Bangkok Reports

[QUOTE=Barko]In this case, the [b]"one man's opinion"[/b] is yours and yours alone.[/QUOTE]

No, it's not.

Any man who needs to masturbate in Thailand, as Kumbu seems to be highly skilled at, is doing something wrong.

[QUOTE=Evianist]No, it's not.

Any man who needs to masturbate in Thailand, as Kumbu seems to be highly skilled at, is doing something wrong.[/QUOTE]You just don't get it... :) He does do lots of things wrong; so do I; so perhaps do you... But Kumbu tells us about it in an amusing and informative way.

Still don't see how you can call that self-agrandizement.

Anyway, enough debating non-existent posts. We all know the solution is to ignore posts we find boring. Let's move on.

[QUOTE=Mouse1]You just don't get it... :) He does do lots of things wrong; so do I; so perhaps do you... But Kumbu tells us about it in an amusing and informative way. [/QUOTE]

Perhaps you simply enjoy watching other men masturbate more than I do.

To each his own.

guys:

i've been reading the forum as much as i can over the last few weeks. i've secured a lot of info and i thank for you that.

after lots of traveling and living in latin america (see recent reports for san jose and managua if interested) i'm headed off to thailand. i have a question that has not been answered.

what is the limit to the level of depravity? i'm a huge pervert. i can get off on vanilla sex with no problem, but i really get going for the nasty stuff like:

- giving and receiving [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord101][CodeWord101][/url].

- drinking breast milk.

- pregnant women.

- licking ass.

- having sex with a women or getting a blow job from a woman immediately after another guy did, with the cream still inside / on her face and mouth.

- group action: mff, mfff, mfm, mfmf.

etc.

what is the availability? any recommendations on exact places to go? i will be traveling solo. will requests for girls in bars to find a guy to join us be viewed as insane and rejected outright?

thanks in advance.

[QUOTE=Evianist]Perhaps you simply enjoy watching other men masturbate more than I do.[/QUOTE]Unnecessarily offensive... :( If you can't string words together to make a coherent argument then why bother posting?

[quote=rick rock]
what is the availability? any recommendations on exact places to go? i will be traveling solo. will requests for girls in bars to find a guy to join us be viewed as insane and rejected outright?

thanks in advance.[/quote]

depends on your budget

the licking ass/[url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord103][CodeWord103][/url]/group action can probably be completed efficiently at eden.

as for the preggers it could be a bit hit and miss but as i recall another poster earlier this year had a similar fetish and apparently had a steady of them supply going but that was in pattaya. i'd say that would be the place. i've seen a few on beach rd but almost none who were definately working in bangkok in my mind.

maybe you could hire some gay thai rentboy (as they're probably easier to find for your purposes) to creampie the chick but i'm pretty sure you won't find many affianados here familar with that kind of scene.

you could even, as an act of charity, reach out to some of the more budget conscious mongers on the board who reside in los like opebo who enjoy a good creampie and offer to pay for their session in return for their sloppy seconds.

great post kumbu!

as sam elliot says in bl : "i like your style , dud."

you colorfully describe what i think is a real problem for most. i think the suggestion to pace your self is spot on. another thing you may think about is settling on one girl at the end of your trip. this will give you a chance to connect on a more emotional level and really enjoy the person. i found a real gem my last trip. sexy and sweet. no rocket scientist but i had fun hearing about her simple life in the provinces and just loved it when she showered me with thai kisses.

i am envious of your upcoming trip. i am trying to finagle a trip in january. if i do make it i will go hog wild my first week, and then spend the last week with this girl. perhaps take her on a romantic trip to an island somewhere. (like koh chang - which is just gorgeous.) plus it feels good to do something for someone who you like, as many of these girls really don't have the chance to travel.

the danger of this kind of course of action is that you may grow too attached and end up paying for the waterbuffalo and the grandma's operations while she is two-timing you with some god awful dude. but i guess i am a bit too jaded to ever really get into too much trouble.

in any case i know you will have a great adventure and look forward to your posts.

stay horny my friend...

uncle-v


[quote=kumbu][b]the noodly prelude[/b]
i used to live near a japanese noodle place in la called nagoya. they served the most delicious nagoya-style ramen i have ever had. it came in a red sesame-broth, with loads of different vegetables (mushrooms, carrots, spinach, celery, etc), and your choice of various meats. i would go there after work, or whenever i was particularly low on sugar, and order a veggie bowl.

