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[QUOTE=Zing23]... Based on encouragement from my friend Routard, I set as a goal to see if I could romance and seduce some ordinary Colombianas, not just working girls. Even though I am old and way past my prime ...

[size=-2][b][u]EDITOR'S NOTE[/u]:[/b] [blue]I would suggest that the author or another Forum Member consider posting a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread. Please [url=http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?]Click Here[/url] for more information.[/blue][/size][/QUOTE]Amigo,

Don't even think you are past your prime.

Quit thinking in that world. Of the US and Europe.

In South America age is just that, a number. It may sound corny but your real age is how you feel in your heart.

Go to Colombia. Laugh, drink, dance and treat girls kindly and you will have the greatest time.

Good luck

[QUOTE=Zing23]"o. K o. K o. K me parece muy bien me encanta toda clase de musica y esos temas que tu pones ahi de los artista uh no sabes me llevan al alma ahhhh se me habia olvidado saludarte hola como estas me disculpa vale? Si gustas me puedes mandar tu messenger asi podiamos platicar mejor que dices? Chao"

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I used to live in Guatemala and they used varias words in that quote you posted that aren't generally used in Colombia.

[QUOTE=Zing23]

... So this woman from Palmira, a city north of Cali that I did not say I was going to visit, and which I probably will never visit, has gone completely crazy for me. I am NOT THAT SPECIAL. I have learned a bit about latin culture and I like it, but there must be younger guys in Colombia who know better than I do what Colombian women want. There are other women sending messages that are even more understandable and enthusiastic and have fotos.

My plan was to stick to Bogota and Medellin for my first trip, and ignore all other women, but now the hottest women from barranquilla are sending messages to me of love and invitation and possibilities.

Please send advise on arranging apppintments with these women and dealing with them. My cybercupido interactions last year led me to beilieve that most of these women (other than a few obvious prepagos that I have actually see on other sites soliciting sex) are looking for permanent soul mates and husbands. If I am successful in my seduction of Colombianas, I am looking for a loving novia in each city and NO MORE WIFES EVER!

Thanks

Zing

[size=-2][b][u]EDITOR'S NOTE[/u]:[/b] [blue]I would suggest that the author or another Forum Member consider posting a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread. Please [url=http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?]Click Here[/url] for more information.[/blue][/size][/QUOTE]Palmira is right near the airport in Cali, so actually not so far away.

My take on Cybercupido and like sites for meeting chicas.

Lots of fun and a great way to learn and practice spanish. Which by the way is the single most important thing you could do to GREATLY increase your fun and romance in Colombia.

More important than looks, age, dance ability. Being able to COMMUNICATE. I've had chicas choose me over other, younger, better looking dudes because I speak spanish well and can make a chica laugh, and I can whisper sweet things to her. Las Colombianas are muy romanticas.

They love to laugh and be loved.

Meeting chicas on the internet is a crap shoot. You just cannot tell the chemestry between 2 people writing messages.

I've met a couple nice chicas and lots that I just didn't feel it for them after meeting in person.

Once you get to Colombia, there are literally millions of other sweet Colombianitas that have never heard of Cybercupido.

It's a start though. At least you'll have somebody waiting for you and you can also meet their friends and go from there.

Pick a city or 2 and go there. Don't waste all your time on internet chicas.

Most likely the favorite chica you meet on your trip will not be one you met on the internet.

I've found the best chicas in all the countries I've lived and visited have been the ones NOT actively seeking a gringo.

Good luck and have FUN!

[QUOTE=Ricker]I've found the best chicas in all the countries I've lived and visited have been the ones NOT actively seeking a gringo.[/QUOTE]I agree with everything Ricker said, especially the highlighted quote.

Every Gringo in Colombia has his own individual priorities and preferences, and that's fine. At one extreme, there are Gringos that only want to meet prostitutes in Colombia. At the other extreme are the masochists that go to Colombia with the sole objective of getting engaged in a week or less by using so-called "marriage agencies. "

Despite these different perspectives, every Gringo needs to keep both eyes wide open regarding Colombian women. For whatever reason, many (probably most) Colombians think that Gringos are complete idiots. It's certainly an interesting assumption given that the United States is the wealthiest and most powerful nation in world history. However, many (probably most) Gringos do behave like complete idiots when in Colombia. There aren't that many Gringos in Colombia, but Colombians do love to gossip about Gringos.

