Similar experience and later found a winner
[QUOTE=SamCan;1967141]Tom SF Pm'd me and asked me for clarification on my most expensive freebie. As I recall, I have not seen any comments on this "scam" for a while so I will give the short version of what happened to me. You will read this and think, " I would never let that happen to me. " I know because I thought the same thing. Little did I know within a month of reading the post, I would start down this same path.
1. I met a massage girl and got a massage and he. She was beautiful and quite young (22). She was somewhat innocent and fresh off the farm and had been only doing HEs for a month. She used to do legit massage and had moved over to this place for better money "for her family"
2. I started seeing her 3-4 times a week on my visits every other month "for free". It turns out she was a virgin and had never crossed the line. We went out to dinners. I bought her gifts and she moved into my hotel for the weeks I was in town. We texted and Wechatted when I was in the USA. I fell for her, We finally made love, popped the cherry and it got even better. She was definitely a virgin in the beginning but she learned well and quickly..[/QUOTE]I had a similar situation happen to me with a KTV hostess in Shenzhen about 4 years ago. First week was great and no request for additional money of gifts past the first night. Every other trip after that was full of health or money issues about her parents or sister. Cut the cord as soon as I realized the gifts were disappearing shortly after given to her. A friend clued me in that the girls sell them for cash. Caught on fairly quick. Three or four trips so not out too much.
The following year I came across a young woman at a MP at a 5 star hotel. Long story short, three years later I stay at her place when I am in Shanghai and she has never asked for money or for me to buy her large gifts. She has asked me to bring her things things from the US that she would have trouble finding in Shanghai. Special body lotion, vitamins or other things usually found for a few dollars.
In the beginning she would stay at my hotel. I would try to take her out for dinner but she insisted on eating in the hotel room. Not always room service. Sometimes she would bring food. She eventually explained she was uncomfortable walking around with a foreigner as people would think she was a prostitute. Now we go out in public together all of the time. She is very frugal and if I try to buy her something nice but unnecessary, she stops me. I buy groceries when I visit always take her to a nice dinner at least once a visit.
My point? Although there are a lot of scammers, you can also find a gem once in a while.
Zhangjiang Yitel Hotel, Pudong
While I was staying at the Zhangjiang Yitel Hotel on Cailun Road, Pudong, everyday when I would find a visiting card offering massage near my doorstep. There was no indication of the location of the MP, only a phone number. After the first couple of nights, I asked at the reception about the visiting card and the phone number therein. The receptionist gave a smile and said the MP was located on the 6th floor of the hotel.
I walked along the corridors of the 6th floor but could not locate the MP. As I was waiting for the lift, I saw a lady coming out of the lift and walked towards a room near the lift. I asked her whether she knew of the MP. She greeted and invited me in her room which was also used as a massage parlor.
While we were discussing about the services offered and the charges, another lady came in. She asked me to choose between her and the other lady. She quoted 400 RMB if I did it there or RMB 350 if I did it in my room.
I chose the other lady and invited her in my room. I walked to my room and after some 10 minutes the lady came. After shower, we did in different positions, she did BBBJ but no CIM, no anal. After the deed, we showered again and I paid her 350 RMB. A nice experience indeed.