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Hi guys,

Was recently in Dubai and found my personal lady of my dreams.

We were matching 1000% and had very personal and intimous discussions and she's only a few years younger than me.

Everything was perfect: discussions, feelings, emotions, passion and finally of course sex!

(We have only had two days together and the second day was even better)

When I'm next time in Dubai I will not go out for hunting, I'd only like to share my time with her.

I've never felt like this good while beeing together with her.

We already have had several phone conversations and there even she prooved me to miss me and that she'd absolutely like to see me again.

There my problem starts: I'm a married guy and even have children. (She knows about my situation and understands it)

All the passion and spontanity have left our relation during the last more than 25 years.

Now, I really have had the feeling to have found the lady I was searching for my whole life before.

Will see next time, when visiting Dubai how things are going and how to continue.

As my thoughts are absolutely flying everywhere and my feelings are driving rollercoaster I don't know what to do.

Of course, nobody can help me out but me, but may be some of you fellow mongers have had the same experience before and can give me an advise how you came out of such a situation.

Thanks for sharing experiences!

Cheers and take care guys.

Jimmyk

[QUOTE=Jimmy K II; 1104192]Hi guys,

Was recently in Dubai and found my personal lady of my dreams.

[/QUOTE]Haven't seen one of these in a while, so in the spirit of the season, here's my humble opinion.

Assuming that she is a WG, more than likely, you are not really in love seeing as you only spent a few days with her so far. You are probably just infatuated with her because the sex is great and you can carry on a conversation unlike with 90% of WG's in Dubai. This wears off soon enough though.

If you are not prepared or have no intention of divorcing your wife of 25 years, and you are not strong enough to keep things under control emotionally and financially with this lady, then you are better off avoiding her entirely before you do something stupid.

On the other hand, if its a no strings attached arrangement and she is fine with that (and YOU are fine with her seeing other guys when you are away) , then its really no different from what you do anyway with other WG's. Except more 'special'.

You are not faithful to your wife anyway, and whether you continue to see this girl or not, you will continue to play outside of your marriage.

Just set the right expectations for you AND her, and always be in the drivers seat. 9 times out of 10, that's the only advice you need to keep in mind.

Eyes on the road and hands on the wheel and all that stuff.

WB

[QUOTE=Jimmy K II; 1104192]Hi guys,

Was recently in Dubai and found my personal lady of my dreams.

We were matching 1000% and had very personal and intimous discussions and she's only a few years younger than me.

Of course, nobody can help me out but me, but may be some of you fellow mongers have had the same experience before and can give me an advise how you came out of such a situation.

Thanks for sharing experiences!

Cheers and take care guys.

Jimmyk[/QUOTE]Hi Jimmy. I think you need to take it easy man. I understand what you're going through. But you need to wait until you meet her again and see if you still feel the same. Take your time before you make any decisions buddy!

RL

[QUOTE=Jimmy K II; 1104192]Hi guys,

Was recently in Dubai and found my personal lady of my dreams.

We were matching 1000% and had very personal and intimous discussions and she's only a few years younger than me.

Everything was perfect: discussions, feelings, emotions, passion and finally of course sex!

(We have only had two days together and the second day was even better)

When I'm next time in Dubai I will not go out for hunting, I'd only like to share my time with her.

I've never felt like this good while beeing together with her.

We already have had several phone conversations and there even she prooved me to miss me and that she'd absolutely like to see me again.

There my problem starts: I'm a married guy and even have children. (She knows about my situation and understands it)

All the passion and spontanity have left our relation during the last more than 25 years.

Now, I really have had the feeling to have found the lady I was searching for my whole life before.

Will see next time, when visiting Dubai how things are going and how to continue.

As my thoughts are absolutely flying everywhere and my feelings are driving rollercoaster I don't know what to do.

Of course, nobody can help me out but me, but may be some of you fellow mongers have had the same experience before and can give me an advise how you came out of such a situation.

Thanks for sharing experiences!

Cheers and take care guys.

Jimmyk[/QUOTE]Take it easy on him fellas. He seems to be happy, why spoil it for him. Whatever floats a persons boat. As long as you don't lose her number and then flood the forum with requests as to whether other punters are knocking her down or have they seen her, you should be fine. Good luck man! Really LOL. ROFLMAO!

[QUOTE=Killa P;1104241]....... As long as you don't lose her number and then flood the forum with requests as to whether other punters are knocking her down or have they seen her, you should be fine. Good luck man! Really LOL. ROFLMAO![/QUOTE]LOL.

