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[QUOTE=Client 9]Like women everywhere on Planet Earth, Colombian women prefer successful men over unsuccessful men. There are more beautiful women in the world than successful men, especially in Colombia. [/QUOTE]It's one of the keypoint of my chica management guide. Excellent input.

It took me days of efforts to write down all I had learnt about Colombianas in a useful guide, and I feel sorry to read that it's used just to start an irrelevant transatlantic confrontation. Hey, read it gain, and use it instead to get the ultimate experience: una Colombiana enamorada.

[QUOTE=Ricker]Hmmmm. You must be visiting a different Colombia than me then.

I've been going to Colombia for years, many years, and I have many Colombian friends, male and female, and have had many girlfriends. My spanish is very good.

Your observations IMHO are way off. Not sure how you came to those conclusions about Colombian chicas preferring South American men, etc.

I do agree with the part about speaking spanish though. It absolutely opens doors and makes the whole experience so much better.

Take care[/QUOTE]Hello Ricker,

No, I'm going to the same Colombia you do. I've been traveling to Latin America (including Colombia) for 15 years. I also have lived and worked in multiple American cities with significant Colombian populations. I speak Spanish very well. I have had countless Colombian girlfriends, friends, neighbors, coworkers, etc. I feel my conclusions are accurate, and I'll explain why because you seem interested.

First, Colombian women prefer men that speak their language. Do most North American men speak Spanish fluently? Do most South American men speak Spanish fluently?

Second, Colombian women prefer men that understand their culture. Do most North American men understand Latino culture in general or Colombian culture in particular? Do most South American men understand Latino culture?

Third, Colombian women prefer men that can dance salse and merengue. Do most North American men dance salsa and merengue? Do most South American men dance salsa and merengue?

Fourth, Colombian women do not prefer men that wear cowboy boots, sandals, cargo shorts, tanktops, baseball hats, cowboy hats, etc. How do North American men dress? How do South American men dress?

Do I need to continue? Ricker, do you agree or disagree?

Again, Colombian women prefer Colombian men over foreign men. However, this is virtually irrelevant. Why? Because of far greater priority to Colombian women is the preference for successful men over unsuccessful men. There are very few successful men in Colombia, but there are many beautiful women in Colombia. Those same beautiful Colombian women seek foreign men due to the lack of successful Colombian men in Colombia. Furthermore, most successful Colombian men rarely take poor Colombian women seriously no matter how beautiful a particular poor Colombian woman may be.

Ricker, I have explained my conclusions. Please explain why you conclude that Colombian women prefer North American men over South American men. I am interested in your explanation.

Thanks Ricker.

[QUOTE=Routard]It's one of the keypoint of my chica management guide. Excellent input.

It took me days of efforts to write down all I had learnt about Colombianas in a useful guide, and I feel sorry to read that it's used just to start an irrelevant transatlantic confrontation. Hey, read it gain, and use it instead to get the ultimate experience: una Colombiana enamorada.[/QUOTE]I would agree. It's doesn't matter your nationality or colour or religeon. If you treat a woman good. And have MONEY they ALL will like you

Knowing spanish and having "dinero"opens all doors and most pussies

Lets just keep that in mind.

My 2 cents.

Johan

Gents,

I am glad, that beside the ". How many girls I have fucked in Colombia. " there is space for some serious discussion like this.

What is the most important in every culture when men and women concur? First: age Second: looks

Of course there a girls, who like to be with much older guys like father complex or who knows. Otherwise why they prefer older guys over younger guys is the material status and probably loyalty. Young, good looking and rich. That's what women desire is, Colombia is no exception.

Nonetheless the mayority of colombianas like to stay with gringos, from US or europe, anyway. Why? Because we are DIFFERENT! We are not better, nor more bad, we are just different! Different in looks, behavior and settings. Call us exotic, if you want so. Summary: Don't try to imitate colombians or brazilians or whomever. Be yourself. It's not a panacea but I have still good success with that.

Indeed, when ist comes to marriage, founding a family or similars normally everybody knows contrasts are not benefits. Commonalities attract!

