Bangkok Reports

[Syzygies]

Which is another reason not to waste more than 5 seconds with a girl who does not smile or respond positively to an approach. Actually, other than in a unique venue like Thermae, there is rarely a reason for us punters to do the approaching at all.

Might be good advice to me, since the ones I approach usually don't want me (or are clueless on the bed), and the ones who obviously want me, are usually not my choice. Easier for me not to waste time visiting the Thermae.

Recently was sorting through old photos and found a few of a wild Christmas party at the Thermae Soapy (at the old location) close to 30 years ago. I heard from one of the girls that I used to do, that her friend, a good looking girl, eventually became HIV + after many years of barebacking (I assume) and lots of Thai customers. She had a pimp / BF too so possible he gave it to her also. HIV takes a huge back seat now, with the new Virus, which is vastly more dangerous (from statistical point of view).

[Syzygies]

Ha, I love this need to see if that strategy works next month when I am there. By then some reality should have set in.

More likely, utter chaos will have set in. World wide everything is getting worse. News reports 5000 hookers about to return from South Korea. Might not be a great time for mongering.

International flights will be getting more dangerous than normal soon perhaps? I don't know if airport heat signature tests are effective or not.

Get your last few mongering fucks in now, before the spread is too serious, ha ha? Hookers are already struggling badly to pay the bills.

My regular might want to come to my Hotel in Bangkok (assuming I stay in BKK), since her normal work avenues have probably dried up badly.

Can guys still get BBBJ or has that dried up as well? I haven't mongered for a period, so I don't know what the real situation is other than what girls tell me by message.

[EihTooms]

Reading the recent posts across most of the Asian threads seems like it sucks to be a middle aged white male, can't even get a smile from a attractive Asian girl under 30, seems like you guys are going down the path of being a Indian male equivalent on the social sexual scale of desirability. Seems the go to defense is cry racism when its simply the females exercising their right of preference, this naturally goes with the racist explanation of 333 as being the reason for this preference.

How in the world did you come to that conclusion based on what you've read here? LOL.

I am quite certain just about any of the punters who get a cold shoulder non response from one of the 5% or so snotty Thermae gurls or a preoccupied smartphone game playing massage shop girl can within minutes score a very hot and eager to please early 20's go-go girl or beer bar girl for True GFE/Real Sex (bareback), something I suspect virtually nobody gets from the snotty 5% Thermae girls at any price anyway, if that is what they require for the evening. Same as I can do any day or night of the week.

Which is another reason not to waste more than 5 seconds with a girl who does not smile or respond positively to an approach. Actually, other than in a unique venue like Thermae, there is rarely a reason for us punters to do the approaching at all.

[Gilolo]

I know right now girls are little bit arrogant because they know we're all butterfly and we come just to fuck them for cheap money!

Now, there is a thing I do to be sure the girl will love and to have great session with her! Usually I take only very sexy girl, even if she's a fucking ***** or not! Of course I pay them 1 or 2 drinks, so she has to speak. And then I start to play the very good guy! Each time I go in new gogo, and I say each time that I just arrive today, that it's my first time in Thailand, that I visit all Thailand for 1 month! I start to say that I love Thai people, that everybody is very nice with me! I say that I never make love before with a Thai woman! I play the boy who single, for 6 months because bad girl in my country let me alone! I say that I didn't have sex more than 1 year!

I say that I just would like meet a nice girl, that I would be very happy to invite her for shopping, restaurant. And you know what? It works very well!

When it's in a gogo in BKK, I bring them to my hotel for short time, I say that I m very tired and I want sleep so that why I book her for short time! Each time she gives me her line! I buy few drinks and chips in 7/11 before I go my room! Each time, I play the man in love, I pay her directly when we enter my room!

And each time it s perfect session, and at 99% girls let me fuck them bareback! They even don't ask me to put a condom and I love to creampie them!

I don't go to non-p4 p places looking to hook up. No interest in the least. And don't want p4 p places to be work or an ordeal either. Go in, select, have a great GFE / PSE whatever I'm in the mood for, pay, then leave. The only challenge I want is a choice between multiple decent looking and performing women. That's why I chose this place. It required no effort.

[Bunky]

On my way home, what's the name of the TV advertisement, that has the tag line "I should have had . . ." popped into my head.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qYo0lVVH2wU

[Goatscrot]

Re. Thermae. Am I the only person here who will not shy away from a Thermae (or any P4P} girl just because she doesn't look at me or smile at me? From my experience even if they look bitchy while you cruise around with all the other guys they start smiling once you start talking to them.

It's like going to a non-P4P civilian nightclub. Do you guys only go for the girls who smile at you or do you go talk to the prettiest girls?

Unfortunately, that young girl is likely to return to Isaan than become a hooker. She will either get a retail job there if she's hot or just stay home with family and eat and live for free. Imo it's wishful thinking but I hope I'm very wrong.

