Thai Women - Opinions & Advice

[QUOTE=Daddy07]All throughout her sorry tale of woe she had not one bad word to say about her husband, nor did she cry a tear or whine about her plight. She was simply relieved and happy to be back in Thailand with her family and friends. And, now she’s back at her old bar out of financial necessity to make enough money to support her family. She doesn’t like being a bar girl but takes it all in stride. She’s a real sweetheart! I told her how sorry I am for her.[/QUOTE]Interesting to hear the end of the history. This girls really don't seem to be able to advance, get a new life, a new work and move on. Pretty sad for them.

Anyway, what has impressed me more is how you talk about her. She has been receiving a lot of money for thai standards from this man, if anything her bussiness have been rocking this last months or whatever this relationship lasted.

Many Thai women I have been around including my wife has mentioned something like this.. The key I guess is to never do it in front of them which is the impression I get from the Thai. It is saving face for them.

Just the other day, I was at Carrefour minding my own business on the escalator when all of a sudden this Thai women rush passed me and starting punching and smacking this Farang that was in front of me. She was screaming and punching him knocking his glasses off. I pretty much put it together that he was being a butterfly cause the other women was right next to him and she took off as there was no tommorow. In the end, he was sitting outside the parking lot while she was laying it into him like there was no tomorrow, crying, etc... and I have to give the Farang credit! he just sat there and took it all in while everyone was staring and laughing. Maybe this is the same guy! When he went home and fell asleep she got even!

LBM

[QUOTE=1Ball]These stories have been told many times, and IIRC, only in Thailand.

Does anyone know if this is a common occurence in any other country?[/QUOTE]
The Swedes have been known to do it to themselves. Check out the video.
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Other documented cases of penis chopping:

[url]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penis_removal#Documented_cases[/url]

Apologies regarding my previous question.Read the last 12 months of info about thai woman as well as Private Dancer.It scared the shit out of me.

I am right now planning what will be my third trip to BKK.

And since I became kind of fed up with the P4P girls during my last visit, I'm doing some research on Thailovelinks.

I found a few cuties, we did video-conferences.

They seem a bit more educated than the typical bargirl, they basically are middle-class workers (receptionnist, sales woman.)

But I wanted to ask you guys some advice on this.

I have never been BFing regular Thai girls before, and I heard that their shy smile can sometimes hide a pretty psychopatic behaviour.

I don't want to get my penis chopped up while I'm on holiday, that would ruin it all.

But on the other side, I'm sick of bargirls who won't go to Paragon.

The food court is so nice there (especially that japanese restaurant where they do charcoal grilled fish).

Thanks again for the replies to my post of April 4 when I asked for advice. I have just posted a report in the Pattaya thread if you're interested to see how it turned out.

[quote=neil flanders]i am right now planning what will be my third trip to bkk.

and since i became kind of fed up with the p4p girls during my last visit, i'm doing some research on thailovelinks.

i found a few cuties, we did video-conferences.

they seem a bit more educated than the typical bargirl, they basically are middle-class workers (receptionnist, sales woman.)

but i wanted to ask you guys some advice on this.

i have never been bfing regular thai girls before, and i heard that their shy smile can sometimes hide a pretty psychopatic behaviour.

i don't want to get my penis chopped up while i'm on holiday, that would ruin it all.

but on the other side, i'm sick of bargirls who won't go to paragon.

the food court is so nice there (especially that japanese restaurant where they do charcoal grilled fish).[/quote]

first of all, you shouldn't want to take a bargirl to paragon, anyway. she doesn't belong there, would stick out like a sore thumb and feel incredibly out-of-place and uncomfortable. and, you would look like a knob, as well for taking her there. ditto for emporium. i went to see "the international' at emporium on sunday and the film was chock a block full of farang geezers, acting like love-struck, first-date romantics with their rent-a-humps. guys like this are perpetually in a fog when it comes to understanding what these girls really want to do. except for me and all these "loving" couples, the theatre was practically empty. why? because the film is far too serious and requires far too much thought for even educated thais. films like this wither on the vine here. thais prefer mindless comedies, and cartoons. therefore, on exiting the film, as expected, i saw a lot of glum, bored-off-their-faces bar tarts dying to get away from these clueless gits, yammering at them in english, while all the while, these girls longed for a thai soap opera, a plate of som tam, sticky rice and kai yang and a good chin-wag in isaan with their mates.


thailovelinks:

having had considerable experience with thailovelinks over the last 6 years, my first and best advice is not to get your hopes up and most certainly not to believe everything these girls tell you. it's true that at one time you might have found attractive, middle-class and even higher women on there. but, those days are generally gone. i'd say that the quality both in looks and class of these girls has dropped drastically over the last 2-3 years. most of these girls are definitely not middle-class, but much lower. it's true that many seem to have some sort of job, including office worker or shopgirl, but at the most basic level. that isn't middle-class in thailand. few truly middle-class girls would actually go on a site like this, now because they would be perceived in a very negative light, if found out. tll has a bad rep, these days. in any case, it's highly unlikely that a solidly, middle-class thai girl is going to hook up with a farang on holiday, unless he's an adonis and willing to take her somewhere a little more substantial than the food court at paragon.

