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[QUOTE=Aimless;1668494]I also get bored after awhile, even with a 9 or 10.[/QUOTE]Monogamy breeds monotony.

[QUOTE=Aimless;1668494] Intelligent, articulate ladies are a real turn-on for me. ........ I do like that "connection" that can only occur with a smart girl with a sparkling personality.[/QUOTE]So you want to give this up for a few weeks of Burgos mongering?

[QUOTE=Aimless;1668494] Even with 150 girls lined up, over the course of my two week stay, I was "only" able to meet about 40 girls.[/QUOTE]And you say you are not a mongerer! Some (not me) like P4 P, find a girl in the bar or in the street, hit and run. Others of us like the fishing experience; casting through dating web sites, setting the right bait to get a strike, then playing, landing. Sometimes it is catch and release, sometimes it can be catch and keep. And sometimes it is catch, keep, but still do more fishing-mongering.

[QUOTE=Aimless;1668494] "Oh, I was married to an American, now divorced, and I have a US residency card. " OMG! I had to meet this girl! The thought of having my very own pinay girl-toy without coming to the Phils was amazingly enticing! [/QUOTE]So you want to throw this away for a dalliance on Burgos Street?

[QUOTE=Aimless;1668494] Then she cracked a big grin, rolled over next to me, and (I kid you not!) said "Want to have sex?" Guess what I said? (and did) ha! Jackpot! [/QUOTE]You lucky man. It was worth the chase.

[QUOTE=Aimless;1668494]I invited her home with me. She accepted, flew back with me, and we've been together for 4 years now. She is a good person, and we rarely fight. She accepts the fact that, after my multiple marriages, I'll never marry again, and I don't want any more kids. [/QUOTE]Like a number of us, we have learnt that lesson and never to marry again -until some of us, not me, again succumb.

[QUOTE=Aimless;1668494]She always dresses to the 9's, is totally hot, and looks about 15 like most pinays her real age of 27. I love seeing the expressions of the guys and gals my age at the market, looking at us, as we walk along the aisles, and Liar hangs all over me. I can see the guys thinking "where the F** did I go wrong in my life?" While all their wives are looking at me thinking: "dirty old creep!" I can't help but smile all time. [/QUOTE]Lucky man!

[QUOTE=Aimless;1668494]I'm bored. While she does a fair job keeping the house clean, sometimes cooks, and always looks hot, the sex is just. Yawn. Either I'm unattractive to her or she just doesn't like sex that much or both. She is so affectionate, but it stops there as there is just no passion in the sex. There really never was. It was just. sex. I don't even really enjoy the sex anymore. Its always the same routine: About once a week she'll come up to me, grab my cock and say "lets have sex". There is always a little doggy, a little mish, she moans and wiggles a little, I'm not sure she O's or not. She says she does, but I don't believe it. There is a little kissing, but no passionate DFK. I feel as if she might be doing it just to make me happy.[/QUOTE]Yes it seems you are the problem. But do you really want to throw out your baby with the bathwater?

[QUOTE=Aimless;1668494]When Liar comes home next month (she's on vacay with friends texting every 5 minutes how much she loves and misses me), I'm going to sit down, and explain that she needs a real life, a real husband, and a real family, because that will make her happy, but I can't give that to her. I will also tell her that I'm not happy and need to move on. I guess all good things do need to come to an end, but I'm ready for the next level. I want to be more of a monger! [/QUOTE]So without throwing your baby out why don't you have your own vacations. Manila or anywhere, and come back to the stability of a hot young Filipina who loves you and keeps inviting you to have sex.

[QUOTE=Aimless;1668494]So, here are a couple questions for you Pros:
[/QUOTE]Gez, I have seen those questions addressed time and time again in the Manila and Makati forums.

RTFF.

Are you for real?

[QUOTE=Aimless;1668494]
So, here are a couple questions for you Pros:

1) I like really hot girls with real GFE (lets call her Miss 10 GFE). Do you guys think I can go to Burgos or EDSA and find a really hot provider that will give real GFE? Or do they all know they're hot and feel like they don't need to perform?

2) I'm only going for about two weeks or so, and would like to have just one really amazing girl for the week, LT every night. I'm willing to pay what you guys have outlined as typical Burgos / EDSA barfines, but is there some way that after the first night I can avoid barfining her every night? I don't mind richly rewarding Miss 10 GFE, but I don't want to waste it on the bar if I don't have to.

3) Any other strategies to find Miss 10 GFE are greatly appreciated. Please keep in mind that I only barfined a girl once in Thailand 15 years ago, and then stayed with her for the week, so I'm a noob at this. All the rest have been DIA / FC girls introducing me to the family.
[/QUOTE]You have already answered your own questions in your long meandering narrative, because you have highlighted the hoary old Forrest Gump chocolate box dilemma in that "you never know what you will get" and yet you seek what seems to be definitive answers.

