Pesonal preferences and why...
very wisely put...that certainly is the basis for their undoing, and it is from that knowledge that i so often lament for the poor, misguided nicer girls we know in the clubs, realizing their true natures. but also realizing that their decision to do what they do in the bars is sometimes also made to better the lives of others, financially, and with respect to their futures.
some are depraved, some do it out of sacrifice, some out of laziness, some out of taking the path of least resistance, some out of greed, etc...i know a girl that recently, about a month ago, took a second job in a factory, working two jobs to pay the bills. she told me that it was literally killing her. she was quickly deciding that her job in the bar was not so bad. so, when you do the math, compared to the amount of work done in exchange for effort made in the jobs of the virtuous, according to her, a bar girl's job is comparatively very, very easy. if you aren't born into money, t's really a no-brainer if you have the looks, and the emotional and psychological fortitude to pull it off.
this is not something she was thinking prior to taking the factory job, which she said was far and away ten times the amount of work in retrospect. living a "chaste" girl's existence means working very, very hard to exist in a latin culture. the decision to demean one's self as a bar girl is not so hard to understand when you consider the alternatives, and when you also consider the consequences to the living standard that results from maintaining one's virtuosity.
but, apparently, many girls that literally could assume the job of a bar girl, having the looks and personality necessary to do so, choose an alternate path. as you and porker have told me, the overwhelming majority of girls in mexico, at least with respect to their virtuosity, are not in the category of the girls that we patronize, who are all ultimately labeled as spoiled goods.
optimistically speaking, for a guy like cpalace, who may have found the exception to what we routinely see in the bars, there may be hope for things progressing nicely with his amiga, who may just be one of the many apparently virtuous ones. however, ymmv, and the proof is still always in the pudding.
hopefully, among the more virtuous girls of mexico, there must be some pearls among the swine, girls that are more discerning than to give of themselves to all who seek only sexual favors from them, even if the result enriches them beyond their wildest dreams in comparison to their otherwise virtuous peers. those are the ones, the apparent vast majority of eligible girls in mexico, that could make a man's life paradise on earth.
i realize my sampling of mexican girls is skewed because of the category of girls i've sampled. but, based on the numbers, it seems to me i've sampled enough to sense a generalization about the overall sexuality of latin girls. literally, i believe almost all latin girls run about 30-40 degrees hotter than any other culture i've encountered.
were i a younger man, unattached, knowing what i know now about the nature of latin women, i would definitely seek a mate, girlfriend, wife, companion, etc..., one of latin origins, versus what is available in the us. i believe cpalace said he was in the uk i believe, and i really can't speak to the nature of women in that part of the world, only in comparison primarily to us, latin, and asian girls, ie:thailand, the pi, indonesia, china, cambodia, singapore, etc...but, i feel that i've sampled large enough number from each respective category to form some relatively accurate representative conclusions about their overall appeal.
i believe that based on experience in the three generalized cultures, asian, latin, and american, it boils down to cultural influences as having the primary influence that distinguishes them from one another. even if a potential latin candidate were available in the us, originally from latin cultural origins, but living in the us for anytime more than about two years, i would not want to choose from anyone that may have been tainted by our cultural influences here in the us. and, imho, asian girls are much more frigid than latin girls. so, the choice is clear for me.
there is something about their authentic latin origins that makes them profoundly attractive to me. as i have always said, attitude is everything, and the latin culture, even with it's inherent machoistic flaws, produces some of the most alluring women in existence worldwide, imho.
[quote=amigomio]usb says: "more loving and passionate than any other culture i've come across."
yes, and that is the undoing of the mexican woman.
there comes a point that if the girl is open, socially and sexualy, she becomes a trophy for men to hunt.
men will rate her as a girl that "likes it" and will only look for her for sex.
slowly but surely she is pushed back by our macho dominated society into seclusion just because she wanted to be liberal.[/quote]