Warning: Illegal to pay for sex.
Today Thursday 7th, I heard on the radio, France has made it illegal to pay for sex.
'Managers' and others, mongering in the Philippines, will be pleased with this and hope the law spreads, I suppose.
Myself, being a gentleman monger, I like to pay for services rendered, and thus pay, especially when the girls are Filipinos, IE.
Will Phil authorities be influenced by this new French law and encourage the raiding of pay for sex bars, all over again? Imagine CCTV cameras in hotel rooms to ensure no one pays for sex. Donald Sucks and the like, watch out, LOL.
Helpful or not, lets see.
After comming into phils quite heavily the last 4 years, and by heavily I mean between 15 to 20 trips a year, I have picked up a few hickups or cute cultural issues (becomes irritating after a while). If you, like me, drink a lot its easier to keep sane. Let me first say to the phil protectors I do love them small cute pinays but I do not like the country very much. And you can mock me for my not native tounge myself. Its fine no worries i do handle it with a big cheeky grind. Probably do i deserve it as well. This, my post, is meant from a good heart and maybe, at least to nubes, this could be helpful into understanding pinays and their outlook on things.
So in communicating with them pinays (both in precommunication and in communicating with them while there are on their way over) I have just made a small presentation what I remember from my head so far (I am sure others could chime in);.
Arrive / go; these 2 words are constantly used wrong. When I was a nube I totaly got upset and girls constantly told me "ok we arrive now". I thought what the fuck its hrs before we planned to meet eachother. I learned quickly that what they realy meant was "we just left" and they on their way over to my place.
If / when; also two words which are constantly used the wrong way. A normal sentense from a pinay would be "if I come can I have wine?" In the beginning I made a big point in telling her "fuck we have talked about you comming here long time now and now you say IF? As in I felt she was not sure if she would come anyway. Only to understand what she meant was ofcoure "when I come can I have wine".
Time; beeing debated many times here and in other threads but still worth mentioning. Timehandling here is quite different from what we can be used to from back home. In my beginning comminghere I went mental bcs girls arrived late all the time. Nowadays I make this the strongpoint in my communication, first making sure they know time as a concept and a constant. Secondly I want to know if they know what I mean when I say they should come my place at this or that time. If they confirm they know what "3 pm my hotel" means we take it from there. Lately I have very little issues with latecommers but in general time is a factor you need stress quite a lot to make them come on time. I use and stresses "you need travel early", "you know there will be trappic", "I will not wait you", "I run busy scheduel so I have no time to waste"(this is true on many levels), etc etc.
Where are you now?(from the girls angel); we can have talked and chatted quite a lot during the day of our meet and I have repeatadly told them I am in my hotel and in my room waiting. This will not prevent some girls to ask this question again along her travels.
Where are you now?(from my angel); many girls here have a different view getting this question asked than we have. Beeing asked this question I would give a detailed answer often incl the adress I am at (street, road), what kind of transportation I am taking and also incl approx estimated time of arrival (eta). This is from an actual convo with a girl; me, where are you now? She, in the jeep. Me, where is the jeep located? She, on the road driving. Me (starting to loose my vits), you have any idea what area in Manila you and the jeep are at? She, I think we are on Edsa. Then I mostly give up and just ask her to text me when she is close.
I am getting close now (from girls angel); this text is often followed by a new text 1 sec later where she states "I am here now" and the question "where are you?" I answer as usual "I am in my room waiting you comming down now, 3 min". 30 sec later "where are you?
Where are you from?(from / in); this question is ofcourse a normal question to ask anyone when precommunicating. Nothing wrong in this. What surprises me is what kind of answers you can get, hehe. Me, I am from Norway, She, but I am here in phils dear. Me, yes I know that and we have talked about I come to phils shortly so we can meet. She, but you say your in Norway, how we meet? Me, no I didn't say I was in Norway I said I was from Norway. She, ohhh, hmmm.
Hello its me?; this I might add is not only the girls mistake. If I communicated only one girl this would have been easy. Still I don't and have numerous of girls at any time I do viber, skype, we chat, whatsapp, line, fake FB messenger etc with. Suddenly on one of my regular phil phones I get a text from a totaly new and unknown number, "hey its me". Then the process of remember where I met this girl starts and what I realy need is her name in one of the mentioned places. Often she will repsond "its me Monique". This beeing her real name which she never used before doesn't help either so I need to dive more into this. Can be stressful but what don't we do to get that pukie. Girls also change numbers and FB handles like we change names. Well for FB there is a timelimit in how often you can change handle but when you like me have many contacts through there it feels like names changing all the time.
Lyca; to bed them girls easily I have found to play their emotions showing me off as an emotional and sensitive guy. I simply put on youtube and search "lyca phil got talent". This is a 9 yo girl from poor family who made it through to the final and won this over better heeled Darren from Canada (he had a phil mother I believe). To the pinay protectors, no i never promise relationship. All girls meet me under the terms "i am not lookin for anything serious"..
