part 2: Working Vacation from Cebu to Bangkok becomes "Penile Working vacation"
I will caution that again I am going to cross post some of this in the Bangkok forum.
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I did not do much hobbying after all while in LOS, but I was there for about 18 days....this was due to having to handle work problems more then having vaca time and some of the work problems meant I want to come back in 6 months when my finances are 4X what they were.
Someone mentioned that Filipinos are more reserved than thais because they are catholic. There is MAYBE something to that, but the best comparison is to Catholics in Latin America. Same idea. Came from what may have been "Animist" religion and then the Spanish forced Catholicism on them. So you have a mix. In that mix for the girls in the PHILS are famous the world over for wanting to please their man. Just spend 20 hours on the dating sites as I have and you'll see that. I don't really know how much the Thai women have this huge urge to please there man.
But the Thai girls know the concept FUN ...no question about that. There was a "playfulness" I found with girls there that is not as common in the Phil’s. I only sampled 3-4 of the fruit of Thailand on this trip (another 8-15 on 3 trips 5-15 years ago). But there FUN attitude was just what I needed given my work is at a very high stress place right now.
I spent my last 10 days on phucket. My God I had no idea the place had changed so much. It looked NOTHING like when I was there about 6 years ago. Honestly, I much preferred the Patong of 6 years ago. But what you do have now is more selection. There are slews of working girls in Patong ...not tough to find your diamond. And I was able to do just that.
What a dream...I just couldn't believe she was new to the game, but she proved it. I don't like girls that are working in bars for too long. Her English was close to zero and for me that just killed the comparison to girls in the Phils. She stayed long term at my hotel, Patong Resort-- which sucks-- and then spent the entire next day with me “free”.
Was such a bummer because of 6 girls I might have met in Cebu she would be #1. And I am very picky and am very good at digging for those hard to find diamonds. But we couldn't talk! I tried to convince her she should try to model...but with no language skills...well. Of the last 20 girls I've boned in the Phils only one did I mention about modeling….but I think that is because I’ve become accustomed to Phils beauty but Thai beauty is new (refresher: this was my first time back to LOS in about 5 or 6 years). Telling a bar girl to try modeling….that’s a topic of a whole other post.
There are a LOT of average looking girls in phuket and to a lesser extent BKK. So if you are a newbie to this hobby, you must learn restraint. Promise yourself to let at least 2 girls that are attainable THAT NIGHT make you harder then you've felt in ages before you choose where to put the hardness where it belongs.
And if you follow my MO, PRETEND as if you are picking these girls up at a disco. Pretend—to yourself—that it really matters what they think of you (and also that you treat them like someone you pick-up in your own country in a disco…not anything less). The more you have to offer, the more any girl will reciprocate. Yes, money is what most want in the offer and may be 99.0% of what matters, but if they really like you and there is a chance you will get to know them then money may be 25% I look at it as if they are not much different than the girl that sleeps with a guy on the 2nd date because for whatever reason she thinks that she’ll enjoy it and that it will be a good thing for remaining a longer term prospect to him if she is really keen on staying with him.
For me, I love BKK because it is NOT Christian and I do like so much of Buddhism stands for. BKK is just a very fun city to explore if you like such things. And I don't just mean seedy exploration. But I love Cebu even more. The phils are simply cheaper in the P4P world and girls are easier to find that are looking for BF experience.
I am going to make a bigger effort to stay away from p4p because I do see too much BS here in Cebu with the way the Mama Sans treat the girls. I thought girls had full discretion about turning down a guy that wants to barfine here...at the places I like...but just from last nights girl I took out here I've seen more of what a hard sell girls get about going with ANYONE that will pay a barfine (this is dancers I'm talking about, the BARS in LOS don't make much from a barfine since it's small). That's only sometimes the case, but when I hear about a girl being roughed up by a guy from the middle east who think women in bars can be treated like dogs and the Mama San does nothing but playing mouth service to looking into it or calling the hotel, as I heard about last night ...well the whole p4p loses some luster.
My work will involve a lot of travel starting 3 months from now. When I can, Russia and it's girls are top of my list (too expensive in W. Europe I think other then the FKK clubs which I don't quite "get" yet) and then when I have the time for some adventure...back to Cambodia and maybe a first time trip to Mongolia. I LOVE tall girls and B+ pr C cups are a must.
This was not as much an inspired post...hope the next one will be.
Cheaper to rent than to own
[QUOTE=Fastpiston]Do not send money to Internet 'strangers'. Crazy.
Even sending money to girls once you know them is also very tricky.
Money disappearing is very common even when offshore Filipinos send money to their own family (the risks are far greater when sending money to an Internet 'stranger').
I met a very nice girl who worked in Japan and sent her money on loan to her relatives. She told me that it is now all gone and she will never get it back. She said all her work in Japan was wasted. Husbands and relatives who receive money from their wives overseas usually spend it on San Miguels and flesh. Even if the recipient is honest, there are sharks surrounding them.
Also remember, most girls on Internet have a man in the shadows who is on the food chain! Same with most bar girls. These guys are drawn to girls receiving foreign money like flies to a poo.[/QUOTE]
gentlemen:
Trust me on this one, the girls working the internet are doing just that, working, they dont give a damn about you as much as their business. Many of these girls are supporting their families, and you are correct in some cases the "family" is her husband/BF.
You want horror stories? here are a few from the Spamhog files:
Guy who is sending his common law wife $600 as month plus "packages" from the Us every month, she was screwing a filipino neighbor and a local US expat as well, I think the expat was paying her also, "freind" of the Husband.
This bimbo was also working the internet, putting on titty shows for money.
The infamous Judy Altracha, Siren of Davao who was the queen of the internet scamsters, she amassed a fortune from "fiances" all over the world.
She owns several houses and properties all over Davao and some in Cebu. She was on CB until the kicked her off, she reappears on the chat lines every now and then one of a hundred alias'.
The Byot who bilked dozens of men out of money for his "sick" mother. Lives in Davao. This guy was very fine boned and had long hair, wouldn't know he was a guy unless you saw him in person, he was also using the photods of a Philippinnes beauty queen stolen from her web site.
One thing is common gentlemen, these scamsteresses CAN NOT EXIST WITHOUT SOME SAP SENDING THEM MONEY!!!!! You should hear how these girls talk about you and how they brag about how much they make, If some guy sends a hundred bux US they Triple or quadruple the ante.
Nuff said
Spamhog
