New Delhi

Thanks you so much, this is reassuring. I will certainly give a try.

[QUOTE=JustFunn;3044177]I am not from Delhi but have tried Sahara few times. Its safe. The crowd is loud, unruly a bit but have not seen anything which would make someone feel unsafe. I would suggest if you want to try go a bit early like 9 pm and get out by 12. You may not like the crowd hence the feeling of unsafe.[/QUOTE]

Hi guys, I've been on the site for 6 or 7 years, but I was away for the past 5. It's been a very horrible comeback to India for me.

Um, I was talking to this lady for a few days, and now she's come back saying, That she wanted to meet me.

I booked a hotel room and made some arrangements, but she ghosted me at the last minute and then blocked me.

I got a bit frustrated and I went to a spa to get a massage from someone in Worldmark, Gurgaon, and it turns out that they don't offer any extra services.

I guess my welcome to Delhi has been very horrible.

I would appreciate if some superstars of the site could guide me to some amazing ladies who might be high class or high end, and might even charge a bit more, but are amazing at.

Uh, you know, providing a good time.

Thanks.

Hey Rollox bud, Pedro here, the guy who made the original post about my first 5 time in one night. I completely understand what you're saying, and I know your mongering experience and appetite are way ahead of mine.

Some backstory on me, I went to a specialist, got every kind of physical checkup done, even the scary prostate exam with a probe. In the end, the doc said I'm physically perfect, so it had to be performance anxiety. He prescribed an SSRI (basically an antidepressant), but I don't have depression. It's actually a common medical recommendation for premature ejaculation. I read about the side effects and stopped taking it on my own. Then I looked into THC and psilocybin (shrooms) and how they reduce anxiety. It's honestly magical and works wonders. I told the doc I use THC and shrooms here in the US, and he said if it helps, it's fine. They have far fewer side effects than actual SSRIs, and there are plenty of medical studies backing it up. I only use them during sex sometimes. So definitely see a doctor, get a second opinion, Anxiety is by far the most common factor.

[QUOTE=Rollox;3044137]I am super fit. Like top 0.1% fit with top notch bloodwork.

But I still have performance issues. I am told it is performance anxiety and porn fucked up my mind.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PedroDiegoBang;3043793][B] Good day folks, [/B] It's been a while since I last wrote here. This isn't a typical FR, but rather the craziest experience of my life, one I need to share with my brothers on this forum. I'm not turning it into erotica, just stating my experience. Ten years ago, when I was lurking and reading posts here, I couldn't believe some of the things people claimed were possible. Now, having lived it myself, I can confidently say, anything is truly possible..[/QUOTE]

I am posted in Kerala now. Due to some work pressure, could not take my customary Christmas vacation this time, so planning to take 3-4 days off and travel somewhere Jan 2nd week. This time, I thought I will do a mongering marathon seeing 7-8 girls in 3-4 days. My favorite destination for such trips have always been Delhi. The variety of girls that Delhi can provide is unmatched IMO. But I am a bit skeptical given the news about Air Quality and such. How bad is it? Do the Spas now have air purifiers (good ones). The other option is Bangkok, but I would prefer Delhi if possible given I want atleast half of those girls to be Indian.

Please don't consider this an elitist query or anything. I am sure I will survive fine for a few days. Its just that given it is a break that I have been yearning for so long, I want it to be as perfect as possible, not having to bother about anything else other than the girl in hand and not feel like I should have gone elsewhere.

Thanks.

Rashid.

[QUOTE=LeoBros;3044237]Tried tannu this time.

As her boobs are in good shape, face is okayish.

As winter was there, I was able to have fun with her 2 times.

Her height is good, and ass looks good in doggy style.

Fucked her nice and good.

Face- 7/10.

BJ- 8/10.

Boob 9/10.

Counter -1 k.

Inside 2 k for 2 shots.[/QUOTE]Who has the best boobs in TNG? Planning yo visit in early Jan.

[QUOTE=DRocker94;3044226]Hi,

Posting in New Delhi forum for first time, though I read it regularly. I am in need of an advice from seniors.

