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[QUOTE=Cunning Stunt; 1368074]Well you did say you were late 30's (which is fairly young to me) and above average looks (which I guess means you think you are hansum'). Never said that you were wealthy or well endowed.

Anyway chillax, I am only kidding with you. More power to your elbow if you are pulling eligible young, middle class and professional girls although I would have thought they would have been more interested in eligible, young, middle class and professional Pinoys rather than some visiting poriner, no matter how gwapo. But you have obviously proved that this is not the case. Haven't you?[/QUOTE]Will chillax. Young to me is 20's. Above average looks is a 7. And as I have stated often enough in earlier posts, I don't limit myself to young women. Fit, attractive, smart 30's and 40's are available, and I certainly meet them. They may very well be dating eligible, young, middle class and professional Pinoys, too. Two girls confided that they were cheating on their guys, and not just with me. Others had the Pinoy LTR (amazing how many dated the guy for 6 to 8 years) and things went sour, so now they swear off their men. I think it's very short-sighted, and may result in their being unattached forever, but it works for me.

[QUOTE=Hutsori;1368082]Will chillax. Young to me is 20's. Above average looks is a 7. And as I have stated often enough in earlier posts, I don't limit myself to young women. Fit, attractive, smart 30's and 40's are available, and I certainly meet them. They may very well be dating eligible, young, middle class and professional Pinoys, too. Two girls confided that they were cheating on their guys, and not just with me. Others had the Pinoy LTR (amazing how many dated the guy for 6 to 8 years) and things went sour, so now they swear off their men. I think it's very short-sighted, and may result in their being unattached forever, but it works for me.[/QUOTE]I apologize for my (incorrect) dismissal as well and I applaud your ability. I don't however, think the Filipinas are being shortsighted. Successsful pinoys are well known butterflies, and the wealthier are rather well known for maintaining strings of women. I'm guessing the ladies to whom you refer figure what's okay for the men should be equally okay for the distaff side. Plus, if what's been confided to me by some is to be believed, Western men are generally "nicer," which I infer to mean don't treat women as mere sperm recepticles, and are more apt to actually see them as real people. My obserrvations suggest that this is generally an accurate perception.

GE

[QUOTE=Westcoast1;1367967]You mean like this?[/QUOTE]This forum needs a "like" feature. This picture gets it.

[QUOTE=Hutsori; 1368051]If you're going to criticize at least be accurate with your comparison. At no time have I claimed to be young or handsome or even wealthy or well-endowed. I joined this site long ago and have found it an invaluable resource for pay-for-play throughout Asia and the Middle East. When I lived here before I was a regular at LA, Vixxens, and AC, and have said so. No issue with that. Anyone can walk in and in a matter of moments have a girl. But that has lost its excitement for me. On this go I decided to take a more unorthodox approach. There has to be something more, yeah? In a nation of 45 million women it can't be just a handful (for foreigners) of bars and clubs. And on this site it's mostly a regurgitation of the same places and faces. Knowing that I could always fall back on the tried and true if it went for naught I chose a different gambit. It's gone well. Have I experienced no-shows? Of course. Has someone visited and then decided to leave? Yes. Have I been solicited for money after exchanging several messages where I was clear it wasn't a pay-for-play meeting? Yes, and I declined. But I'm no longer visiting coffee shops and wandering malls; I'd rather do some work, swim, or read a book during my downtime.

In sum my message is simple: get into a girl's mind, use your creativity to woo her, be playful yet direct. It just may work for you. You have nothing to lose. And if it doesn't there's always MBC.

In closing I'll mention the ironic use of boast. Most of the "poasts" here are rehash of pick ups from the well-known places. Yet they're not boasts? Peculiar. Sad you live so constrained in the box you've made for yourself. To each his own.[/QUOTE]Hey, can you give some advice for a newbie. Do you use a photo of yourself on DIA? How much success will someone have that is just visiting Manila for a week? I assume you live in the Philippines making it easier to meet the ladies. Any suggestions on how I can have the same results? BTW what is your age?

Thanks

[QUOTE=Botaka; 1368128]Hey, can you give some advice for a newbie. Do you use a photo of yourself on DIA? How much success will someone have that is just visiting Manila for a week? I assume you live in the Philippines making it easier to meet the ladies. Any suggestions on how I can have the same results? BTW what is your age?