i'm always skeptical of the education the girls on tll claim to have. they know that farang are generally better educated than thais and therefore think that putting this on their profile adds to their own desirability. but, if you scrape the surface, many generally have some sort of mediocre vocational college education or less, at best. p4p girls discovered online dating sites, particularly thailovelinks, and began joining with a vengeance a few years ago. upcountry villages have an english-speaking broker "mamasan" who for a fee chats on behalf of the girls, most of whom have rudimentary english skills at best. the girl might be on the webcam, but may not be doing the typing.

also, more than a few of these girls are p4p in one form or another, even if they try to disguise it. discussions of money often enter the "relationship" at some point or other. i was still active on tll up until december, until i got fed up with the low quality. the last 4 girls i met all wanted money and were willing to shag to get it. all, except one were ugly, desperate dogs. i did end up shagging the last one, because she was a reasonably cute 20 y.o. student from ramkhamhaeng u. and was very up front about "needing help" for school. i saw it as nothing more than another form of p4p, even if she deluded herself, that the money i gave her wasn't connected to the sex, but was just my being "jai dee" for helping her with her school fees.

the "unkindest cut"...

it is true that thai girls are often psycho, when they feel that they've been slighted in one of a thousand mysterious ways. but, i doubt that most would cut off your dick. i've never heard of this happening to any farang. while there are certainly incidents of it in the general population in thailand, i think the frequency is subject to gross exaggeration bordering on urban myth. there are lots of jokes about it. but, i think in most cases, that's as far as it goes.

if you don't have unrealistic expectations about tll, you may have some fun and find someone to eat japanese food with at paragon. although, to tell you the truth, if you really like japanese food, there are many far better, more authentic and cheaper japanese restaurants around.

btw...imo, the food court at paragon is a mess, noisy, overcrowded and overpriced. the more upmarket food hall on the 5th floor of mbk, or better yet, the one on the top floor of central chidlom are a better bet, if you like having a choice of food in one locale. the food and the ambience are a lot better, especially at central chidlom, where you often have the added bonus of some a-list thai actress and model eye-candy.

Dear OTH,

I would like to thank you for all your wise advices on how to handle thai girls.
TLL is not so great, you are definitely right.

But when you say I should not take a bargirl to Paragon, it does not make much sense to me.

Coming from a socialist culture (France), I have trouble understanding why a bargirl can feel un-at-ease at Paragon. After all it's a mall and whatever your social status is, you are a customer.

In general, I am very uncomfortable with the way rich thai people look at people from lower classes.

There are big social gaps in my country too, but rich people do not despise poor people the way they do in Thailand.

This always pissed me off.

Thanks for you restaurant recommandations, I'll try them on my next trip!

[quote=old thai hand]i went to see "the international' at emporium on sunday and the film was chock a block full of farang geezers, acting like love-struck, first-date romantics with their rent-a-humps. [/quote]

hahahahahahaha... this is so funny because i often go to the movies and see exactly the same thing :d


[quote]btw...imo, the food court at paragon is a mess, noisy, overcrowded and overpriced. the more upmarket food hall on the 5th floor of mbk, or better yet, the one on the top floor of central chidlom are a better bet, if you like having a choice of food in one locale. the food and the ambience are a lot better, especially at central chidlom, where you often have the added bonus of some a-list thai actress and model eye-candy.[/quote]

we agree here. food courts at paragon (and emporium) are a disgrace in my opinion: expensive and tasteless food. that's basically all the little shops you would find in a thai foodcourt, minus the taste and double the price.

as far as food courts go, yes, the food lofts (central chidlom or central world) are good bets. some restaurants at central world are also very decent.

the only place i would consider eating at paragon is tony romas because their ribs aren't bad at all (almost as good as great american rib company soi 36).
forget the pseudo italian restaurants who serve you dry pasta with tasteless sauces, viavai sukh soi 8 is a nice place (especially good after a bj @ [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord900][CodeWord900][/url]) :d

It is strange that a person would be alienated from a temple to crass materialism (a mall) just because she was a prostitute. One would think that this would make her the perfect denizen!

[QUOTE=Opebo]It is strange that a person would be alienated from a temple to crass materialism (a mall) just because she was a prostitute. One would think that this would make her the perfect denizen![/QUOTE]

In my case, it's not the lady that amuses me but more the Farang who is (as OTH so adequately described) "acting like love-struck, first-date romantics".