And as long as anybody raises his hands to volunteer for a "trust check" on that lady, demanding for her phone number (to fix a date with her.) LMAO

Although I am in Abu Dhabi now I decided to call one of my old wg's from Dubai. I tend to stick with the ones I know are a lot of fun and she is one of those. I set her up for the whole weekend. This girl goes beyond the gf experience for me. I actually believe there is more to her with me than that. Anyway I had managed to break it off with all my fili girlfriends so called my Chinese friend. I told her to dress casual since this was an all weekend thing but when I showed up in Dubia to pick her up she had on a low cut white dress with knee high boots and fishnet stocking. I had not seen her in over a year but recognized her right off because she alway dresses fit to kill. She has been workng out so now she has good muscle tone which is unusual for a PRC girl. We made the drive back to Abu Dhabi and spent the first night in bed no holds barred. She has learned some new tricks and the BBBJ was excellent along with DATY that she really likes and then on to the main event with every position imagined. Most of the PRC girls make noise like you are really killing them but you can tell when it stops being put on and is for real and it was for real. Did I mention she really likes DATY. That is one thing us old guys are good at. The next night we went to 49'ers because she wanted to but I think she wanted to more because she looked so good than any thing else with her leather dress, fishnet stockings and boots again. She also had not been to Abu Dhabi before and was curious about the bars here. Back home more of the same from the night before. The next day we had an early morning go at it and then stayed in bed until late and then I took her home to Dubai. All in all a great weekend and so far way better than anything I have picked up so far in Abu Dhabi athough I am sure there are girls here that can do as well.

[QUOTE=Mjolnir 213; 1104231]Haven't seen one of these in a while, so in the spirit of the season, here's my humble opinion.

Assuming that she is a WG, more than likely, you are not really in love seeing as you only spent a few days with her so far. You are probably just infatuated with her because the sex is great and you can carry on a conversation unlike with 90% of WG's in Dubai. This wears off soon enough though.

If you are not prepared or have no intention of divorcing your wife of 25 years, and you are not strong enough to keep things under control emotionally and financially with this lady, then you are better off avoiding her entirely before you do something stupid.

On the other hand, if its a no strings attached arrangement and she is fine with that (and YOU are fine with her seeing other guys when you are away) , then its really no different from what you do anyway with other WG's. Except more 'special'.

You are not faithful to your wife anyway, and whether you continue to see this girl or not, you will continue to play outside of your marriage.

Just set the right expectations for you AND her, and always be in the drivers seat. 9 times out of 10, that's the only advice you need to keep in mind.

Eyes on the road and hands on the wheel and all that stuff.

WB[/QUOTE]And guy, don't post photos of her in the Photo Gallery to spoil everything.

Jimmy. Listen and learn from those who have been there, done that, worn the t shirt etc.

Two days maybe plenty for some and not enough for many but keep your feet on the ground and think with the head on your shoulders. If she is a WG no worries, but she will be earning while you are outside Dubai so be cool, open minded and very liberal (and definitely not jealous) and it may work out.

But try to love her like she is your 'one and only' you maybe disappointed. Be direct at times and not be afraid to say things. But also be respectful and have an open chat about what she does, who she's sees etc. As if you fall for her (if not already) then better be used to her day / night job and the baggage that sometimes comes with it.

My tuppence worth. Read what Mol says again

[QUOTE=Wicked Roger; 1104355]And guy, don't post photos of her in the Photo Gallery to spoil everything.

Jimmy. Listen and learn from those who have been there, done that, worn the t shirt etc.

Two days maybe plenty for some and not enough for many but keep your feet on the ground and think with the head on your shoulders. If she is a WG no worries, but she will be earning while you are outside Dubai so be cool, open minded and very liberal (and definitely not jealous) and it may work out.

But try to love her like she is your 'one and only' you maybe disappointed. Be direct at times and not be afraid to say things. But also be respectful and have an open chat about what she does, who she's sees etc. As if you fall for her (if not already) then better be used to her day / night job and the baggage that sometimes comes with it.

My tuppence worth. Read what Mol says again[/QUOTE]Thanks WR and Mol for your humble opinions as experienced mongers.

I've made my personal decission:

The time spent with her was absolutely outstanding in feelings, emotions, passion and finally of course sex.

You wrote that she's still a WG, will certainly continue working and I assume that you're absolutely wright, because she's in Dubai to earn money. That's the deal.

May be we've had such a great time, because I'm "such a handsome guy" who treated her like a real women, may be we're just matching, may be something else. Who knows.

I will not make anything stupid and spoil my family for her.

Like I already mentioned, in my relation at home, there's no longer such a passion etc, but this seems to be normal after such a long time together.

