Santo Domingo / Santo Domingo este is not Sosua
Some over in the Sosua section are taking about some of the qualities of Dominicans that have been described in the post below and are projecting the behavior of this small cross section of the population across the entire country of Republic Dominicana. My understanding is that the poster was clearing describing Sosua. But if I'm mistaken he is free to set the record straight.
We all know Sosua is THE puta pueblo of the country. Regular tourism and sexual tourism are the main drivers of the economy. In my country of origin we would describe them as "back road country folk". Not hating on them. That's just what they are. Ask any Dominican in Santo Domingo / Santo Domingo este what they thing of Sosua and see the reaction you get.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2418420]For those of us who live here and know Sosua well, we are aware that locals: Don't speak formal Spanish.[/QUOTE]True and false. In Santo Domingo / Santo Domingo este when I was in my Spanish language classes I asked my professor about why I don't hear people speaking on the street the way she is teaching Spanish to us. She told me of course not. "I do not speak the way I speak in class at home. But, I speak the exact same way in as I do in class when I'm with my fellow teachers, businessmen or a formal event".
Shit, that's the exact same way it works in English. I speak the kings English when it's going to get me paid. I talk how I like when I just don't give a fuck! She told me to watch local news programs for examples of Dominicans speaking formal Spanish. She was right. And curiously they are easier to understand. I also found that Spanish TV programs from Colombia were much easier for me to understand also.
But, I was just told my Spanish was "so bad" by somebody in my social circle that spoke English. I guess I should have spent more time hitting the books and less time running the streets chasing pussy.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2418420]Do not understand the Western concept of Name, Number, Street, Town.
[/QUOTE]False. In Santo Domingo / Santo Domingo este where there are actually real streets instead of horse paths that were paved over, formal directions are the norm. They use google maps and formal street names and numbers for buildings and apartments. Ever seen a business card from Santo Domingo / Santo Domingo este? It does not have fucking landmarks and references to places that no longer exist on it. It has a formal street address. When I listen to my girls order from the colmado they give a very specific address to include the street name, and residential number where I live. And they give a cross street for a reference as some streets do have the same name.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2418420]They tolerate, but have no real respect for mongers. Only their dinero![/QUOTE]Maybe? Is that a puta pueblo concept? Somebody needs to make up their mind. You tell us Dominicans have no real respect for mongers. Then turn around and stated that if you are complaining about that then you have to earn their respect. Which one it is? Are you talking out of both sides of your mouth?
You can't earn the respect of someone who disrespects you in public. They have already shown you that they don't respect you. They don't even know you. And you have to ask why have they done so? Did they have a reason? A monger, any monger is going to have a hard time earning respect unless they are repeat visitors. They will earn respect over time with people that know them. Random strangers that don't know them will still be prone to disrespect just as some have said before. It's in the record. It's all about the money.
Lack of respect towards me is the exception not the norm for the Dominicans I deal with. That's why over the years as my Spanish has improved and I have learned the culture I understand that saving face in public is an important concept. Disrespect someone on the street in front of other people and you will get hit by the tool and your whole radiator flushed. Don't think your western status is going to protect you. The grand jefe mobile lends itself to a certain amount of deference in and of itself. But of course I don't live in a puta pueblo either. Nor am I perceived as a monger.
For those that might think I need to earn respect, I tell expats and Dominicans all the time that I don't need to earn jack from you. All the respect I need to earn arrives in my bank account. I'm good. Fuck with me at your own risk. "Everywhere that I go, I got people I know, they got people they know, so I suggest you lay low"- Jay Z.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2418420]They operate under a different economy than foreigners.
Those who expect that when a restaurant tab says "propina included", that's what it means. Servers rarely, if ever, get to share that![/QUOTE]I was told very early on in my life here in Republica Dominicana by a waitress that served me and then served me take out later that night that a propina is a gift. Not to be expected. Anything you get is great. That is because tips are a foreign concept that hard core prostitutes have latched onto in order to guilt guys that lack a pair because they have been clipped by the "me too" movement in western nations. If a prostitute wants a tip, give her a 100 pesos. If she balks tell her to give it back. Because you know that she can buy lunch with that. Tip the way you mother fucking want and don't let those who think they know more than you tell you otherwise. If you really want to know how to tip in Republica Domincana get a real non pro girl friend. Take her out. And let her decide the tip. If she treats your money as her own (as all my girlfriends do) it won't be much.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2418420]Hoes consider everything they do with a john, in addition to lying there and letting you pound their ass for a designated period of time is worthy of a propina. Even sitting with you in your favorite restaurant over a candlelit dinner when they are starving, Lol. They'd often prefer to be somewhere else!
Forget the enthusiastic squeals, and writhing, "Si mas papi", it is not your sexual prowess they are impressed by. Lol.[/QUOTE]True. See above. Always remember they are like workers at Disneyland. There is backstage and there is onstage. They are are the real professionals. Playing everyday on their home turf. You are the visiting team. Well unless you live here. But, I live here. And still wouldn't be silly enough to think I could go to Sosua and know it all. The first time I went "the leader" took me. He spent all of 15 minutes showing me the lay of the land. Then I was fucking. That's how complicated it was. I've heard things have changed a bit since I've been there.
A wise man told me that he considers prostitutes to be like any other service provider. You take your vehicle to have the oil changed. They do the work. And you pay them. Sometimes they have a waiting room where you can get water, juice, coffee and they have comfortable furniture. That's all a bonus now isn't. Because what's important to you is that they change your oil.
