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[QUOTE=ForceSteeler;1618553]Man,
I cannot wait until after the olympics when the Brazil Economy Tanks and these termas prices will be cheaper. Anybody thinks they will open a place like help once the economy tanks?[/QUOTE]You obviously are not familiar with how Brazilians conduct business. When the economy tanks, Brazilians raise prices in an attempt to extra as much money as possible from their few remaining customers.
[QUOTE=ForceSteeler;1618553]Man,
I cannot wait until after the olympics when the Brazil Economy Tanks and these termas prices will be cheaper. Anybody thinks they will open a place like help once the economy tanks?[/QUOTE]I don't see why not. I can't see what their motivation would be to keep another Help type club from opening.
[QUOTE=SolomonRJ;1618137]Hi everyone!
These 'houses' mentioned below have some cool girls but they are dirty places. I don't recommend them. I live here and I can bring you some nice options. I come back later!
I am from Rio and I can guide you to happiness here! Nice to meet you[/QUOTE]Do you mind sharing your options? Maybe some places not mentioned here before?
[QUOTE=StinkySquid;1618517]I have no doubt that you can do that. But when you do that, you can basically also just hook up with a semi-pro or GF. I mean, look at the effort you're putting into it. You go several times to a Terma, there is always hit or miss, so be honest, you end up paying 1000 and go 4 times before you get your free date. When I come to Rio, I stay over 2-4 nights then move on. I want the luxury to be picked up at the airport, more or less blind date, get the GFE treatment as if I meet a long lost lover, snuggle and play for 24 hours, hopefully with emotions, then say good bye with a big smile and may be even a tear. Then I am on my merry way. This is what I want. And I do not know how else to get this so easily. I don't want to bother with Termas and the mechanical rushed 30 min service or whatnot. Its just no my thing.
Give me another way to get that and I am all ears. Next time that girl asks me for help, I will actually ask her for help arranging me another date. The biggest problem is to get a chance to talk with the girls from overseas before making the deal. This is why that girl on the dating site was a gift from heaven, she showed up just couple of week before my trip, and I found her when everything I tried with calling the freelancers failed. So, I am happy, and don't think 1000 is a lot of money if you consider how much time I have saved to get exactly what I wanted.[/QUOTE]No, I go twice to termas with same girl-sometimes only once does it but then I can see them when I come to Rio again and again.
I would go to cheap termas.
Dating sites can also set up non-pros who are just as bobo and into sexo as anyone else. Thats worked for me-for free.
[QUOTE=SolomonRJ;1618137]Hi everyone!
These 'houses' mentioned below have some cool girls but they are dirty places. [/QUOTE]I have been to two of the four establishments and they are not dirty. I would say worn out but not dirty. Even are. Uruguaniana which I do not care much for due to the seediness of the stairways is not dirty. These establishments are mostly frequented by non wealthy locals and the facilities reflect that. People here may recall BA 85 with its stairways to hell was not dirty.
[QUOTE=Carlos3000;1618807]I have been to two of the four establishments and they are not dirty. I would say worn out but not dirty. Even are. Uruguaniana which I do not care much for due to the seediness of the stairways is not dirty. These establishments are mostly frequented by non wealthy locals and the facilities reflect that. People here may recall BA 85 with its stairways to hell was not dirty.[/QUOTE]119 is a dirty, nasty gangster ass place with air thick with smoke. Girls are in general fat with a couple of cuties and a little one with her tits out probably as they're very very small and don't need a bra (who needs those things anyway-they just get in the way!) Acquired taste and should not be visited alone -go a bunch and it might be more fun.
[QUOTE=FuckAfMedDig;1618789]No, I go twice to termas with same girl-sometimes only once does it but then I can see them when I come to Rio again and again.
I would go to cheap termas.
Dating sites can also set up non-pros who are just as bobo and into sexo as anyone else. Thats worked for me-for free.[/QUOTE]How do you know the girl who shows up is going to be everything you want?