Huh, HM, ?, k, etc; don't let this stress you out. Its just the way for pinays to say they didn't understand, they have to think about it, can you repeat please and they even invented a shortage for "ok" as in "k". Well maybe they didn't but I have only ran into "k" here. If its to hard to write "ok" I don't know.
Google; sometimes I crawl out of my good skin when you communicated enough with a girl who agreed to meet up with you. The day come when a meet is due. You have been through where you stay over and over agin and she aknowledge she will come. Then she pops the question, how can I go there I don't know that place? My response is to tell her just grab a cab and I pay when she's infront of my hotel. When the next question comes and its almost all the time what's your hotel I tell her to google. Some answer "huh". I say go google dot com and in the search area you put "name of my hotel" and press search feature / button. She; "Oh I see it now. See you".
Phone-/ connection trouble; this is by far the girls mistake but I guess we can call the phil telecommunication mediocre at best. Never been in a country who pretends to be westernized where connection sucks like here. You can experience quite some troubles getting in touch with girls here but ofcourse this connectiontrouble can serve its purpose on many levels from both angels. Can be convenient if a girl is to early to simply blame connection why you didn't pick up the phone and vica verca I believe.
Load; it seems these girls runs out of load all the time and mostly I guess they do. Except from one time when a girl pasaloaded 20 php to me I sometimes do pasaloads to get a girl approaching in hazzlefree. Only small donations so. No worries. But ubet she runs oit of load at the worst possible timings there is. Then just call and if connection (for once) serves your right she doesn't have to pay if you call her and you can actually connect making oral agreements the old fashion way. Still works sometimes.
Stringing two or more sentenses/questions together; this is my finetuned mechanism these days to leave out the most simple pinays. Today i send maybe 100 copy/paste msgs to girl before trips with loads of questions. All beeing screened in my fake FB as girls pretty and sexy. 15 to 20 replies my questions in an orderly manner and are good to go. The others and here is my point to nubes. If u get a feel ur girl is quite simple and not to educated one question in one simple sentense is enough. She will most likely just answer the last or the first question in ur text anyways. Just aheads up so u dont waste loads of time. I got irritated at first through this but as time goes along i have the luxury into pick may what some would call upper crust girls and they do know how to communicate as well. Here factors as time is pretty normal as back home bcs time is also valuable to them(often nice jobs, education etc). Many of the abovementioned stuffs will not applie to this segment of girls..
I am sure others have small minor issues regarding my above postings. My purpose is not to be cruel or anything. As stated above I just don't like phil as a country but the girls here you got to love. It is what it is. I am happy when I come and happy when I go and ofcourse I am happy while here bcs I do have found my safe heaven in Makati and wonder no longer than outskirts Glorietta reaching Greenbelt on few occations.
LA Cafe / Amazonia. Still Hopping
Just got back from my annual Manila / Ermita visit. As usual, I spent my time between LA Cafe (formerly known as Manila Bay Cafe) and Amazonia Bar with a little side-mongering for SW.
LA has gotten a bad rap in recent years, but I find it's still a nice place that's usually packed to the gills with girls. Not as pretty as those you will find in the KTVs or in EDSA, but plentiful and (very) eager to please. I don't usually care only about looks. Don't get me wrong. Plenty of hotties in LA as well, but just a broader spectrum.
I usually take a beer and then pick a girl to ask over to talk to. If you invite them for a beer (95 to 150 pesos) they are more than happy to spend time with you. What's their alternative? Sitting on a chair and looking around? If you spend some time talking to the girls and are nice to them they will gladly go with you. Usually I pay 2 k for LT and 1200 for ST.
What LA has done, what I don't get at all, is they are forcing the girls to buy drinks at regular intervals. For some of these girls this is simply not possible so every once in a while the bouncer will round them up and kick them out. EASY pickings at that point.
LA is not high-end, but always fun and never lonely.
Amazonia is smaller and a bit more hard-core. Some girls do 20 hour shifts and at the end of their shifts will gladly come with you for a bed and a shower (though I always insist on paying them fairly). Also nice girls, but far fewer than in LA. Still. You will find girls that are rearing to go. You can have a great time with the cheapest pitcher of Rum & Coke in Manila and just hanging out and playing pool. If you so desire, there are plenty of ladies to take your mind of things. Amazonia has rooms right above the bar if you're in the mood for ST. Same prices as in LA usually apply.
Long story short. I love the vibrancy and variety of Manila. I actually prefer it to the "Pattaya-vibe" you find in Angeles. I usually take 2 girls per day. One ST in the PM and one LT over night. If you're not a total Jerk and treat the girls decently, they will give their all in the hope that you will become a repeat customer.
Highly recommended!
