When a freebie isn't a freebie
Tom SF Pm'd me and asked me for clarification on my most expensive freebie. As I recall, I have not seen any comments on this "scam" for a while so I will give the short version of what happened to me. You will read this and think, " I would never let that happen to me. " I know because I thought the same thing. Little did I know within a month of reading the post, I would start down this same path.
1. I met a massage girl and got a massage and he. She was beautiful and quite young (22). She was somewhat innocent and fresh off the farm and had been only doing HEs for a month. She used to do legit massage and had moved over to this place for better money "for her family"
2. I started seeing her 3-4 times a week on my visits every other month "for free". It turns out she was a virgin and had never crossed the line. We went out to dinners. I bought her gifts and she moved into my hotel for the weeks I was in town. We texted and Wechatted when I was in the USA. I fell for her, We finally made love, popped the cherry and it got even better. She was definitely a virgin in the beginning but she learned well and quickly. Teaching a virgin 20 years younger than me was a wonderful time.
3. She figured out that I was not leaving my wife and the game changed. Her girlfriends at the MP had taught her how to get more money from me. Her family were (supposedly) evicted from their house, they needed money. She was going to have to start working at a sauna to make more money. I paid to help as I couldn't bear the thought. It was a good chunk of money.
4. The demands for gifts, money and shopping trips got more and more on each visit to Shanghai. I wised up but it took longer than it should. For all I know she had turned this trick into 3- 4 different boyfriends with the similar scam by the end of our relationship.
I had read a post where the guy tells a similar story. He ended it with "Don't ever fall in love with a massage girl" I thought he was a complete idiot. You can think the same of me because I was an idiot. I do know, however, there are other guys out there like me as they have posted before. The details are different but the story is the same.
If, however, you find yourself saying "Yea, but my girl is different. " It's probably too late and you should run for the door.
Sam Can.
Just a lesson to others- no complaints
[QUOTE=NorthSouth;1967209]You got a prized cherry.
You want to talk expensive freebies: go ask Bernie Ecclestone and Harold Hamm. Their divorce settlements were both a billion USD, and I bet their wives were costly to maintain during the marriage as well.[/QUOTE]Thanks North/ South! No, I am not complaining. It was a lesson I learned well. I shared it here only to warn people. This story has played out a bunch of times in Shanghai.
Going forward I never let it happen again. I had a couple other massage girls tell me (in chinese) "I like you". I immediately responded in chinese "you like my money" one acted insulted, one laughed out loud. Be cause she knew I was right.
There is an underground market to buy the Cherry of a pretty chinese girl in Shanghai. It is considered to bring good business luck. Dpn't ask me how it happens or where the market is. I really don't know. I met a Chinese business man in a bar that told me about it. The going rate (I was told) in 2013 was about 30,000 to 40,000 RMB. All I will say is I overpaid during the relationship I had. Of course that rate was for one night. My fun lasted well over a year.