I have the same question about leaving it open-ended
I am curious about best practice as well as some don't want to say anything. Some just say that they want benefits. So I'm not sure, but assume l, they want to be wined and dined, travel, and so on. Someone mentioned this before, but I did get one who was not happy about offering an hourly rate. She was okay with a longer date. I'm guessing it's like sugar dating.
Got PM now so feel free to message me as well on your experiences, tips, advices if you don't want to post.
[QUOTE=QualitySmut;2756295]This is great insight. I just have one concern. When doing things your favorite way as stated above, aren't you opening yourself up to the risk that the girl will ask for something unreasonable after the deed is done? This could lead to trouble if you don't comply from what I understand. It sounds like a the a high risk high reward type deal. I'm just trying to understand as I'm still putting together my plan of attack if you will. I'd love to try it your way on the contingency you have some sort of best practice to mitigate the risk that seem obvious to me. Keep in mind I've never been to Colombia and I know just enough Spanish to tell the locals confidently that I don't know Spanish. I say that to say, I maybe looking at this wrong and I urge you to correct me if that is the case.[/QUOTE]
Bogota. Buses early Sep'22
Bogota to Cucuta / Bucaramanga / Cali / Medellin by bus: I was interested in night bus from Bogota to Cucuta. I got following information from inquiring at Bogota bus terminus. The list is in the order of the booths in terminal, from left to right.
Berlinas: 100 k to Cucuta, buses at 4:45 pm, 5:45 pm (piso 2 bus), 7:10 pm, 8:55 pm, 10:15 pm, 12 midnight.
65 k to Bucaramanga, buses at 7:30 am, 8:30 am, 9:45 am.
No bus to Cali or Medellin.
Bolivariano: Cali bus at 7:30 pm, 8 pm, 9:30 pm, and 10 pm (piso 2 bus).
Medellin bus at 6:40 pm (?77 k), 9 pm (?87 k), 12 midnight (piso 2 bus).
Cucuta last bus at 5:30 pm.
No bus to Bucaramanga.
Copetran: 170 k to Cucuta, buses at 7:20 pm, 8:20 pm, 11:10 pm.
105 k to Bucaramanga, buses at 6, 6:40,7:20,8. I think all are morning bus.
No bus to Cali or Medelling.
Omega: 100 k to Cucuta, buses at 6:10 pm, 8:15 pm, 9:40 pm.
70 k to Bucaramanga, buses at 7:45,4:30,10. I think 7:45 am, 4:30 pm, 10 pm.
No bus to Cali or Medellin.
Rapido Ochoa: 85 k to Medellin, buses at 4:30 pm /6:30 pm, 9 pm, 10:30 pm.
Libertadores: No bus to Cucuta / Cali / Medellin. Only small van to Bucaramanga.
Rapido El Carmen: No bus to Cucuta / Bucaramanga / Cali / Medellin.
Reina: Bucaramanga buses at 6 am, 9 am. No bus to Cucuta / Cali / Medellin.
Cotrans: 80 k to Cucuta, bus at 11 pm. No bus to Bucaramanga / Cali / Medellin.
Expreso Brasilia: No bus to Cucuta / Cali. 90 k to Medellin. No morning bus to Medellin / Bucaramanga.
Flota Rionegro: No bus to Cucuta / Bucaramanga / Cali / Medellin.
Concorde: 80 k to Cucuta, buses at 6 pm, 7 pm, 8 pm, 10 pm.
Bucaramanga buses at 4:30 pm, 6:50 pm, 9 am.
No bus to Cali / Medellin.
Macarena /'Expreso Favito'Trans Alianza': No bus to Cucuta / Bucaramanga / Cali / Medellin.
Flota Magdalena: Cali buses at 8:30 am, 10 am, 12 noon, 2:30 pm.
Medelling buses at 6:20 am, 8:40 am, 10 am.
I took the night bus from Bucaramanga to Cucuta, and can confirm that the above information for Bogota to Cucuta was valid.
I took 11:10 pm bus for 100 k (don't remember which bus), but the bus travelled through Bucaramanga, which is a longer route. So, I guess the buses charging 80 k from Bogota to Cucuta would take the direct / shorter route.
Someone who doesn't do this for living. FB or SA?
[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2756376]Technically, if no money were discussed prior to a date, you don't owe her shit. In this case, you pay whatever amount you find reasonable or not pay at all, if you feel like she is a non pro and doesn't care about the money. Here is what I usually do:[/QUOTE]I remember an SA girl / in law school who lived with Mom. She always had to be home by 8-9 pm. Yep really. I used to give her a hard time, saying can't you just get a note from Mom to meet me? Then she shows up driving her Mom's Mercedes. I was quite after that. Almost felt I was out of my league.
Another SA girl finishing flight attendant school. Show's up in her uniform! Sexy!
And recently in Medellin. An actual model who has me take photos for her IG account and tells me if we go out in public people here know me and we will get "looks".
A violinist / gymnast / blond in Bog who was sales & marketing director for a Russian company that no one would do business with anymore. Sang to me in French. Has an actual Visa. wow was good in bed.
All these girls are bilingual. All can do without. So they are extremely picky. And yes they also expect $ at first. Later maybe not. Good luck to the guys who understand. Now ff only I could figure out this FB game. I want to use my real account. Any ideas?
Actually, I just get annoyed
[QUOTE=Balboa;2756353]Ok Woodman, I understand your take.
They just never seem even attempting to intimidate me.
Just convince me, Lol, and yes, they can be pushy, but no more than the guys on the other street trying to get you in their clubs.
Imo theyre not intimidating type guys.
I just say some joke and they laugh and I move on.
I personally don't think they're dickheads, at least not the guys I've dealt with.
You're obviously entitled to your opinion tho.
And I don't trust them either. I don't trust anyone I meet in Colombia, Lol.[/QUOTE]I've been going down there too much too, but I do get along better with the guys on 16 a much better.
I tip a lot of those guys but when they start acting entitled is the problem.