i remember sitting there, waiting for my order to arrive, fingers fidgeting, smelling the odor of that delectable broth waft out of the kitchen, anxiously exchanging glances with the other equally anxious customers. we were all there for our sugar fix (noodles being as close to pure sugar as a food stuff can get), and we just couldn’t get it into our mouths fast enough.

when the bowl arrived, i would always look at it and think “oh man, that is not going to be enough…maybe i should order another bowl right now, so the second bowl arrives when i am finishing this first one…” i never would order the second bowl though.

the chop sticks would be ready to go, and as soon as the server’s hands were out of the way, i was pulling the first delightful strands of ramen out of the rich, red soup and slurping it up with complete disregard for my white work shirt. hot, silky ramen would hit my tongue, the tasty, spicy soup filled my mouth, bits of mushroom were swallowed whole without the patience for chewing even. i devoured the stuff like a man possessed, and for the first few, greedy mouthfuls i would be thinking “man, this is not going to be enough…i really should order another bowl…maybe two extra bowls this time?” but to order another bowl would mean i would need to stop stuffing the beautiful carbs into my face for a moment, long enough to compose myself, get the attention of the waiter, and place the order. fuck it – it was always easier to just gorge myself on the ramen in front of me.

as the ramen diminished, and as i approached the middle of the bowl, my frenetic pace would likewise diminish. i began to regain my senses again, my self-respect slowly returning. i started to realize that i was being stared at by the other guests. well, at least the ones who had finished their bowls and had the blood-sugar levels to look at me in disgust. the other guests were just fidgeting with their fingers waiting for their bowl, or embarrassing themselves the same way i was. but i started to slow down, the panic of having to get the noodles into me slowly being replaced by a more well-paced appreciation for the flavors.

and as you might predict, as i neared the end of the bowl, my blood sugar level reaching a peak, i began to feel nauseous. the sudden onslaught of carbs had flooded my system with sugar, and my head would begin to feel very light and airy at this point. i never flagged in my desire to consume every last drop of that delicious broth, to nab every little bit of mushroom and celery, but by the time i was scraping the bottom of the bowl, i knew i was done. a second bowl would just never be consumed, absolutely not with the same vigor and delight, and it would probably not even get finished. i was so full, so nauseous, so satiated that i could not even think of another bowl of that stuff. in fact, i needed to get out of that restaurant because the smell pouring from the kitchen was just so damned sickening, it made me want to vomit. and those damned customers slurping and lip-smacking, noodle-broth flying all over their faces and shirts – it made me sick watching them guzzle the food like shameless heathens. i would walk out of that noodle store completely satisfied and overly-satiated, convinced that i would never want to eat noodles again. until the next afternoon at 4pm when the urge returns.

[b]the point?[/b]
why am i telling you all this? well, the same cyclical pattern of total, unfettered greed > measured appreciation > complete satiation, usually exhibits itself in my mongering trips to thailand. i usually arrive like a starved working man, unable to restrain myself, eager to fuck anything in sight. i sex myself silly for an indeterminate period of time, oblivious to the shame to my character and the filth on my clothing, before the desperate panic subsides. i then have a few days of clarity in which i really appreciate what i am experiencing – a window of enlightened experience, if you will. but this is soon replaced by satiation, after which i begin to get sick of the experience. i start to wonder what else there is in the monger’s experience. do i really want to expend the energy to go out and find yet another girl? a girl who will play yet the same show of money vs. pleasure? who will do yet the same things with me? is it really worth my effort?

my past trips have typically been month-long affairs, and so you can see how daily sex (sometimes more than daily) can have that effect on a man. but this time, my trip will be much shorter – more like 9 days. and add to that the fact that i will be working all day every day, this is going to be one hell of a strenuous 9 days. but what is a man to do?

so my goal over the 9 day trip is to try to understand, introspect on, examine, and perhaps (dare i say it?) *control* the above-described pattern. i wonder if the panic i feel at the beginning of a trip is generalized to all pleasurable sensory input? i wonder if thinking about it and trying to understand it will in any way inhibit it? or exaggerate it? i wonder if this might increase/decrease the overall satisfaction i get from the full 9 days? i wonder if i can control the decrease in pleasure i get as the trip wears on? i wonder if i can get on that plane at the end of the trip and be in a state of mind that is different from usual – that is, eager to return, knowing full well what i am leaving behind. let’s see how this unfolds.