Thanks[/QUOTE]Botaka: Consider getting a membership here prior to asking questions. Then send me a PM.

[QUOTE=SimonHeSays;1368123]This forum needs a "like" feature. This picture gets it.[/QUOTE]The like can be ok, but it should be the only close approach to FB, lets keep those unreal formats away form here.

[QUOTE=Botaka; 1368128]Hey, can you give some advice for a newbie. Do you use a photo of yourself on DIA? How much success will someone have that is just visiting Manila for a week? I assume you live in the Philippines making it easier to meet the ladies. Any suggestions on how I can have the same results? BTW what is your age?

Thanks[/QUOTE]1) Yes, I use my photo. If you don't no one will look at your profile.

2) Your success will depend on how early you start prior to arrival and what you're looking for. If you only want 18-23 year-old beauties there's a lot of competition for their attention, and some guys are very good at enticing them with their looks, money, trips, gifts and the like.

3) Write a profile that clearly states what you're looking for. If it's sex don't be gross about it. Keep this in mind: men and women both like porn, but they like different kinds. Write for your audience, not for yourself. And use correct English. If you have a flair with the written word demonstrate it.

4) Yes, I live here. If I were looking for an LTR I think I'd have some advantage over someone who doesn't. Since I'm looking for an NSA I reckon the playing field is level.

5) Don't chase after dead ends. If you message her and no response try once more a few days later and move on. Don't be a pest. Some girls have shown me messages from blokes who berate them for not responding. Not only is it oafish, it's also a waste of your time.

6) Read their profile, find something of interest to discuss and, more importantly, ask questions. Paying attention to their interests works. If her picture is of a scenic area ask about it. Wearing an interesting piece of jewelry? A lovely gown? Comment and ask. But don't ask vague questions. Whenever I find a girl who's religion isn't Catholic or Protestant I always ask about it. Not too many Buddhists or Mormons here, for example. I make an effort to send a paragraph or two. Of course don't shoot your load in one go. Interject some humour, but don't be only Mr. Jokey Jokey. Messages of solely "Hi" and Hi, baby" don't work, unless you're a model. There are those who insist that the girl won't understand what you've written, but there's more than the "See Spot run" crowd on DIA. Think your audience are dummies. And you'll get dummies.

7) Be a charming host. When they arrive immediately offer a drink and a snack, such as cookies or chocolate. Most often they just want still water, but be prepared with a juice, a fizzy drink, and alcoholic beverage such as Tanduway Ice. Hotel mini-bars can be a rip-off, but you can pick up supplies outside. Plan to spend the first hour talking to them. If you're lucky she's an eager conversationalist. Many aren't. I have a repertoire of magic tricks up my sleeve for those occasions. When you're finished accompany them to the taxi or bus and see her off to her next destination. I always tell her to text me when she arrives so that I know she got home safely. It shows consideration.

8) Sanitize, sanitize, sanitize. Since you're a short term visitor I'll surmise you'll be in hotel. Housekeeping comes once a day. Most girls find it a turn off to see evidence of other girls. Police it to remove other female's residue. Shampoo sachets. Vaginal wash. In the bin used toilet tissue and panty liners, which Filipinas wear daily. (I've found a pregnancy test.) Long black hair on the floor, on the shower drain, in the bed. Used, wet towels. And make your bed. If you can't be bothered I'm sure you can talk to housekeeping and make side arrangements to tidy up once a girl leaves.

9) Often you'll be asked about all the other women you meet. You can be honest, which I think is a bad idea. You can lie, and the girl will know. My sidestep answer is: "Baby I don't talk about my past and I don't ask a girl about hers. I prefer to talk about you and our present."

[QUOTE=Hutsori; 1368370]3) Write a profile that clearly states what you're looking for. If it's sex don't be gross about it. Keep this in mind: men and women both like porn, but they like different kinds. Write for your audience, not for yourself. And use correct English. If you have a flair with the written word demonstrate it.

IMHO I would not put in my profile that I am looking for NSA sex. It will definitely drive many girls away from replying. Sex comes naturally to Phi women. None has refused sex with me if I manage to get them to come to my room. I am not a fan of meeting them in public places or lunch etc. If they refuse to come to my room I leave them alone. You will be surprised how many girls initially act like day old virgins and relent later.

