Thai Women - Opinions & Advice

Hi everybody,

Just thought that I would share some experience with you. Also this is off course a reminder to all to take all the stories of "bad" girls seriously. As I did not. I have been had by an escort girl.

I met a beautiful young girl last August that I immediately fell for. She was working as on of the hottest escorts for bangkokgoldescorts. She was very different from any thai girl I had ever met. Never asked for money, denied to give money to her family when we met (yes they all tried.) and she stopped working the first day we met. Wow. Was this really love? I myself come from denmark. So when I say love, I really mean it. But was I to learn that "love" in thai has many other meanings! I visited her for 10 days every month from August to December last year. Everyday we talked on either webcam or phone. I decided to hire a detective to track her for about 1 month. Surprisingly there were no lies. Everything she did and told me was like she said. Wow. I had found a good girl! So I asked her if she wanted to come live with me. Yes this she really wanted as she felt that we already were like husband and wife. I managed to get her a longterm visa to denmark and she moved here January 5th. Everything was great, we have travelled in most of europe together, she started going to language school and we had passionate sex 2.3 times a day (no bullshit! ) The perfect life. We even visited Thailand (Bangkok) and her family and thai friends 4 times during January to may. Then the shit hit the fan. Her grandfather died 2 weeks ago. Her grandfather was the only family member that she was close to. I told her that I wanted her to go to the funeral but she didn't want me to come with her. Understanderble. So she left a Wednesday morning. She only packed for 7 days. She didn't call me back when she arrived. 1 day goes, 2 day goes by. And finally I text her to make sure that everything is ok. She replies that she is busy right now and that she will call me back. Ok. She doesn't. I call to ask her what the fuck is going on. I can feel something is wrong. I start looking at the website that I found her on and BAM! She is on it again. I confront her with it and she finally gives in and says that he started working escort again. Ok. She doesn't love, that I can respect. Goodbye. Then a couple of days go by and she texts me and she is obviously very upset with me and tells me that she loves me but she is working now as a prostitute and she cannot return. I think. That she is totally fucked up in the head. I try to tell her that if she really loves me, then she should return and we will work things out (inside I in fact was hoping that she would say no. But at the time I thought that it was the only really gentleman thing to offer.) She flips out and starts crying and then she hangs up. A couple of days later she says that she doesn't care about me and that she now has what she wanted. Curiously I have to ask. What that was? She was pregnant for the last 2 weeks and I was the father! Goddamn! She was just out of my system and now she returns again with this bomb. Well (gentleman and stupid) I again tell her that I think she should come back and we could start over together. She says that she doesn't care anymore. She will work escort and earn money and then she will go to her grandfathers farm in Phuket and become a farmer (hey. She is a pure bangkokgirl and university student. Farmer? ! ) So what is there left for me to do? I think that I have tried everything. Why does she need to tell me all this? . How come she cannot return when I offer it to her? Why the fuck are thai women so crazy fucked up in their head?

And last. Did this REALLY happen to me? !

Ps. For those of you who don't want to risk getting a girl pregnant doing bareback. She is still quite hot and she did me bareback first time we met. So hurry up before she becomes a phuket farmer!

How to get fucked by a thai girl - I never thought that it would happen to me! LOL!!

[quote]Hi everybody,

Just thought that I would share some experience with you. Also this is off course a reminder to all to take all the stories of "bad" girls seriously. As I did not. I have been had by an escort girl.