[QUOTE=Neil Flanders]
But when you say I should not take a bargirl to Paragon, it does not make much sense to me.

Coming from a socialist culture (France), I have trouble understanding why a bargirl can feel un-at-ease at Paragon. After all it's a mall and whatever your social status is, you are a customer.[/QUOTE]

There are malls (Central Ladprao, The Mall Bangkapi, The Mall Bangkae, The Mall Ramkhamhaeng, Seacon Square) and then there is Paragon and Emporium - as different as night and day.

It is a class thing, to be sure. Look at the clientele of both Paragon and Emporium, then look at your average BG. See the difference? She's immediately marked as undesirable by her skin colour, facial features, clothes, and demeanor, and she knows it. It's not her milieu. Put her in a typical Thai street market, where she can buy clothes for 99 baht and somtam for 20 and she's as happy as a pig in shit.

This isn't exclusive to Thailand. How many African-Americans from the projects in southside Chicago are welcome in the shops on the Golden Mile of Michigan Ave. or from South Central LA, on Rodeo Drive?
How many Sicilian fishermen would feel comfortable if suddenly thrust among the glitterati on Via Monte Napoleone in Milan?

Thailand is a patriarchal, hierarchical, feudal society. "Liberté, égalité, fraternité" would be completely lost on most Thais.

There is a stunning show girl at one of the Walking Street Go-go bars with whom I’ve developed a friendly relationship. I won’t bar fine her because she wants too much for her services, and she also confided to me once that she doesn’t much like sex. Never-the-less, I often buy her a lady drink from time to time and enjoy talking to her about this and that.

A month had gone by since I had last seen her, and I was wondering if she found a sponsor, left the bar, and got married, but there she was on the stage last night weiing me with a big smile on her face and an even bigger set of tits on her chest then she ever had before.

Of course, I noticed her new acquisitions immediately. This girl has always sported rather large silicone enhancements, (which I don’t particularly like), but her new breasts are positively huge.

After her set, she came bouncing over to me wondering if I thought she looked any different. I told her “yes,” I sure did. She chuckled while I complimented her on her appearance, and squeezed the luscious new globes, which felt quite real by the way, and I told her so. I then asked her why she did it as I thought her old pair of tits were plenty large enough and beautiful too. “No they weren’t,” she said, “and I didn’t like the shape either,” she explained.

Well, I could hardly agree, because I don’t like fake boobs – especially the big ones -- but resisted the urge to tell her so. Instead I raved about them and she seemed very pleased.

“How much did they cost you?” I finally asked. “Sixty-two thousand baht,” she retorted.

“Oh, my!,” I exclaimed, “but they certainly are lovely, honey.”

Bar girls are crazy! I love ‘em though.

[QUOTE=Old Thai Hand]There are malls (Central Ladprao, The Mall Bangkapi, The Mall Bangkae, The Mall Ramkhamhaeng, Seacon Square) and then there is Paragon and Emporium - as different as night and day.

It is a class thing, to be sure. Look at the clientele of both Paragon and Emporium, then look at your average BG. See the difference? She's immediately marked as undesirable by her skin colour, facial features, clothes, and demeanor, and she knows it. It's not her milieu. Put her in a typical Thai street market, where she can buy clothes for 99 baht and somtam for 20 and she's as happy as a pig in shit.

This isn't exclusive to Thailand. How many African-Americans from the projects in southside Chicago are welcome in the shops on the Golden Mile of Michigan Ave. or from South Central LA, on Rodeo Drive?
How many Sicilian fishermen would feel comfortable if suddenly thrust among the glitterati on Via Monte Napoleone in Milan?

Thailand is a patriarchal, hierarchical, feudal society. "Liberté, égalité, fraternité" would be completely lost on most Thais.[/QUOTE]
I concur... On my first visit to BKK, I made the mistake of taking a nice, older (in her 30's) Isaan honey to the Emporium. Yes she was a bargirl, but not dressed like one that night. She was dressed and made up like a professional office worker, but she still got the "what are you doing here?" stares. The honey was game, we went to dinner at one of the nicer places in the food court upstairs, but the waitress could not be bothered to give us the time of day even though the place was only a third full. I had to complain to the manager to have another waiter assigned to my table.

[QUOTE=Finrod]I concur... On my first visit to BKK, I made the mistake of taking a nice, older (in her 30's) Isaan honey to the Emporium. Yes she was a bargirl, but not dressed like one that night. She was dressed and made up like a professional office worker, but she still got the "what are you doing here?" stares. The honey was game, we went to dinner at one of the nicer places in the food court upstairs, but the waitress could not be bothered to give us the time of day even though the place was only a third full. I had to complain to the manager to have another waiter assigned to my table.[/QUOTE]
I wouldn't put all the blame on your honey(especially if she was dressed nicely). Thais will size you up too!