Manila

[QUOTE=Tomux 22;1396595]Any good options of a strip club in Makati / Manila? Something different and more relaxed from Burgos where 4 girls try to grab your dikk at the same time. A place where you can whach the show, talk to a girl, buy her drink, get conection and maybe even take her to your hotel rom. A place with a bit of class.[/QUOTE]Go to Thailand.

I am glad to see that I'm not the only one with fake DIA picture. The only probelm with my approach is that my picture is of a model that is better looking than I am. I'm not unattractive, but neither am I an international 24 whyear old fasion model, he-he. My approach in using a top model picture was inspired by thinking that best girls probably make their first sift-throughs based on the pic, not even the profile. I've seen that many didn't even read my profile, until I told them to. My strategy to tackle this matter is to tell the girl just befor her first Skype session with me that for the discretion reasons I had no choice but to use someone else's picture on my DIA profile.

As for various opinions expressed here regarding whether to be upfront about our intentions or not. I chose a middle-ground. Bascially, I tell on my DIA profile that I'm in for fun with a girl, but I also say that no one can predict what may develop if chemistry is right. My thinking here was (like some of my colleagues here) that top girls actually want at least an "open door" for a potential relationship. So, without lying to them, I give them this "open door", while being perfectly clear that we're starting with "fun".

Aside from the fake picture challenge, the only other one I predict is really converting nice girl (even the one committed to "fun first" approach) into first-date f*k session.

Happy hunting to all! A

[QUOTE=Aibolit; 1396611]I am glad to see that I'm not the only one with fake DIA picture. The only probelm with my approach is that my picture is of a model that is better looking than I am. I'm not unattractive, but neither am I an international 24 whyear old fasion model, he-he. My approach in using a top model picture was inspired by thinking that best girls probably make their first sift-throughs based on the pic, not even the profile. I've seen that many didn't even read my profile, until I told them to. My strategy to tackle this matter is to tell the girl just befor her first Skype session with me that for the discretion reasons I had no choice but to use someone else's picture on my DIA profile.

As for various opinions expressed here regarding whether to be upfront about our intentions or not. I chose a middle-ground. Bascially, I tell on my DIA profile that I'm in for fun with a girl, but I also say that no one can predict what may develop if chemistry is right. My thinking here was (like some of my colleagues here) that top girls actually want at least an "open door" for a potential relationship. So, without lying to them, I give them this "open door", while being perfectly clear that we're starting with "fun".

Aside from the fake picture challenge, the only other one I predict is really converting nice girl (even the one committed to "fun first" approach) into first-date f*k session.

Happy hunting to all! A[/QUOTE]If you're just looking to fuck the girls for fun and nothing more then why is it so important to trick nice girls into having sex with you? Not all of the girls on dating sites are looking to get fucked and chucked by a sex tourist. With all the other girls open to that sort of thing for a price I don't see why you would put all that effort into targeting the ones looking for a serious relationship with a normal guy. If you're looking for a challenge you're certainly coming to strange place to do it. You could just stay at home at home and try to match wits with the women on the dating sites there.

[quote=redman69;1396571]i for one do not assume they only want my money. maybe the want to fuck me. maybe they want to fuck my date. maybe the want to kidnap me. maybe they are their to kill me and do not want blood on the money when i am dead. i for one try to stay alive. but if i think i can kill them first and life another day i will. i sure do not want to be tied like a dog raped daily while in some nipa hut waiting for some one to give them money as they cut off my fingers to prove i am not dead just to cut my head off when they figure out everyone i know will keep the money and my government sure as shit will not pay for me. i am real close to ssn and it is broke now. so i do not see it as just my money. i see it as my life and how i live. living free and dieing free is important to me. maybe some would like some of the other options we read about to death. and that is their right. but for me to be free on a good day is the best day of my life. now i am not saying if their are 10 with m16's standing at distances i would not take that into consideration in when to make a move. but i would be looking to make one. and would rather die trying to die as many over there do. to each his own. but i do not judge a man for acting like one. i repect him. my two cents. viva la france[/quote]it is highly improbable that an armed filipino robber would snatch an elderly white guy from the public streets in order to hog tie him in a nipa hut and fuck him repeatedly in the ass as he squeals like a pig deliverance style. if you fear being anally raped in the philippines, stay out of their prisons. that means not fucking anyone **** or married. filipinos do not need guns to butt-fuck foreigners. there are more than enough [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] drunk mongers foolishly stumbling into the clutches of opportunistic lady-boys on the streets of manila only to awake the next morning with a sore anal sphincter and an empty wallet. the scenario of a gang of local henchmen fucking your filipina date is also highly unlikely. believe it or not these guys usually fuck girls ten times hotter than the ones foreigners pay to fuck. often your date is in on the armed robbery, so playing the knight in shining armor may get you needlessly gunned down like a dog in the streets trying to protect someone who was never in danger to begin with.