I met a beautiful young girl last August that I immediately fell for. She was working as on of the hottest escorts for bangkokgoldescorts. She was very different from any thai girl I had ever met. Never asked for money, denied to give money to her family when we met (yes they all tried.) and she stopped working the first day we met. Wow. Was this really love? I myself come from denmark. So when I say love, I really mean it. But was I to learn that "love" in thai has many other meanings! I visited her for 10 days every month from August to December last year. Everyday we talked on either webcam or phone. I decided to hire a detective to track her for about 1 month. Surprisingly there were no lies. Everything she did and told me was like she said. Wow. I had found a good girl! So I asked her if she wanted to come live with me. Yes this she really wanted as she felt that we already were like husband and wife. I managed to get her a longterm visa to denmark and she moved here January 5th. Everything was great, we have travelled in most of europe together, she started going to language school and we had passionate sex 2.3 times a day (no bullshit! ) The perfect life. We even visited Thailand (Bangkok) and her family and thai friends 4 times during January to may. Then the shit hit the fan. Her grandfather died 2 weeks ago. Her grandfather was the only family member that she was close to. I told her that I wanted her to go to the funeral but she didn't want me to come with her. Understanderble. So she left a Wednesday morning. She only packed for 7 days. She didn't call me back when she arrived. 1 day goes, 2 day goes by. And finally I text her to make sure that everything is ok. She replies that she is busy right now and that she will call me back. Ok. She doesn't. I call to ask her what the fuck is going on. I can feel something is wrong. I start looking at the website that I found her on and BAM! She is on it again. I confront her with it and she finally gives in and says that he started working escort again. Ok. She doesn't love, that I can respect. Goodbye. Then a couple of days go by and she texts me and she is obviously very upset with me and tells me that she loves me but she is working now as a prostitute and she cannot return. I think. That she is totally fucked up in the head. I try to tell her that if she really loves me, then she should return and we will work things out (inside I in fact was hoping that she would say no. But at the time I thought that it was the only really gentleman thing to offer.) She flips out and starts crying and then she hangs up. A couple of days later she says that she doesn't care about me and that she now has what she wanted. Curiously I have to ask. What that was? She was pregnant for the last 2 weeks and I was the father! Goddamn! She was just out of my system and now she returns again with this bomb. Well (gentleman and stupid) I again tell her that I think she should come back and we could start over together. She says that she doesn't care anymore. She will work escort and earn money and then she will go to her grandfathers farm in Phuket and become a farmer (hey. She is a pure bangkokgirl and university student. Farmer? ! ) So what is there left for me to do? I think that I have tried everything. Why does she need to tell me all this? . How come she cannot return when I offer it to her? Why the fuck are thai women so crazy fucked up in their head?

And last. Did this REALLY happen to me? !

Ps. For those of you who don't want to risk getting a girl pregnant doing bareback. She is still quite hot and she did me bareback first time we met. So hurry up before she becomes a phuket farmer! [/quote]Of course it didn't really happen to you. This is the biggest load of crap I've seen in a long time. First, why in god's name (yes, god should always be lowercase, because I'm never sure whose god I'm referring to) would she not want you attend her grandfather's funeral. You say it was the only family member she was close to. I would think that she would have insisted on your being there. What confirms that this is a fantasy is that there is no Thai girl that would forego a possible middle class life for life on a farm. The farm is what they are trying to escape.

[QUOTE=Chaz]How to get fucked by a thai girl - I never thought that it would happen to me! LOL!!

Of course it didn't really happen to you. This is the biggest load of crap I've seen in a long time. First, why in god's name (yes, god should always be lowercase, because I'm never sure whose god I'm referring to) would she not want you attend her grandfather's funeral. You say it was the only family member she was close to. I would think that she would have insisted on your being there. What confirms that this is a fantasy is that there is no Thai girl that would forego a possible middle class life for life on a farm. The farm is what they are trying to escape.[/QUOTE]Yes exactly my point! , but things have evolved since last. I managed to talk to some of her friends and family during the week. There wasnt any funeral. She had planned this even before she left. She had not been at all with her family. She had stayed with her partyfriends. That leaves the question. Why did she not bring back more of her stuff? I also managed to talk to her fro 30 secs on the phone to confirm this. And her answer was simply."I found out that I was pregnant and then I knew I got what I wanted. Can you send me my stuff."

Yeah and you are right. Isn't it what all thai girls want to get out of. The farm? . But let me tell you. I am sure that she really meant that part, because she has been talking about all the time, because it reminded her of the only place she ever was happy as a child.

So I am sorry to disappoint you. My story is true. Although it also took 3 days before I beleived it myself!

[QUOTE=Chaz]How to get fucked by a thai girl. I never thought that it would happen to me! LOL!

Of course it didn't really happen to you. This is the biggest load of crap I've seen in a long time. First, why in god's name (yes, god should always be lowercase, because I'm never sure whose god I'm referring to) would she not want you attend her grandfather's funeral. You say it was the only family member she was close to. I would think that she would have insisted on your being there. What confirms that this is a fantasy is that there is no Thai girl that would forego a possible middle class life for life on a farm. The farm is what they are trying to escape.[/QUOTE]Yeah I know this is my second answer to Chaz's post, but I must write more reports so that I can edit my own post quickly.

This is just an addendum to my former post, because I started to think about why Chaz didn't beleive me. I still really don't know why. But. I was only telling this story so that you guys could have a good laugh on my behalf. So why lie?

Well anyway, I need to clarify some things about my ex-thai-girlfriend.