Correct thing to mention in your profile would be,

1. You are looking for friendship.

2. Make sure you mention you are a frequent traveller to Phi (It is immaterial whether you are or not ). Girls like to think that you will be there often if they like you. What exactly it means is more money, gifts, and ofourse sex.

Remember unless they are bargirls they want sex often too. Sometimes in a conservative society and if they are living at home it is hard for them to get sex. If they do it is like like wham, bam, THUM affair in some dirty motel.

Very often you find girls who never had sex for a long time.

3. Do not write a long winded profile.

I generally line up many new girls as well as the girls I am intimate with before as back up. I have been pretty successfull so much so that I rarely go for bargirls. Only once in a while I go to AC mainly because I like the

" child in a candyshop " feeling.

[QUOTE=Sammon; 1368586]. Correct thing to mention in your profile would be,

1. You are looking for friendship.

2. Make sure you mention you are a frequent traveller to Phi (It is immaterial whether you are or not ). Girls like to think that you will be there often if they like you. What exactly it means is more money, gifts, and ofourse sex.

3. Do not write a long winded profile. .[/QUOTE]Correct thing to mention in your profile would be,

1. You are looking for friendship.

2. Make sure you mention you are a frequent traveller to Phi (It is immaterial whether you are or not ). Girls like to think that you will be there often if they like you. What exactly it means is more money, gifts, and ofourse sex.

Very often you find girls who never had sex for a long time.

3. Do not write a long winded profile.[/QUOTE]I would suggest the sincere approach as follows.

1. Tell her, you are visiting Philippines for business purposes, time is limited. This brings forth thoughts of perceived wealth and the action.

2. Post a pic of yourself taken at least 10yrs ago. 20 if necessary. Before she arrives, hide the obvious, and wear sexy sunglasses, and a light scarf around your turkey neck.

5. On entering the door, tell her you have got a Board meeting in 45 mins time, and that she needs to get her pants off immediately.

Sincerity in these matters, is critical.

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[QUOTE=Sammon; 1368586]. Correct thing to mention in your profile would be,

1. You are looking for friendship.

2. Make sure you mention you are a frequent traveller to Phi (It is immaterial whether you are or not ). Girls like to think that you will be there often if they like you. What exactly it means is more money, gifts, and ofourse sex.

3. Do not write a long winded profile. .[/QUOTE]I would suggest the sincere approach as follows.

1. Tell her, you are visiting Philippines for business purposes, time is limited. This brings forth thoughts of perceived wealth and the action.

2. Post a pic of yourself taken at least 10yrs ago. 20 if necessary. Before she arrives, hide the obvious, and wear sexy sunglasses, and a light scarf around your turkey neck.

5. On entering the door, tell her you have got a Board meeting in 45 mins time, and that she needs to get her pants off immediately.

Sincerity in these matters, is critical.

[QUOTE=Sammon; 1368586]IMHO I would not put in my profile that I am looking for NSA sex. It will definitely drive many girls away from replying. Sex comes naturally to Phi women. None has refused sex with me if I manage to get them to come to my room. I am not a fan of meeting them in public places or lunch etc. If they refuse to come to my room I leave them alone. You will be surprised how many girls initially act like day old virgins and relent later.

Correct thing to mention in your profile would be,

1. You are looking for friendship.

Very often you find girls who never had sex for a long time.

3. Do not write a long winded profile.

I generally line up many new girls as well as the girls I am intimate with before as back up. I have been pretty successfull so much so that I rarely go for bargirls.[/QUOTE]Differing approach. I consider this a targeted marketing campaign. I use my profile as a filter, eliminating those girls who aren't looking for the same. It allows me to focus on those with whom I'll have a higher likelihood of success. It also differentiates me from the crowd.

Indeed I've met several women who claim they haven't had sex in a long while, including a 40-year-old who stated 17 years and a 23-year-old who claimed having sex twice only, with the same guy. No way for me to verify, but their vaginas where quite tight.

I use a long profile, which does serve as a filter. I give them a lot topics to choose from to use in their reply, and in the majority of cases I get the reply I'm looking for. Of course I still get vapid replies, which I generally ignore.