at least hand over the cash and see if that deescalates the situation before going straight to the assumption that they intend to stick a hot brown chili pepper up your corn-hole. calm down, the philippines is not an arab country or even mexico. if you're a social security check monger then perhaps you need reevaluate mongering so far from home, or maybe being in the hobby at all. i can see how someone old enough to actually collect a ss check and dining on cat food just to save enough money to make it to the philippines would be eager to get blow away, but some guys still have things they wish to live for.

[QUOTE=Chocha Monger;1396620]If you're just looking to fuck the girls for fun and nothing more then why is it so important to trick nice girls into having sex with you? Not all of the girls on dating sites are looking to get fucked and chucked by a sex tourist. With all the other girls open to that sort of thing for a price I don't see why you would put all that effort into targeting the ones looking for a serious relationship with a normal guy. If you're looking for a challenge you're certainly coming to strange place to do it. You could just stay at home at home and try to match wits with the women on the dating sites there.[/QUOTE]Well I don't always agree with the CM but in this case I fully agree with EVERYTHING he said.

I don't have a photo on any date sites and so I don't get ANY messages from silly teens or even desperate housewives looking for a hubby. I do not have the time to go trawling through the dozens of hits you will get when you post a photo of a male model.

My profile is clear that I want friends only and so my MO is to read through interesting profiles (when I have time) and if one takes my eye I send her a message explaining why I don't have a photo and I will be happy to communicate via email and send a photo or two. Most write back and there is then full understanding with no deception involved. A number of women will write to me when they read my profile after they see that I have read their profile and this is despite my not having a photo. I would rather have 2 understanding contacts up front than having to sieve out 2 from a list of 20 or 30. I have more than enough contacts than I have time to handle, and many of them mention about the scammers with a false pic and lies about looking for a partner/wife etc.
It is no wonder so many girls are bitter and battle-scarred because they have been fed so much BS.

As a couple of posters remarked (David33 was one), some guys must spend hours on dating sites and exchanging messages and sorting through profiles. Most of them will come to nothing. I prefer snorkeling in the real world.

I am totally confused about scoring with girls from DIA using fake pictures. Have you ever seen how sardines come and beg you to take them home? DIA is full of sardines. You don't need any elaborate trap to score with them. Believe me, the only thing you have to remember that just be yourself. Most of these girls want is to win the lottery (to skip Phil). They don't care for our age, looks, etc. Chances are no Filipina from a decent family are looking for husbands at these sites. When someone advertises 18-80 in DIA or man of any age in CB, then you know what kind of female population you are dealing with.

