Is Field of Dreams Open Now Under New Owership?
I will be in Costambar June 8 - 18. I will check out FOD while I am there, and report back. Is it open?
Lessons learned from my first trip to the DR
About three weeks ago I'm having lunch with my chica (from BBs) at a side- walk cafe on the Malecon in Puerto Plata. The owner of the restaurant, an American expat, comes out and sits with us. He is talking with me and check- ing out my girl. " You're a lucky man", he says, "where are you going to find a girl like this back in the states unless you have a lot of money. " In some ways he was right, I don't have a lot of money and I don't usually hangout with 20 something women back home.
Actually on this day I wasn't feeling so good about my chica. She was a fine looking one but I had been with her too long. This was about the fifth day we were together and she was getting to be a pain in the culo. The first three days with her were great, one day we went to her apartment and she fixed dinner. And she helped me fulfill some of my sexual fantasies like my Miami Vice Saundra Santiago fantasy and talk to me in Spanish while I'm banging you fantasy.
But I think it's true with most of these chicas what some of you have said here. After three days they start to act more like a wife and less like a novia. So don't keep one more than three days. This was my first mongering trip and my first time with any woman other than the wife in quite a few years so I got a little crazy. But all things considered I had a great time. I enjoyed staying at BBs and I explored Puerto Plata and some of the countryside. Since I like to move around I spent too much money on cabfare so next trip-probably not until October- I plan to rent a car.
A little advice for other married mongers- first, check your bags carefully before you return home, make sure there aren't any condoms, phone numbers or other incriminating evidence in there. Second, either wash your clothes or sprinkle some rum on them before you get home, women can smell the chicas on your clothes. Third, always delete from your computer's history visits to this webpage or to the BB site.
Leftcoaster and John Jr. you guys don't know how good you had it
Hey Leftcoaster and John Jr., you guys would complain “If your were hung with a new rope.” The reason I like Blackbeards so much is that you CAN have more of a GFE there. Go to the Del Ray in Costa Rica and for one hundred US dollars they will “wham bam thank you mamm” one shot, and they are off to the next trick.
Leftcoaster “she tried to dig to deeply into your wallet” Do you mean that she tried to steel from you or do you mean that she wanted you to spend money on her? i.e give her money for the salon, phone cards, ext. Try to have a real girlfriend in the States that does not try to get into your wallet for much more money than that. And the real girlfriend in the States will not be 20 years old with a hard body and soft skin. If she was a BB girl and actually was trying to steel from you should have told David or Charo. They will bounce her. I have been to BB’s 6 or 7 times and never have had that kind of problem.
You can have the best GFE in Thailand in my opinion, but Thailand is on the other side of the earth. The flight is brutal. 30 plus hours of travel time. So for my money Blackbeards is the most fun you can have in the western hemisphere and you guys are complaining
Re:Don't know how good you had it?
No LS I'm not really complaining about BBs or the chica scene in the DR. I
know that any problems I had were my responsibility. So maybe I am bitching
a little much about this. Anyway my point is that some of the chicas can get a liitle too manipulative if you keep them too long, i.e. more than three days.
Yeah I know it's a good scene at BBs and elsewhere in the DR. I agree that it probably is the best option for mongering. I thought about Thailand too but like you said," Thailand is on the other side of the earth", especially if you're on the east coast like I am now.
The truth is I had a blast at BBs not only with the chicas but I enjoyed the camaraderie with fellow mongers. I just don't want too many people to know, I don't want to see the place get overrun. So if someone asks me, other than you guys, I'll say "yeah it was ok" and leave it at that.