Manila

I wish to thank Pute nut + Irony monger + freebie Fan + Hutsori for all your positive suggestions.

You gentlemen nailed it. Even with experience I am hesitant. Not take charge.need to be more firm. You all made good valid points.

I have wasted time and money. I liked the one. Where you met the girl and went to your hotel with smiles and the other guy still drinking coffee going no where.

As a retired teacher you fellows get all A+ for your mongering and I have to give myself C-

I will take your suggestions to heart on my next trip coming up this year. Sad not soon enough.

I usually chat girls in DIA or tagged or Cherryblossoms. Then set up meetings in manila + Cebu.

Yes, I need to be more direct. A leader. Not just stumble and wait for the girl to give me the opening.

After I wrote my report. I had second thoughts that the members would "beat me up" saying I am a loser BUT none of you did and gave me good advice.

I reread each report and made note. Be assertive is what I need to be.

Thanks!

PS. I look forward to reading more of your "adventures" I admire you all.

Tally Wacker + Skogis + Sammon. All make great points and suggestions "HOW TO GET THE BROWN SKIN FILIPINA CHICA BABE IN THE SACK- You all true mongering professionals!

[QUOTE=MangoBob68;1436419]Tally Wacker + Skogis + Sammon. All make great points and suggestions "HOW TO GET THE BROWN SKIN FILIPINA CHICA BABE IN THE SACK- You all true mongering professionals![/QUOTE]No no not professionals but I have found myself a mongerpath working quite nicely for me. Both in what kind of girls I like and how do I get to them. I was going through my latest phil trip material here the other day and I will say I have an 80/20 ratio. 80% girls from datingsites and 20% freelancegirls or normal girls I know from other sources. I have in 1 year plus both in Bangkok and Makati 1 go go girl from Spankys In BKK and 1 working girl from Asian Entertainment Pasig Manila that is all when it comes to barfines in my case.

And you can get realy solid help inside here atleast when you adress an issue like yourself. Then we want to help and guide you so you can recalibrate and maby put in some new angels, tips and ideas in your next mongering spree. If you pull the right strings and press the right buttons it is difficult to be left alone in phils. I mean you probably will if you walk around acting or looking like satan himself but you seem like a nice fellow so I guess you don't use "him" as a leading star.

And you also raise some questions I believe many people have raised themself at times. Especially when they were newbees in this mongerworld. And I am by far a veteran. I am only 40 and started heavy mongering 6 years ago. I have only 1 plus year exp from phils but I have in 1 year or so allready managed to visit this 3 world country 6 times so I am effective.

I have some experience from other sources tough as my gf back home is of half pinay breed and I have met numerous of pinay au-pairs back in my country. And while an au pairs reason for coming to my country is cultural exchange(bullshit as we all know they clean house and watch kids)anyway why not fuck them while they are visiting. Then they atleast also know this side of my countries culture. We live and learn my friend.

[QUOTE=Irony Monger;1436183]Did YOU hint? All you need to do is say something like "Hey, I want to show you something" or "I forgot something in my room". Any excuse to get them back there is fine. They know what's up, they just don't want to be the one who makes the move, and if you use some innocuous excuse they won't feel slutty even if they know they are going there to sleep with you anyway. Most girls like plausible deniability for their own subconscious.[/QUOTE]Actually I just realise this is part of my MO. Usually in the pre-trip chats I've mentioned something like "I'll bring you chocolates / perfume". Then when I meet them that is back in my room. They have no problems coming back to get it and then off comes there shoes at the door and things just happen.

They know that their is no extra Pesos and they know what the other girls say about meeting foreigners. They know what is going to happen.

Someone said that there is a need "to be firm." Certainly I hope that is not meant as a physical thing. Pinay are so sweet that they never need physical methods.

Any besides the girls we are meeting love sex.

