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[QUOTE=HughJass;2678670]...I was only talking to the girls I found most attractive and that spoke English...[/QUOTE]I think based on your clinica experience, you should give other girls a chance. You can ask the girl what she will or will not do using translator in the club before going to the room.
[QUOTE=HughJass;2678670]I ended up paying one 1000. She was beautiful, but the sex wasn't out of this world for me. She wouldn't let me touch or eat her pussy, which I really like. She did BBBJ and was good at sex though. The sex at the clinica was a lot better, but the girl was not as stunning as the Scandallo girls.[/QUOTE]I always avoid these kinds of disappointments by making it clear with the girl what I want, and getting her agreement, before we go to the room. Some guys don't like to engage in this kind of "negotiation" because they need 100% spontaneity. All I have to say is if you don't ask and you get to the room and she doesn't do "that", then you have nobody to blame but yourself. Don't be ashamed to ask for what you want either. These girls have heard it all, and done a lot of it too LOL!
[QUOTE=HughMyron89;2678143]Anyone around SP Thursday or Friday want to meet up? Been going solo the past couple days and figure it would be nice to meet up with some more seasoned vets.[/QUOTE]What time you headed there, planning on 8 pm.
I would marry one if I am able to find one that I can "trust" and is the "right one". I would tell certain individuals that are close to me who I know who doesn't "prejudge". The majority of society if not all does prejudge about everything including people's profession, race, religion, appearance, and all of that stuff similar to how many of you prejudge if they have an education or not. Sometimes its better to say less. I have gone through endless years of higher education and I can tell you there are many people with professional degrees who I have way less respect than the girls and staff and the security guards at Scandallo.
[QUOTE=Nounce;2678738]The questions I wonder about are will I marry one? If I marry one, will I tell others her profession? Does self esteem has anything to do with either?[/QUOTE]
If an average or above girl from anywhere in the world pays me for sex, I would accept the offer too.
[QUOTE=LionsNTigers;2678627]This makes all the sense in the world, I know plenty of girls in the US that danced at strip clubs to pay for college, often seeing guys outside for cash. Not that rare anywhere, it seems the boates are just the much better comparative for our strip clubs. Not hard to believe this at all.[/QUOTE]
I went to Abbobora and was told by a local cost was 300 (room 100, girl gets 200). Card didn't work so I paid in cash they charged me 130 anyway? I'm not the kind of guy to argue with people when I'm a guest in their country though. About 10 girls presented themselves (one at a time) only about 4 were standouts. I chose a tall Morena named Moniqe with a huge bunda assuming she'd do anal. I chose wrong. Not bad just mediocre session and ID say she was 30-35. I regretted not choosing the young redhead. Later on after walking around too much I went back to 57 House where another seasoned expat informed me I should've never paid more than 280. Because of my limited purchase options (my CC only works maybe 30% of the time here) I'm going to be forced to begin triaging. I'm trying to stay in Brasil at least 30 days.
[QUOTE=TheCane;2678778]I always avoid these kinds of disappointments by making it clear with the girl what I want, and getting her agreement, before we go to the room. Some guys don't like to engage in this kind of "negotiation" because they need 100% spontaneity. All I have to say is if you don't ask and you get to the room and she doesn't do "that", then you have nobody to blame but yourself. These girls have heard it all, and done a lot of it too LOL![/QUOTE]We obviously have two different approaches which is totally fine with me. Both ways work more or less. All I will say about why I prefer not to negotiate and lay it all out ahead of time is that I like the spontaneity as you rightly noted. Another way of describing it is that it feels more like picking up a regular girl instead of a hooker which is part of the GFE fantasy I like to engage in. Even more important, however, is the fact that I know the girls know what I want in broad general terms and I can usually accurately sense how we are doing on that score in the bar before I ask them upstairs or out. For example, I have never taken a Boate girl, a Terma girl, or a Go Go girl upstairs or out of a bar before we have had an enjoyable make out session and more and I get the sense that the vibe between us is real good. I think that positive vibe I get or don't get is a more reliable predictor of future bedroom events than a written contract. LOL. But a small percentage of girls will always get past my screening technique and under perform, disappoint from time to time by not getting into the sex and not giving me their passion. That is human nature. The object, of course, is to minimize those unfortunate lackluster sessions by spotting those kind of girls ahead of time.
If there is a specific request above regular sex like CIM or Anal than yeah, a little pre-negotiation before you go upstairs is called for. A punter has far more negotiating leverage before going to the room than after he is in the room. Something extra will always cost more money in the room. KKK. But a certain percentage of girls will underperform even if you explicitly negotiate certain items with them beforehand and they agree to those terms. Bad girls are dishonest girls. The main advantage of Boates, Termas, and Go Go's is that customers have the opportunity to get to know a girl or girls thanks to the audition process, and again, the object should be to find the girls you have good rapport with and to weed out the ones that you don't. It also helps if you enjoy drinking and flirting with bar girls which I really do. For me it is all part of the evenings entertainment. Guys who want to cut this part out of the program most likely prefer Clinicas, Prives, and Oily massage parlors anyway. In those latter places the girls work for the house, so the reputation of the house is the implied guarantor of a good time, LOL.
Friday isn't dead but isn't on fire either. I'm too drunk to count so there could be anything from 50-150 girls here, lets say 100.
20-40 Redheads and blondes. Maximum of 8 are natural. Probably only 1-3 real reds. 5 tops have clear eyes verde or azul.
