SubCmdr's UTR's, Non-Pros (NP), and Sugar Babies (SB)

[QUOTE=OldKool;1883152]Sex is 90% mental. Sport fucking is a blast when you have been cooped up for months in the States. [/QUOTE]For me I like my sex to be more physical. I get asked why I deal with a lot of Haitians. In my experience, the Haitians fuck game is overall better. I don't want super pretty in the bed if she can't work her ass. Those pretty ass Dominicans coming out of Classico don't look like they are ready to put in work. They have the attitude like I am pretty and that's all I need to be. Those bunnies (ol taught me that term) don't want you to messy up there hair and make them sweat. They are for the guy that love the idea of sexing a pretty girl even if the session is average. I always tell my friends first you going to fuck girls of your dream. After you get that out your system you're going to want to choose a chica you can have fun with.

[QUOTE=GrownMan1;1883399]I always tell my friends first you going to fuck girls of your dream. After you get that out your system you're going to want to choose a chica you can have fun with.[/QUOTE]The Germans have a word for a girl who's very good-looking but not that much into sex. They call her an "optical fuck" ("Optikfick"). It means you get aroused by what you see and not so much by what you feel.

This being said I'd have thought the main difference between a regular girl and a one-night-stand girl is that the former would agree to go bareback given enough guarantees. Bareback makes much difference.

Even if the sex is covered I find CBJ a joke. If a girl anywhere offers me CBJ I turn it down because it makes my cock deflate like a punctured balloon.

I have found that there is absolutely no difference between any type of sex with a condom and bareback. When I say no difference I mean that quality of my sexual experiences has not been affected by either of those factors. I have received excellent sex while using a condom complete with CBJ. And I have had mediocre sex during completely bareback encounters.

I have a tendency to feel the energy and vibe of the situation and go with it. By going with the flow and letting her choose the activities she is comfortable with when we are together the first time, I tend to get a better performance out of her. This is true for my harem, booty-call and working girls.

Now, I don't really require much out of my sexual experiences. Tacit cooperation and not fighting me is more important than engaging in any one type of physical activity. But she needs to be able to take the dick and have some endurance. If she taps out, as long as she is willing to finish the job some other way I'm appreciative of that.

[QUOTE=SubCmdr;1884774]I have found that there is absolutely no difference between any type of sex with a condom and bareback. When I say no difference I mean that quality of my sexual experiences has not been affected by either of those factors. I have received excellent sex while using a condom complete with CBJ. And I have had mediocre sex during completely bareback encounters.

[/QUOTE]You said that when you were in Sosua, on one occasion you described, you found it difficult to climax. That could have been partly because of using a condom which would reduce sensitivity.

We are all different. Personally I cannot stand using a condom for any kind of sex, and would rather go without sex than use a condom, though obviously there are times when it would be foolish not to use one. Mucus membranes beat rubber every time. Sex with a condom is like jerking off into a sandwich wrapper.

Mr. Frannie this is what you said then:

[QUOTE=Frannie;1884107]Executive Summary: Went to Sosua, got a room, walked around a bit, got something to eat, found a nice-looking hooker, struck a deal for sex, but found it hard to finish the act due to taking Viagra.[/QUOTE]This is what you say now:

[QUOTE=Frannie;1884991]You said that when you were in Sosua, on one occasion you described, you found it difficult to climax. That could have been partly because of using a condom which would reduce sensitivity.[/QUOTE]Actually you are wrong on both accounts. This is what I said in my report:

[QUOTE=SubCmdr;1883665]The problem is endurance. She can't take no dick. And she hurting herself because just when I'm about to give her the only gift I have (the gift of leche) she gets tired of the position and wants to change.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SubCmdr;1885171]Mr. Frannie this is what you said then:

This is what you say now:

Actually you are wrong on both accounts. This is what I said in my report:[/QUOTE]From your report:

[QUOTE]She goes into this tirade about taking to long to fuck her, being on Viagra, not giving her my leche quickly enough and because of all that I have to give her 500 more pesos. [/QUOTE]It is a well-known fact that both taking too much Viagra and using a condom both make it harder to climax in a reasonable time. You did not specifically deny that you used Viagra, not that it really matters. Anyway she thought you were having trouble coming in a reasonable time, but you thought she had difficulty having sex for a normal length of time for a man to come. Who knows?

The girls we sport fuck with are often not aroused consequently the sex is not comfortable for them. I bring lube and use massage to gain ease and compliance. Men can not perform when they are not aroused but women can fake it. I noticed in the past that some girls limit your penatration. It became obvious to me when a Haitian girl open wide and pulled me in deep.

