Any one tried to find girls in this website.
Hi,
I am new to Shanghai.
Any one ever tried to find a girl in this websie.
Seems there are many girls in this website. I don't know if they are truly available.
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[QUOTE=RedHawk;2222742]Hi folks,
Was in Xintiandi having a meal and drinks with friends.
Got propositioned by many guys and ladies trying to sell me a lady.
I fobbed them off but others kept coming.
Later in the night there some streetwallers / freelancers about. All Chinese. And some of them were babes. I mean 8 in my books. While others were average to borderline ugly.
I didn't partake as I was with friends. However may try one if the opportunity arises.
Anyone had any experiences in the area?
Red.[/QUOTE]A few months ago, I went to Xintiandi around 9 pm for an after work dinner and drink. Since it was warm, I was sitting outside one of the restaurants when I was approached by an attractive young Chinese lady who invited me to a "party". Although I am a very experienced international traveler and am aware of all the scams, for some reason she charmed me into taking a cab with her. We ended up at an unmarked building in a section of Shanghai that I did not readily recognize. The next two hours were truly scary. In short, after doing nothing that would rack up huge charges in a tiny private room fully-clothed except chatting and drinking a couple of beers, I was presented with a bill for 30,000 Rmb. When I refused to pay, two big guys came into the room and threatened to get physical. When I tried to call the police on my Chinese cell phone, they ripped it from my hand and said the police were paid off by the boss' father who ran operations like this all over town. I am a big guy too, but they had my outnumbered, so I reluctantly agreed to pay what I could with US bank cards. The total charged was probably close to $2,000. Finally after deciding that they had wrung all the money they could out of me, they gave me a "free" beer and sent me penniless back to my hotel in a cab. I immediately cancelled the charges online with my banks. There was some reluctance to void the charges since the proper PIN had been used, etc. , but eventually when the "vendor" did not respond to the banks' inquires the banks all agreed to credit my accounts. Whew.
Because I figured the crooks would be enraged when they learned the banks had voided the charges, I also changed hotels and kept a low profile for the rest of my trip. I even took a deep breath when going through outbound Chinese immigration since I was worried that these connected crooks might have lodged a claim against me that might prevent me from leaving China, which I was anxious to do. Luckily, things went smoothly, but I did breathe an extra sigh of relief when my AA flight took off for Dallas! Subsequent trips have been less eventful.
Moral (s) of this story:
1. Never go with any one you don't know, especially if you are alone. This can be difficult if you've had a couple of drinks and the come on is from a pretty young thing, but don't kid yourself that you are such a hot stud that cute young ladies are going to really approach you to go to parties, free massages, tea ceremonies, English classes, etc. It just does not happen!
2. Limit what you carry in terms of cash and cards, etc. And.
3. no p. In China is worth the risk and the stress of these situations.
I have worked all over the world and I am by no means young anymore, but this night in Shanghai still gives me chills and makes me very grateful that Karma or some other past good deeds, etc. Extricated me from a very dicey spot. Learn from my mistake. I did.