- She NEVER lived on a farm (except holidays)

- She IS from a middleclass Bangkok family (her father and mother are divorced, but both live in their own fairly big townhouses in the city center)

- They STILL ask for money. Even at middleclass level. They must have thought that I was ULTRA rich.

- She has lied about almost everything about her past.

- She was married to another farang when I met her

- She has told me that she was thrown out by her mother when she was 15 and therefore has difficulties in committing to other people.(which I now beleive)

- She works in a highclass escort agency, so her income is slightly higher than the average prostitute.

- She still thinks as a 14 year old although she is 23.

And if you still have your doubts Chaz, I can tell that I am NOT a wifebeater, I am NOT an abuser, I am NOT an alkoholic or drug addict. I would say that I am quite an average family man. BUT I AM still a BIG questionmark on all what happened!

That is why I am sharing my story so I hope that some of you guy still are laughing about lifes small mysteries.

[QUOTE=Mbx0710]
- She NEVER lived on a farm (except holidays)
- She has lied about almost everything about her past.

still a BIG questionmark on all what happened!
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Have a close look at the quote, from your post, above. the bullet points weren't directly following each other, but they were in the same set of bullet points. All should become clear through the fog of love.


Ozirob

[QUOTE=Mbx0710]Hi everybody,

Curiously I have to ask. What that was? She was pregnant for the last 2 weeks and I was the father! Goddamn! She was just out of my system and now she returns again with this bomb.[/QUOTE]


Congratulations Dad to be! So what's your next move?

[QUOTE=Mbx0710]She was pregnant for the last 2 weeks and I was the father! Goddamn! She was just out of my system and now she returns again with this bomb. Well (gentleman and stupid) I again tell her that I think she should come back and we could start over together. She says that she doesn't care anymore. She will work escort and earn money and then she will go to her grandfathers farm in Phuket and become a farmer (hey. She is a pure bangkokgirl and university student. Farmer? ! ) So what is there left for me to do? I think that I have tried everything. Why does she need to tell me all this? . How come she cannot return when I offer it to her? Why the fuck are thai women so crazy fucked up in their head?

And last. Did this REALLY happen to me? ![/QUOTE]

There exists a book entitled, "My Name LON. You Like Me?" It is a good read.

[QUOTE=Run Mann]Congratulations Dad to be! So what's your next move? [/QUOTE] Hey Run Mann,

Thanks a lot! LOL. I am already decorating my soon-to-be-born's room. But I don't ever think I will see him/her.

So what do I do now? Well, I am really hoping that it is bs and that she just said it to hurt me. (the pregnancy) I will hopefully find out during the week. Oddly enough. The family and friends that I managed to contact are very friendly and almost apologetic. So I will have to see what comes out of that.

In fact my first thought was rather egoistic. I was going to book a long weekend trip to BKK and then I would try to bang as many thai women as possible in 3 days, just to make a point of it for myself.(about thai women and money). But. There must be better girls out there.! ? ! Right?

In fact I ended up driving 900 km's to a german FKK and spent the weekend there. Not bad at all, but thats a different story.

[QUOTE=Mbx0710]So what is there left for me to do? I think that I have tried everything. [/QUOTE]
Nothing. You have done everything and more- too much, really. She holds the cards at this point. You sound like a decent guy, don't let this make you crazy. If you want to meet a good woman here and have a kid it is certainly possible to do so, but trying to raise a kid here with someone so "so crazy fucked up in their head" is an invitation to an 18+ -year nightmare.

[QUOTE=Mbx0710]Why does she need to tell me all this?[/QUOTE]
You are being manipulated. Turn away. She will come to you because you can be useful to her.

[QUOTE=Mbx0710]risk getting a girl pregnant doing bareback. She is still quite hot and she did me bareback first time we met.[/QUOTE]

Sorry to be indelicate, but you and who else? My instincts and my experience in Thailand tell me that at some point in the future she will be back asking for money to support the child you assume is yours. That is when you start playing hardball, first by demanding a paternity test and, if the child is yours (or even if you don't care about that) visiting rights.

By showing your sensitivity and concern to this woman you seem to be attempting to appeal to her like you would a Western woman. Western women (particularly educated, cultured Scandanavian women) claim to prize men who show sensitivity and are willing to show weakness, but I think this runs counter to female instincts generally, and when it comes to Thais you should realize that they show little pretense in this regard- they don't respect any display of weakness, and will misinterpret sensititivity as weakness, the way farangs misinterpret Thai tolerance as approval. This sounds like the kind of woman for whom a display of weakness has the same effect as an offer of the jugular does to a wolf. You may not realize it, but you are in a battle. Either retire from the field or pick up a weapon.

