Thai Women - Opinions & Advice

[QUOTE=Martinbluther69]What do you mean when you say give out her details? Email, etc? Or just find a farang friend who can contact her and see if she is on the up-and-up?[/QUOTE]

Well, if you really want to know, then you can PM me her details (email won't work).

- Picture, place of work is a good start... or where she eats... then I can try to help you. All I need is about 1 hour to tell you if she fucks around. No sex. Just will see if she is open for a drink and some kinky talk.
If you want to know whether she has sex, i'm not your guy, I no longer do that but surely another ISG member will step up.

[QUOTE=Martinbluther69]Not doing much of the p4p scene these days, but have a serious thai gf and been living with her for about a year. She has a large peacock tattoo on her back, and one of a chain on her belly. I read somewhere that almost all thai women who have tattoos are p4p. Is that true?

She is ultra-secretive and even has a second FB page that I am nowhere on, but I have doubts that she is a pro, just because she doesn't seem like the type. Meaning, she would be the worst hooker ever. I do suspect she is cheating on me, and I live in korea, so difficult for me to find out for sure. Any advice on how to find out about cheating Thai gfs?[/QUOTE]99. 9% of the Thai girls with farang man are in it for the money. The more the better. And they lie and cheat and have absolutely no poblems doing so. If you are in doubt you can be pretty sure she is cheating. The only way to have your suspicion confirmed is to hire a private eye to follow her closely while you are away. But why waste that money. Don't fall in love. Instead, enjoy life and hire them by day, week or month. You cannot buy a Thai girl, you can only hire her.

[QUOTE=NicFrenchy]Actually, for me it is the opposite. I found that, with non P4P Thai ladies, if you treat them to a nice time (read: spend a little cash) then chances are very high you will fuck on the first date. And, by gifts, it really doesn't have to be that expensive.

She sees a 300thb tank top she likes, you buy it for her, she will be very happy with the gesture, will peg you as a "jai dee" and from then on, no problem getting into her sweet box.[/QUOTE]
Can you describe a typical first date and what you spend on? Also, what age is girl?

[QUOTE=Triplehans]You cannot buy a Thai girl, you can only hire her.[/QUOTE]
This is kinda true. Thai women will always pick family first. So no matter how much money you throw out, it's very difficult/impossible to make her love you more than her family. If you "hit and run" in Thailand, you'll win almost everytime. If you invest, then that's another story!

...for one of the Hill Tribes people to get a legitimate Thai National ID card?

I imagine it would involve some greasing of the officials' palms. Mordida to be paid, etc.

Gentlemen, why is it important to know whether your hired hoe is cheating on you when you are thousands of miles away? Please get real. Just like you are a butterflying monger, she is a girl who does it for money. With you and everyone else.
I met this nice (but eventually boring) TG at the old Thermae years ago. She took me home where above her bed was a nice miniature Norwegian ryija rug done in the traditional style. She had gotten it from a Norwegian boyfriend, who had made a couple of trips to Bangkok to see her. As I kept banging her, I tried to understand what it said: "Välkom store eller små, alla som här bankar på" or some shit like that in Norwegian (mine is a lousy attempt at Swedish).
I finally figured out that her Norwegian boyfriend well understood what his girlfriend was all about. For the text on the traditional ryija read: "Welcome big and small, her bang all."
I am not saying that serious flings cannot lead to permanent unions with bargirls, but there is no chance for them to succeed if you add long distance to the many other complications. FFF is a smarter policy if you cannot be there with her.

[QUOTE=Amjeck]Can you describe a typical first date and what you spend on? Also, what age is girl?[/QUOTE]

I usually fork about 3 to 5k (depending on the number of friends she brings on that first date). I pick them usually between 25/35, younger than that I am not interested to do babysitting.

[QUOTE=NicFrenchy]I usually fork about 3 to 5k (depending on the number of friends she brings on that first date). I pick them usually between 25/35, younger than that I am not interested to do babysitting.[/QUOTE]
Spend on dinner and shopping? If she is with friends, how do you separate her from the friends at the end of the date to get her in bed? What is success rate/percentage on bedding her on first date?

[QUOTE=Vittu]Gentlemen, why is it important to know whether your hired hoe is cheating on you when you are thousands of miles away? Please get real. Just like you are a butterflying monger, she is a girl who does it for money. With you and everyone else.

I met this nice (but eventually boring) TG at the old Thermae years ago. She took me home where above her bed was a nice miniature Norwegian ryija rug done in the traditional style. She had gotten it from a Norwegian boyfriend, who had made a couple of trips to Bangkok to see her. As I kept banging her, I tried to understand what it said: "Välkom store eller små, alla som här bankar på" or some shit like that in Norwegian (mine is a lousy attempt at Swedish).