Cheers

[QUOTE=Mongerer69;1436285]Most Filipinas I have had contact with say they would love to hang out at the pool (in the shade of course) in pre-meeting online chats, and when you invite them to go to the Hotel Pool they almost always reply in kind even though most can't swim. and to bring their Bathing Suit. We walk across the street to The New World and obviously they have change into their swim suit in my room. Door closes. And game on! The perfect Filipina GFE. Works for me every time.[/QUOTE]Funny. On last trip I met three that never had a swimsuit so each time we trooped over to Landmark to peruse the bikini section. The perusing didn't take long as I hovered by the p250 bikinis and said "wow. This really suits you".

We both knew the closest it was going to get to a pool was the view from the bedroom window but it was only a 15 minute detour from the room. And as you state, once in room. The rest is history.

The Landmark girls happily gave me that "werent you here earlier with another girl" look.

[QUOTE=FreebieFan; 1436392]Trying things on. There are many ladies who happily try all sorts of things on, then freely admit they had no intention of ever buying it, just wanted to see how it looked on them.

In case you think this is all made up, sit and watch the guys who are in a shop with wife. They look like they are waiting for the world to end.[/QUOTE][url]Http://vimeo.com/66753575[/url]

[QUOTE=Skogis; 1436313].

I have pretty much found one weakness in staying at the best places there is though and that is it can be rather tricky to get girls to leave. This combined with my rather soft heart as in I hate to be cynical and just throw a girl out have made some session rather very LT.

[/QUOTE]If the weekend it's "golf". Takes many hours and the girl can't come with you. On the weekdays it's work and business meetings. At night it's a poker game, bbq or sports night at a friend's house.

[QUOTE=MangoBob68; 1436405]I wish to thank Pute nut + Irony monger + freebie Fan + Hutsori for all your positive suggestions.

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You're welcome.
[QUOTE=BrainDrain;1436453]Someone said that there is a need "to be firm." Certainly I hope that is not meant as a physical thing. Pinay are so sweet that they never need physical methods.[/QUOTE]That would be me. It is certainly not intended to be a recommendation for physical coercion. Or even the psychological kind, e.g. making promises of sponsorship, LTR, marriage. Don't be wishy washy. I think Freebiefan's example best shows what I meant.

If she still won't sleep with you do what my momma always did to me when I was a stubborn lad: Threaten to sell her to the gypsies.

[QUOTE=Hutsori;1436541]That would be me. It is certainly not intended to be a recommendation for physical coercion.[/QUOTE]Or me. I believe I made some recommendations to the same effect.

Of course if you cannot exercise your authority over a lady without getting physical you are a loser.

In addition to that, it is of course discouraged for many other reasons, such as local boyfriends or relatives in PNP (many have at least one, somewhere) who will gladly take you on. Don't do it.

[QUOTE=FreebieFan;1436459]The Landmark girls happily gave me that "werent you here earlier with another girl" look.[/QUOTE]Maybe you should've worn a T-shirt with "Coach, ISG University Swim Team" printed on it. Who knows, maybe you could have gotten one of them to join the "team", LOL.

Generally I avoid going shopping with girls unless she is a eye candy. Most often I give them money and let them go shopping by themselves and come back.

In Manila they go to street shops at Paranaque and in Cebu they go to Colon. They get cheap prices if they go alone rather than with me. Eye candies I take to nice mall to buy dresses and swim suits etc.

There is a trick to avoid girls using you and giving nothing in return. Never allow them to bring cousin, friend, relative to meet with you. In such cases they will be reserved and will never give sex. They consider it bad and loose face. Unless the other girl is willing to have sex with you. It has happened to me many times. I meet one girl and she brings her friend or cousin to stay together.

Do not entertain girls to go to lunch, dinner with their friends and relatives unless she has sex with you first. You are in Phi for a reason and that is to bed as many girls as possible. You are not there to innocent high school dating.

Do not be naive in thinking these girls are innocent fresh flowers. They have fun all the time. Most of these girls can act very well. Good thing is in Phi sex is natural for them. Where else 18-20 something girls will allow sex with 50-60-70 something guys? I am talking about non pros.

I do not believe in not compensating normal girls for their time and affection. Of course these girls sometimes do not ask for money but it is our duty to take care of them moneywise and if possible gift wise. Buy clothes she can use, buy shoes, bras, panties etc. I hate people who take advantage of these girls and behave like cheap Charlie.

