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[QUOTE=Bionicman]Jokingly: I would be much more "down" at the idea of having to give a lecture to the girl about the 90 or so minutes of the session.
maybe because I ain't no professor or professional presenter or I don't have an MBA :)[/QUOTE]
It's a lot easier to communicate with pictures than with words, when there is a language barrier. As is often the case with tourists in Thailand.
And there is no good reason why you shouldn't ask the massage lady for the kind of experience you want. In most cases, the lady would be happy to do it the way you like. And she does want to know what it is that you want with her.
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[QUOTE=Dan7373]It's a lot easier to communicate with pictures than with words, when there is a language barrier. As is often the case with tourists in Thailand.
And there is no good reason why you shouldn't ask the massage lady for the kind of experience you want. In most cases, the lady would be happy to do it the way you like. And she does want to know what it is that you want with her.[/QUOTE]
I agree to a certain extent, of course
My intervention was a bit humorous
Still would sound a bit like a ordering on a mail order catalogue.
This is why I prefer a soapie where you can eventually interact before hand with th emama-san or even by email
At least when you are there, it is more a natural routine and not a menu list.
IMHO
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[QUOTE=Bionicman]I agree to a certain extent, of course
My intervention was a bit humorous
Still would sound a bit like a ordering on a mail order catalogue.
This is why I prefer a soapie where you can eventually interact before hand with th emama-san or even by email
At least when you are there, it is more a natural routine and not a menu list.
IMHO[/QUOTE]
I suppose, it depends on how much of a porn-star experience you want to have with your massage lady. Because porn-stars and their studs often plan their sex-positions and their sex-actions ahead of time. Which is what makes their coupling so well-coordinated and so hot.
Spontaneous sex without any special request for the massage lady can work well too for getting plain and simple satisfaction with her. But such simplicity and plainness works well only for those who have gone without a lady for a long time, and who need to satisfy their sex-hunger quickly and efficiently in a spartan kind of way.
I have nothing against simplicity and plainness. But when you can have more pleasure and more enjoyment with your massage lady than this, then why not ask her for more? And if she doesn't understand your verbal request, then why not show her a picture on your mobile phone to make her understand?
I can be physically satisfied with a missionary ride every time, or even with lonely masturbation in my room. But sex is more than just physical satisfaction. It includes satisfying your mind too. And if you have a dirty mind like I do, from watching porn movies a lot. Then you might want to play some penetrations games with your massage lady and try out with her some of the more complicated sex-positions that you often get to see in today's porn movies. Which might be a little hard to explain to your massage lady with words, but easy to show her with a picture on your cell phone.
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[QUOTE=Dan7373]...But I'm a bit surprised that you went straight-to-anal on lady Cat and then did her pussy afterwards. In porn movies, they usually do it the other way around. Because going from ass to pussy is liable to give the lady a Urinary Tract Infection and put her out of sex-commission for a while.
I suppose this is the big advantage of using condoms. You can do the lady's ass first, change condoms, and then do her pussy too, without risking her health unnecessarily.
And it's nice to know that lady Cat lets her guys go straight-to-anal on her. Many ladies do anal only in a token kind of way, after the guy had a long pussy ride with them and is nearly exhausted. Only some ladies like lady Cat let their guy enjoy their ass as the main event.[/QUOTE]Well it depends on the type of porn you're watching. Anal themed porns often go straight to the A and sometimes only the arse.
But your right, that's the beauty of using condoms, you can go right in the arse, then when you're done just take off the condom, clean up, put on a new one and go to the pussy.
Also, I think that is one of the upsides to Tulip. No the girls aren't these young super hot super tight fuck angles. But they are decent looking women, with good bodies that can take a bit more than the average and allow you to do things like go straight in the arse.
But in general, the girl is there working to please you, so you can do whatever you want to her, within reason, as long as you're respectful, gentle and not trying to hurt the girl or any bad things like that. In my experiences as long as you keep that code, they will let you do anything to them in any order.
Sometimes I take the arse, and only the arse.
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A few of the Tulip girls prefer anal.
They get pussy fucked so much its boring and anal gives them something more exciting.
When you speak Thai you learn these little gems.
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[QUOTE=The Pro]A few of the Tulip girls prefer anal.
They get pussy fucked so much its boring and anal gives them something more exciting.
When you speak Thai you learn these little gems.[/QUOTE]
You don't actually believe that, do you?
They work for money, not because they like fucked (in the pussy, ass or anywhere else).
That's the gem that I've learned over the years: it's just a job for them.
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[QUOTE=Kuratla]You don't actually believe that, do you?