You have to understand Colombian culture. Most Colombians live their whole lives in one city, often in just one neighborhood. Generally they don't go away to college so there is no "Greek System" at the universities. Generally they do not move to another city to find employment either. Colombia is not a mobile society. Think about how many times a typical American moves from one city to another in his lifetime. That's why we have the "Greek System" at universities and matchmaking services for later in life. These things are not necessary in Colombia. Colombians rarely move. Therefore, their social networks are rarely disrupted.

In Colombian culture, women do not seek men. Rather, Colombian men seek women. Colombian men are not timid and emasculated like American men. Colombian women do not want to be viewed as "rebusconas" in their social network because it is not culturally acceptable.

I have met a ton of Colombian women on the internet dating sites. They are often a lot of fun. They are a good opportunity to practice your Spanish, to begin to understand Colombian culture and to get laid.

However, such Colombian women are generally prepagos and they are often very good at hiding that fact. Actually, it's easy to hide such things from a Gringo in Colombia for a week. Think about it.

Don't believe everything Colombian women tell you. Colombians (both men and women) are experts at telling people what they want to hear. Just because a woman doesn't charge you that doesn't mean that she's not a prepago. Just because a woman has a respectable job that doesn't mean that she's not a prepago. Just because a woman is college-educated that doesn't mean that she's not a prepago.

Nice girls are nice girls. Prepagos are prepagos. If you have no interest in a serious relationship, then the internet dating sites are an efficient and economical method for meeting a certain type of Colombian woman. Just keep both eyes wide open. Don't be naive.

If you want a serious relationship, then forget the internet dating sites. Forget the marriage agencies. Forget the dance clubs known to be popular with Gringos. Forget the poolside chicas at luxury hotels on weekends.

Gringos in search of a serious relationship with a Colombian woman should be looking for Colombian women that are not actively seeking Gringos. Be the fisherman, not the fish.

It's easy to meet and date Colombian women. If you can't meet and date women in Colombia, then you can't meet and date women anywhere. All you you need is minimal self-confidence. Just say "hola" and smile.

[QUOTE=Client 9]I agree with everything Ricker said, especially the highlighted quote ...

... It's easy to meet and date Colombian women. If you can't meet and date women in Colombia, then you can't meet and date women anywhere. All you you need is minimal self-confidence. Just say "hola" and smile.[/QUOTE]Nice post Client ... especially the first line :)

Just kidding.

Very well written post though.

[QUOTE=Client 9]However, such Colombian women are generally prepagos and they are often very good at hiding that fact.[/QUOTE]I have a lot of friends who hang out on chat and dating sites. Unfortunately they're no more prepagos then US girls who hang out on similar sites are.

Sorry Client, I'm calling BS on you.

80% of inhabitants of Bogota were born somewhere else. Most big cities in Colombia have sizeable amounts of people who are from elsewhere in the country. Not to mention about 10% of Colombian citizens reside out of the country (which is actually a pretty normal ratio for a country of its size).

I am thinking of wintering in Colombia, say October to March. L. I live in Spain, but even here, the winters are too cold for me.

I would like to stay in a small beach town, safe and friendly, where I can hire a girl or two to look after me. In very way!

Any suggestions from you local experts? Is safety a problem though, for a blonde Englishman?

I am not into great nightlife; just a quiet life with good food, good wine, sunshine and lots of sex.

What should I pay for a modest house in a safe area and two girls each month.

Possible or a silly fantasy?

Perhaps a suggestion for a Spanish-speaking alternative?

I don't like Asia any more!

My perfect scenario would be to live on the edge of town somewhere; to have a scooter to get around; to have two girls living me me for always-available fun. A fairly simple existance besed on food, wine, sun and sex!

I don't want a different girl every day, I was more thinking of paying them to live with me. A bit like a downmarket version of Hugh Hefner!

I am not a bar person, almost reclusive, in a way. To be hidden away in my private hedonistic pleasure palace.

Maybe rent a small cortijo with someone else and a few girls to have fun with.

Interested anyone?

Safety is always an issue in Colombia. There are those here who say it isn't, but you need to look at it and judge for yourself where you're happy on the scale between relaxed and paranoid. Personally I go for permanently nervous and suspicious: I find it keeps me out of too much shit.

