Stay in Manila. If only 3 to 4 days.
There is Subic beach the old US navy base. About three hour ride. Take a cab and a girl or not many there. Angeles is fun. But low cost. You said you were qauility high end. Makati is it. And you have been given a good list of hotels. As suggested read back 50 pages Manila hotels and Manila thread. Have heard good things About Davao. But never for only a few days. Maybe a month. The mongering scene is not like Manila, Cebu, or Angelies. Based on your description of your Wants. Go to a pool in Manila. Use DIA before you get there. Date in Asia. Look for the best. Say 3. 500 to 4, 000 peso for long time to the boom on DIA, If they do not show you will be in the high end hunting ground. And by hunting I mean shooting fish in a barrel. Good luck