[QUOTE=SubCmdr;1885171]Mr. Frannie this is what you said then:

This is what you say now:

Actually you are wrong on both accounts. This is what I said in my report:[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Frannie;1885334]Anyway she thought you were having trouble coming in a reasonable time[/QUOTE]Mr. Frannie,

With all due respect, when did the woman who is being paid for sex get to dictate the "reasonable time" the man who is paying has to cum? Presuming there was even such a thing and there isn't (unless the Dominican Supreme Court has made a ruling I'm not aware of). OK, let's play this out to a level of complete absurdity: Wouldn't it be better for her to state specifically the amount of time you had and then set a stop watch? Of course this would all need to be discussed before hand in order to determine if the man was going to be satisfied with the time allowed. To do anything else is simply a "bait and switch" tactic. In this particular case in Sosua it did not happen.

Getting back to my original post:

[QUOTE=SubCmdr;1884774]I have found that there is absolutely no difference between any type of sex with a condom and bareback. When I say no difference I mean that quality of my sexual experiences has not been affected by either of those factors. Tacit cooperation and not fighting me is more important than engaging in any one type of physical activity. But she needs to be able to take the dick and have some endurance. If she taps out, as long as she is willing to finish the job some other way I'm appreciative of that.[/QUOTE]From my Sosua trip report.

[QUOTE=SubCmdr;1883665]But to my surprise she goes ahead and finishes the job. She spits and is pissed.[/QUOTE]Although she could not take the dick nor was she tacitly cooperating. She finished the job and therefore I was appreciative of that. The use of the condom ultimately proved to be unrelated to my perceived satisfaction. The more you quote from my report, the more you provide support for the points I made in my original post.

[QUOTE=OldKool;1885360]The girls we sport fuck with are often not aroused consequently the sex is not comfortable for them.[/QUOTE]You are quite right about pro women not being aroused. However, the other side of the story is that nowadays, thanks to watching too much porn, and to medication, many men think humping for one hour is the norm. Indeed if you hump for too long, your dick gets sore and is not too much of a happy camper after three days of orgy and so, it is not a win for a man either.

[QUOTE=Tempoecorto;1885483]You are quite right about pro women not being aroused. However, the other side of the story is that nowadays, thanks to watching too much porn, and to medication, many men think humping for one hour is the norm. Indeed if you hump for too long, your dick gets sore and is not too much of a happy camper after three days of orgy and so, it is not a win for a man either.[/QUOTE]I always tell a chica if she can makes leche early she's really done her job. For me good pussy Trump's a good session.

[QUOTE=GrownMan1;1886663]I always tell a chica if she can makes leche early she's really done her job. For me good pussy Trump's a good session.[/QUOTE]I usually go for 30-40 minutes. I always bring my own lube and condoms so I know they are safe.

In the old days, I would go for 2 shots on goal. But now I prefer as much "IN" time as possible.

[QUOTE=RedNose1;1887548]I usually go for 30-40 minutes. I always bring my own lube and condoms so I know they are safe.

In the old days, I would go for 2 shots on goal. But now I prefer as much "IN" time as possible.[/QUOTE]That's right Mr. RedNose1! Men in the arena go hard. Welcome to the club.

[QUOTE=OldKool;1888261]When you have girls who meet your needs and are not working girls you build special relationship. They provide you with very good sex and GFE. You provide them gifts and cash when it is reasonable for you. The sex with these ladies is usually a step above the average spot fuck.[/QUOTE]Thank you Mr. OldKool for your "straight no chase" explanation of the concept I have described as the "qualitative difference" between regular women and street chicas. You are indeed a man in the arena!

Back to the subject of my thread:

Some of you motherfuckers come on this board and want to brag about how much support you provide your temporary employees. The poor women of Sosua are just feeding their families and you have flown with dick in one hand and pesos in the other to provide much needed relief for the economic misery that pervades the lives of chicas throughout the island. It is time for a reality check. Better close your eye holes cause the Subcmdr about to kick some real knowledge in ya cerebral cortex about the cost of living in the Dominican Republic.

1000 pesos a month will feed one kid. That's right! I said 1000 pesos feeds one kid for a month. And you paying the chicas 1000 to 1500 pesos a fuck? You are helping feed her kids? Only if you are her first fuck of the month? Nah man, more likely you be paying for the iPhone / Samsung Galaxy, hair and nails prepared in the salon, clothes, shoes, visits to the gym and the boyfriend who knows or doesn't know how she is really making her money. Trying to maintain their dignity my ass! They are there because they made a choice. It's easy money for them. That's my opinion. You don't have to like it. This is a user blog. I'm not clogging up the main forum with the diatribe posted daily by most of the membership.

Yet some wish to take issue with the way I run my PPDS (Personal pussy delivery service). I operate from the knowledge of what things really cost here. I can support my entire harem (currently 3) on less than the average cost of a plane ticket for the Sexual Tourist. And that's before they have paid for hotel, food, gifts (some expensive; most are cheap) and hourly (or nightly in some cases) pussy rental.

