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[QUOTE=HorseTrader;2651493]This paper addresses HIV transmission rates. For me, the take away point is to never get butt fucked.

[URL]https://www.catie.ca/sites/default/files/HIV-TRANSMISSION-RISK-EN.pdf[/URL].[/QUOTE]Yes, although I know for a fact I have never been fucked in the butt, never shared a needle, never gotten a blood transfusion and never engaged in the kind of blood-letting, skin tearing sexual rituals some Sub Saharan African cultures engage in, the girl I have just met can't know that, even if she knew how astronomically low the chances are she would even meet an HIV-positive heterosexual male much less have sex with him enough times to present a reasonable risk of getting infected herself.

So I stop by Thai Red Cross and get the 1 hour, 200 baht test for it every 2-3 months in case someone wants to see my test result document.

BTW, since the topic of the HIV transmission inhibiting drug PrEP was mentioned, I can also report that not once has the various Thai Red Cross counselors who hand me my negative test result document behind closed doors ever suggested or recommended I take that drug.

I know PrEP is available at the Thai Red Cross testing clinic I go to. I think you can get it practically for free there. And in the little interview the counselors conduct before they give you the test result, I reply that I have multiple female sexual partners, no regular girlfriend or wife and never wear a condom during sexual intercourse.

Yet not one time in the dozens of interviews has the counselor said anything about perhaps I should start taking PrEP or even mentioned it.

Just sayin'.

Sorry if this has been asked before but are some ladyboys posting as female? I never used these dating apps before but some of these girls I think can pass as kathoey. TIA.

One of the traps guys fall into is to get hooked into a relationship with a bargirl. My advice to anyone in a mongering paradise like Pattaya is to stay solo. I had an off and on again relationship with a bargirl for years. When we were together, we were both frustrated, me because I knew there were plenty of other ladies to fuck, and she because she could make a lot more money alone. I finally pulled the plug on her earlier this month, and she has hooked a guy who gives her a salary but she only sees him in the day, and then she can see other customers at night.

Meanwhile, I am traveling in Brazil with her twin sister, but will detach when we return to Thailand. She wants 2 nights a week when we get back, which is okay. I also have a bargirlfriend who wants one night a week to consummate our eternal love. That gives me 4 nights a week to sample the rest of Pattaya.

I plan to take short trips outside of Thailand when possible. Most ladies are dying to go Inter. However, my advice is not to go Inter with someone you have not traveled with before. Do an overnighter in Bangkok first, then maybe a few days in Chiang Mai or Phuket, don't risk an international trip with a new lady. She may have a Thai boyfriend who won't let her travel, which you won't know if you don't go on trips with her previous to international travel.

As always, if you repeat with a bargirl, don't go with other ladies in her bar, unless you end your "relationship."

As a long term resident in Pattaya, I have to be careful of crossing any lady, even if it means paying her off. There are only a couple of ladies who I have ghosted, and both provoked me by giving me goodbye rants.

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2652930] She wants 2 nights a week when we get back, which is okay. I also have a bargirlfriend who wants one night a week to consummate our eternal love. That gives me 4 nights a week to sample the rest of Pattaya.[/QUOTE]It's your time you don't have to commit to any time with a girl even if she is a Freebie. When you are feeling lazy or don't feel like hitting the clubs on a given night, you call her to hook up. She doesn't dictate what you do, you do! A girl is lucky that we even consider being with them or have them on our Line.

[QUOTE=NicFrenchy;2651292]With all these girls having Thai boyfriends that only do them BB and CIP, you are bound to catch something. If you're lucky it's going to be benign, if not it's going to ba Herpes of Aids.

It's a Lottery, and based on pure luck, it's not really a numbers game. You could wear a rubber 9 times out of 10 and the only 1 time you don't. Bingo.

It's a risk.[/QUOTE]Yup you're 100% correct. During some of my trips I tried to have a few BB sessions or did just when I was over exerted and struggling with a lady. Going 9/10 never worked. I remember often getting lucky or unlucky on that 1/10 BB session and getting a burn a few days later. Condoms suck Burns suck. Herpes suck. Can't imagine catching HIV. That would seriously suck. Guess you got to pick your poison.

[QUOTE=BananaBoi;2653073]It's your time you don't have to commit to any time with a girl even if she is a Freebie. When you are feeling lazy or don't feel like hitting the clubs on a given night, you call her to hook up. She doesn't dictate what you do, you do! A girl is lucky that we even consider being with them or have them on our Line.[/QUOTE]I am okay with one night a week with the lady I am with now, I wouldn't mind a regular night with her. She's flexible, though, and I can cancel her if someone hotter comes along.

I am hoping that my bargirl friend only wants one night a week, in the sense that I don't have to worry about her the other 6 nights. The problem with a bargirl friend is that sometimes they insist you don't go with any other lady, while they are free to go with other customers.

[QUOTE=EihTooms;2651348]All I can say is aside from that one dose of trichomoniasis I got from a GF about 47 years ago, from the thousands of prostitutes and hundreds of regular girls I have bareback fucked I have never experienced a burn, a drip, a weird discharge, an itch or, in fact, a common cold, the sniffles, the flu, a pink eye or, as of this writing, Covid.