I believe you ask questions for which there are no answers, so here's my take:

Q1. Maybe you will and maybe you won't.

Q2. Pass.

Q3. The number of strategies is endless. You have tried many of them before with what you call limited success because you are difficult to satisfy.

Work your way through those strategies you haven't tried, but you will need more than 2 weeks. Or maybe you will find what you want on the first night. Or the second. . . ?

[QUOTE=Aimless;1668494]Ordeal Report.

1) I like really hot girls with real GFE (lets call her Miss 10 GFE). Do you guys think I can go to Burgos or EDSA and find a really hot provider that will give real GFE? Or do they all know they're hot and feel like they don't need to perform?

2) I'm only going for about two weeks or so, and would like to have just one really amazing girl for the week, LT every night. I'm willing to pay what you guys have outlined as typical Burgos / EDSA barfines, but is there some way that after the first night I can avoid barfining her every night? I don't mind richly rewarding Miss 10 GFE, but I don't want to waste it on the bar if I don't have to.

3) Any other strategies to find Miss 10 GFE are greatly appreciated. Please keep in mind that I only barfined a girl once in Thailand 15 years ago, and then stayed with her for the week, so I'm a noob at this. All the rest have been DIA / FC girls introducing me to the family.
Aimless[/QUOTE]That's one of the more entertaining and unusual reports I've read herein, and I'm sure it will elicit multiple responses. On the subject of continuing the relationship, it's my opinion that only you can decide what's right for you. If you're not getting the fulfillment you crave, and if you feel there's no chance in things improving, then I don't blame you for wanting out.

As to your first question about finding a "really hot provider that will give real GFE," my answer is a qualified yes. Given that assessments of beauty are strictly subjective, I can't state with any certainty that you will find someone who meets whatever your "10" criteria are. However, given the huge aggregate number of bars between Burgos and Edsa, and the hundreds of young women on display, I think the odds are in your favor. Finding someone who will provide GFE is close to a certainty; particularly if you explain that you're looking to remain with someone for a number of consecutive days. I think you'll also find that many girls will happily agree to remain absent from the bar for the duration of your relationship, and thus you will be able to avoid paying several nights of barfines. You might also want to consider befriending the mammasans in bars that appeal to you--buying them a drink is a good start--and then letting them introduce you to girls whom they think will meet your requirements.

Another strategy you might want to consider is expanding the pool of candidates by taking 2-3 days of your trip and going to Angeles, finding a SWT whose company you enjoy, and then bringing her back with you to Manila. You can always send her back toward the end of your trip as there are lots of buses.

The problem you may have is finding someone with whom you can have engaging, interesting conversations. For me, that represents the recurrent drawback of all of those places. Remember, you'll be meeting ladies who, for the most part, have limited educations, limited life experience beyond the bars and life in the provinces, limited intellectual interests, and often limited English language skills. I know all of us have different "fun" criteria, but for me, maintaining a semblance of interest in the usual bar girl drivel is virtually impossible at this stage of my life. I've got a few friends here who, during their intermittent visits, like to find (and) keep girls with them, and I often inquire what they do to pass the time once the sex is over and before it begins again. I've yet to receive an answer I can relate to.

GE.

[QUOTE=Aimless;1668494]Ordeal Report.

[/QUOTE]Aimless, it's said the most important sex organ is the brain. Let your imagination and your fantasies run free. Sounds to me you have a near perfect woman who aims to make you happy, so have a talk with her about spicing things up. She may very well have a kink or twelve she wishes to explore. And if she is as gorgeous as you write I reckon there are plenty of swinger groups that would love for you to join them. Just a thought.

[QUOTE=Hutsori;1668830]Aimless, it's said the most important sex organ is the brain. Let your imagination and your fantasies run free. Sounds to me you have a near perfect woman who aims to make you happy, so have a talk with her about spicing things up. She may very well have a kink or twelve that she wishes to explore. And if she is as gorgeous as you write I reckon there are plenty of swinger groups that would love for you to join them. Just a thought.[/QUOTE]You're right Hutsori, and I appreciate your input. While I'm not into the group or swap thing, I'm definitely going to sit down with her and see if we can work through this to mutual benefit, although I have explored her kinkiness limits, a little. She just isn't that into it.

Cheers,

Aimless

[QUOTE=Pantot;1668767]One question Aimless.

Not to defend your lady but why after 3 years is she still Liar to you? All her lies were revealed and dealt with in the first week of actually meeting her in person, then, knowing that you bought the merchandise. Now its 3 years later and she hasn't been milking you like a cow, in. Be thankful her family disowned her or they will be collectively badgering you by proxy for money through her -life could be much worse. A pinay orphan is a blessing in disguise unless you have a license to print currency, be thankful at least. Also she didn't balloon up to porker size on a western diet. You avoided all the pitfalls so maybe its not her.