I pretty much mirror Sammon's approach when juggling girls, giving preference to new ones whilst keeping the others as backup, meeting once every two weeks or in the event of cancellation. I shoot for two girls a day, and mostly have been successful.

The only downside so far is I've caught the flu three times since September. Reckon I ought to take vitamins to boost my immune system.

First I will inform punters I have much more exp in use of datingsites in China and Thailand than in Phils. Different countries, different girls and different culture makes my profiles working in all over Asia (DIA, Tagged) written in a more general fashion as the the more specific datingsites such as Thailovelinks and Thaifriendly are written in a way for Thaigirls to enjoy (atleast I try, hehe).

For Thailovelinks and so on I create my profile so P4P girls are more likely not to respond as I use those sites to pick up regular girls. I write "I am not a sex tourist, I don't like prostitutes and I would never ever pay for sex" and so on. All that crap, hehe. My DIA and Tagged profiles written in more general fashion as to attract a more various crowd of girls. Then a nice mix of P4P girls, girls that pretend to be not P4P and obvious none P4p contact me.

My tactics in phils if they don't contact me is to add them as favorites and press my interest and this usually makes them atleast look at my profile created in a way that creates interests. So many actually contact me through this. Then I take it step by step withholding my real wishes for a while. But most of the girls will in the end agree to meet either in my hotel or in, for Manila, Robinson which is close to my room. I will return in February and is allready working on a new fleet of girls I can have when I arrive in Manila.

I am fully aware of that many girls inside datingsites are P4P and they lie just as much as me (not beeing a sexaddict). But creating a profile in a decent manner makes the choice atleast mine if I will go for a girl a wants money or not. Mostly they can not expect anything as I am, in most cases, strict in saying I don't do P4P. I rather put out some carrots on the stick for them as in if they are nice to me we can go shopping and they will get gift for meeting me, hehe. Same thing different wrapping maby?

On my last trip in late Movember (yes I did grew my beard, hehe) to the Phils I did a few non P4P with according to them semi high possitions (one in bank and one for some Korean company) and they did not want anything as to they were on the hunt for long lasting relationship. One of them even had relatives in Norway so her motivation was to find a norwegian guy so it was almost to easy.

The obvious P4P`s are not realy of any use meeting through a dating site as they are easy to find in many places no matter what.

Hey guys, first time poster here. Not even sure I would consider myself a full time Monger.

Anyways. 4th time in Manila and I am looking for some help. I found a sweetheart of a girl a few years back in Flamingo. Nursing student by the name of Vi. 4'10. 80 lbs. I have lost her number and contact info. I really don't have any pictures, but she typically wears a belly ring and has a sizeable vertical scar on her tummy. No tats.

I know flamingo has closed down and since reopenned, but she may have moved to Rogues or Dimples. Honestly I am not a big fan of burgos and try to stay away from it all costs, but if anyone can confirm a siting of this sexpot in the past few years I may just be willing to risk a trip there.

[QUOTE=Hutsori;1368082]Will chillax. Young to me is 20's. Above average looks is a 7. And as I have stated often enough in earlier posts, I don't limit myself to young women. Fit, attractive, smart 30's and 40's are available, and I certainly meet them. They may very well be dating eligible, young, middle class and professional Pinoys, too. Two girls confided that they were cheating on their guys, and not just with me. Others had the Pinoy LTR (amazing how many dated the guy for 6 to 8 years) and things went sour, so now they swear off their men. I think it's very short-sighted, and may result in their being unattached forever, but it works for me.[/QUOTE]In that case you can always try your luck in any country and not limited to Philippines. We have more success here with regard to money as incentive due to the girls poor background.

Going to Manila in a month and need to lock down a hotel.

I want to be in walking distance from Greenbelt3. (10-15 minute walk is fine) Only requirements is that is is clean and has wifi. Looking to spend 30-40 bucks, so preferably a hotel that offers a good bang for the buck.

Any suggestions?

Thanks

Edit* Just looked on Agoda, appears the best deal for my dates is One Greenbelt Hotel. 54 dollars a night. Anyone know if this hotel is girl friendly? Cant book until confirming this.