I have been checked and tested for just about everything, comprehensive physical exams at Bumrungrad Hospital and all that, get an HIV and Syphilis blood check at Thai Red Cross every 2-3 months just out of courtesy in being able to show the negative results to anyone who wants to see it. Nothing.

Three or four times in the past couple of decades I did get a small surface skin abrasion on the side of my dick from a too aggressive cowgirl position rider the night before. Rubbing some non pharmaceutical regular moisturizing lotion like the kind made by Nivea and available in any ordinary market was the only thing required to clear that up in a day or two.[/QUOTE]Congratulations dude! You have the ultimate immune system built to be a Falang in Thailand! Count your lucky stars that is not normal. Some people win the lotto as well. Doesn't mean everyone will.

[QUOTE=SportMongr;2653181]Congratulations dude! You have the ultimate immune system built to be a Falang in Thailand! Count your lucky stars that is not normal. Some people win the lotto as well. Doesn't mean everyone will.[/QUOTE]So maybe that is why I have not gotten Covid. Only thing I have ever gotten was crabs when I was delivering Dominos Pizza in college. I guess I won the good immune system instead of the lotto.

This had me in splits.

[QUOTE=Sunlover2;2651519]And on the seventh day, you rested?.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FunQuest;2652774]Sorry if this has been asked before but are some ladyboys posting as female? I never used these dating apps before but some of these girls I think can pass as kathoey. TIA.[/QUOTE]Yes there are a very small number who lie, mostly the post-ops. But most ladyboys are honest about it as they can find customers who are interested.

This is a general story that covers all of Thailand so I'll put it here. Ran into a young guy who quit his job, came to Thailand with little savings and 'doesn't give the girls money' but they'll come over and fuck him for free. He's one of those 'butterflys' they call them here, girls get tired of sex with older foreigners and want a younger one. So they'll do their best to snag him, possibly try to keep him while still 'earning money'. Now what sets him apart is his view on prostitution, how bad it is that these women have no other option than to open their legs. A white knight? Thing is he wants to be a bar manager where the girls make their money and the bar money by opening their legs and his salary in turn would be paid for by the girls 'work'. Guys who pay understand what they are doing, its the nature of the beast. I did find it interesting how he viewed himself seeing 'working girls', he's not seeing non working girls. He'll then 'tip' a girl some money and tell her she should come to his condo later that night and then say 'I never paid her money for sex'. But the tip was 1000 baht.

[QUOTE=Breadman;2653710]This is a general story that covers all of Thailand so I'll put it here. Ran into a young guy who quit his job, came to Thailand with little savings and 'doesn't give the girls money' but they'll come over and fuck him for free. He's one of those 'butterflys' they call them here, girls get tired of sex with older foreigners and want a younger one. So they'll do their best to snag him, possibly try to keep him while still 'earning money'. Now what sets him apart is his view on prostitution, how bad it is that these women have no other option than to open their legs. A white knight? Thing is he wants to be a bar manager where the girls make their money and the bar money by opening their legs and his salary in turn would be paid for by the girls 'work'. Guys who pay understand what they are doing, its the nature of the beast. I did find it interesting how he viewed himself seeing 'working girls', he's not seeing non working girls. He'll then 'tip' a girl some money and tell her she should come to his condo later that night and then say 'I never paid her money for sex'. But the tip was 1000 baht.[/QUOTE]I've never paid a girl to come home with me. Paid plenty to leave in the morning though. 😁.

[QUOTE=Goferring;2654069]I've never paid a girl to come home with me. Paid plenty to leave in the morning though. 😁.[/QUOTE]Charly Sheen ("I never pay a woman for sex. I pay her to leave in the morning").

[QUOTE=Downandup;2653315]But most ladyboys are honest about it as they can find customers who are interested.[/QUOTE]Really? Ask the LBs that hang around lower sukhumvit at 2 or 3 am. They will prey on drunk customers and in the room say they have their period and can only do BJ. I bet 9/10 times they don't get found out.

It's fair game, it's up to us the punters to protect ourselves. I bet you a dollar to a doughnut that 9/10 customers don't register their "Lady" of the night at the hotel lobby. Dangerous, as they could end up with some valuables missing when they wake up, alone and with a massive hangover.

Thailand is usually very safe for mongering, but there are exceptions.

[QUOTE=NicFrenchy;2654136]Really? Ask the LBs that hang around lower sukhumvit at 2 or 3 am. They will prey on drunk customers and in the room say they have their period and can only do BJ. I bet 9/10 times they don't get found out.

It's fair game, it's up to us the punters to protect ourselves. I bet you a dollar to a doughnut that 9/10 customers don't register their "Lady" of the night at the hotel lobby. Dangerous, as they could end up with some valuables missing when they wake up, alone and with a massive hangover.

Thailand is usually very safe for mongering, but there are exceptions.[/QUOTE]Most LB's are generally well behaved but there are some that will definitely screw you over if you are drunk or just green.

If you are very drunk some will try and go through your pockets while pretending to feel you up on the street.