Too much porn and masturbation almost once or twice daily has in reality fucked up my mind. To be completely honest, now I am having issues in getting arousal when having sex with my wife. I monger occasionally whenever time permits. Even then if a girl is not as per my liking or even a smallest discomfort like a bad odour, would make me lose arousal. And then no amount of stimulation can get me aroused for that girl.

I am 31 and have faced no issue while masturbating. Am also get morning wood or get erect in midsleep. However, My wife is now having concerns and is getting suspicious. So any advice would be relationship saver.

I have got tadafil and dapoxitine tabs with me. But never have taken one still fearing side effects. So please suggest any way forward.[/QUOTE]Same bro.

Even while watching porn if I don't like a video and try to search for a new one I lose erection in the intervening period.

Even while mongering I couldn't finish once recently (to my defence the bird was pathetic looking and it was a blunder agreeing for extras in the first place), on a few other occasions the bird was hot but the attitude meant I took a long time to finish.

I think due to a lot of mongering and porn our brains has gotten used to top tier content and bodies and anything not upto the mark is not good enough for our little brain.

Another thing I realised is that no one can give us a handjob the same way we ourselves can, in decades of masturbating our hands and dick has synced so well that no other hands can match the momentum. So if the girl isn't giving a BJ or you arent fucking her, its a waste. You end up feeling like you can jack off better.

[QUOTE=DdManLive;3044345]Same bro.

Even while watching porn if I don't like a video and try to search for a new one I lose erection in the intervening period.

Even while mongering I couldn't finish once recently (to my defence the bird was pathetic looking and it was a blunder agreeing for extras in the first place), on a few other occasions the bird was hot but the attitude meant I took a long time to finish.

I think due to a lot of mongering and porn our brains has gotten used to top tier content and bodies and anything not upto the mark is not good enough for our little brain.

Another thing I realised is that no one can give us a handjob the same way we ourselves can, in decades of masturbating our hands and dick has synced so well that no other hands can match the momentum. So if the girl isn't giving a BJ or you arent fucking her, its a waste. You end up feeling like you can jack off better.[/QUOTE]It is called porn addiction erection failure and it is very hard to cure it. As it is connected with brain and only solution is mind rebooting, a long term issue. In my opinion, numbing your brain may be to some help. I have found alcohol suitable for this purpose. Some narcotics medicine may also good. Any friend who has tried and got success, advise.

So here goes. My first report after shifting to Gurgaon from Mumbai (didn't try much in Mumbai at all).

Though I've visited a couple of MPs around sector 57 ggn especially in H bazaar, I wouldn't recommend any of them due to hygiene and the overall shady vibes.

This was till one kind soul on this forum suggested Spa be*why (fruit variant) sector 28.

Called up in advance and checked for SP G, and luckily was available.

The receptionist tried to suggest an alternate SP, however considering the recommendation, didn't give in to the receptionist's suggestion.

Massage went on 20 min after which she popped the question. Offered 4 k for FS for which she agreed. Had a great experience with a good BBBJ.

MP was clean and did not give off shady vibes.

Damages - 1.5 k + 4 k.

WIR. Yes.

Fellow mongers please do help out to a new member around Delhi Gurgaon. (DMs open) . Really looking forward to a deepthroat BBBJ hence please suggest. Would be keen to post FRs soon after as well. Of course would share whatever contacts I build along the way.

Cheers!

[QUOTE=Bachelor0189;3044051]Avoid Simmi at all cost. She is 40+ old MILF and she ditches regularly at last moment. Not worth visiting.[/QUOTE]She is definitely 40 plus and has a very harsh voice. It is difficult to understand why people are paying 4/5 k or higher for such an old Hog like her.

Met Naina from SP T.

In her late thirties, have meat at the right places, wonderful attitude.

No kissing, no licking allowed.

Good time spent.

Have a friend ready for 3 some.

[QUOTE=Orgasmer;3044392]Met Naina from SP T.

In her late thirties, have meat at the right places, wonderful attitude.

No kissing, no licking allowed.

Good time spent.

Have a friend ready for 3 some.[/QUOTE]Hey seniors, can someone guide me how to get connected with the verified SPs in NCR. Thanks.