I finally figured out that her Norwegian boyfriend well understood what his girlfriend was all about. For the text on the traditional ryija read: "Welcome big and small, her bang all. "

I am not saying that serious flings cannot lead to permanent unions with bargirls, but there is no chance for them to succeed if you add long distance to the many other complications. FFF is a smarter policy if you cannot be there with her.[/QUOTE]I can't say I disagree. We should celebrate our position to buy a few at a time and have fun, but certainly do not expect she is obligated to you, in fact you would probably be pretty naive in most cases (notice I said most not all), to think that even if she says she loves you till death, you are anything other than #243 for that year.

[QUOTE=Amjeck]Spend on dinner and shopping? If she is with friends, how do you separate her from the friends at the end of the date to get her in bed? What is success rate/percentage on bedding her on first date?[/QUOTE]

You are the Farang, you are the richest person of the group, you should pay for everything, Period.
Dinner is on me for the whole group, but then I am the one who decides the pace of the evening, if I suggest we go somewhere after dinner, then usually the "Party of friends" becomes thinner. Girls will never go alone with you on the first date, they will bring friends for safety (and also to ask their opinion).

Once the dinner is over, some friends would want to go their own way if they know you are a nice guy and it is safe to let their friend alone with you.

Bedding a Thai girls on the first date isn't easy, at all, but you can get lucky.
A good think is that if it does not work out with the girl, maybe a friend will be interested.

The best girls are the Married ones, or the ones already in a relationship because they are only interested in sex.
Usually older women (28+).
My Thai Friends always make fun of the 25 year old Thai single ladies in the office, telling them they are too old now and will never find a man.

Anyhow, I would say you have 20% chances... maybe 1 out of 5. It usually helps a lot if before the "date" you chat with her on msn or other chat systems, you will have already "bonded" and can move right to the: come to my room have a drink.

It's all a matter of Patience.... and luck.

[url]http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1284540/CUMBRIA-SHOOTINGS-Its-Thai-girls-text-Derrick-Bird.html[/url]

The Cumbria mass killer and ex taxi driver was sending money vto a Thai chick. It seems to be a common pattern. Hook up with a Thai hooker, get jilted, go on a killing spree.

[QUOTE=The Departed][url]http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1284540/CUMBRIA-SHOOTINGS-Its-Thai-girls-text-Derrick-Bird.html[/url]

The Cumbria mass killer and ex taxi driver was sending money vto a Thai chick. It seems to be a common pattern. Hook up with a Thai hooker, get jilted, go on a killing spree.[/QUOTE]
Er.....yes. Mass murderers, please form an orderly queue :confused:.

[QUOTE=Doublebogey]I can't say I disagree. We should celebrate our position to buy a few at a time and have fun, but certainly do not expect she is obligated to you, in fact you would probably be pretty naive in most cases (notice I said most not all), to think that even if she says she loves you till death, you are anything other than #243 for that year.[/QUOTE]
Let me try to remember the rest of the story in Bangkok years ago. What she told me indicated that she would never find a successful relationship. She said that her long-time friend, the Norwegian, was coming to town but she was fucking someone else and kept doing so. Needless to say, the Norwegian vanished from the picture.
Yes, these girls lead a tough life. Like trying to resolve the etiquette of who has bought first rights. Aside from the release, each encounter is rich as a learning experience. Can't buy a better sociology course than fucking in Thailand or the Philippines.

[QUOTE=NicFrenchy]You are the Farang, you are the richest person of the group, you should pay for everything, Period.

Dinner is on me for the whole group, but then I am the one who decides the pace of the evening, if I suggest we go somewhere after dinner, then usually the "Party of friends" becomes thinner. Girls will never go alone with you on the first date, they will bring friends for safety (and also to ask their opinion).

Once the dinner is over, some friends would want to go their own way if they know you are a nice guy and it is safe to let their friend alone with you.

Bedding a Thai girls on the first date isn't easy, at all, but you can get lucky.

A good think is that if it does not work out with the girl, maybe a friend will be interested.

The best girls are the Married ones, or the ones already in a relationship because they are only interested in sex.

Usually older women (28+).

My Thai Friends always make fun of the 25 year old Thai single ladies in the office, telling them they are too old now and will never find a man.

Anyhow, I would say you have 20% chances. Maybe 1 out of 5. It usually helps a lot if before the "date" you chat with her on msn or other chat systems, you will have already "bonded" and can move right to the: come to my room have a drink.

It's all a matter of Patience. And luck.[/QUOTE]Use the date to suss her out. If she's looking for you to buy her gifts straight away, or if her friends are encouraging you to spend big, this is a bad sign. That's impolite in any culture and you're better off cutting her loose and finding someone a little less mercenary.

I'm usually successful by the 3rd date but if I feel that there's not enough attraction from her part of if she's impolite, then it also becomes the final date.

In my experience, once they ask about details about where you're staying or what your place is like, you've done enough to invite her over for some fun.

Been on DIA for abit, mixed opinions really, alot of ladyboys and ladies im not sure are ladies. The latest women asked me to send her a picture of me, my cock, my cock beside a measuring tape. Fucked up if you ask me but it gets worse. She then asks for a picture of me beside a peice of paper that says her name, to confirm its me shes actually speaking to, could this be some kind of scam? or am I just being paranoid. I haven't sent it yet.

Cheers