My terma experiences are never 30 minute mechanical visits in cabins.
I pick carefully and hang for hours first and have a great vibe and then go and have big fun-doesn't take more than 1 visit before they at least wd come and stay over.
I also have GFs there and non-pros-do it all and be happy. Its quite easy but may require you to be here for a week or more.
I just stayed at the Fasano for 2 nights and was unable to bring a girl in from outside. I found her on the internet and she arrived showing deep cleavage (we met outside). The reception person alerted the manager as we were getting into the elevator and the manager said there are no guests allowed after I had registered into the hotel as 1 guest.
I asked if she is allowed in for an extra charge and they said "no".
The Tripadvisor website says that some hotel guests entertain prostitutes in the restaurant, but I assume they meant the big bar area, but I was there for Sunday and Monday evenings, when the bigger bar / restaurant were closed. The main restaurant was for dinner reservations only.
I will try Sofitel on my next visit but not sure when that'll be.
My friend and I went to a Brazil Festival Party in Chicago recently and ran into a guy that he knew from Copa. My buddy hadn't seen the guy in a number of years and we started talking about Brazil. Turns out the guy had married his favorite Copa girl and brought her Chicago. He was telling us some of the trials and tribulations that he was going thru with 1) marrying a woman from another country 2) Marrying a Brazilian and 3) Marrying a former GDP. Here are just a few of the things that he was telling us about that he has to deal with.
A) One of the things that he said he wished he had thought about before he married her was her education level. His wife had dropped out of school when she was only 14, so she didn't have that much of a formal education. He said she can't even help their 9 year old son with his math homework because its too advanced for her. We asked him why he didn't put her in school and he started laughing. He said "Have you seen the new GED test? If she can't do 3rd grade math, there is no way she is going to be able to pass the GED course! It would be a waste of time and money!
B) He also said he had a number of awkward moments when they would run into former clients of hers while out and about. She used to be pretty popular in club Help so she had many clients. (I had fucked her a few times. Phat ass and could suck a mean one. But I didn't say anything) He says he tries his hardest not to be salty after the encounters, but he admits that it makes him angry and sometimes he takes it out on her. I told him he was lucky he lived in Chicago instead of the DMV, where she would probably see her old clients on a daily basis. LOL!
C) He said it took him years to get her to understand what "Appropriate" means. He said he could never trust her to come to his office or to meet him at a public function unless he picked out her clothes first. She would wear completely inappropriate clothes to functions and he would be very embarrassed. He would always tell her "You are not going to a baile funk party in the favela, you have to dress more classy here in America!
D) The constant need to want to talk to and visit former Help girls who are living in America. He tries to keep her from them and he encourages her to get new friends. Brazilian women who grew up in America who are doing positive things with their life, not former GDPs who have nothing going for themselves. Unfortunately, she is determined to keep close tabs with her former running partners.
After drinking and talking for about an hour, we really got the sense that if he had known then what he knows now, he never would have married her.
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After drinking and talking for about an hour, we really got the sense that if he had known then what he knows now, he never would have married her.[/QUOTE]I've heard that sob story, more or less the same, many times over.
Guys that fall in love (lust) and bring GDPs, or uneducated type girls back home are usually asking for headaches.
It's hard enough marrying and bringing an educated girl back home.
I avoid the whole scene of 'bringing 'em back home', and most especially avoid marrying them :)
[QUOTE=Ricker;1619256]I've heard that sob story, more or less the same, many times over.
Guys that fall in love (lust) and bring GDPs, or uneducated type girls back home are usually asking for headaches.
It's hard enough marrying and bringing an educated girl back home.
I avoid the whole scene of 'bringing 'em back home', and most especially avoid marrying them :)[/QUOTE]This is my 2 cent. I have talked with a lot of gringos, half had marriage failures, half are happily married ever after. These are the words of wisdom.
