sake, 'puhleeze' don't say, "Yeah, but she's different". What other horseshit is she going to "confess" to down the road? You don't want to hear it man, you just don't. Bail.

There's no excuse for any red blooded guy to let himself fall into that black hole, life is too short, don't let yourself go down in flames with it. And, WTF this IS Thailand, you can find plenty of other chicks and a five star spectacular '3 hole threesome', in less than three minutes, as well.

Sorry if that sounds cold hearted Barney Rubber, been there done that, and I think you know that this thing can only go one way too: Seriously wrong. TIT.

[QUOTE=LittleBigMan]Since we are on the subject of fools.... don't be one and get the hell out of dodge that's the best advice LBM could give you![/QUOTE]

Imho, the last thing what a fool want to hear is a good advice. ;) Fools want hear confirmation that all the foolish things they do are wise and good for themselfs. Only own made experience make them wise, mostly expensive made experience....;)

[QUOTE=DG69]Imho, the last thing what a fool want to hear is a good advice. ;) Fools want hear confirmation that all the foolish things they do are wise and good for themselfs. Only own made experience make them wise, mostly expensive made experience....;)[/QUOTE]
Normally we cannot learn from mistakes of others and need to make same mistake at least 3 times to learn properly.