[QUOTE=Client 9].... Fourth, Colombian women do not prefer men that wear cowboy boots, sandals, cargo shorts, tanktops, baseball hats, cowboy hats, etc. How do North American men dress? How do South American men dress? ....[/QUOTE]Hahahaha. Well, how can I argue with that?

I guess I should preface my statement with: In my experience with las Colombianas, whether they have been friends or novias, many have expressed their desire to meet a serious North American man.

Not one has expressed her desire to meet a cowboy boot, big buckle, sandle, cargo short, sideway baseball hat wearing guy Of course not.

Basically for la Colombiana, seems the most desireable trait in a man is his fidelity. Of course a man's ability to provide is pretty high up there too, but fidelity is what they dream of.

ALL South American men are famous for their INFIDELTY.

North American men are generally thought of as gentle, kind and faithful to their woman. Just as most Colombianas think that the typical gringa is cold and not loving.

Every Colombiana I've ever met would choose a faithful, serious man over one who can spin them around on the dance floor. In a heart-beat!

You are correct amigo. I'm only referring to serious guys. Guys who speak or who are at least learning spanish, and not the stupid tourist type like you described.

That's my take amigo. The truth is probably somewhere in between.

Take care!

[QUOTE=Client 9]There are very few successful men in Colombia[/QUOTE]Sorry, this is just _so_ wrong. There are loads of successful men in Colombia, and most professionals live a much more comfortable life then comparable North Americans or Europeans.

Case in point? When you're looking for an apt to buy or rent in Colombia, how many come with a room for a live-in maid?

For those who do have the itch to escape, it was explained to me thusly by a young Colombian filly:

The poor have the sueño mexicano.
The lower-middle classes have the sueño nor-americano.
The upper-middle classes have the sueño europeo

I actually think that's a bit simplistic, but I see what she means.

All subjects are realative and nothing is 100%

But I have to agree with client#9, and dissagree with ricker, however there are MANY "gringos" like ricker who do very well with colombian ladies, and I am going to go out on a limb and say this but I think "gringos" who behave and act like latin men do better then those gringos who continue to keep a "american style about them" those who are very good spanish speakers and suavy with the women do very well, in addition to haveing money and being physically fit and look well.

This fantasy that any gringo can come to Colombia and get any girl he wants is just that fantasy. Women here despit saying that colombian men treat them horrible will always long for a man of the country who can dance, speak and belive in that same values and lived the same lifestyle they live, many women here in order to live a better lifestyle will date and even marry a gringo, and the quality of the relationship is based on the conduct of the two invloved.

[QUOTE=Client 9]Hello Ricker,

No, I'm going to the same Colombia you do. I've been traveling to Latin America (including Colombia) for 15 years. I also have lived and worked in multiple American cities with significant Colombian populations. I speak Spanish very well. I have had countless Colombian girlfriends, friends, neighbors, coworkers, etc. I feel my conclusions are accurate, and I'll explain why because you seem interested.

First, Colombian women prefer men that speak their language. Do most North American men speak Spanish fluently? Do most South American men speak Spanish fluently?

Second, Colombian women prefer men that understand their culture. Do most North American men understand Latino culture in general or Colombian culture in particular? Do most South American men understand Latino culture?

Third, Colombian women prefer men that can dance salse and merengue. Do most North American men dance salsa and merengue? Do most South American men dance salsa and merengue?

Fourth, Colombian women do not prefer men that wear cowboy boots, sandals, cargo shorts, tanktops, baseball hats, cowboy hats, etc. How do North American men dress? How do South American men dress?

Do I need to continue? Ricker, do you agree or disagree?

Again, Colombian women prefer Colombian men over foreign men. However, this is virtually irrelevant. Why? Because of far greater priority to Colombian women is the preference for successful men over unsuccessful men. There are very few successful men in Colombia, but there are many beautiful women in Colombia. Those same beautiful Colombian women seek foreign men due to the lack of successful Colombian men in Colombia. Furthermore, most successful Colombian men rarely take poor Colombian women seriously no matter how beautiful a particular poor Colombian woman may be.

Ricker, I have explained my conclusions. Please explain why you conclude that Colombian women prefer North American men over South American men. I am interested in your explanation.