Just share some thoughts with your real good mates and you'll see, that THIS is the case in more than 90% of all long time relations!

So I'll keep her number and I hope that she'll still be in Dubai when I'm coming back and that we'll have such a great time again than some days ago.

But in any case, I'll keep her in my mind as one of my very best experiences ever made!

(and you can be sure, that I'll not post any photos, names or numbers. Sorry for that)

Wish you all a Merry Christmas and a healthy, sucessfull and happy New Year 2011!

Take care and cheers!

Jimmyk

Last week I had a chance to play a little. I booked a room in the Majestic for a couple of nights and went to see what was on offer.

First night, Wednesday, very early hours (2100). I checked first Music Room, nothing there. Crossed the street to Panorama, plenty of Chinese, some Africans, some likely CIS, and some SU-vintage heavy armour. Yes I also wonder why this women who are 15 years and 30 kgs beyond their prime hang on here. Nowhere to go maybe.

So, I did some quick interviews, going rate for the night was 600 dhms. I conducted a couple of more in depth interviews. One of them I had to abort as I was totally unable to understand a word, the girl got really frustrated, and to make things worse she had a voice that almost literally pierced my skull. Definitely not a girl you want screaming and moaning in your room.

I have to say that I found Panorama'a offer quite unispiring. I quickly moved to Imperial Suites, I was waived as the place was empty. But here I got a quite pretty Nigerian girl smooth talking to me, she had a really sensual voice, lets call her Sweet-Black-Empress-of-Seduction. I decided against her because her voice was too sweet (yes I know, I just killed the chines one because of ugly voice, but please stay with me). As much as she used this seductive voice with me, when talking to the other girls she sounded like a foreman with tattoos on his biceps, she also gave me very bad vibes. But that could be simply my bias against black girls. But she really made me uneasy.

Here we go to York, I was waived again. Better Chinese selection than panorama, usual african cuties, and for the truly sick and perverted in my audience, the full casting of "sexy sluts in the gulag part 3". If you like them emaciated they are there waiting for you. There was, to be fair, one that was not emaciated, let say if we average her weight with the other 5-6 girls it would have been nice. Again going rate was 600.

Next stop was Seaview. Maybe too early, but things looking certainly better. Some really pretty black girls, better Chinese, and maybe some filipinas, but they were hiding behind the "human wall of waitresses".

I considered a few options and then my old fave Lulu arrived. After the usual niceties (me: "you look good", she: "I miss your cock") we parted to my hotel.

I'd required, usual session. I went down on her with a Fisherman Friends that she seemed to enjoy but not as much as other girls. On a previous session she had been playing with my tool checking the surface, she did again and went to explain how "thick is very good for lady" pointing to the maximum diameter (the glans) and the also to the base. She also remembered that her first DATY was with his first customer in Dubai and she was totally shocked about this and did not want it. It seems it took little to convince her. I was kind of surprised by this philosophical departure as usually Chinese providers are not into this kind of discussion.

I told her to leave early as I had to catch a plane.

Fast forward, I am back from my meeting, arrive to my hotel at 2AM straight from the airport. First stop Music Box. Empty again. Crossing the street to Panorama. Full, but full of indian males. Plus a number of desperate girls who see the clck ticking and no money coming their way. My suit seems to attract a bad case of "African Barnacles" I told the girl to let me go like 5-6 times to no avail. Jump into a taxi and rush to seaview. There I am hijacked by a cute ghanaian girl who seemed to be surprised that I know the country when she tells me the city. Not as aggressive as in Panorama, but I decide against her. The little choice I may have disappears when they turn on the lights as I am 100% sober. Running scared to York.

It is 0245 and I am asked to pay full entrance, well the guy knows I will drink little in the time left and he knows I want pussy, smart pricing I guess.

York is better, quite a choice in the Chinese takeaway aisle. Navigation once limited by the dreaded "African Barnacle", the Gulag survivors still there. Focus is on Chinese. I spot a couple of them that I like, once seems to be taken, the other keeps smiling and making inviting eye contact. I eventually grab her.

Her name is Lucy. 26 yo, a kid. She is good at massage (trained, according to her and worked as masseusse for 4 years). CBJ, good sex, she is initially into the faking then gets into it. She is very responsive to penis contractions, her vagina pulsates back, she seems to enjoy the game.

I am too tired and spite of her efforts and mine I am not going to finish, I tell her and her answer is "You need to come" so she starts working with mouth and hands. Very eager to please.