I don't go to non-p4 p places looking to hook up. No interest in the least. And don't want p4 p places to be work or an ordeal either. Go in, select, have a great GFE / PSE whatever I'm in the mood for, pay, then leave. The only challenge I want is a choice between multiple decent looking and performing women. That's why I chose this place. It required no effort.

[11Bravo]

Some of us take that bitchy demeanor as a sure and early sign that this one will be a bad bet for a good time in the room. And, in my experience, I have yet to be proven wrong on that early impression.

That's why many of us move on as quickly as possible from a girl with a bitchy demeanor on first encounter. It isn't due to a lack of confidence and determination. It is due to our experience telling us this girl very likely has zero value to offer or to sell except for her good looks and it would be a waste of our time, effort and money to go forward expecting anything remotely like a True GFE/Real Sex in the room.

Just today, walked down Sukhumvit Soi 23, the several blocks of MP shops, seeing if there was anything interesting. About middle of the way, one shop had a number of cuties, including one, to me, stunner. She had her head down, busy with her mobile. I continued to walk to the end, wanting to check out all before making a commitment. As anyone who's made the walk knows, plenty of come-ONS.

Go back to the cutie shop, stop in front of Miss Stunner. Before I can say anything, she GLANCES up, milliseconds, no eye contact, no smile, nothing. In her world I didn't exist. She then goes back to her phone. Maybe she thought I was waiting for a bus, or was having a heart attack and she didn't want to get involved; I had been to Big C and was carrying a couple of shopping bags. No problem, makes it an easy decision for me. Pass. Yes, I could have told the manager I wanted this girl, paid my money, and had a half-assed massage, poor service from someone who couldn't wait to get back to their phone. Instead, I went elsewhere, with someone who was fun, with good service.

Another reason I'm not particularly keen on young'uns. Too wrapped up in their mobiles. Last year, another MP shop on Soi 23, cute young thing, up for a massage. At the usual moment, she brought up "extras", though her prices were on the high end. I demurred, she turned her back to me, pulled down her pants and shorts, and showed me her wiggling ass... "You want more?" Obviously, excellent marketing skills. Worked on me; made the deal, f / s, good enough to repeat. On the third time (third time's the charm, right?), finished with massage and f / s, 20 minutes to go, she's massaging my head. But it feels lacking. I turn around, and she's massaging my head with one hand, the other texting on her mobile. While I might admire her dexterity with the mobile, split attention is something I don't tolerate. Never have, never will. I get up, grab the towel for the shower. She's "Don't be mad, don't be mad. " "I'm not mad, finished. " And I meant permanently finished. Next time passing by, she's outside with her come-on, she's "You come inside for massage. " I just roll my eyes, with a no thank you. If someone doesn't value my business, pass.

And today, the girl I did take... Had to get her Line ID rather than QR code because she did not bring her mobile to the room; it was downstairs. Fun time with someone who smiles.

[EihTooms]

...
Look, we ALL want that Thai woman whos drop-dead gorgeous to give us that mind-blowing romp in the bedroom we all desire. It's not usually the case. You'll just end up getting a cold-ass starfish (who's going to rush you to get your rocks off) and ending up 1000-2000 lighter in your pocket and a world of disappointment. If there's no chemistry between both parties, why pursue it?. Sadly, some guys let the little head do the talking. I've been with average looking Thai women who could mop the fucking floor against a so-called Thai beauty. Why push the narrative if it doesn't work?. If their body language indicates she's not interested in your services, move on!
...

MeatMan

No doubt about it and I envy them in several ways, there are many punters whose main goal is to engage with the best looking girl in the bar, to be seen engaging with the best looking girl in the bar, to be seen leaving with the best looking girl in the bar, to be seen walking on the street with the best looking girl from the bar, to be seen arriving in the lobby of their hotel with the best looking girl from the bar and for whom what happens in the room is a distant second. Or further down the line than that. As long as it meets the most basic standard fare minimum, everything is "great!

I wish the only challenge I had on the P4P hunt was to find the best looking girl in the bar, no matter how sulky and dismissive of me she is at first, and then simply negotiating for the most reasonable price acceptable to both of us. I honestly can't think of more than 1% of the time when I or anyone reading this couldn't get such a girl to walk out with us and go to our room if that was the most important thing we cared about for the night. Easy.

[HorseTrader]

Re. Thermae. Am I the only person here who will not shy away from a Thermae (or any P4P} girl just because she doesn't look at me or smile at me? From my experience even if they look bitchy while you cruise around with all the other guys they start smiling once you start talking to them.

100% On-Point!. Look, we ALL want that Thai woman whos drop-dead gorgeous to give us that mind-blowing romp in the bedroom we all desire. It's not usually the case. If there's no chemistry between both parties, why pursue it?. Sadly, some guys let the little head do the talking. I've been with average looking Thai women who could mop the fucking floor against a so-called Thai beauty. Why push the narrative if it doesn't work?. If their body language indicates she's not interested in your services, move on!. There are a plethora of freelancers, and bargirls to choose from. Pick of the litter, fellas!. Think with your bigger head!.