Thanks Ricker.[/QUOTE]

I want to add that women ALSO are very unfaithfull all over SA; in fact allover the world (except maybe for some retard extrem muslim countries)

You guys realy think only MEN are (can be) unfaithfull?

WRONG! I am sick and tired to hear on most internet sites that the women keep whining about the fact that men cheat on them. There are probably as much women that cheat on their guy aswell.

I know enough Brazilians, Colombians and Dominican women that are UNFAITHFULL to their spouses. In fact in most cases they cheat on eachother!

With all respect lets get REAL here

Johan

[QUOTE=Client 9]Hello Ricker,

No, I'm going to the same Colombia you do. I've been traveling to Latin America (including Colombia) for 15 years. I also have lived and worked in multiple American cities with significant Colombian populations. I speak Spanish very well. I have had countless Colombian girlfriends, friends, neighbors, coworkers, etc. I feel my conclusions are accurate, and I'll explain why because you seem interested.

First, Colombian women prefer men that speak their language. Do most North American men speak Spanish fluently? Do most South American men speak Spanish fluently?

Second, Colombian women prefer men that understand their culture. Do most North American men understand Latino culture in general or Colombian culture in particular? Do most South American men understand Latino culture?

Third, Colombian women prefer men that can dance salse and merengue. Do most North American men dance salsa and merengue? Do most South American men dance salsa and merengue?

Fourth, Colombian women do not prefer men that wear cowboy boots, sandals, cargo shorts, tanktops, baseball hats, cowboy hats, etc. How do North American men dress? How do South American men dress?

Do I need to continue? Ricker, do you agree or disagree?

Again, Colombian women prefer Colombian men over foreign men. However, this is virtually irrelevant. Why? Because of far greater priority to Colombian women is the preference for successful men over unsuccessful men. There are very few successful men in Colombia, but there are many beautiful women in Colombia. Those same beautiful Colombian women seek foreign men due to the lack of successful Colombian men in Colombia. Furthermore, most successful Colombian men rarely take poor Colombian women seriously no matter how beautiful a particular poor Colombian woman may be.

Ricker, I have explained my conclusions. Please explain why you conclude that Colombian women prefer North American men over South American men. I am interested in your explanation.

Thanks Ricker.[/QUOTE]Like a previous comment posted earlier, none of those questions on the list are relevant if you treat a woman good and have money thats all you need. Thats all a woman wants to be treated good in all ways. And everything will follow if you like her and she likes you. She will want to learn your culture and you will want to know hers. Those questions seem anti American/ anti Espanol.

Under the flag of the above let me only report my own experiences and observings.

Primary: Money is not an asset in SA, money is a condition! When you take out girls, you have to pay for food, drinks, clubbing and similars. Regardless of being gringo or latino.

The mayority of the girls are nosy. I remember my first time in "Mango´s", Medellin years ago. It happened 3 or 4 times groups waved me over to ask: de donde eres? Beyond that one time 2 girls waved me over to feed me with drinks! Both married, their husbands beside. My question, why one of the girls act aroud with their cell I get the answer: we call over a a friend who is single, porque no tienes novia - estar solo no es bueno. O.k., all that happend before the increase of gringos.

In Medellin and Cartagena I was approached by girls who asked me, if I do allow fotos of me and together with them. Of course affirmed but asked why. The answer was: porque eres lindo.

So, IMO it is not correct to say don´t fool yourself with non-pros or semi pros. It should called better don´t fool yourself while take a look in the mirror! Young, goodlooking and stylish that´s not the only way to score, but it´s the easiest way.

Finally: Of course everyone is cheating each other. But women are in a more weak position. Have laughed a lot about baseball caps and cargo pants. About that thing I am pretty sure; colombian men are not popular because of their style.

Cut and paste from the Quito board.

[QUOTE=Ezinho]

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[b]Someone is ruining Club 122[/b]

Just a quick update regarding Club 122. Last Monday, Tung and I were there in the afternoon and the place was, for whatever reason, packed with gringos. I mean, multiple groups of them. Tung joked that fichas would be raised to $10 the next day. But for me, OK, no problem, there's enough eight dollar pussy to go around, right? Fine by me.

