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[QUOTE=Sunlover2;1866182]For me attitude is twice as important as looks.[/QUOTE]I agree, but after too many years of mongering, I find that there is an additional major factor, memorability. Some girls look OK and do a fine job, but I forget them the minute I walk out of the door. A few stick around for some reason or another, even if they weren't classically beautiful (perhaps unusual or interesting face), or exceptional in bed. Perhaps we had a bit of a connection in some way, making it irrelevant the BJ was brief. Sometimes, we don't necessarily have amazing chemistry, but there was something unique about the situation that turned me on.
The memorable ones I try to repeat. The ordinary. Fair enough, no blame, but feeling that perhaps I could have saved the money by jerking off, or had a better time getting a nice dinner instead.
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[QUOTE=LAGuy5;1866193]You need to somehow incorporate threshold values into your equation methinks.
Looks: 0 and Attitude: 10 = ((0 x 1) + (10 x 2))/3 = 7 overall (rounding up).[/QUOTE]I think the threshold is irrelevant, since women with 0-4 are the ones we'd simply never choose, so your hypothetical session wouldn't happen.
The problem are the 5's which are just passable enough in poor light on a sparse evening with enough beer, but too ugly to actually enjoy. But to me that doesn't happen often.
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Memorable ladies
I do agree. Over the 100+ ladies I have had I only remember a few. However. Those are the ones I try to see more than once.
[QUOTE=Crocodilexp;1866332]I agree, but after too many years of mongering, I find that there is an additional major factor, memorability. Some girls look OK and do a fine job, but I forget them the minute I walk out of the door. A few stick around for some reason or another, even if they weren't classically beautiful (perhaps unusual or interesting face), or exceptional in bed. Perhaps we had a bit of a connection in some way, making it irrelevant the BJ was brief. Sometimes, we don't necessarily have amazing chemistry, but there was something unique about the situation that turned me on.
The memorable ones I try to repeat. The ordinary. Fair enough, no blame, but feeling that perhaps I could have saved the money by jerking off, or had a better time getting a nice dinner instead.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Raviss;1866197]Totally agree with you. Once I selected a good looking girl in fish bowl in Pattaya. All went well and while in the tub I put some water on her hair and she got really angry and started to shout on me. In another instance I selected a girl who was willing to spend time with me and was not so looking good. But she was very happy and cooperative in all aspects.[/QUOTE]The ugly girl has to put up with a lot more. So What? Unfortunately for me, great looks of the girl is a very important factor to get me turned on. If girl has horrible face or body, or looks masculine, my dick would stay limp, I'm sure. Obviously I want at least a good performance from the girl.
So for ugly girls, I would never find out how they perform. Needs to be at least comparable looks to my GF (late 30's but excellent body shape) to get a consideration. Sure we can forgive some defects in a girl, but not too many.
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[QUOTE=GerryGa;1865800]The owner of the so called DR BJ shops has admitted that he does his own in-house testing so why bring the police into it and possibly have the woman incarcerated. [/QUOTE]My understanding is that the owner or at least majority shareholder of the Dr. BJ shops is Aey (of the Annies and Dr. BJ chain). I am not close to the management so I am not really certain of this, but purely based on the rumours. Clearly Aey is the "big boss" number 1. There are a number of other shop managers. Haven't actually sighted Aey for 2 or 3 years but heard she shows up at the various shops to make sure everything going well. Last I heard, she was spending just as much or more time at Dr. BJ shops than at Annies. In the past, I visited 3 girls of the Dr. BJ shops quite a few times each (all slim ones).
There maybe be other shareholders in the DR. BJ shops, so some maybe not just "managers". Again I don't know the possibly secret details.
I haven't seen the Matriarch Annie for quite a number of years either. A good few years back she used to show up at Annies regularly (as well as Aey), but I guess Annie is too old by now (hopefully still alive). I would love to see her again and chat about long gone historical things from 30 years ago. Another older member of Annies staff (don't know the name) was still in contact with girls I knew from the Thermae Soapy 24 years ago (was located above Thermae Coffee shop in the old days).
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[QUOTE=Crocodilexp;1866332]Some girls look OK and do a fine job, but I forget them the minute I walk out of the door.[/QUOTE]Maybe I've just been in the game too long but I find it amazing how quickly and totally I can forget many of them these days. A friend will say "that one you took last Friday" and I have no more memory of it than I do of what I had for lunch that day. So yes, when I find one who's memorable now, I definitely try to go back for more. And you're right, sometimes it's not even so much their looks or skill as just hitting it off, having a good time and leaving with that nice glow.
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[QUOTE=Betong;1867201]Maybe I've just been in the game too long but I find it amazing how quickly and totally I can forget many of them these days. A friend will say "that one you took last Friday" and I have no more memory of it than I do of what I had for lunch that day. So yes, when I find one who's memorable now, I definitely try to go back for more. And you're right, sometimes it's not even so much their looks or skill as just hitting it off, having a good time and leaving with that nice glow.[/QUOTE]I don't think it is too much trouble to remember the really exceptional girls. I have to tell my self to make notes on the bad sessions though. If a girl looks good enough but performs badly, forgetting her could mean accidentally choosing the same girl a 2nd time in the future, and part way though another bad session, starting to remember her. Make the same mistake on girl choice maybe 2 times in my life, maybe more. I forget now, how many times that happened. LOL.