After a while I am done, and she also turns philosophical about getting better sex in Dubai than in China, that Chinese men refuse to DATY and are in general lousy lovers as they do nto really care about the pleasure of the girl. Again I was surprised at how outspoken she was. I think when these girls return to China it is going tobe interesting. Or when more middle-high / high class Chinese start buying property here (check the banners in SZR they are all in Chinese, white idiots wiht money are extinct!) there is going to be a number of interesting situations.

May this peak in female sexuality herald the demise of the oppressive communist tirany in China? Could be possible that our mongering activities are helping to bring freedom to the largest nation in Earth? I really do nto know but is an interesting thought.

Yesterday I checked a little bit jsutlanded. Com (thanks for that!) problem is the girls announcing in "marina" were actually in Bur Dubai, the english was atrocious (the ones I checked at least) so I eventually aborted the operation and went back to work.

And yes I was obviously joking with my "mongering brings freedom" paragraph.

So, next step is to check Regal. I will try before end of year.

[QUOTE=Jimmy K II; 1104475]The time spent with her was absolutely outstanding in feelings, emotions, passion and finally of course sex.

You wrote that she's still a WG, will certainly continue working and I assume that you're absolutely wright, because she's in Dubai to earn money. That's the deal.

I will not make anything stupid and spoil my family for her.

Like I already mentioned, in my relation at home, there's no longer such a passion etc, but this seems to be normal after such a long time together.

So I'll keep her number and I hope that she'll still be in Dubai when I'm coming back and that we'll have such a great time again than some days ago.

But in any case, I'll keep her in my mind as one of my very best experiences ever made!

Wish you all a Merry Christmas and a healthy, sucessfull and happy New Year 2011!

Take care and cheers!

Jimmyk[/QUOTE]Its clear that you are a sensible guy.

Also, I understand what you mean about the passion dying out in a long relationship over the years.

Its normal, but then again, I do have examples of people I know that have been together for 30+ years and are still as passionate as ever.

The only way that works is if both of them put in a bit of work to keep things interesting. It does take two to tango as they say.

Me? I obviously still think its fine to monger whilst married as long as no one gets hurt. (at least we ought to try not to hurt anyone)

That either means you have a very open minded wife that does not mind if you shag other girls (and if you're lucky. She wants to join in.). Or, you make the effort to be very careful and make sure your wife never finds out because that would hurt her a lot.

I don't think its NORMAL (at least not to me) , to only have sex with the same person for the rest of your life no matter how great she is.

Example, your wife might be a great cook, but occasionally, you like to eat at a nice restaurant or even a cheap fast food joint for a change. But you enjoy your meal and go back home after. You don't ever want to end up actually LIVING in the restaurant.

So Jimmy, seeing this girl again will be like going back to your favourite restaurant. Enjoy the food and wine and decadent desert, pay your bill (remember to tip for the great service!) , and then go back home.

Works for me.

Seasons Greetings!

WB

[quote=jimmy k ii;1104192]Am i a love fool?[/quote]yes!

I have never seen these things end well. Early on in my mongering career I had something similar. Fortunately I was single. Setting expectations is a must. You either have to be comfortable with what she is doing and the risks that go along with it, or be prepared to support her completely, which it doesn't sound like you are.

With that said, I used to be friends with many high class WG here. They can be a lot of fun, when you are just spending time together for free. The advantage of those girls is they don't work every night and enjoy just going out the club or dinner and having a good time. But always be prepared if suddenly a high roller regular calls and she has to split right after you ordered dinner. That can be awkward.

I repeat that expectations have to be discussed and lines drawn to avoid confusion and hurt feelings down the line.

CJ

Had a stopover for a day in Dubai recently. Didn't really want to do the bar or club pick-up scene while I was there, so had done some research beforehand and managed to find a few numbers of massage ladies. Got there, made a few calls and picked one to visit. Mamasan sounded very friendly, and had good English, which can be important, I've realized over the years.

Got to the apartment building on time, no problems getting in, was right across the Metro, went right up to the door and rang the bell. Was let in by smiling sweet little Chinese girl, who escorted me to the main living room where a row of 8 girls were standing in lingerie and heels. Mamasan wasn't around. I spent a minute looking them all over and then made a decision: a very cute, bubbly young Chinese babe with a slightly curvy body. She was delighted that I picked her and quickly gave me hug.

