Scandalous - The Starting Point
Scandalous, Welcome!
Your experience in the Seashell sounds odd, one usually has to fight the little sweethearts off with a stick. What time were you there? Anything after about 7-30 and you should be guaranteed to score.
And where exactly at Seashell were you? If you found your way into the Filipino club where the live band plays then you will have been surrounded by attractive civilians who will hove found your presence curious to say the least. You actually need to be in the ground floor bar of the main building, behind reception, where the pool tables are.
However, regardless of time just try lots of eye contact and smiling. In the Seashell (Pool table bar) you face no danger of encountering embarrassed civilians.
If worst comes to worst you can just check in at reception and part of the process will be the receptionist asking you what nationality of girl you require with the room for your "Massage".
Give it another go and don't be shy.