But one of the advantages of fucking non-pros and having real girlfriends is that they fuck you cause they like you. The sexual pleasure is real. Anyone who says that just because there is an age difference it can't be true is someone who has no real game and has never experienced a real non pro / girlfriend experience where their sexual partner actually enjoys the sex. Now I'm not hating on those who don't have game. But if you want to get with non pros, then you got to learn your Spanish and you got to step your game up. Check out my most excellent blog on non pros for the latest updates. Grownman has an excellent post on the difference between girlfriends and hos in my blog.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2418420]Renting a car is mostly a scam game! Nothing like the TV commercials at home.[/QUOTE]Can't comment on that because I've never rented a car in Republica Dominicana before. I've always used taxis, walked, transporte publico, friends or Uber to get around until I received the Gran Jefe mobile.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2418420]I do that and in 10 years of visiting and living here I can't say I have ever been ripped off, once![/QUOTE]I have had the experience of being ripped off. Early on I got tired of the lights going off. So I another one of those fellow expats that had been here too long recommended this guy to resolve the problem. Long story short, I got clipped for 10,000 pesos for a pair of batteries that were rebuilt just enough to pass the initial tests. I wound up having replace the battery and the inversor. Dropped 2000 on that adventure. But it was the absolute best money that I spent. The question will always remain: Did I overpay? That was the last ripoff I experienced. Oops, I lied. A moto driver got me for 50 DOP in Boca Chica. At the time I was fortunate enough to be able to afford it. Grownman pointed out the error of my ways and it's never happened again. You know the way Men in the Arena do it. Mr. E and were just talking about being men in the arena. I welcomed him to the club.
But tourist think they are the targets. They are not. They just have deeper pockets. Everyone is a target here in Republica Domincana when it's time to enter the market place. It is let the buyer beware for everyone especially tourists. And don't think having a dominicana close to you is going to help you. She going to be under tremendous pressure from friends, family and random dominican males to help them get to the money in your pockets. If you didn't know, now you know.
In Republica Dominicana you can build for yourself any lifestyle that you want. And often for less money than in countries with western influence. Santo Domingo / Santo Domingo este is a combination of Washington DC / New York City with a two beach towns that I like (Boca Chica for play; Juan Dolio for chill time) close.
Get out of the puta pueblos people and see the country for real! And if you are a expat that lives in one you need to remember Sosua is the behavioral exception not the norm of the country. One those "Carnaval" trips I read about can get you out of the puta pueblos. Check out the itinerary. And I'm not talking about the cruse line. Maybe that will teach the ones that need to know something about life outside of a puta pueblos? Just don't post anything about pussy over there in "the leaders" section. Are all those who are pleased with what they have been shown in the past going to follow "the leader" to Santo Domingo / Santo Domingo este now that he has discovered that? If so, I'll see you soon. LOL!
Those dispensing advice about dominican behavior need to stay in their lane and make it clear to others that there are indeed different parts and ways of doing things throughout Republica Dominicna. Don't get it twisted. Are things uniform in your country of origin? I am speaking about where I have lived and handled the business of real life: Santo Domingo / Santo Domingo este. That's what I know. And I didn't just discover it. But I'm not self absorbed enough to think all Dominicans are like the ones I have been dealing with in Santo Domingo / Santo Domingo este. And most people of logic and sense know that when you start making generalizations across entire populations you are more than likely to be wrong in some cases.
Lastly, men in the arena speak truth to each other directly. Girly men use inferences like chicas in a Whatapp chat group. Be a man in the arena! Thank you for reading and I hope you continue to enjoy my work!
Living in paradise but needs attention
This shit would be funny if it wasn't so sad. He asked everyone to get out of the pueblo and see the country but he is living in Santo Domingo and has never been to San Pedro and he has a car. It's only 45 minutes from La Capital.
Where is OK to post about fucking?
[QUOTE=Prtyr2;2419835]You went to Herrera? Wow. Which part? Abanico? Buenos Aires? Las palmas? I was in las Palmas today seeing my god daughter. Was also in piantini for a minute and bella vista for two hours. Did you know the airport used to be in Herrera? What do you consider the best steak in herrera? Ha ha ha. What is the best steak in villa con? Villa agrcola? Villa Juana? Invivienda? Ha ha ha. If I go out for steak I want steak better than I can do at home. Andres ain't in that league. Hell outback either.[/QUOTE]OK, but I was not in Herrera to visit family nor was I piantini for a minute or bella vista (the mall there is just OK). I went out to fuck. No actually I was out taking care of day to day business, found myself near Herrera at the end of a long hard day. And decided to take the opportunity to try out Casa Bon Bon in Herrera. Then I posted about it. Your reply was to my post about a dining experience. Me think someone is confused. The founder created this forum for me to share information on having sex with girls. Since when did that become a matter to clown someone over? Mr. E wrote about going to GBP and that is right in Santo Domingo proper. Didn't see any clown comments over that.
Tell you what brother instead of trying to force feed me your culinary tastes, you eat where you want to eat. And I will go where I want to fuck and report about it. And if I report anything factually inaccurate anybody who is a member this forum who has better information can post it and correct me. For the record I'm not looking for the best steak. I'm looking for the best pussy for a good value. And I don't eat it, I fuck it. I'm on a diet and I cut back. LOL! Anyone who does not like reading about my man in the arena activities there always the option to put me on ignore.
Live long my brothers. And may the pussy be with you, always!