Maybe 5 Asians / japinhas.
2 straight up look like men.
And quite a few 40+.
I can't be blown away because after all I've been lurking for years.
You can probably only have 2 drinks before going over the cover. If you were here Friday Night 3/26 I was the tall bearded guy with a tiger shirt.
[QUOTE=ParsTiger;2678818]I went to Abbobora and was told by a local cost was 300 (room 100, girl gets 200). Card didn't work so I paid in cash they charged me 130 anyway? I'm not the kind of guy to argue with people when I'm a guest in their country though. About 10 girls presented themselves (one at a time) only about 4 were standouts. I chose a tall Morena named Moniqe with a huge bunda assuming she'd do anal. I chose wrong. Not bad just mediocre session and ID say she was 30-35. I regretted not choosing the young redhead. Later on after walking around too much I went back to 57 House where another seasoned expat informed me I should've never paid more than 280. Because of my limited purchase options (my CC only works maybe 30% of the time here) I'm going to be forced to begin triaging. I'm trying to stay in Brasil at least 30 days.[/QUOTE]Abbobora price increase.
I never had a clinica charge me more than a local. Some have reviewer discounts if you leave a review on gpguia. There is also a small credit card fee. I just checked the local forum and a recent review said "price has been readjusted now they are 330.00 cash, and 350.00 on the card" hopefully this will attract hotter girls there. I know this clinica is a favorite of some guys on the forum but I seldom session here.
Credit card.
Did you call your credit card company and let them know that you are in Brazil? That usually helps with card rejections.
[QUOTE=ParsTiger;2678818] ...Card didn't work so I paid in cash they charged me 130 anyway?...[/QUOTE]I just checked gpguia and the last reviewer said the price has changed to 330 cash. That is about 20% increase from the last time I was there. I think next time you should clarify right away. At least you will clearly know what you are paying for, extra charge or not.
[QUOTE=AxelHeyst;2678854]We obviously have two different approaches which is totally fine with me. Both ways work more or less. All I will say about why I prefer not to negotiate and lay it all out ahead of time is that I like the spontaneity as you rightly noted...[/QUOTE]I like club because negotiating service is more like a regular conversation. I tried that in the clinica but it felt odd so I stop doing it.
[QUOTE=Nounce;2678945]I like club because negotiating service is more like a regular conversation. I tried that in the clinica but it felt odd so I stop doing it.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I think "negotiation" is really too strong a word actually. Like I've said before, it's just a friendly conversation (at least it should be if you're doing it right). Where you casually ask the pretty girls how much to sperm in their teeth and fuck them up their butt holes. LOLOLOL! Imagine asking each pretty girl in a clinica lineup who approaches you such things. Talk about awkward! I've never done that at a clinica and have just taken my chances. Another reason why I prefer boates and termas over clinicas or any other brothel setup where you're supposed to choose from a lineup presented to you without the opportunity to interact with the girl before going to the room to do the nasty. I want an opportunity to see if there's any real chemistry between me and the girl [B]and[/B] to know how much to fuck her in the ass, if she does that hahaha!
[QUOTE=Fewdie;2678803]I would marry one if I am able to find one that I can "trust" and is the "right one". I would tell certain individuals that are close to me who I know who doesn't "prejudge". The majority of society if not all does prejudge about everything including people's profession, race, religion, appearance, and all of that stuff similar to how many of you prejudge if they have an education or not. Sometimes its better to say less. I have gone through endless years of higher education and I can tell you there are many people with professional degrees who I have way less respect than the girls and staff and the security guards at Scandallo.[/QUOTE]Learning emotional intelligence is part of most masters programs now weather it helps or not.
Society is different in BR since prostitution is legal so if you tell some people they will understand despite their educational level. Some girls in Scandallo are open to finding a rich* boyfriend or husband inside and many have gotten married. Weather it last or not is another thing. A lot of BR working girls have boyfriends or husbands and almost all have told their moms since most don't have a father around.
Just like pornstars how they have sex at work is different from at home some have told me.
[QUOTE=Fewdie;2678803]I would marry one if I am able to find one that I can "trust" and is the "right one". I would tell certain individuals that are close to me who I know who doesn't "prejudge". The majority of society if not all does prejudge about everything including people's profession, race, religion, appearance, and all of that stuff similar to how many of you prejudge if they have an education or not. Sometimes its better to say less. I have gone through endless years of higher education and I can tell you there are many people with professional degrees who I have way less respect than the girls and staff and the security guards at Scandallo.[/QUOTE]Recently I had a hooker over to my place who I would rate physically as a 6. It was my first time with her. She was in her late twenties and obviously had a child or two (I did not ask her how many). After the deed we got to talking. She was into community gardening. I was amazed at her knowledge of growing vegetables. She was so enthusiastic talking about the topic that we spent almost as much time talking than we did having sex. Definitely someone worthy of respect.
[QUOTE=Turgid;2679061]Recently I had a hooker over to my place who I would rate physically as a 6. It was my first time with her. She was in her late twenties and obviously had a child or two (I did not ask her how many). After the deed we got to talking. She was into community gardening. I was amazed at her knowledge of growing vegetables. She was so enthusiastic talking about the topic that we spent almost as much time talking than we did having sex. Definitely someone worthy of respect.[/QUOTE]You never know what you're going to find out about somebody when you start relating to them and getting to know them as a full person, and not just as a sex object. That said, I still have no desire to marry a high volume prostitute. Come to think of it, I don't have a desire to marry anybody!