MeatMan

I need a woman who's appearance turns me on, but she also has to show good interest in me. Without her showing interest in me, it is not going to be a great experience. I learned that lesson long ago. Next girl!

[MeatMan]

Some of us take that bitchy demeanor as a sure and early sign that this one will be a bad bet for a good time in the room. And, in my experience, I have yet to be proven wrong on that early impression.

That's why many of us move on as soon as possible from a girl with a bitchy demeanor on the first encounter. It isn't due to a lack of confidence and determination. It is due to our experience telling us this girl very likely has zero value to offer or to sell except for her good looks and it would be a waste of our time, effort and money to go forward expecting anything remotely like a True GFE/Real Sex in the room.

100% On-Point!. Look, we ALL want that Thai woman whos drop-dead gorgeous to give us that mind-blowing romp in the bedroom we all desire. It's not usually the case. You'll just end up getting a cold-ass starfish (who's going to rush you to get your rocks off) and ending up 1000-2000 lighter in your pocket and a world of disappointment. If there's no chemistry between both parties, why pursue it?. Sadly, some guys let the little head do the talking. I've been with average looking Thai women who could mop the fucking floor against a so-called Thai beauty. Why push the narrative if it doesn't work?. If their body language indicates she's not interested in your services, move on!. There are a plethora of freelancers, and bargirls to choose from. Pick of the litter, fellas!. Think with your bigger head!.

MeatMan

[EihTooms]

Re. Thermae. Am I the only person here who will not shy away from a Thermae (or any P4P} girl just because she doesn't look at me or smile at me? From my experience even if they look bitchy while you cruise around with all the other guys they start smiling once you start talking to them.

It's like going to a non-P4P civilian nightclub. Do you guys only go for the girls who smile at you or do you go talk to the prettiest girls?

I think you are missing the point of why experienced punters demanding a certain minimum level of service for the money are put off and move on from a girl with a bitchy demeanor on first encounter.

I don't shy away from the ones who do not smile at me. If I am attracted to their look, I still smile and approach them with a greeting and brief exchange, even in Thai. On occasion, they will respond enough to at least tell me how long and how much. And on every one of those occasions where I have "gone with flow" and taken them based almost entirely on their looks, it was a dreary waste of my time and money. Sadly, their good looks alone is not nearly enough to produce something close to Value For Money when it comes to P4P sex. For me.

Some of us take that bitchy demeanor as a sure and early sign that this one will be a bad bet for a good time in the room. And, in my experience, I have yet to be proven wrong on that early impression.

That's why many of us move on as quickly as possible from a girl with a bitchy demeanor on first encounter. It isn't due to a lack of confidence and determination. It is due to our experience telling us this girl very likely has zero value to offer or to sell except for her good looks and it would be a waste of our time, effort and money to go forward expecting anything remotely like a True GFE/Real Sex in the room.

[GettingFedUp]

People can be tested without kits, but there is such a thing as test kits according to CDC.

https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019...t/testing.html

You seem to have overlooked the last part which states "FDA issued the EUA on February 4, 2020. IRR began distribution of the test kits to states, but shortly thereafter performance issues were identified related to a problem in the manufacturing of one of the reagents which led to laboratories not being able to verify the test performance. CDC is remanufacturing the reagents with more robust quality control measures. New tests will be distributed once this issue has been addressed."

There WERE test kits briefly, but they were withdrawn because they weren't up to scratch. As of CDC's last update (25-Feb) and my post of 29-Feb, no test kits!

[Allover]

Actually you're doing the scare mongering job yourself. There's no "testing kit".

Actually I'm not scaring anybody. I would not cancel a trip due to the virus itself if I had a trip planned. I might be concerned about flights being cancelled due to lack of passengers but the virus itself wouldn't hold me back. I like visiting Thailand when it's not busy. If someone else chooses to postpone a trip I understand that choice.

People can be tested without kits, but there is such a thing as test kits according to CDC.

https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019...t/testing.html

[11Bravo]

Used to be such a fun place when I moved here 20 years ago. I was there 3 to 4 times a week for years. But the customer demographic changed and that ruined the place for me.

Agree. Was really a place that you had to see, earned its name of "Star Wars" bar. Still wasn't bad after it moved to the under-stairs location, but that started its decline. I liked the original, 2 room design. Like Annie's (RIP), another BKK casualty.

[Banana Boi]

I hate that place no matter how many times I pass by. The women in there are snotty and think their shit doesn't stink.

Re. Thermae. Am I the only person here who will not shy away from a Thermae (or any P4P} girl just because she doesn't look at me or smile at me? From my experience even if they look bitchy while you cruise around with all the other guys they start smiling once you start talking to them.

It's like going to a non-P4P civilian nightclub. Do you guys only go for the girls who smile at you or do you go talk to the prettiest girls?

Ha, I love this need to see if that strategy works next month when I am there. By then some reality should have set in.

Unfortunately, that young girl is likely to return to Isaan than become a hooker. She will either get a retail job there if she's hot or just stay home with family and eat and live for free. Imo it's wishful thinking but I hope I'm very wrong.