The problem is girl looks good, face looks vaguely familiar but couldn't remember any more than that.
So always worthwhile to maintain a little diary of girls done. Computerised with Encryption. Writing a report on ISG is like making a diary entry. LOL. Sometimes a good session where I intended to repeat, almost all details of the girl have eventually gone from my mind too after a couple of years. I could check my past reports to see what I wrote. This won't help to remember her looks that well though. I think of one girl I tried about a year ago, number 4. I remember she was slim. Name and face I can't recall now, other than was pretty.
To those who really cannot remember girls form just 1 week ago. What sort of life are you leading? Maybe it is one where your brain is being under utilised. Your brain is getting too lazy, or addled by drugs or alcohol. There are daily activities you could find to exercise the brain and this may improve your memory. Use a Flash Cards phone App to learn Thai vocab for example. Mental games like Sudoku. If brain gets no exercise, maybe Alzheimer's or other dementia could set in more quickly. I do technically complex work to keep the brain from getting too lazy.
Some people take Gingko Biloba for memory boost. I have no idea if it really works, I just a waste of money.
Our brain is selective. It does not want to store memories of what was really boring. So if a guy forgets a girl from last week, she must have been incredibly boring. Maybe time to start being more selective and not fuck just any old girl. I notice that I have become very fussy about girl selection in my older age. If she doesn't look at all memorable and exciting, I just don't bother any more. I know I could get freebies with unexciting girls, but do not go there. I still really enjoy sex with my GF of over 10 years. Would like to do her at least 3 times as often as what I actually get though. That is my main problem. More horny than her. I got hard on just thinking about doing her. She is absent at the moment.
If it was possible to have 3 or 4 girlfriends, that would be perfect for me, I guess.
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[QUOTE=Syzygies;1867464]The problem is girl looks good, face looks vaguely familiar but couldn't remember any more than that.[/QUOTE]Yep, happens a lot. We men are predictable creatures. We tend to pick the same kind of girls over and over again, or even the same girls without remembering them. It really does help to keep a record of the duds. As you say, the great ones are easy enough to remember.
As far as forgetting a girl from a week or two ago, well that's probably just a combination of age, years of alcohol and drugs (though not much these days) and, mostly, just a whole lot of girls, most of which let's face it are not especially memorable. Whenever it happens I just laugh at myself. At this point I'm not going to worry about it.
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[QUOTE=Betong;1867481]Yep, happens a lot. We men are predictable creatures. We tend to pick the same kind of girls over and over again, or even the same girls without remembering them. It really does help to keep a record of the duds. As you say, the great ones are easy enough to remember.
As far as forgetting a girl from a week or two ago, well that's probably just a combination of age, years of alcohol and drugs (though not much these days) and, mostly, just a whole lot of girls, most of which let's face it are not especially memorable. Whenever it happens I just laugh at myself. At this point I'm not going to worry about it.[/QUOTE]I find I don't need drugs or alcohol to have fun here in Thailand. I am very slow to cum (lacking sensitivity) so alcohol only makes that worse. Not a good idea for me. A good idea for guys that cum too quick I guess. I had only two alcoholic drinks this week. One Caipirinha (a favorite if made very sour), and one other accidentally. I ordered Soda, but when it came I could taste a very small amount of Saeng Som (or similar) added. Bar tender mistake I guess, or I got the wrong drink somehow. Can't recall that happening before.
At the bar one girl was questioning if her drink was really Tequila, or was Lao Khao. I tasted it and wasn't sure either, not being an expert on Lao Khao. Its tasted more powerful than what I expect for bargirl Tequila though. Maybe they switched from weak girlie Tequilas to real strong stuff.
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Other than referencing my own ISG reports, I keep an encrypted excel sheet and whenever possible photos either personal or from website and kept on separate dropbox account. That way is easily for reference on the go. The memorability bit would definitely be part of any equation. Maybe as a partial multiplier? For example on the way out of SW the last time ran into Candy but didn't remember her, at least not by looks at all. She did a perfectly fine job, but just wasn't memorable to me and I have almost perfect recall. Perhaps its a combination memorability and how much would you be willing to repeat? 5 - I want to go back tomorrow. 1 - pass, I will just watch some porn instead.
[QUOTE=Betong;1867201]Maybe I've just been in the game too long but I find it amazing how quickly and totally I can forget many of them these days. A friend will say "that one you took last Friday" and I have no more memory of it than I do of what I had for lunch that day. So yes, when I find one who's memorable now, I definitely try to go back for more. And you're right, sometimes it's not even so much their looks or skill as just hitting it off, having a good time and leaving with that nice glow.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=MichaelSamuel;1867490] 1 - pass, I will just watch some porn instead.[/QUOTE]Hey its pretty bad if you have to watch porn in Thailand. I suppose I will be like that in my old retirement when on a tighter budget. I am not into extreme sicko porn so perhaps I am abnormal. I prefer naked beauty. Can still get a fuck or BJ really cheap in Thailand if willing to compromise on girl looks, so porn has to be a last resort for me. 800 Baht BJs, right? So that is only just over 20 Euros. I know wanking to porn is free, but I try to cut down on that with girls so available here.
