Things can explode, and here's why...
standing out, and specifically being identifiable as a gringo, has served me so well in mexico. because, literally, mexicanas are attracted to gringos, unbelievably attracted to gringos. so, the fact that i stand out as a gringo has always served me well.
what i am about to comment on may seem bigoted by the politically correct standards in the usa, but these are absolute facts of life in mexico. these are facts of life you can use to your advantage, if you know the score. but, they are also facts that can endanger you if you play the game without this prior knowledge.
first, as i have always said, the psychology of mongering, at least with respect to my brand of it, is one of the most important considerations that i contemplate. these are the truths that fuel my hibred gfes in mexico, and they do not apply in any other country, perhaps with the exception of some of the south american countries where the same kinds of ethnic realities endure.
literally, it is the absolute "wet dream" of many mexican girls, 98% of morenas, to be with a white guy. the darker, and more mexican indian ancestry they have, the more attracted to the entire idea of being with a white guy they seem to be. however, even some of the lighter skinned girls, such as my newbie girl, angry girl, etc...seem to literally be depraved beyond belief at this prospect. i believe this attraction is also based in class as well. white equals successful, wealthy, powerful, social position, etc...
i have learned that woman are sometimes more attracted to being with a guy that is successful, wealthy, powerful, and of social position, than for any other reason.
i am speaking mainly of my experience with hookers here, but i believe it applies to good girls too. many of the morenas, or even the lighter skinned, lower class mexicanas, have been socialized to believe they have no chance with a white guy, so they will sometimes hang back, even the hookers.
it seems to me, a gringo observing the ethnic dynamic in mexico, that mexicanos wildly prefer white girls, blonde hair, blue eyes, etc...so, even among their own ethnicity, morenas are not charished by mexicanos, but taken totally and completely for granted. all mexicanos want white girls, and all mexicanas want white guys. the dark skinned mexican girls go to great lengths sometimes to change their eye color, color their hair, etc...just to appear less ethnic than is their reality.
in mexico, you will almost universally see white skinned, upper class mexicanos dating and marrying white skinned, non-moreno girls. next time you're in monterrey, just notice the girls on the arms of the light skinned, ethnically european mexicanos, especially the ones living in the affluent neiborhoods, colonial el valle, san pedro, etc...visit the grocery stores in those neiborhoods, and you will witness it first hand. the girls are always, always light skinned girls on the arms of the men, ones that do not betray an ancestry linked to indian or dark skinned indiginous peoples.
so, by the time morenas are of age, through their socialization, they are resolved at believing that they are not attractive to us, white skinned guys, so they give up in their own minds, concentrating mostly on their own ethnicity, not withstanding some ocassional exceptions. this is even true of the hookers in the bars.
but, if you show them some attention, they will be almost dumb founded initially that you are even remotely interested in them. and, the funny thing is, most gringos are wildly interested in the morenas, and not necessarily nearly so much in the white skinned mexican chicks who look too much like gringas. and, who wants to be reminded of those bitchy gringas back in the usa. for my money, give me a flaca, morena spinner every time.
this all having been said, carlos' warnings are indeed wise. because, mexican males know this universal truth, and especially mexican males that are darker skinned because they have the more intense sensitivity to it. they're acutely aware of the morenas going "ga ga" over white skinned guys. and, being a gringo, with all that goes along with that with respect to universally perceived affluence, education, class, etc...it just serves to start the morenas "cumming" that much sooner.
so, obviously, the dark skinned mexican males, are sensitive to their girls "creaming" over the prospect of being with a white guy. therefore, if you are attending these clubs, and the morenos get a little liquor in them, and you are a gringo pursuing mexican girls, even when the girls are not with anyone else, things can literally explode, not to mention all the standard jealousies that abound in those kinds of situations between the morenos themselves and the girls.
the gringos are perceived as the invading army [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord125][CodeWord125][/url] their women, women who the mexicanos know are craving to be raped. imagine the anger that can develop in the mexicanos, and especially those that get mean when they get drunk.
just be careful out there...the dynamic in the scs is very different than the dynamic in the discos. in the strip clubs, it's a very controlled environment. we are safer pursuing hookers within the sc environment, than we are pursuing legitimate girls, even if they are hookers in reality, and they take on the appearance of being "normal" girls in the disco.