[QUOTE=Fifty Pesos;1436521]It is not as easy as they make it out to be. As I pointed out in an earlier post Pseudologia fantastica is a trait of lot of men who engage in the hobby. I have challenged two gentlemen one a late 60s American and the other a late 50s Brit who claimed they were getting so much attention from non-pros to let me see them in action. The American blew a gasket and the Brit never got back with me.[/QUOTE]There are some folk here, with all their folksy wisdom who remind me of the Flat Earth Society.

They get a notion in their heads and theres nothing that can convince them otherwise.

These are the self same sadsacks who proclaimed the moon landing was made in a backlot.

I'd be happy to prove to you my comings and goings and comings but what would be the gain. You would still be a Flat Earther. So it doesn't matter.

And to be honest, I don't know you from Adam and have no interest in knowing you.

Keep spouting what you continue to believe. The Wisdom according to 50p ", because its the only crutch you have here.

Never a trip report, never anything of value, except varied versions of your last post.

Pseudologia Fantastica? Fifty pesos worth of Pratica Basura.

[QUOTE=Sammon;1436560]I do not believe in not compensating normal girls for their time and affection. Of course these girls sometimes do not ask for money but it is our duty to take care of them moneywise and if possible gift wise. Buy clothes she can use, buy shoes, bras, panties etc. I hate people who take advantage of these girls and behave like cheap Charlie.[/QUOTE]Amen.

I prefer to put it purses or pockets etc. Sometimes the "oh I'm so shocked" texts are quite cute. If you need to hand it over, make some corny excuse so we can all save some face. We are not buying sex, and they are not selling. Right. LOL.

I have to this day never given any cute crap like stuffed toys (but bring chocolate). I'm amazed how some guys do this. Myself I can't bring me to that after I was told of a buy-back scheme in place. This was re direct sales to hos, but anyway. If the BG could make the punter buy some stupid stuff bear, the girl had an instant 50% (if memory serves) if she returned the next day to the seller. Profit sharing. 50% to the girl. 50% to the stuffed toy vendor (who didn't need to restock, but got some free money, just they way pinays like it).

Cash is King.

[QUOTE=Pute Nut; 1436590]Amen.

I prefer to put it purses or pockets etc. Sometimes the "oh I'm so shocked" texts are quite cute. If you need to hand it over, make some corny excuse so we can all save some face. We are not buying sex, and they are not selling. Right. LOL.

I have to this day never given any cute crap like stuffed toys (but bring chocolate). I'm amazed how some guys do this. Myself I can't bring me to that after I was told of a buy-back scheme in place. This was re direct sales to hos, but anyway. If the BG could make the punter buy some stupid stuff bear, the girl had an instant 50% (if memory serves) if she returned the next day to the seller. Profit sharing. 50% to the girl. 50% to the stuffed toy vendor (who didn't need to restock, but got some free money, just they way pinays like it).

Cash is King.[/QUOTE]Since you seem to be dealing with only prostitutes then that philosophy should work fine. I usually date girls that have regular jobs and come from middle class families that are not in a desperate situation. To each his own. Enjoy the Philippines.

[QUOTE=Tally Wacker;1436610]Since you seem to be dealing with only prostitutes then that philosophy should work fine. I usually date girls that have regular jobs and come from middle class families that are not in a desperate situation. To each his own. Enjoy the Philippines.[/QUOTE]Hey, I could do that, too! But then I guess I'll have to trade in my beloved flip flops.

Enjoy your middle class, non-desperate pussy. (I have a feeling it feels the same when you come.)

[QUOTE=Pute Nut; 1436619]Hey, I could do that, too! But then I guess I'll have to trade in my beloved flip flops.

Enjoy your middle class, non-desperate pussy. (I have a feeling it feels the same when you come.) [/QUOTE]Haha I wear flip flops to and I've tried the prostitute thing a few times but to me it did not feel the same when I came. If your just about the "pussy" then like I said to each his own and enjoy the Philippines since it has a lot to offer.