Last October, I went to Phil for 2 weeks. For the first time, I thought, just for fun, I will mix and match my victims. Some bargirls, some semi-pros and some so called dating site girls. So I invested some time, to get some girls from DIA and another pay site Cherry Blossom. It became like a game and I had so much fun with talking, arguing and finally breaking those stubborn girls that I am going to do it again in coming August. I realized without picture, the hits are less so I put my real picture (I am in my advanced years and not hiding from anybody. So it was a no-brainer). To weed through the junks, I put search criteria of a college degree. Not full proof. They can still lie. But during chat I could pick that up. That cut down the list substantially. Bigger problem was for the girls, who had to face much more conditions to meet me. First was, no one can fall in love with me. There will be no bullshit of marriage, serious relationship, etc. This was just for companionship. If they want to have sex, then we will have sex. Otherwise there is no pressure of having sex (believe me you will have sex, only one came very close to going back, but after spending some time with me she ended up staying the whole night and was the best of the lot in Manila). On my last night, one virgin travelled 3 hours one way to see me in Manila to break her virginity. I never knew her. She got my contact info from her friend. I had 5 dating site girls in Manila and 4 in Cebu. All but one was college graduates and have real job. Two of them are Bank workers, one works in a Jewelry shop and has a Masters degree, two teachers. 2 nurses and one secretary and one finishing up her bachelor degree. She is in Cebu and I got a little bit involved with her. I saw her for three consecutive nights (very rare for me) and will see her again in August. She is 22 year old and has a body to die for. But most importantly, I like her personality. Again, it is fun, when you mix and match. I cannot stay with the non-pros only. I need my bar girls and other pros. By the way, I never met any girl without chatting with her via webcam. They also put up lots of fake pictures. Needless to say, none of them are any raving beauty. Just your ordinary regular young girls.

I am really not writing this as trip report. Since I am taking valuable server space, I will furnish some wisdom for mongers who want to dabble in this area. If you are looking for best value for your dollar, just go for the pros. Although I paid these girls only taxi fare, but I always took them to dinner. One bank worker asked for the volcano trip (6000 P for two) , one dinner cost 4000P, etc. One way or other, finally it will cost you. Second problem is, as much as I told them not to expect any relationship, most of them never listened. I got severe grief for two months after coming home and I broke off with several of them. The worst problem with them is even the best of the best will contact you when they need money. One of my girls told me the classic line 'Filipinas will always need money'. So be careful on that.

Now about the good part. Several of my contacts got job in different countries and I have open invitation to visit them. Also, some of them offered their other friends to meet.

I am not sure whether this post belongs here or not. But since some discussions are going on about this topic, I thought to post it here. Jackson, you can move the post, if deemed inappropriate for this section.

Bandy

PS: I will soon post a report in Cebu section about a wild night in one of the Mango Avenue bars. Never experienced this before.

Hi LES,

This past November I found a lactating girl by chance in Cafe Havana. I did not even think to ask when picking her up. I did ask if she had a kid and she said yes, I asked if she had stretch marks (jokingly of course) and she said no she was lucky. When we were back at the hotel is when I found out the surprise and went from ST to LT in less than 60 seconds. You should take the advice everyone has been giving and just ask. Also ask about the stretch marks as they can be a dealbreaker sometimes.

L2S

[QUOTE=LuvEmSmall; 1389684]I will be arriving on May 1 this year and was wondering on a couple things. I hope all of you senior members can help. Actually it is 2 completley different requests.

First I luv the tiny titty girls, the smaller the better. I have a a few DIA girls but so far they seem a little flaky. Which bar ih your humble opinions have the smallest girls?

Second, I have a fetish for lactating girls. Do any of you know where I might be able to find me a lactating Pinay? I would luv to have me a girl for a few days.

Hope you all can help.[/QUOTE]

I will be heading back to Makati in April. This time I will have some work colleagues with me that I will need to avoid showing my mongering habits.

My question (s) : If you meet a girl at cafe Havana can you ask her to come to your hotel and get buzzed up later (like 15 minutes)? Or do the girls want / need to get escorted inside?

At the hotel I was staying at several 'ladyboys' would come to the front desk by themselves hand over their I'd and the front desk would call up to the room. So I was wondering if I ask a FL to do this will I be breaking some unwritten code?

Thanks,

L2S

[QUOTE=Luvtwospa;1396944]My question (s) : If you meet a girl at cafe Havana can you ask her to come to your hotel and get buzzed up later (like 15 minutes)?[/QUOTE]Yep.

[QUOTE=Luvtwospa;1396944]Or do the girls want / need to get escorted inside?[/QUOTE]Nope.

[QUOTE=Luvtwospa;1396944]At the hotel I was staying at several 'ladyboys' would come to the front desk by themselves hand over their I'd and the front desk would call up to the room. So I was wondering if I ask a FL to do this will I be breaking some unwritten code?[/QUOTE]Dude, what kind of question is this? Did Slippery put you up to this?