As to where you build your pleasure palace I have no idea. I did hear that there's a growing group of European retirees setting up on the Atlantic coast. Not Cartagena or Santa Marta, but somewhere smaller. I can try and find out if you want.

Does anyone know about the Medellin Madman?

[QUOTE=AddictedToWomen]Safety is always an issue in Colombia. There are those here who say it isn't, but you need to look at it and judge for yourself where you're happy on the scale between relaxed and paranoid. Personally I go for permanently nervous and suspicious: I find it keeps me out of too much shit.

As to where you build your pleasure palace I have no idea. I did hear that there's a growing group of European retirees setting up on the Atlantic coast. Not Cartagena or Santa Marta, but somewhere smaller. I can try and find out if you want.[/QUOTE]I would appreciate that.

Hola gentlemen,

When I go to a new place I always look for things to do other than just mongering. In Lima they have a horse racing track.

I have tried many times on the web to find out about horse racing in Columbia with no luck. Any help would be appreciated.

You would be surprised about how many Chicas like horses. I ask them if they would like to see the horses and that works a lot of times so I can kill two birds with one stone.

I have been to Cali and CTG and Baq so I guess the only places left where There will be races is Medellin and Bog.

Thanks,

Vic

[QUOTE=Vics Picks]Hola gentlemen,

When I go to a new place I always look for things to do other than just mongering. In Lima they have a horse racing track.

I have tried many times on the web to find out about horse racing in Columbia with no luck. Any help would be appreciated.

You would be surprised about how many Chicas like horses. I ask them if they would like to see the horses and that works a lot of times so I can kill two birds with one stone.

I have been to Cali and CTG and Baq so I guess the only places left where There will be races is Medellin and Bog.

Thanks,

Vic[/QUOTE]There was a horse track in Guarne near Medellín's international airport. It closed around a year ago.

[QUOTE=AddictedToWomen]I have a lot of friends who hang out on chat and dating sites. Unfortunately they're no more prepagos then US girls who hang out on similar sites are.[/QUOTE]I have a lot of friends that use the Colombian dating sites, too. In fact, I use the Colombian dating sites. However, I use them with both eyes wide open. Matchmaking services of any kind (marriage agencies, dating sites, etc.) are contrary to Colombian culture. Have you ever seen matchmaking services that introduce Colombian adults to other Colombian adults? Are there fraternities and sororities at the Colombian universities? I have never heard of Colombians of any age using matchmaking services of any kind to meet to other Colombians. Why? Because there is no reason to. Furthermore no Colombian woman wants to be considered "rebuscona" by her family, friends, coworkers, neighbors, etc.

Almost every prepago that I have met in Colombia did not reveal that they were a prepago until I later confronted them. Almost every prepago that I know is on the Colombian dating sites.

American culture and Colombian culture are different.

[QUOTE=Bango Cheito]Sorry Client, I'm calling BS on you.

80% of inhabitants of Bogota were born somewhere else. Most big cities in Colombia have sizeable amounts of people who are from elsewhere in the country. Not to mention about 10% of Colombian citizens reside out of the country (which is actually a pretty normal ratio for a country of its size).[/QUOTE]Well, Bango, I'm going to return the favor by calling BS on you.

First, I don't go to Bogota. I go to Barranquilla, Cali, Cartagena and Medellin. Maybe Bogota is very different from the other major cities of Colombia. Maybe 80% of people in Bogota are from other cities as you claim, but I doubt it. It seems like hyperbole.

While I am uncertain about Bogota, I am certain about the other major cities of Colombia. At least 80% of the people that I have met in the other major cities of Colombia were born, raised and have lived their entire lives in the same city. And that's not hyperbole. It's an accurate statement.

Colombia is not a mobile society. In fact, Colombia is a rigid society in every way. Colombia is one of the most isolated countries in the world. Very few people emigrate to Colombia. There is very little tourism in Colombia. Most Colombians have never been to a foreign country. Most Colombians do not speak a foreign language. Colombian exposure to foreigners and foreign cultures is minimal.

Colombian adults do not use matchmaking services to meet other Colombian adults. Colombian universities do not have fraternities and sororities. Matchmaking services are not part of Colombian culture because Colombia is not a mobile society. The social networks of Colombians are rarely disrupted. The social networks of many Americans are constantly disrupted, and that explains the cultural acceptance of matchmaking services in the U. S.

Colombian culture and American culture are different.