Any info on this chick asking 6 k for 4 hours. Anyone fro the forum meet her.

[QUOTE=Paidalyatri;3044383]It is called porn addiction erection failure and it is very hard to cure it. As it is connected with brain and only solution is mind rebooting, a long term issue. In my opinion, numbing your brain may be to some help. I have found alcohol suitable for this purpose. Some narcotics medicine may also good. Any friend who has tried and got success, advise.[/QUOTE]In my experience.

1. Quitting porn is hard. So limit it to once or twice a week. This is critical. You will notice the difference towards the last week of the fast. And the porn quitting results will be seen by the 5th week. Find out what triggers porn watching. Remove those triggers. Ex, if simply opening the browser does that, put site blockers. If watching your maid show her cleavage does that, avoid being around her when her cleavage pops out. You'll notice that you enjoy the sex also more. Take my word for it. Less is more.

2. Do a mongering fast of 2 months.

3. Strength and cardio. Do kegels.

And it does get ok.

See very few couple remain madly in love after few year. Usually most of them, and this is my perspective, become just co-passengers, habitual of each other, having join responsibilities of kids, travelling on the same family wagon. When I say madly in love I am taking about the feeling you get in the initial days, months or years but yes affection or say a sense of care does remain for each other and people who are unaware usually realise when they are close to loosing each other (this is also a form of love. Selfless love). To answer your question, most of the couples, even though their life is boring and the feeling of love evaporates, still have affection and care for their partners to some extent.

About loneliness, it's real and you need people around you and that usually only happens if you have family either yours or extended. And I am saying this as the person of age to whom you have directed your question - the more you age, the more you realise the importance of family. Unless you know you are a type who doesn't need anyone, I would say go ahead and marry as you don't have anything to loose. If you don't connect emotionally, your outcome will still remain the same at 45+ but you will have children of your own.

My personal opinion - If you are afraid of being lonely then don't miss the boat.

[QUOTE=JblFlip69;3043194]Dear fellow older mongers. I am 32 and been mongering for 8 years now. I've been in relationships, I do casual hook ups and I also monger because my sexual appetite is just massive.

I am wondering what life feels like at 45 and if you're childfree. I sometimes worry that I will be depressed and sometimes worry that I won't have anything to look forward to.

Is this it? We work. Make Money. Fuck. Eat good food and die? I worry that long term happiness comes from bonding with people and not fleeting bonds with hookers which I have many. But meaningful long term ones like with a wife or with kids.

I have mostly seen marriages where the couples are bored of each other so I am not sure if marriage is for me.

But I currently have this option to do an arranged marriage with a girl from a very small town in my parents' village. She wants to marry for money. Access to a house in a big city like Delhi and my pay cheque. In return she gives me a child I call my own. We don't have to emotionally connect, I will still monger (will let her know) and its a convenient arrangement.

Should I go ahead with it?[/QUOTE]

Don't think its a problem or a disorder like others have suggested, may I suggest it's just your inner guilt that's creating pressure for you. What you do or did is usual, I also watch a lot of porn and have similar things about girls as you. Don't overthink it, that's what makes it worse. There's nothing wrong with you, its normal. Just give yourself a pause of a few days, and when you're in the mood, go to your wife. If you're attracted to her, and if you don't overthink on your past deeds, it will be alright.

Haven't ever taken tablets myself, but I feel like once you go the tablet route, the natural route may be difficult.

[QUOTE=DRocker94;3044226]Hi,

Posting in New Delhi forum for first time, though I read it regularly. I am in need of an advice from seniors.

Too much porn and masturbation almost once or twice daily has in reality fucked up my mind. To be completely honest, now I am having issues in getting arousal when having sex with my wife. I monger occasionally whenever time permits. Even then if a girl is not as per my liking or even a smallest discomfort like a bad odour, would make me lose arousal. And then no amount of stimulation can get me aroused for that girl.

I am 31 and have faced no issue while masturbating. Am also get morning wood or get erect in midsleep. However, My wife is now having concerns and is getting suspicious. So any advice would be relationship saver.

I have got tadafil and dapoxitine tabs with me. But never have taken one still fearing side effects. So please suggest any way forward.[/QUOTE]