[b]fair warning[/b]
my reports are not for all. as you can see already, i am verbose, to the point of being painful for some. if this is you, [u]please don’t read my reports[/u].

i include loads of details, but i don’t succinctly package them for you like other posters do. instead, i contextualize everything. so if i say i paid 10,000b for one night with a girl, then i will also tell you exactly why i did such an extreme thing. you wont be left thinking i am irrational (or maybe you will, who knows), but you will get my full rationale for my actions. some people don’t like this – they want the how much, how long, how many times, and info on where they can get the same, summarized into four lines. if this is you, [u]please don’t read my reports[/u].

i am often opinionated in that i will write my reports expressing my own, often unusual, perspective on mongering, without regard to the general mood of this forum. that is, crude exploitation of the ladies is not my thing. if i am completely honest, i exploit them in a more sophisticated way. i prefer to think of it less as exploitation and more of sharing an experience, but that may be delusion on my part. if you prefer the ‘i fucked her hard and paid her shit’ kind of reports, [u]please don’t read my reports[/u].

and finally, i enjoy writing. i think of it as mental masturbation, and like the regular masturbation, i like to do it long and slow. so if you don’t want to share in this activity, [u]please, just don’t read my reports[/u]. i am sure i am on a couple of people’s buddy lists, but i am also sure i am on a whole lot of other people’s ignore lists. this fair warning is an attempt to head off mindless and unnecessary flames for the above things. a futile attempt, i know, but still.[/quote]

Great Pick! Where can i find her!!!!!

[QUOTE=Fon Tok]A few lives back, when I was a full time skibum (for over 20 years), we used to say that some guys were "legends in their own minds."

Not that this was always derogatory, as "the legend" was usually entertaining, one way or another... ;)

Regarding Khun Kumbu, I say let him write all he wants. I find his approach refreshing in a world that is fast becoming a seas of short and vapid one line communications, and badly composed pussy shots.[/QUOTE]

Is there anything else like the Eden club near soi cowboy or something more upscale?

Yeah, the advise from Natty Bumpo, Uncle V and others is sensible. But I was actually thinking about what means I could use to try to lengthen that initial, intense greed. I mean, pacing yourself is a kind of method to minimize the initial surge, thereby delaying the inevitable drop-off. I wonder what means I could use to still get that initial, frenzied, seemingly-insatiable lust to last longer than it usually does. Besides drugs that is. Well, that's my aim now, so let's see if I come out of this trip any more enlightened/informed than I am now.

Reminder: User CP > Buddy / Ignore Lists > Kumbu

I shall refrain from rehashing the old self-aggrandizing debate (as David33 said, we've been through this before - seemingly every time I post anything new, hence my Fair Warning). And as I said in that opening post, under Fair Warning, [b][u]just don't read my posts.[/u][/b] It ain't that hard.
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“Good afternoon sir, flying to Narita today?”
“Umm, yes.”
“And your final destination is...(fingers clickety-clack on her keyboard)...Bangkok...”

The pretty, brunette, mid-30s ANA counter lady looks down uncomfortably, avoiding my eye gaze. Bangkok? A single man, flying to Bangkok, for 9 days...with that glint in his eye...what else could it be?

I felt like blurting out “It's for business! Yes, business...work, I'm going there for work - WORK! I'm not a pervert, I'm NOT...really.”

But of course...I am.

Well...

You readers of this forum obviously don't share in that assessment. We are doing what is very natural for men, and the labels that society places on us are just that: labels. But nonetheless, no matter how much I rationalize it to myself, and no matter how much solace I find in fora like this one, I still can't shake the judgmental looks and insinuating glances I get. Sometimes I think I imagine those insinuations even when they are not there, so strong is the power of society over me. But that hasn't stopped me from doing what must be done.

I flew through Narita, enjoyed the finger sandwiches in the ANA lounge, along with a score of espressos. Appropriately jacked up on caffeine, I worked my ass off for the duration of the layover and the entire 6 hour flight to BKK so that upon landing, I was guilt-free and ready to rumble.

