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[QUOTE=DrifterMan;2279795]Just curious whether the ladies ever get jealous or bitchy over each other when buying LD to different ladies. Say. You buy a LD and become touchy with each other but then someone else catches your eye. You then buy her a LD and it goes on. Do they get bitchy?[/QUOTE]If they do, tell them to get lost. Never forget they are hookers, and you're the paying customer.
Don't do this at all. They are women. Most of them are sweet and fun. Don't forget that. You are the paying customer and can do what you want, but treating someone like she is just a piece of meat is wrong, no matter what they sell or how much money you have.
[QUOTE=RickRock;2280152]If they do, tell them to get lost. Never forget they are hookers, and you're the paying customer.[/QUOTE]
Totally agree, wego so much mote mileage (true pleasure) by treating our girls as what they are: humans trying to get by. The sweet and fun girls far outweigh the hardened streetwalkers. Treat them well, and they'll do the same.
[QUOTE=Horatio;2280157]Don't do this at all. They are women. Most of them are sweet and fun. Don't forget that. You are the paying customer and can do what you want, but treating someone like she is just a piece of meat is wrong, no matter what they sell or how much money you have.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Horatio;2280157]Don't do this at all. They are women. Most of them are sweet and fun. Don't forget that. You are the paying customer and can do what you want, but treating someone like she is just a piece of meat is wrong, no matter what they sell or how much money you have.[/QUOTE]That and the woman will lose face if you drop her. It's an odd rule, but once she loses face and talks trash about you to the other girls, your experience at the bar will not be for the better.
And this is why farang punters get higher prices and less service.
[QUOTE=RickRock;2280296]And this is why farang punters get higher prices and less service.[/QUOTE]You mean because of the people that would walk into McDonald's and let the cashier tell them what they are going to pay for and eat because she is a human and seems nice and fun?
[QUOTE=DrifterMan;2279795]Just curious whether the ladies ever get jealous or bitchy over each other when buying LD to different ladies. Say. You buy a LD and become touchy with each other but then someone else catches your eye. You then buy her a LD and it goes on. Do they get bitchy?[/QUOTE]Some might but very few. It all depends on the girl and to an extent how you are behaving. If she generally has a tough time getting drinks or bar fines then she will feel it more but it's not jealousy at best a disappointment. It also depends how long you have spent with her and whether you made any promises or not. Personally I have never found saying bye after buying a drink an issue. Bottom line it's your night your buck.
[QUOTE=Chacal60;2280163]...The sweet and fun girls far outweigh the hardened streetwalkers. Treat them well, and they'll do the same.[/QUOTE]It would have been more accurate if you wrote "hardened working girls" because the street walkers are the least hardened and the sweetest gurls, IMO.
[QUOTE=BananaBoi;2280150]Any jealousy is all gamesmanship. Feel free to buy drinks for whoever you feel like. Don't let any girl dictate how many drinks you need to buy her or her 'sisters'.
Personally if any of my girls got jealous of me buying drinks for a new hot girl I would stop buying drinks for my regular girl.[/QUOTE]In my experience, they get jealous easily. So, be prepared to lose the girl you are with and move on when that happens.
Once, I took a girl to another bar. The band playing there was an all-female band. One of their guitar players started making faces at me and I responded. Within a minute, the girl with me got pissed big time and took off. Never saw her again.
[QUOTE=IMembr;2280211]That and the woman will lose face if you drop her. It's an odd rule, but once she loses face and talks trash about you to the other girls, your experience at the bar will not be for the better.[/QUOTE]Who cares! There are over 1000 bars in Pattaya so why worry if the girls in one bar think you area jerk! Spend your hard earned elsewhere. Particularly if you are a once or twice a year visitor it will have little impact on your experience.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2280319]You mean because of the people that would walk into McDonald's and let the cashier tell them what they are going to pay for and eat because she is a human and seems nice and fun?[/QUOTE]Yep. For whatever reason a lot of white guys can't understand that they're paying for a service when sex gets involved. They have fantasies and delusions that something other than a financial transaction is going on. I guess this is why they put good looking women on the cable news networks and on car lots too. "Well, she was nice and sweet, so I let her talk me into a sports car even though I went there to buy a station wagon. ".
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2280319]You mean because of the people that would walk into McDonald's and let the cashier tell them what they are going to pay for and eat because she is a human and seems nice and fun?[/QUOTE]I think that's not the point. The point is how you respond when the cashier asks if you want a drink along with the cheeseburger and fries you just ordered. Do you say 'no thank you' or do you say 'no b*tch, if I wanted a drink I would have ordered it'?
Just because they are selling a service doesn't mean you have to treat them like shit. Not as long as they don't treat YOU like shit anyway.
[QUOTE=RickRock;2280574]For whatever reason a lot of white guys can't understand that they're paying for a service when sex gets involved.[/QUOTE]Ya, that is only limited to white guys. Very intelligent post.
[QUOTE=Mogwai;2280705]I think that's not the point. The point is how you respond when the cashier asks if you want a drink along with the cheeseburger and fries you just ordered. Do you say 'no thank you' or do you say 'no b*tch, if I wanted a drink I would have ordered it'?
Just because they are selling a service doesn't mean you have to treat them like shit. Not as long as they don't treat YOU like shit anyway.[/QUOTE]Being respectful you would think is an easy sell unfortunately some people are beyond understanding. Trying to convert to civilized behavior is simply a waste of time.
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