They work for money, not because they like fucked (in the pussy, ass or anywhere else).
That's the gem that I've learned over the years: it's just a job for them.[/QUOTE]
It's a job for them for sure, but some of them might well learn to enjoy it; it's good for them and good for business. It's actually like any other job. It's hard to hate your job and do well.
Specifically about enjoying anal sex, I have heard from girls of various nationalities who like anal sex said that anal sex would be less physically exhausting than vaginal intercourse once they got used to anal sex.
Others simply like prefer anal sex to vaginal intercourse, because they just like it more in the arse.
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[QUOTE=Kuratla]You don't actually believe that, do you?
They work for money, not because they like fucked (in the pussy, ass or anywhere else).
That's the gem that I've learned over the years: it's just a job for them.[/QUOTE]Did I say they do not work for money ? Did I say its not a job ?
All I said was that given how much pounding their pussy's take, they are often bored shitless of vaginal sex and some of them prefer anal over vaginal now.
Sometimes they do enjoy it as well, although generally given the state of some of the customers its impossible to enjoy it, but sometimes with the right person they do actaully enjoy it, in the best possible way someone who does it for a living can.
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[QUOTE=Kuratla]You don't actually believe that, do you?
They work for money, not because they like fucked (in the pussy, ass or anywhere else).
That's the gem that I've learned over the years: it's just a job for them.[/QUOTE]
A lot of people like their work, especially when they have a lot of freedom to do it the way they like. And sex-work is no different in this.
Sex is naturally enjoyable, when you do it the right way. And this goes for anal sex too. The lady usually enjoys it more, when you masturbate her clit during the anal sex on her. Or she masturbates herself. And the lady can have an orgasm this way, which certainly is enjoyable for her.
There are certain costs to pay for doing sex-work. Such as enduring the risk of STDs and not having a steady relationship with a guy, which most ladies want to have. And that's why not every lady wants to do it. And that's why those who do it get monetary compensations for it.
But in terms of physical enjoyment of sex, those who do it for money and those who do it for free both can enjoy. Because they both have the same physical anatomy and physiology for physical enjoyment of sex.
And psychologically too. It usually feels pleasant to please another person well. Which is what these ladies do in their line of work.
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[QUOTE=Animall]....
But in general, the girl is there working to please you, so you can do whatever you want to her, within reason, as long as you're respectful, gentle and not trying to hurt the girl or any bad things like that. In my experiences as long as you keep that code, they will let you do anything to them in any order.
Sometimes I take the arse, and only the arse.[/QUOTE]
Yes, within reason the lady will do with you the way you like.
If the lady is open to having anal sex with guys anyway. Then she'll probably let you have some variety of that, including straight to anal on her if that's what you want.
But if the massage lady doesn't normally have anal sex with guys. Then you would be lucky to persuade her to have any anal sex with you at all, let alone go straight to anal on her.
I suppose, this is the advantage of going to Tulip Massage and not to some other place. The ladies at Tulip Massage are willing to do more with their guys.
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Any news of Nice!
Hi Tulip Lovers,
Any news of Nice? I know she has left Tulip. She might have gone back to her village to start a business of sorts. She was not a smasher by a long throw, but was an excellent companion, even a friend you chat to without dying of boredom.
News/contacts would be thoroughly appreciated.
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[QUOTE=Suntangh R]Hi Tulip Lovers,
Any news of Nice? I know she has left Tulip. She might have gone back to her village to start a business of sorts. She was not a smasher by a long throw, but was an excellent companion, even a friend you chat to without dying of boredom.
News/contacts would be thoroughly appreciated.[/QUOTE]To my knowledge and info she has gone back to Province and has gotten married. Also broke completely with her old business.
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[QUOTE=Suntangh R]Hi Tulip Lovers,
Any news of Nice? I know she has left Tulip. She might have gone back to her village to start a business of sorts. She was not a smasher by a long throw, but was an excellent companion, even a friend you chat to without dying of boredom.
News/contacts would be thoroughly appreciated.[/QUOTE]She is married and expecting a baby. She is out of PVP so we should leave her be to enjoy her new life with her husband and family.
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Nice
[QUOTE=Kuratla]She is married and expecting a baby. She is out of PVP so we should leave her be to enjoy her new life with her husband and family.[/QUOTE]Am sincerely happy for her!
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[QUOTE=Kuratla]She is married and expecting a baby. She is out of PVP so we should leave her be to enjoy her new life with her husband and family.[/QUOTE]Very well said - nothing to add about this... it is good to see when certain former PVP girls can break completely with the business and live a normal life. Great.