1. Latinas including Brazilians are not looking for good looking handsome studs, so ages do not make any differences.
2. They look for financial security and escaping from poverty.
3. Americans easily impress them with money and affluences.
4. Americans confuse true love and favorable impression. We must spend quality time with the gdps and get to know them, personal, family and cultures, their hopes and despairs. In brief spend time to court them over. Just because they are gdps don't mean they love you easily. True love must come from traditional courtship and win her heart.
5. I know it is hard, because the time issue and geographical distances, but we have to make it happened somehow. For example, give up the job and move to brazil to be with her etc. Hey that 's what love for.
Once, she is yours, she is very jealous and love you unless you neglect her. Absolutely no more mongering after marriages. One man, one woman. Is it too hard to ask for?
6. get to know them well, otherwise you are just ignorant clueless man. Brazilians have problems with snow and cold weather, and foods, and their compatriots to socialize. Also, marry her is to marry into her families. Suddenly, your house is full of friends, sisters. ,cousins, parents come over to visit and may stay. She may ask to send home your hard earned money to help out poor family back home.
That what I call get to know her inside out, their cultures, languages, etc.
If you do well the homework, your marriage has good chance to last. And this principles are applied universally, be thais, costa ricans, mexicans. Etc.
Lust and love are 2 different things. I think gdps are easy to understand, it is the mongers who are confused and ignorant. Lust with a sexual object, love a woman.
Understandingly, even all that, there are no sure thing like a lasting marriage. If you are afraid to drown, do not attempt to cross the river.
[QUOTE=Ricker;1619256]I've heard that sob story, more or less the same, many times over.
Guys that fall in love (lust) and bring GDPs, or uneducated type girls back home are usually asking for headaches.
It's hard enough marrying and bringing an educated girl back home.
I avoid the whole scene of 'bringing 'em back home', and most especially avoid marrying them :)[/QUOTE]I never understand why guys want to marry a working girl. The Movie Casino is a perfect example on why you cannot turn a ho into a housewife. Plus when you marry a women, it goes deeper than just your finances and your wallet.
What happens when you fall on hard times or get sick? Will that GDP be there when the times get tough? I highly doubt it. When you mongering follow the 3 F Rules. The 3 F Rules are "Find", "Fuck", and "Forget". Brazil is Disneyland but don't try to bring disneyland.
Into you backyard.
Excellent post, many good points but even the most savvy of us are vulnerable when we meet 'thee one'. We all know the rules and we can go for years with a hard heart and repeat "they are just working girls". As much as you want this kind of relationship to work, the odds are stacked against it. The only thing worse then bringing them home is to have a serious relationship with one long distanced. That my friends is just stupid.
[QUOTE=LatinaLover#1;1619418]Excellent post, many good points but even the most savvy of us are vulnerable when we meet 'thee one'. We all know the rules and we can go for years with a hard heart and repeat "they are just working girls". As much as you want this kind of relationship to work, the odds are stacked against it. The only thing worse then bringing them home is to have a serious relationship with one long distanced. That my friends is just stupid.[/QUOTE]Long distanced love does not exist. And I don't believe in Romeo and Juliet. Remember gdps have mouths to feed, beside they also have emotional needs. The French have an adage " Loin des yeux. Loin du coeur. " means. " away the eyes. Away the heart. ".
Love needs reinforcement. Physically daily. Pure and simple.
[QUOTE=RockTimes;1619447]Long distanced love does not exist. And I don't believe in Romeo and Juliet. Remember gdps have mouths to feed, beside they also have emotional needs. The French have an adage " Loin des yeux. Loin du coeur. " means. " away the eyes. Away the heart. ".
Love needs reinforcement. Physically daily. Pure and simple.[/QUOTE]Agreed. It is a challenge-also because their lives can change daily-there is very little stability there. Best thing to do is to be international friends and hang when you can and when you're not-don't sweat it. I have a few gdps like this in Rio -fcuk buddies and friends.