[quote=amigomio]please do not misinterpret wasted's remarks on the barrio antiguo clubs and joints.
wasted lives a charmed life principaly cause he can mix with mexicans... and this is a very important factor he just takes for granted.
barrio antiguo is a close circuit, "friends only" and stuff like that.
but, men are entitled to try and get the other guys girl and they will and many times i see in the morning newscasts the outcome of those fights.
he minimizes them... i have seen the brawls.
the police does not intervene till there is a last man standing.... then they pick the survivors from the floor.
and don't give usb ideas... they do not look like g at all.
he will not be able to mix with the crowd.
he will be totally lost cause he will stand out like a sore thumb.[/quote]
My dear Professor Prok...
galletas???? :-))) yeah, the way to a woman's heart is through her stomach. another profound truth perpetrated on the board by your's truly.
actually, when i refer to the "gringo factor," it carries with it all of the trappings of being a gringo. and, of course, one of the universal misconceptions in mexico is that all gringos are rich :-))) thank god!!!
however, the definition of being "rich" is all encompassing. it includes the natural assumption that being rich also means being of social position, powerful, smart, educated, sophisticated, charismatic, hip, etc...all that the lower class girls are not, but aspire to through sexual association.
and, because "white" translates into "rich" in mexico, psychologically, we gringos are inextricably linked to being immediately desireable by latin sociological definition. i speak, of course, in generalities. however, most of my experiences in monterrey have me reaching these conclusions.
it is not the race, but the kind of socialization that takes place in mexico that links the white skin color, or the european ancestry, to affluence. that cultural influence pschologically prepares low class girls, from a very early age, to desire the most affluent in their society. the girls learn to "profile," and "waaa laaa," we gringos are in a hugely advantageous position. but, make no mistake, this is simply a starting point.
just like when you're hunting for a better job. getting the interview is the beginning. it's what you do during the interview that determines whether you are "selected." so, our predisposition as gringos is merely a fleeting advantage, one that must be backed up with lots of money, class, charm, manipulation, etc...whatever is necessary beyond the superficial to get you where you want to go with your desired scenario.
so, yes, it does come down to the money. but, in their sweet, innocent defense, even in gringo society, even in legitimate relationships, what does not come down to money in the end?
but, to illustrate how much effect the socialization has upon our flaca morenas...
if i were standing next to a moreno of the same relative age, dressed the same, we having the same relatively vacant look on our faces, my standing next to one that literally had tens of millions of pesos in the bank, and my having only a measily $1000us in the bank, and were the girls to have no prior knowledge of our relative affluence, a disproportionate number of girls would naturally flock in my direction, not because of me, but because of the way they are socialized. i am the benefactor of hundreds of years of mexican cultural indoctrination...thank god!!! of course, now they all know me, and they only flock to me now because they truly love me, and because i have them hopelessly addicted.......to galletas :-)))
of course, my reference to they all wanting we gringos to [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url] them was an exaggeration on my part...intended to be mildly amusing, i hope. but, none the less, i attribute much of my positive experiences with the girls to being influenced initially by the "gringo factor."
but, of course, to maintain a constantly improving scenario requires one to turn on signficant amounts of charm and manipulation, sincere charm and manipulation in my case, and, of course, to tap the old bank account on their behalf, in order to reinforce the preconceived notion that all gringos are indeed rich, maintaining their decadent and depraved dilusions for as long as possible of course, thereby hopefully yielding a gang [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url] situation where i am the victim.
now we are back to that argument made famous by three distinguished and famous social commentators, moe, larry, and curly. is it ancestry or socialization that influences behavior? my thesis, of course, demonstrates that it is indeed "socialization" professor prok, and not necessarily ancestry that determines natural selection.
[quote=prokofiev]" i have learned that woman are sometimes more attracted to being with a guy that is successful, wealthy, powerful, and of social position, than for any other reason. i am speaking mainly of my experience with hookers here, but i believe it applies to good girls too "
uno,
i think you are finally on to something here . . . it's about the money.
" so, obviously, the dark skinned mexican males, are sensitive to their girls "creaming" over the prospect of being with a white guy. the gringos are perceived as the invading army [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord125][CodeWord125][/url] their women, women who the mexicanos know are craving to be raped "
umm . . . no. great fantasy, but stick with the power and money idea. and of course the superior baking skills that many gringos are born with.[/quote]