The plane touched down at 10:33pm; Our gate was right next to immigration, so no endless hustling through those long, never-ending corridors in Suvarnabhumi. I whizzed through immigration, grabbed my luggage and scampered through customs, and found my way to the first floor taxi stand. I was sitting in my taxi by 11:05, and at my hotel at exactly 11:35pm. The meter read 238B, plus the 70 in tolls, plus the 50B airport surcharge – you do the math. One hour from touchdown to arrival at the hotel – I think this is only possible if you arrive late at night, as there is no traffic at that time.

I booked half my stay in the Grand Millennium, using [b]that amazingly helpful Wotif post from [u]Barko[/u][/b] in the BKK Hotels thread (once again, many thanks Barko). The hotel looks good, at least so far, although picky Kumbu has found some things to complain about (all minor). I will post a full report in the hotels thread upon my departure. I say 'half my stay' because I want to try different hotels. So I plan to book the last part of my stay in some (yet-to-be-determined) hotel.

I was pretty tired, but since when is that a consideration? I needed me some noodles, metaphorically speaking of course, and so I showered and trotted off towards Soi Cowboy. Arrival time at SC: 1am.

I'm staying with my gf for a few nights in BKK, and looking for suggestions of places to visit in the evening. She is cool about going into gogo bars, but actually they are of course a bit boring for a couple, as not really a place to chat (or eat). So I was thinking about more Thai-oriented clubs, where we can sit and have a drink and some food, watch some entertainment, which doesn't have to be too raunchy (but a few coyote dancers would really help). Doesn't have to be particularly high-end or hi-so, in fact probably more fun if it's not. And neither of us are particularly into dancing the night away, me because of my arthritic limbs and complete absence of musical co-ordination, and her because of her shame at being seen with an arthritic senior...

I went to the Tawandang German Brewery (I think) and that was OK, and still remember the Coliseum with fondness. Suggestions for anything similar (especially with some easy-on-the-eye attractions) would be much appreciated.

I have this sense that there is a huge world of night-spots out there of which I am completely ignorant. But perhaps not?

[QUOTE=Mouse1]I'm staying with my gf for a few nights in BKK, and looking for suggestions of places to visit in the evening....I have this sense that there is a huge world of night-spots out there of which I am completely ignorant. But perhaps not?[/QUOTE]Maybe try the Isaan Tawandang Club. I had a good time there with a couple of Tulip girls a few months back. Good cabaret show, cheap food and drink prices, 100% Thai fun. Bring a big bottle of Johnny Red and make some new friends!

From a website that featured this club ([url]http://www.afana.org/tawan.htm[/url]):

...484 Pattanakarn Road, Bangkok 10250. If you're near SkyTrain/BTS, a good way to get there is to take the Sukhumvit line south to Phrom Phong, then a taxi (approx. 55 baht, on the meter) to the club. At the bottom of this page, there is a map in Thai that you can print and give to your cab driver...."

[QUOTE=Rick Rock]Guys:

I have a question that has not been answered. . .
. . . . What is the availability? Any recommendations on exact places to go? I will be traveling solo. Will requests for girls in bars to find a guy to join us . . .

Maybe I can help you with some advice.
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[QUOTE=Fon Tok]Maybe try the Isaan Tawandang Club. I had a good time there with a couple of Tulip girls a few months back. Good cabaret show, cheap food and drink prices, 100% Thai fun. Bring a big bottle of Johnny Red and make some new friends!

From a website that featured this club ([url]http://www.afana.org/tawan.htm[/url]):

...484 Pattanakarn Road, Bangkok 10250. If you're near SkyTrain/BTS, a good way to get there is to take the Sukhumvit line south to Phrom Phong, then a taxi (approx. 55 baht, on the meter) to the club. At the bottom of this page, there is a map in Thai that you can print and give to your cab driver...."[/QUOTE]Aaah, it was the Isaan Tawandang Club I went to, not the Tawandang German Brewery...! It certainly didn't seem German so I was a bit uncertain. Anyway, it was good, so I'll head over there tomorrow night.

Thanks for correcting my memory.

Would like to go tonight but gf is coming over at 7pm so we may just stay in with a good book and a mug of cocoa. :)