When presented with the possibility that since I live here I might actually know more about parts of the island other never explore and that I have the chance to deal with a different type of chica in a different way, well that idea is immediately rejected. When presented with the idea that there are significant differences in the different chicas available on the island, the Sexual Tourists are confronted with an idea that simply does not compute and it throws them into an apoplectic fit. From the very moment of my first post I have understood this.

I did not have to negotiate an amount up front before any of my harem girls slept with me. There wasn't a quid pro quo. I didn't have to interview them for a detailed list of sexual acts they would or would not perform with me. In fact none of my harem girls ever asked for any money up front. In addition we have the advantage of being adults. Healthy relationships based on mutual respect. I don't have to stalk them on Facebook or lose sleep watching their "last active" status on Whatsapp. We are all free agents. But we take care of each other. That's what's understood. The question of if the respect is based on their personal enjoyment of me or my money is an exercise left for the reader. I'm perfectly content with enjoying getting my dick sucked as much as I want or fucking them until one of us taps out. With my harem girls, I don't have to exercise some enhanced sense of manhood, "my way or the highway" mentality in making sure my pussy is on call and available to me. I'm perfectly fine with working around the things that come up in the day-to-day lives of regular women (kids, work, school, periods, in some cases boyfriends).

Booty call girls are a little different. There is a straight puta personal aspect to those relationships. And they have a more traditional transactional nature to them. But it's still a little more gentile than the straight street chica mentality I experienced in Sosua or Boca Chica. But of course my philosophy is more along the lines of: "Your time, your money, your dick!

An esteemed member and I had a conversation. I was wondering why so much of the membership is unable to make the fine distinctions between the different types of chicas that live here. Of course my position is very clear. Touristas de sexo (Sex Tourists) think they know the Republica Dominicana because they have been coming here for years and they have traveled the island working with garden tools to sow their oats within the narrow confines of the fertile lands they seek. Somehow they feel the narrow view of the country and its culture they experience makes them experts on the people and culture within the entire Dominican Republic. That's the real problem I have with the Sexual Tourists and critics. They project their experiences onto others and make assumptions about the country they are visiting based on a very narrow range of experiences. Then they have the nerve to be critical of me or to tell me I don't know what I'm doing. Of course I do motherfuckers. I live here! But the critics are many; they are vocal; they are the critics. And men in the arena know that they do not count.

Every seen a Haitian woman pushing a baby stroller through the barrio loaded with candy and snacks for sale? If you haven't then maybe you should get out more. My number #3 works 5 days a week, 10 hours a day. Goes to university on the sixth day. On the seven day she rests. She makes 12000 pesos a month. My cash gifts add seventeen percent to her monthly income (do the math). She cooks for me and cleans my (ocean view) apartment when she's here. She fucks and sucks me as much as I want. She wants to be here more than I want her to be. This is what I am speaking of when I say "qualitative difference". It is well documented that only about 20% of all women in the Dominican Republic are involved in prostitution. How do the other 80% of women survive since they are not interested in being paid to take your dick? May we have the envelope please?

They put in work! They put in work someplace other than on their backs or on their knees.

Just saying!

[QUOTE=SubCmdr;1889303]
1000 pesos a month will feed one kid. That's right! I said 1000 pesos feeds one kid for a month. And you paying the chicas 1000 to 1500 pesos a fuck? You are helping feed her kids? Only if you are her first fuck of the month? [/QUOTE]I would like to know how you calculated this and what nutritional standards you consider to be reasonable.

I agree that rice is pretty cheap and older children can drink water, not juices or sodas, and fresh fruit is fairly cheap in the DR, but you say you can feed a child (age unspecified) for 1000 pesos a month, but one glass of milk daily or a small carton of chocolate milk would use up more than half of this budget of about US $0. 75 per day regardless of whether you buy ready made or the powders like Nido or Alpha plus that have added vitamins and minerals formulated for children. School lunches in the DR cost 100 pesos or more daily, so that alone could be 2000 pesos per month. [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord131][CodeWord131][/url] are 15 pesos each if bought singly and a bit cheaper if bought in larger packs, but 2 or 3 per day would meet your 1000 pesos. How about health insurance and the cost of medications? A bottle of pediatric Augmentin is how much? I think about 400 pesos. A bottle of cough medicine? A copayment at the pediatrician office? And then there is the cost of childrens clothing, school uniforms, shoes, back-to-school supplies, and so on. Transportation to school in a guagua will run about 2000 pesos a month and not much cheaper using motoconchos. And then women may have to pay caregivers to mind the children while they work if they don't have mothers doing this.