[QUOTE=Luvtwospa; 1396944]I will be heading back to Makati in April. This time I will have some work colleagues with me that I will need to avoid showing my mongering habits.

My question (s) : If you meet a girl at cafe Havana can you ask her to come to your hotel and get buzzed up later (like 15 minutes)? Or do the girls want / need to get escorted inside?

At the hotel I was staying at several 'ladyboys' would come to the front desk by themselves hand over their I'd and the front desk would call up to the room. So I was wondering if I ask a FL to do this will I be breaking some unwritten code?

Thanks,

L2S[/QUOTE]We know you really want those ladyboys in your room. No problem, enjoy.

Its surprising how some idiots will respond to a post like this and spend so much effort to try and look cool but give no information.

I guess it depends on what hotel you stay at but most places will call up to your room when your lady arrives and ask you if you are expecting someone. She will need to know your name and room number. Then you can say yes please send her up. Some places you need to have your key card to use the elavator but I think a door man or elevator atendant will assist with that if needed. You might even ask for two key cards to your room when you arive and give the extra to the girl you meet and she can just come up behind you. Make sure you get it back after. Like I said it depends on your hotel. Just ask at the front desk ahead of time and you should be able to work it out.

[QUOTE=Luvtwospa; 1396944]I will be heading back to Makati in April. This time I will have some work colleagues with me that I will need to avoid showing my mongering habits.

My question (s) : If you meet a girl at cafe Havana can you ask her to come to your hotel and get buzzed up later (like 15 minutes)? Or do the girls want / need to get escorted inside?

At the hotel I was staying at several 'ladyboys' would come to the front desk by themselves hand over their I'd and the front desk would call up to the room. So I was wondering if I ask a FL to do this will I be breaking some unwritten code?

Thanks,

L2S[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Tally Wacker; 1397491]Its surprising how some idiots will respond to a post like this and spend so much effort to try and look cool but give no information.

I guess it depends on what hotel you stay at but most places will call up to your room when your lady arrives and ask you if you are expecting someone. She will need to know your name and room number. Then you can say yes please send her up. Some places you need to have your key card to use the elavator but I think a door man or elevator atendant will assist with that if needed. You might even ask for two key cards to your room when you arive and give the extra to the girl you meet and she can just come up behind you. Make sure you get it back after. Like I said it depends on your hotel. Just ask at the front desk ahead of time and you should be able to work it out.[/QUOTE]Aw get real, Whacker. You're starting to sound like the dozens of humorless posters here, like Xman and the Gay Pearl.

I thought Luvpuss' post was prescient and incisive. His ability to detect a ladyboy lover is sharp indeed.

On another note, I wonder if any of the guys here have attended any of the Manila salsa events lately and what their impressions were. I'll be back in Manila in mid April and have contacted the owner of a salsa studio and she tells me that they have a social in a restaurant in Greenbelt 5 on Friday nights. Anyone every attend it?

Thats cute bute I wasnt referring to him. Enjoy your salsa.

[QUOTE=Dashing Don; 1397865]Aw get real, Whacker. You're starting to sound like the dozens of humorless posters here, like Xman and the Gay Pearl.

I thought Luvpuss' post was prescient and incisive. His ability to detect a ladyboy lover is sharp indeed.

On another note, I wonder if any of the guys here have attended any of the Manila salsa events lately and what their impressions were. I'll be back in Manila in mid April and have contacted the owner of a salsa studio and she tells me that they have a social in a restaurant in Greenbelt 5 on Friday nights. Anyone every attend it?[/QUOTE]

Any action at the Marriott Airport? Maybe in the hotel bar? Seems Havana (is this Cafe Havana?) is a bit to walk from the airport? I've not seen the Marriott or airport area mentioned in this thread.

[QUOTE=BushWhack;1397961]? Seems Havana (is this Cafe Havana?) is a bit to walk from the airport? .[/QUOTE]Yeah it would be a bit of a walk.

Maybe 45 minutes on a cool day / night and then you would arrived in a sweat soaked heap. Of course you would be the only person there walking that distance, as most would take a taxi. Don't consider doing that walk. Please.