[QUOTE=Mbx0710]Hey Run Mann,

Thanks a lot! LOL. I am already decorating my soon-to-be-born's room. But I don't ever think I will see him/her.
[/QUOTE]
Sadly there is a growing trail of abandoned bastards in Asia and all over the world. Let’s hope there is no baby, but if you do turn out be Dad, you not only get to see your baby but you also get to decorate his/her room and more.

[QUOTE=Sanook D]Nothing. You have done everything and more- too much, really. She holds the cards at this point. You sound like a decent guy, don't let this make you crazy. If you want to meet a good woman here and have a kid it is certainly possible to do so, but trying to raise a kid here with someone so "so crazy fucked up in their head" is an invitation to an 18+. Year nightmare.

You are being manipulated. Turn away. She will come to you because you can be useful to her.

Sorry to be indelicate, but you and who else? My instincts and my experience in Thailand tell me that at some point in the future she will be back asking for money to support the child you assume is yours. That is when you start playing hardball, first by demanding a paternity test and, if the child is yours (or even if you don't care about that) visiting rights.

By showing your sensitivity and concern to this woman you seem to be attempting to appeal to her like you would a Western woman. Western women (particularly educated, cultured Scandanavian women) claim to prize men who show sensitivity and are willing to show weakness, but I think this runs counter to female instincts generally, and when it comes to Thais you should realize that they show little pretense in this regard- they don't respect any display of weakness, and will misinterpret sensititivity as weakness, the way farangs misinterpret Thai tolerance as approval. This sounds like the kind of woman for whom a display of weakness has the same effect as an offer of the jugular does to a wolf. You may not realize it, but you are in a battle. Either retire from the field or pick up a weapon.[/QUOTE]Hey Sanook,

You could'nt be more right. I also think this is why I in the first place wanted to tell you guys my story. I guess I am the product of my mother's damn "be-a-man-like-a-girl-thinks-a-man-should-be" upbringing. LOL

But really, I also think that thai women (well most) should not be treated the same way as educated scandinavian women. I don't mean that you have to hit them, but you have to be hard/harsh to be respected, and don't ever ask for their opinion about something. In fact a man should be egoistic. I must learn to apply this attitude before my next ThaiGirl adventure.

And you are not indelicate. My first thought after I heard that she had returned to her old job was in fact." DAMN. I need a STD test! NOW! "

Well anyway, she is out of my internal system now and for now I will retire from the battlefield, but I will be ready to fight all the way. Not for visiting rights. But for denial! Haha.

[QUOTE=Run Mann]Sadly there is a growing trail of abandoned bastards in Asia and all over the world. Let’s hope there is no baby, but if you do turn out be Dad, you not only get to see your baby but you also get to decorate his/her room and more.[/QUOTE]Yes! I finally got it confirmed. She is not pregnant!

I finally had a long talk with her and made her calm down and she admitted that it was all (the pregnancy part) a desperate lie from her.

She is so fucking stupid. She made a contract with the escortagency that will bind her for years and years with the threat of them (escortagency) exposing her work to family, friends and normal work colleagues if she does not fulfill the contract. She said something about that she got 40000 baht up front to sign a contract that she would at least bring back 1.500.000 baht to the agency the next year or two. Wow. That is a LOT of spreading her legs!

Apparently a lot of these so-called "intelligent" university attending girls are conned into this kind of contract. I also dated another escort from another of the 2 most talked about agencies here on the Thailand board. It was the same with her. She could not commit to a monogamous relationship because she was bound by a similar type of contract. (when you "date" an escort, you don't pay money to the agency for sex.! , but don't worry. You WILL use the same amount on food and gifts and cashloans. LOL)

What the hell are they thinking about? And how can they be so naiive. I mean. EVERYBODY knows that a normal job in Thailand cannot give them money enough so they can buy all that clothes, jewelery and cell phones that these girls use, so either they are sponsored by one or more foreigners or they are selling their bodies. Can't thai people see this? It is SO OBVIOUS! I mean also where I come from here in scandinavia, it is obvious that young single girls who have a gigantic shopping budget can be either in one of two situations. Either their family are filthy rich or they are selling their bodies. And when it is obvious that the family's most expensive active is the trailer they live in. Well.

Is it isaan black magic that makes the women fear the escortagency more than death? Or is a Thai escort agency just another eastern european [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord908][CodeWord908][/url] setup? !

