[QUOTE=Syzygies;1768446]I was thinking of Oilies in general. The shops you mention are probably all PSE shops that work differently.
I am not indeed experienced in massages at PSE shops. In fact I never had a massage at a PSE shop at all. There was never time for that or I prefered to just rest after a sex workout and allow the girl to rest since time remaining was short.
I have experienced massages in non PSE shops so that is where my experience comes from. This was not a good experience generally. Most of these massages were of little interest to me.
Naturally the other poster mentioning Healthland for a real massage, was not referring to a place for sex play. I thought that was only too obvious. Many guys like a real massage and don't go to a PSE shop for that.
I also thought is was strange to criticise a PSE shop girl whose massage procedure was not exactly to your personal specifications. In fact you wanted a sex play semi massage thing which is not really a massage at all. Like the other guy, I go to a PSE Oily for full on sex. Massage no.
Your assumption seemed to be that whatever you like, for a procedure at a PSE, must be the correct one that should be provided, and girls will all have been trained to give precisely the same.
As Goatscroat points out, the very best girls could adapt to each customers likes and needs, once she finds out what they are. She will have to be told or learn that gradually. Its not pure instinct to know exactly what each customer needs. I do tell them or sometimes I just start doing things, as I lead rather than follow. I have trained plenty of girls in special things I like. E. g. To brush tits and nipples on my balls while giving the blowjob. Most don't use this manoeuvre without being told. Of course only works if tits are big enough.
Some PSE shop girls may be massage experts too, but its unrealistic to think they will all be good at it. Many of us just don't care if the girl has any massage ability or not.
If a PSE shop girl gives a non sexy massage, it maybe because she comes from a more regular Oily where I have expereinced many non sexy massages.
So apologies for considering standard practice in normal average Oily MPs. PSE shops don't dominate my visits any more becaise the girls just aren't pretty enough for me, and as I aaid, I never take massage in PSE shop at all. In Tulip in the past it was always sex from start to finish.
Is every PSE shop girl trained to give rimming? Not in my experience. I don't recall receiving it that often. Maybe it has to be requested. However I never asked for it. Do girls understand the word "rimming"? I don't know since I don't speak English to girls and I don't know if Thais have any special word for it other than the literally explicit "lick asshole". I perform rimming on most girls unless they obviously want to dodge it. I receive it far less often, even in PSE shops.[/QUOTE]To answer one of your specific questions, I never have asked for rimming and never needed to. What happens is the girl and I leave the initial shower, I say I would like an oil massage first (or sometimes the girl asks me first), and then I lie down on my stomach on the bed and play the role of a beached whale for a few minutes. That is it.
For whatever reason, the girls would do rimming during the initial massage, but did not (I suppose unless asked, which I never did) do so during the between rounds massage even if at one point they were trying to arouse you for the second round. I found this curious, but that is the way it has always been.
To put some substance on this, here is a list off the top of my head of [I]some[/I] of the girls who then proceeded to give me a medium / hard massage for about five minutes, then a soft sexy massage followed by rimming, with the girl then telling me to turn over (there is a small chance my memory is wrong and one or two of these girls did not do exactly what I am saying, but I doubt it). This sequence was extremely similar across all these girls:
Fa, Snow White ("SW").
Creme, SW.
Grace, Victoria.
We, Baron / Tulip.
Cat, Tulip.
Teena, Tulip.
Jane, Tulip.
Or, Tulip.
Pammy, Tulip.
See, Tulip.
Bo, Mango (although after becoming famous, sometimes avoided the rimming).
Amy, Mango.
Ice, Mango.
Bo, Cherry (fairly certain she did rimming as part of the massage).
April, SW, now Bongkot (fairly certain she dd rimming as part of the massage).
June, Tulip.
Nestle, Tulip.
May, Tulip then Snow White, now Bongkot.
Fa, Tulip.
Pim, Tulip.
There are many more but these are the ones that come to mind and whose names I can remember.
At least during the time around 2005-2008, and probably after as well, most girls at Tulip came from Nakon Phanom, and from what I understand when they first arrived they slept on the premises (although this latter information is based on hearsay). Senior girls would then train them and it was not uncommon for the senior girls to ask trusted customers whether they wanted to do a three-some with a senior girl and a new girl in training (this was one way the training worked). I have read accounts of the senior girl barking out instructions during these training sessions of what the new girl should do at various points (I'm not enamored with three-somes so never participated as a training "guinea pig") . As a result of this system, the girls (with the exception of those who could not be well-trained) performed similarly, including during the initial massage.
Later, Snow White started up and a couple of the Tulip girls went there and trained the Snow White girls. Similarly for Mango. And Victoria. And I believe Cherry as well. Bongkot has a couple of ex-Tulip trainers I believe, although they were at some other shops after leaving Tulip and before joining Bongkot.
However, some of these second-generation shops (actually third-generation because Baron's preceded Tulip) have lost some of their original trainers, and it seems the level of service and presumably training has become less consistent as a result. I had become accustomed to a certain level of service at PSE shops previously, this was given as a matter of course at PSE shops (without having to ask for it at all). I have, however, very recently noticed that at least at some PSE shops this level of service (or, if one prefers, type of service) can no longer be relied upon.
My preference in this regard is to receive the same type of service that has been routinely given at the PSE shops, and still is to a lesser extent. I'm not asking for anything more, or anything less and to the extent this represents a personal preference, it is a preference that has resulted from receiving this type of service routinely for over a decade without ever having to ask for it. As I noted earlier, I had this type of service at Tulip last week and I did nothing but ask for an oily massage and then lie on my stomach. The girl did the rest, following in what is now a more than decade-long tradition of what service at a PSE shop entails (but, again, a tradition that it is beginning to seem is no longer uniformly followed).