I think you are just realizing that monogamy is boring as hell, pinay or whoever. Wild exciting domesticated home country sex with a live in wife / GF whatever you call her does not exist for any regular poster on this board for the long term otherwise we wouldn't be going to the Phils.

If you think you can go back there and find something better long term to bring back home, well you hit the Three 7's and are not happy so maybe you should consider adjusting your expectations.

That's my opinion as someone who never actually tried monogamy because I knew it wasn't for me.[/QUOTE]Got to say I agree with the above. You are just bored. That is marriage for men like us. Have you tried swinging? You said you are not into it. It is as close as you can get to mongering. With your girl you will settle for less but it will be new to you. I would go to thailand and not take her. Or even RP. Man you go it made with this. I would not push her out the door. How many men are still married to the girl they got prego? Shit enjoy it while it last. Just do what you want and go home to the live in free sex. I envy you!

[QUOTE=FreebieFan;1668773]Fabulous story. We all pretend to be wonderful mongers here, and possibly some are true to their word, but I think for many of us we also make interesting errors from time to time, that we probably don't report. Congrats on a great report and a good dose of reality and honesty![/QUOTE]Do agree with you too.

Entertaining report by Aimless!

The Pope scheduled to touch down 5 pm. What a mess trying to het a cab at the airport this afternoon. Four-day holiday is being declared, not everything closed, hopefully not any of the good things.

[QUOTE=Aimless;1668494]I thought about praying but figured God would punish me if I did. [/QUOTE]So you are God fearing. I understand why Pinays love you, LOL!

Thanks for the wonderful story!

[QUOTE=Golfinho;1669240]The Pope scheduled to touch down 5 pm. What a mess trying to het a cab at the airport this afternoon. Four-day holiday is being declared, not everything closed, hopefully not any of the good things.[/QUOTE]LA Cafe yesterday. Things are pretty normal, not so much girls due transport trouble.

Things going to go back to normal in Ermita. I see cars on Roxas, also Pedicaps and trike in the Rizal area.

Here a pic from P. Faura (G Point Bar is here) in front of Robinsons, pretty empty.

[QUOTE=Golfinho;1669240]The Pope scheduled to touch down 5 pm. What a mess trying to het a cab at the airport this afternoon. Four-day holiday is being declared, not everything closed, hopefully not any of the good things.[/QUOTE]Yep, lots of FRs on this all advising to avoid Manila if you can.

[QUOTE=JoeMailde;1669700]Things going to go back to normal in Ermita. I see cars on Roxas, also Pedicaps and trike in the Rizal area.

Here a pic from P. Faura (G Point Bar is here) in front of Robinsons, pretty empty.[/QUOTE]Things won't go back to "normal" until around Monday afternoon Joe.

The Pope is staying at the Apostolic Nunciature (the Vatican Mission) which is along Taft Avenue, so to get there he travels in a motorcade via Roxas Boulevard from the airport.

Even with his trip to Tacloban on Saturday he is still coming back to Manila to stay Saturday night so it will all be closed again.

Sunday there is predicted to be 6 million (yes. 6 million) people at the Quirino Granstand / Rizal Park area which means if I was anywhere near Pasay, Ermita or Malate I would be packing up and moving out.

Don't even think about getting taxis etc anywhere in that area on Sunday or planning to get to or from Malate to Makati.

Apart from all the roads being closed, how do you handle 6 million people in a few city blocks? (it's a rhetorical question; please don't answer).

[QUOTE=RedKilt;1669870]Things won't go back to "normal" until around Monday afternoon Joe.

The Pope is staying at the Apostolic Nunciature (the Vatican Mission) which is along Taft Avenue, so to get there he travels in a motorcade via Roxas Boulevard from the airport.

Even with his trip to Tacloban on Saturday he is still coming back to Manila to stay Saturday night so it will all be closed again.

Sunday there is predicted to be 6 million (yes. 6 million) people at the Quirino Granstand / Rizal Park area which means if I was anywhere near Pasay, Ermita or Malate I would be packing up and moving out.

Don't even think about getting taxis etc anywhere in that area on Sunday or planning to get to or from Malate to Makati.

Apart from all the roads being closed, how do you handle 6 million people in a few city blocks? (it's a rhetorical question; please don't answer).[/QUOTE]Yikes. Hopefully there will be some horizontal stacking.

[QUOTE=WickedRoger;1669769]Yep, lots of FRs on this all advising to avoid Manila if you can.[/QUOTE]Damn, so Pope Frank will be able to cherry pick among all the hot talent, while we just wait for him to leave!