So, I take up Karla, a petite, dark skinned girl from the coast. How about some photos? No face and no nude pics, because she knows about the internet. Apparently, some guy made a sex video of her and posted it on the internet. Then she laughs at my $1 propina offer, saying gringos give her much more. Finally had to convince her that I would give her some repeat business if she would give me a couple of tame, faceless photos.

Then, I take up a black girl from GYE, she denies photos. Then, I ask about her coming over to my place after work. Well, a gringo offered her $100 for TLN so she won't budge from that. Thanks a lot, John Q. Smith.

So, is Quito going the way of CR, DR and Rio? I don't know. I don't think so, but something is definitely changing. Just to put it in perspective, I've probably met more ISGers in the last four weeks here in Ecuador than in the last four years I've been a member of this site!

Just some food for thought.[/QUOTE]It's the age old debate. Does posting information lead to the deterioration of a mongering location? We all have our own opinions.

If you've recently been to a great mongering spot somewhere in Colombia, and you don't see it written about on ISG. Ask yourself "why? " before you go ahead and rave about it here on the forum. Please!

I disagree. Most Colombian men that go out dress much nicer than American men. The women like you because you are different. People like something they are not use to. Don't you remember in high school there would always be a good looking foreign exchange student that everyone wanted to bang? The grass is always greener.

[QUOTE=Trendy Andy]About that thing I am pretty sure; colombian men are not popular because of their style.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Trendy Andy]Young, goodlooking and stylish that´s not the only way to score, but it´s the easiest way.[/QUOTE]Probably. But old, fat, balding, and as ugly as a train wreck still got me more (non-pro) pussy than I could cope with, so those like me don't need to give up just yet!

[QUOTE=Johan007]I want to add that women ALSO are very unfaithfull all over SA; in fact allover the world (except maybe for some retard extrem muslim countries)

You guys realy think only MEN are (can be) unfaithfull?

WRONG! I am sick and tired to hear on most internet sites that the women keep whining about the fact that men cheat on them. There are probably as much women that cheat on their guy aswell.

I know enough Brazilians, Colombians and Dominican women that are UNFAITHFULL to their spouses. In fact in most cases they cheat on eachother!

With all respect lets get REAL here

Johan[/QUOTE]Well, unfortunately I have to AGREE with Johan here. Hahaha.

I'm in Sao Paulo, Brazil at the moment. Yesterday I was with 2 Brazillian girls that I had met the previous week. One in the early afternoon, and one in the noche (night)

Both of these chicas had live-in boyfriends, and with each one, when we were resting in bed together, their respective boyfriends called and they said they were shopping or visiting friends.

They said their boyfriends were good men and did not want to leave them but they were not so good at the love making. One boyfriend was a French guy. Imagine that. I guess that negates the myth of the Frenchmen

Is it my fault I'm such a charming, sensitive guy and thoughtful lover? . Hahhaha

I do feel a little guilty, but I guess Johan is right. It's a crazy world. Hard to turn down almost free loving, and no commitment.

Take care amigos.

[QUOTE=Cachorro]Cut and paste from the Quito board.

It's the age old debate. Does posting information lead to the deterioration of a mongering location? We all have our own opinions.

If you've recently been to a great mongering spot somewhere in Colombia, and you don't see it written about on ISG. Ask yourself "why? " before you go ahead and rave about it here on the forum. Please![/QUOTE]Well said amigo.

I loved going to Medellin before it became popular!

Do I still enjoy it? Of course! But it was much better and cheaper before.

Imagine Loutron, the exclusive massage casa in Poblado, was expensive in my eyes just a few short years ago at 80k pesos. Hahaha.

San Diego of Medellin was a place where you could find some real gems for cheap. It's a bit different now eh?

I still have one place I go to in Medellin where I believe I am the only gringo to step foot in. Should I post about it here?

Well, I have to keep one place where I can still feel special.

I'm sure it will eventually be discovered.

I am pretty good friends with one of the owners of the Mansion / Castillo in Medellin. He says, Medellin sure isn't what it used to be with all the gringos coming in, but man is it good for business!

Take care