I know a really beautiful girl (not sexually) who worked in a french company in BKK. She was engaged to a young, rich and succesfull arkitekt from germany whom she has just married (1.000.000 baht Sin Sot!. Plus a wedding with 383 thai guests! )

Everything is laid out for her. No worries. She has a normal office job at 20000 baht/month. But she gets extra 5000 baht/month to be available for the Thai CEO. In fact she is in love with the french daily manager. Same time she will go home with you from Spicy if you offer her 5000 baht, if not you can meet her as an escort.

So here we have a situation were this drop dead gorgeous girl (25 yrs) with all possibilities in her future.

1. Is married, everything in Thailand paid for by her husband (30000 baht appartment on upper Suk and a lot of spending money on top).

2. 25000 Baht salary. And she fucks her Thai boss 2-3 times a month.

3. She is passionately in love with her french daily manager, who she also fucks on a regulary basis.

4. She will take home anyone who offers her 5000 baht at Spicy and fuck you crazy.

5. You can order her as an escort.

I asked her. What are you saving up for? LOL! She didn't have any savings. She used every baht each month on herself!

Just my thoughts.

Have a great weekend!

I will go again to Frankfurt and live in a FKK for the next 2 days!

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[QUOTE=Mbx0710]Yes! I finally got it confirmed. She is not pregnant!

I finally had a long talk with her and made her calm down and she admitted that it was all (the pregnancy part) a desperate lie from her.[/QUOTE]Maybe that's a lie too. Can you trust anything she says.

[QUOTE=PinkPearl]Maybe that's a lie too. Can you trust anything she says.[/QUOTE]Ha..ha... Thank you PinkPearl for making me nervous again! LOL..

But you are so right about that anything coming out of her mouth is probably a fat lie.

so I in fact did some research also on the subject.

One of my friends were in Bangkok 1 week ago and he ordered a session with her from bangkokgold. He made a private deal with her to meet her next day for some dating. (with money involved off course) He did her bareback a couple of times and at the end of the day she was desperately looking for a pharmacy to get a "the-day-after-pill" (I don´t really know the medical name for this pill) So...my thoughts are....why would she be desperate to get a birthcontrol pill if she was already pregnant?

I know that I maybe went a little bit over the line by this method of proof. But as I needed to get real confirmation I could not think of any other way. She earned money, my friend got laid (paid by me) and I got an answer.

Mbx0710,

Just my 2 cents, first thanks for sharing your experience and laying yourself out on the road to be run over by other members. Since you have been run over already let me take a shot at you too.

If you don't know already, aside from her bedside manners she is a loose canon ready to go off. The way she is going it wouldn't surprise me she gets pregnant once she finds the right sucker who will fall for her lines or she comes down with a STD. Regardless, aside from her having the baby which will be the innocent one just for the security of a Farang, like hitting the lottery for a Thai. I really feel sorry for that Farang because if he isn't strong enough mentally I most likely will see him in the news shooting him in the head or being broke and living out of a car, or stealing Ramen noodles from a 7/11 like we have been reading the last few months. With what you told us god help the Farang that ends up with her! The baby is the last thing he has to worry about.

Personally I have a simple method that determines how a girl is going to be. It's called the high maintenance test. This is just a game for me and I play it with my buddies when they ask my opinion. Of course it just a generalizaton! How does she dress, how much makeup, listen when she talks and you will learn! If she has a cellphone, what kind how much? Where does she like to eat? Does she drink coffee? Does she drink alcohol and if so, what type or brand? I could go on and on, the best one is how long does it take her to get ready to go out? Everything has a story! Even with all this one can be wrong!

As for her contract with the Escort service I have my doubts. Most escort service from my experience is owned and operated by the Thai Mafia, although a contract for this long time period is possible it wouldn't be to their advantage to do such a long term contract especially in Thailand. Cause anything can happen and usually 1 years is the normal unless she has done something in her past. Most contracts if they are free to enter into usually requires the person to put money up since that business want insurance that they are going to show up for work and be available. Now this might not be always the case especially for a Escort service.

Last, if you are going to call a bluff, if the women tells you she is pregnant you might use this line especially if it is P4P, " it can't be mines because I can't have kids " It work for my buddy which was really true! when he told her there was a moment of silence and she confused that she had been seeing a Thai guy behind his back. This was his wife, he hanged up the phone, cut the ATM card, and never went back to Thailand. Today she hooked another Farang loaded, has 5 kids, 2 from Thai guys and 3 from this Dutch Farang. Her thinking is the more I have the more security? She might be right since the money is rolling in and she still is horny as hell!

Don't believe everything you hear in Thailand!