I agree with making notes on girls. Helps to know the names next time, if you recorded the info. For guys who cannot remember the girl's name 10 minutes after fucking her, I sympathise, but they are just not making an effort. I remember a hot girl I just met two nights ago, Michelle, even though I did not even fuck her. Got the phone number though.
I remember my last girl at Addict was called J.J. due to reporting her here (only met her once and was earlier in the year). In fact, I might go looking for her today. 69 was very memorable, very blissful. Must be her technique really suited me.
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[QUOTE=Syzygies;1866995]My understanding is that the owner or at least majority shareholder of the Dr. BJ shops is Aey (of the Annies and Dr. BJ chain). I am not close to the management so I am not really certain of this, but purely based on the rumours. Clearly Aey is the "big boss" number 1. There are a number of other shop managers. Haven't actually sighted Aey for 2 or 3 years but heard she shows up at the various shops to make sure everything going well. Last I heard, she was spending just as much or more time at Dr. BJ shops than at Annies. In the past, I visited 3 girls of the Dr. BJ shops quite a few times each (all slim ones).
There maybe be other shareholders in the DR. BJ shops, so some maybe not just "managers". Again I don't know the possibly secret details.
I haven't seen the Matriarch Annie for quite a number of years either. A good few years back she used to show up at Annies regularly (as well as Aey), but I guess Annie is too old by now (hopefully still alive). I would love to see her again and chat about long gone historical things from 30 years ago. Another older member of Annies staff (don't know the name) was still in contact with girls I knew from the Thermae Soapy 24 years ago (was located above Thermae Coffee shop in the old days).[/QUOTE]Obvious you know a lot about the Annie's / DR BJ operation but from reading posts under the DR BJ tag it would seem a Scottish gentleman is the owner of both the BJ and massage business's and it would appear he was the one posting about the so called arranged police raid. Whoever it was it still remains a bizarre decision to invite police to your premises where customers are paying to have sex with your staff.
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[QUOTE=MichaelSamuel;1867490]Perhaps its a combination memorability and how much would you be willing to repeat? 5 - I want to go back tomorrow. 1 - pass, I will just watch some porn instead.[/QUOTE]Don't forget the negative numbers. You know, like -3, I'd cross the street to avoid talking to her. (Though for some reason I find that happens more in other countries, like the Philippines, than Thailand.).
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I was at Bongkot. The girl says please don't write about her the fine details. She doesn't want other customers coming and asking for exactly the same service. LOL. Not every customer is equal.
Please write about Bongkot giving good service, she says. Yes great service for me and I repeat, but I have a sample of just one girl. I can hardly assess Bongkot overall. People that know me may realise I don't really give a shit about the shop itself. Its only about my special girls. Girl moves shop, I move with her. I go where the girl is.
I like shops that have a wide variety of pretty girls to choose from, but at Oilies I ring to check if my regular girl is available before wasting time to go there.
Anyway my regular girls have all been reviewed before so I won't bore you with details. I was happy as usual. My girl knows how to do it just right for me. She is probably very adaptable. I know she did not have all of the skills originally years ago.
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[QUOTE=Syzygies;1867522]Hey its pretty bad if you have to watch porn in Thailand. I suppose I will be like that in my old retirement when on a tighter budget. I am not into extreme sicko porn so perhaps I am abnormal. I prefer naked beauty. Can still get a fuck or BJ really cheap in Thailand if willing to compromise on girl looks, so porn has to be a last resort for me. 800 Baht BJs, right? So that is only just over 20 Euros. I know wanking to porn is free, but I try to cut down on that with girls so available here.
I agree with making notes on girls. Helps to know the names next time, if you recorded the info. For guys who cannot remember the girl's name 10 minutes after fucking her, I sympathise, but they are just not making an effort. I remember a hot girl I just met two nights ago, Michelle, even though I did not even fuck her. Got the phone number though.
I remember my last girl at Addict was called J.J. due to reporting her here (only met her once and was earlier in the year). In fact, I might go looking for her today. 69 was very memorable, very blissful. Must be her technique really suited me.[/QUOTE]Lately I had quite bad mongering luck for sure (maybe I'll sum up my last few weeks later on), but here I just want to say that today I had a BJ at [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord900][CodeWord900][/url] and after going out I really would have preferred watching some porn on the internet. Not complaining about the 800 baht, but really I would have enjoyed myself more wanking with some porn even if the BJ was free.
Girl name is Ant, short blond hair, cure face, shitty service.
If anyone attending [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord900][CodeWord900][/url] had any contact info of Poo / Poh I'd be eternally grateful if could pass them over. I try to meet her so many time but I always miss her somehow T_T.