Got to the room (the big apartment had maybe 5 rooms) where she asked me if I wanted to shower. I declined as I didn't want to waste time. She took the money, and said be right back, which she did. She then slowly took my clothes off, while softly running her fingers on my skin. A lovely experience. When I was completely naked, she asked me to lie down with my back to her. Squirted out some lotion on my back and started to massage. Good technique. Massaged my back and shoulders for maybe five minutes, after which she moved down to my butt, taking good care to get between the crack. Every once in a while her hand would brush against my erect cock and run over my balls while she giggled as I reacted. After a little bit, she leaned forward and started kissing the back of my neck whispering "you have good body." Running her tongue down my back, she spread my butt cheeks and started licking my ass. I moved my knees up to give her better access, so she started jerking my very very hard cock while she continued to lick. It was fucking awesome.

She then turned me around, put a condom on my cock, and started giving me a superb blowjob. I noticed that she had removed her top by now but her panties were still on. Her boobs were nice and round, complementing her curvy figure, with nice erect nipples. I asked her to move up a little so I could play with her tits while she sucked. I then lay her back, sucked her tits, took her panties off and started eating her well-shaved pussy out, which she seemed to really enjoy; she started moaning loudly and running her hands through my hair. She bucked her hips while I licked her, arched her back, the works. I wanted her to lick my ass again, which she was only too happy to do, but this time she made me lie back and lift my legs back. It was nice watching her behind my erect cock looking up at me while her tongue pressed into my ass. She then stopped, held my cock, and said "I want fuck this." I weakly nodded yes. She climbed on with her feet flat on the bed, gently taking it in inch by inch, saying "nice, big" and stuff along those lines. Once in, she put her hands flat on my chest, and started moving her pussy up and down my shaft. We continued in this position for a bit, her screaming "fuck me" by now. Moved into mish and went to town, finally finishing off in doggy while pulling her hair.

Exhausted, I lay back while she got a towel and wiped me clean. Then proceeded to continue her massage, pressing my chest and arms. I still had about fifteen minutes left of my hour, so she moved down to my balls and started licking them again. A few minutes later and my cock responded again, out came the condom and down went her mouth on my dick. Went over the hour slightly but she managed to extract another load, this time sucking it all out.

My cock sore and my knees weak, I tipped her well; she was all smiles and great attitude and said "please come back again, you have good fuck style" or something like that. I'd be more than happy to revisit. Even called the mamasan back to thank her.

Would not it be much more fun to tell him to go with his feelings and how love understands nothing about social barriers, age and culture differences or money issues?

We could have bet on how long before crash and burn. Damm such a lost opportunity.

It must be all this christams crap that is making you all softies.

Seriously, you (original poster, not CJ) are an idiot. Yes, it is confirmed. What you got is nto love, is called infatuation, and may become obsession, even more worryingly, cash-depleting obsession.

You are warned. Good luck.

[QUOTE=Cj9779; 1104506]I have never seen these things end well. Early on in my mongering career I had something similar. Fortunately I was single. Setting expectations is a must. You either have to be comfortable with what she is doing and the risks that go along with it, or be prepared to support her completely, which it doesn't sound like you are.

With that said, I used to be friends with many high class WG here. They can be a lot of fun, when you are just spending time together for free. The advantage of those girls is they don't work every night and enjoy just going out the club or dinner and having a good time. But always be prepared if suddenly a high roller regular calls and she has to split right after you ordered dinner. That can be awkward.

I repeat that expectations have to be discussed and lines drawn to avoid confusion and hurt feelings down the line.

CJ[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Cj9779; 1104506]I have never seen these things end well. Early on in my mongering career I had something similar. Fortunately I was single. Setting expectations is a must. You either have to be comfortable with what she is doing and the risks that go along with it, or be prepared to support her completely, which it doesn't sound like you are.

With that said, I used to be friends with many high class WG here. They can be a lot of fun, when you are just spending time together for free. The advantage of those girls is they don't work every night and enjoy just going out the club or dinner and having a good time. But always be prepared if suddenly a high roller regular calls and she has to split right after you ordered dinner. That can be awkward.

I repeat that expectations have to be discussed and lines drawn to avoid confusion and hurt feelings down the line.

CJ[/QUOTE]You're absolutely right CJ.

If I'd be single, may be I'd give it a try and take her out from her business for a several time to live with me in my home country.

But as I'm absolutely not single and hope, this remains for quite a long while (to divorce would cost hell of money and energy for sure) , I'll follow CJ's advise and keep "my favourite WG's" (esp. HER) as very good friends when coming to Dubai.

Besides of this it was a wonderful time with her and hopefully will be same the next time, but who knows.

So I revised myself to be only a "little love fool" and continue my search for the perfect one.

(as a surfer I'm always on the hunt for the perfect wave, so do I as monger and search the perfect fuck.)

Guys, thanks again for your advises. Wish you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy, Healthy and Sucessful New Year 2011!

Keep on posting.

Cheers.

Jimmyk